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You should allow them be.You lost contact over 8yrs and all of a sudden, you saw him with your younger sister and they want to get married, I think you should keep this off your mind unless you still have emotional feelings for the guy and a little jealousy of this thier relationship. I know it would wanna be an issue whereby you will always remember the great moment you had with him.

To me, I suggest you erase this from your mind and do not discuss with any close person to you no matter how close the person is to you because only you can attest to anything called SECRET. Allow them be please.

Alam and GEJ are two partners in crime and cannot do without each other.It is better for you to stone both and allow a common robber in Nigeria to go home because they are better than pen robbers

My brother, I know it is painful but look at her inner mind to know if inwardly she is a very nice person. Have you asked her questions as to what happened? If you look at this world, no 2 perfect people on the face of this entire world. Accept her as your wife and forgive her of her past. Look at her as a very brand new person. The virgin out there you are looking for might be the devil that you might end up with if you do away with your present wife seeking for what you do not know. The so called virgin you are looking for, you see her open one day and you cannot close it.

If it is true, na their character. In Nigeria, thief a enough money and go free. That is logo with the state house as GEJ will grant you state pardon.

Go and ask Alamesaga or wetin dem call am. PDP is waiting for any convict at all time.

Please, note that you are digging your grave and if you do not run away, and stop eating together, you will end up eating the one that will destroy you forever.

OP, I think you have a skeleton in your cupboard by walking away from them and also not telling your wife when you got home shows that you have a hidden agenda. The first person you open up to is your wife after you must have requested for the Onyiye to be produced face to face by the family who threw the question to you.

Why must you just walk away from such an allegation? Getting home also, you refused to open up to your wife? Explain this so that we know how to answer you. You acted out of point.

Why take her out to parties and clubs knowing fully well that she was already married? Exposing her to clubbing could lead her to start misbehaving or her ending up in your arms in one of such outings.

OP, I think you have a skeleton in your cupboard. By walking away from them and also not telling your wife when you got home shows that you have a hidden agenda. The first person you open up is your wife after you must have requested have requested for the Onyiye to be produced face to face by the family who threw the question to you.

Why must you just walk away from such an allegation? Getting home also, you refused to open up to your wife? Explain this so that we know how to answer you. You acted out of point.

Why take her out to parties and clubs knowing fully well that she was already married? Exposing her to clubbing could lead her to start misbehaving or her ending up in your arms.

OP, I think you have a skeleton in your cupboard. By walking away from them and also not telling your wife when you got home shows that you have a hidden agenda. The first person you open up is your wife after you must have requested have requested for the Onyiye to be produced face to face by the family who threw the question to you.

Why must you just walk away from such an allegation? Getting home also, you refused to open up to your wife? Explain this so that we know how to answer you. You acted out of point.

Well, I think Uzo Kalu should be called by the SSS to tell the world how he came about with his facts because this is a serious allegation.

Fhemmmy: Yes, i do agree with you and that was why i said somewhere above that how come everyone is blaming the woman and no one pointed a finger at the dude as well, cos he is just as quilty as the women, but i thought Annie was famous as well and why would she need the fame of the dude to move on in life?
Also, we never can tell if it was real love for her instead of just fame. . . We are all on the outside looking inside cos we never knew how it all started and how they get to where they are today.

Well spoken my broda.Well, unless there is an understanding with the so called husband that herself go dey shine herself with other dudes as na calaba girl. Nothing happen. To me, only a woman with comma, that can stand such a man for his acts. In fact I cannot understand our Nigerian celebrities at all. In developed countries, something like this takes time to happen.

One day, the same Tuface or 3face will still go visiting the mothers of those children with an excuse that he wanted to see his children and he will end up sleeping with them again with same joystick Annie is dying for, and we hear another story that he has produced another one.

CELE? I dey laugh azonto. You never see anything yet for that whiteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeegarmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. I still dey laugh. The other time I read where a pastor of same church who has been taking a married woman to the mountain for special prayers for years and the woman had four children of which the real husband threw parties for their delivery. Later on after some years, the pastor surfaced to claim the children and to the surprise of the public and her real husband's family, the woman declared that the pastor owns the children.
The case was taken to a Bale at Agege. No bi small thingoooooooooooooo/ CELEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Don't blame yourself. Devil has taken control of your husband and right now, you need to take your daughter for deliverance, possibly to Synagogue Church of All Nations.Also your husband need to be taken for deliverance because he has been possessed by the demon.

Fhemmmy: Well said, but i am not sure if Annie has done any wrong by falling in love with the dude

Fhemmy, you are someone I respect on this forum. Yes, she never did any wrong but she went into this because of fame because I have never seen a woman in this generation that will stick with a man manufacturing children from different women.

