₦airaland Forum

Healthyway15:
The way Nigeria is going, even the devil is shocked!


R.I.P to him

Biafrareform:
I looked after this baby girl from when she was born till she came of age . She is so fond of me .

Now one nigga is trying to upset her psychological mindset all in a bit to have access to her .

This is so hard to bear

maberry:
And I was thinking it was our own nairaland Sarrki

Bobbystanley:
This is the Best time to be a Liverpool Fan.

We rival fans just wish to be in their shoes but would never admit that.

As a Chelsea Fan,I wish Lampard can build an Empire at the Bridge just as Klopp has done at Anfield.

DMerciful:
See charlatans Nigerians handed their country to for the second time. If a dog bites you the first time, that dog is mad. But if same dog bites you again then you're mad!

1x2x3:
Who is actually jealous between you and your husband?

LolaO:
My relationship of 5 years ended in the most heartbreaking way.

He got transferred to Asaba from Lagos and months later just stopped talking to me, no communication, no closure, nothing, just like that.
It’s been 5 months now.

This is someone I had planned my whole life around.
Sorry. Look to Jesus, he will never let you down.

Distance does not make the heart go fonder.

I am so hurt, it hurts.

DEXTROVERT:
Check
If
Any
Of
Your
Pants
Are
Missing
And
If
Your
Ex
Has
Bought
A
New
Car.

If you know ,you know
Just thinking out loud

DeeMain:
cc 1StopRudeness

Dude, your pastor and spiritual father is not any man. Many times they have powers over you than your real father. What am I even saying, they have powers of God!

So when an Oracle of God( a pastor) has a sexual relationship with a member of his church/spiritual daughter, it's an exploitation of an immense power imbalance.

Note the two words, POWER IMBALANCE.

The power of God vested in the pastor
Vs
The powerlessness of a broken, sick or struggling church member, who came to church to heal or to find help (Remember a church is likened to a hospital with the pastor as the doctor)

When the pastor/spiritual father takes advantage of this imbalance to sleep with his member:

It's as if God has abused his creation.

Many of them don't recover from the distortion in their minds and spirituality. They can no longer separate the pastor, the man, from God, the sovereign.

In their distorted minds:

A representative/ambassador of God = God

If pastor can do this then what else is a lie about this religion?

They sometimes become tormented and begin to see everything about pastors and God as a scam.

Many of them reject the offending religion and God. Today, Ese Walters is no longer a Christian. Can you see where I am going with this?

Some of them lose their mind - they slept with 'God'.

Ese Walter's case may not be rape but the gravity of suffering and torture she might have endured as a result of that relationship may have been equally damaging.

Asking for sexual favour from the powerless and voiceless from a powerful spiritual or physical perch is akin to rape.

It is exploiting the weak and taking advantage of their frailties to wreak more havoc on their needy souls.

Spiritual daughters need help and support and guidance not more shackling baggage from their spiritual fathers.

PS:

Can you see the similarity between Ese and Busola's case?

Jayslicky:


Fatoyinbo is an example of what most women want, rich, handsome, swaggerlicious and a good fvcker. Wouldn't be surprised busola is also trying to reach out to him, lack of good sex made her mad , fatoyinbo should do the needful.

idonhammer:
Only the surname alone is a disaster waiting to happen... odiegwu

Chimaokigwe:
I'm India, Igbos are hunted like animals. They would stop you if you're Nigerian and once they discover you're Igbo, they release other Nigerians and hold you.

India is Pakistan's neighbour and I'm not surprised this is happening.