Sleeping raw with different women is extremely very risky and as such, he has high risk of contracting any form of decease. For Annie, she went into the marriage because of money and fame, period.
The young man is blessed but he is not disciplined and should not be a role model at ALL. How can a normal person be sleeping from one woman to the other without any form of protection and fathering children with them

http: this is the result of undisciplined person, both on the man and expecially on the woman...

when you sell yourself cos of money and fame.... a man will never marry a s.l.u.t... she is a disgrace to herself, family, friends and womanhood in general..

How can you have 3 kids for someone that will never marry you... If a man cannot marry you, why having kids for him... was is a mistake the first kid, second kid and just imagine when she just put to bed the third kid, the man decided to wed someone else.. Thank God am not your father cos imagine what kind of thinking will be going thru his head..

I wish you well in your future endeavors but please know that u are a bad example for the world to see.

And for that Tuface or 2face, you are a low life cos i've never seen such irresponsible a man can turn out to be.. using your fame for negative things impregnating women everywhere not even thinking about the health risk he poses to others.. He is the last person on earth i will give my daugther to even if he has all the stupiid money in the world.

Pero carry on with your life and i hope your kids will not turn out like you.

Well spoken. In fact, 2Face or Tu Face is a carrier of any form of decease. I do not care the fame he has now because he is not supposed to be a role model to any youth. The woman in question is just a waste for just producing children for a man who ended up not marring her and also Annie, I pity her no matter the name and fame she wants, I have no respect for any of them.

[quote author=tpia@]that's what i dont understand.

and why did he suddenly propose to annie right after she [pero] delivered?

why didnt he do that earlier on in the pregnancy? Was he afraid she would abort it?

and why were they still making babies after they'd broken up [ i assume].[/quote]Listen, Tuface is a production manager and not a father. He manufactures children and Annie can only be the wedded wife fo now. After this wedding, he will commence official production and by the time he is 40, he must have gotten 25 to 27 children with the way he is going. Congrats sha to Tuface

yemmy19: I guess she is carrying anoda pregnancy or my eyes is seeing double

Guessing as much. I think, I need to get glasses to see if I can be able to see beyond.

Dyt: Unnecessary screaming
If u know u can't take d heat, y nt jst simply watch in ur house

Best answer to the OP.

Ada Nri1: There's a difference between insult, abuse and curse.
When your dad gets angry and tells you "don't be silly! Or silly!" Go and hang yourself because your dad insulted you. As far as I know my mum used to say we should stop behaving like goats, that's when we acted foolish, that didn't stop us from changing and behaving like human beings. And the next thing you'll hear her say is "my children are very wise" all these sabi sabi people here telling some1 how to raise their kids, I hope your children are going to be 100% well behaved everyday. Bottom line, correction with love is better than trying to avoid insulting your child and loose him to terrible behaviour. Spare the rod and spoil the child.(They'll soon tell me it wasn't meant to be followed literally)na una sabi sha, I dey my house, I raise my kids how I want. Main goal; useful, wise and well mannered children with great fear of God.

Beautiful contribution.

hardbody: I am Igbo full and blue blooded. I honestly do not see the relationship either. Reverend Kind or whatever he called himself should die in line with the judgment on his head. We should align our interests and stop acting confused.

Well spoken my brother. I think the MASSOB now reason with their anus as their brain has left them.

For calling for the release of Rev King, All MASSOB members should be arrested and garnished from IBO land. Massob are mad group of people.I am an Ibo man. MASSOB go to hell. fools. 99% of MASSOB members are pure group of armed robbers from the east and their environs.

In fact, I think MASsOB is a bunch idd--iots and mentally sick individuals who think with their anus for demanding the release of a murderer, Rev King. That is to show you that they do not have an agenda. I am from the east and I believe that no right thinking individual will EVER ask for Rev King's release.
I pray Fashola confirms his dearth so that MASSOB can go to the grave and release the idd-iot,

Shakslayer: Hello Nairalanders, what am about to relate here just happened over the weekend and it got me so confused, i told a friend of mine, who then asked me to join this forum and narrate my ordeal, i might get useful answers. So here i go.

A few months back, i met a lady on a social networking site, she is a Pharmaceutical student in one of the Universities in the South-South. We got talking, trying to psych up each other's intellectual prowess. i discovered she is a very good communicator, well read and highly versatile in almost every topic (politics, sports, social events, religion etc). She knew a bit about almost everything, and i too, am also an all rounder. So we took a liking to each other.

With each passing day, as expected, the issue of s*ex came up, i told her that i can never put pressure on a woman for s*ex on a first date, no matter how much pressed i am. I'd rather suffer in silence than do that. She said it's a lie, all men are the same, they appear nice and cute on the outside, but the moment a woman come into their life, the demon in them come out. I told her, am different, that the moment am focused on something, am focused, and unless the lady makes me believe she wants s*ex, i'll never ask her for it (on a first date). We both laughed and forgot the issue.

Just last week, i was sent on a strategic training session in her State, and i called her on Friday evening, after classes. She came to my hotel, we hugged, laughed, and said all sorts of nice things to each other (being the first time we're meeting), and we decided to spend the cool evening in a romantic resort. At about 8pm, when it was time to go, i called a cab to take her to her hostel and then take me back to my hotel. She told the cab driver to take us to my hotel first, that she'll pick a cab from there back to her hostel. I agreed. We got to the hotel and she changed her mind, said she would spend the night and go back early Saturday. I was curious, but didnt argue, we both watched SkyNews till about 10pm and decided it was time to sleep, she went to take her bath while i went downstairs to get a recharge card. When i came back, i saw her wearing one of the sexiest, silky pacific-blue lingerie, she was arranging her hair in the bed mirror, immediately, i knew i was in for a huge test, so i complimented her outfit, got my blanket out and made to sleep on the couch. She looked at me with the side of her eyes, mumbled some incoherent words and got into the bed. My mind was heavy and i couldn't sleep. After a while, i heard her faint snoring and immediately knew she has slept, so i forced myself to sleep too.

Early the next morning, she woke up with a chip on her shoulders, i greeted her, she brushed it aside, she made to the bathroom, brushed, took her bath, and in less than 15mins, she was on the elevator going back to her hostel. I was shocked, dumbfounded and too scared to even follow her, i tried to BB her, she has deleted me, i called, she wouldnt take my calls. I came back to Lagos yesterday, still tried calling with the office line, as soon as she hears my voice, she'll drop the call.

So guys, thats my story. Where did i go wrong? I think am attracted to her as much as she is to me. Matured responses would be highly appreciated.

Many thanks

Thank your God that you did bleep her. She is demon.Forget what you are looking at.She is gone and let it be for good.If you love yourself, stay off.

lovemychild: Am 27 weeks pregnant and i cant afford to take care of myself fianancialy cos i dont have anything doing yet.

my boyfriend who is the father of my child walk away cos he said he's not ready to be a father yet, that he has his career to pursue.

i actually never wanted to keep this pregnancy, but he convinced me to keep it, but just of a recent, he said he's scared that we should remove it. which i agree with him. we went to the hospital and met a doctor who adviced us to keep it. that i may die in the process.

since then, he stop calling me, visiting and even stop picking my calls. I've been so depressed and scared. i don't have money to even go for antenatal not to talk of what to use and take care of my baby when i give birth.

i've really disappointed my mom and my two younger brothers and don't know what to do. since last week i started thinking of giving out my baby for adoption, but i don't know how to go about it.

my question is:
1. does the thought of given out my child for adoption makes me a terrible mom to be?

pls if u know of any legal organization or foundation in abuja that can adopt my child for a year so that i can come back and get my baby, pls let me know and if u have any advice or help, pls advice me.

pls dont judge me nor condemn me. i already know i did wrong by not been careful, believing in promises that easily failed me and given out my trust to love . thank u

Young woman, for we all are sinners in the presence of God Almighty, just kneel down and ask God for forgiveness. God cannot condemn you when you have asked for forgiveness Do not give your baby out for adoption. I believe that God will send someone that would help you out.Or, go to Synagogue Church of All Nations and you will be prayed for and also your babycould be lucky and be granted a full scholarship to any level of education in his/her educational career.

An insider must be involved who sources info through the database. Before your card is been compromised, most banker officials steal most customers info for purposes like this.

Nigerian teams are just a disgrace.

GEJ is number one corrupt individual hibernating with his associates stealing the nation dry.

adaobi123: im fine thanks

U are welcome.Have a nice time while wishing you the best in your personal endeavor and a great future. You will get there with your bold efforts baby as God will bless your efforts in life. Ride on.

adaobi123: are you being serious ? lol

I'm real hence I wanna get this done for you.

adaobi123: loool okay

Let me know when so that I can arrange for your itinerary.

[quote author=Π@$S]I'm not in a rush to marry. I think ive got what i wanted, Thank You nairaland at least people in my shoe will understand.[/quote]which stupid person should be in your shoes? Why must you be lust with your own cousin? I think you are sick for your action because I am sure you have already started sleeping with her and only came here to be asking stupid question.

adaobi123: mr delicious ?

Sure, Mr Delicious is an eatery place in Barbados, very lovely place to eat babe.

adaobi123: barbados is visa free ? mateeee!!!! im off
and the seychelles.....forget dubai
and the maldives

Say when you gonna be ready to fly to Barbados and I'm gonna make the fees available for you for a sweet dream at Bougainvillea Beach Resort or Sandy Lane Hotel in Barbados and for eatery, will take you to Mr. Delicious. All paid trip just for you.