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That's how I met my woman and we have been together and happily married and the love still growing and we have been happily married. When I met her, something inside me told me that's your wife. I approached her and told her my mind. she was just looking at me and we discussed for few minutes and I told her straight my mind. We have kids and living healthy and she is the best gift and to crown it, she was virg.She is the best gift God ever gave me. Though I prayed to God to give me a wife like my mother and He gave me a wonderful woman and thats she.

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You are right, not only ladies but also men. I should say , possessive ladies and men are very dangerous species of human being.

With time, either of the men will get jealous and murder will come up and the lady might end up loosing both men.

I can understand the OP belongs to the group who's mental state of mind has left them.So Seun, look for a rehab place and advise the OP to head there for rehabilitation.

[quote author=Volumptuos_bebe]Seems like he is talking from experience [/quote]Sure my sister God bless you.

Acidosis: You are not in any position to tell her what is wrong or right mr brainwash...


Okay what is wrong with smoking?
what is wrong in abortion?
what is wrong with HIV?

I can decide not to wear a shoe... it is no one's fcking business!

What if shes not comfortable on trousers??


My ex doesn't wear trousers... She has her reasons and it was never my business to dictate her preference... Infact; skirts makes her sexy, smart and perfect...!

This is National assignment and there are rules governing that. I believe you are in a right position to state here that national assignment is not private assignment. i believe you do not know the difference hence your statement. There is dress code in anything, both offices or just some kind of national or corporate assignment and you don't expect her to appear in anything she chooses. I think she should forget the NYSC and go back to Theology school and after that, her pastor should employ her. Faith is in the mind and not face. She could be the worst girl in camp without ear ring and in her privacy, she is a wore.

Billyonaire: Simple. To break up with him is simple. Inform one of your beautiful friends about your decision and make her visit you always at your boy friend's and let her dress very skimpy with micro mini skirts, and often always leave both of them in the apartment while you pretend to go shopping and stuff, and the guy will be seductively tuned up to ask your friend out in one of the occasions, ...then tell the girl to play along until you arrange to catch them 'just about to kiss'....Fisaaaaamm....burst into the apartment as staged and be very dramatic in your 'catch you' game and end it....so sweet and blameless.

You are too funny.I dey laugh.

temi4fash: let m borrow u a sentence frim ma mama..
Anytin u cannot cope wit before marriage domt tink u can eva cope wit after marraige cos u cant change anybody..Except d person decides to change.

Well stated and good advise.Never marry out of sympathy.

Happy birthday baby.

Let us forget about faith here as I look at this as a poor lady who has been foolishly brain washed by her sect, called church or pastor. What is wrong in her wearing a trouser? Is it when she is asked to do certain physical exercise and she will open her bombom and expose to the world the so called holly place? I wouldn't know how wearing trouser will affect one's spiritual believe. Poor reasoning. Let her pastor issue her NYSC certificate.

dumb post with no meaning.

eaglem: Fellow Nairalander pls I need ur advice.

My Fiancee has recently been offered many costly gift form guys who has been asking for her hand in Marriage.
Just last month, she was been sacked from her working place in Port-Harcourt just bkos she refuse to marry her Directors friend as her boss has been advising her to.

Last Thursday 14th, one of this guys bought A Toyota Camry with a good furnish apartment in Elekahia Harcourt and gave her both the house and car keys but this lady turned off the offer all because of me and now she is jobless.

All the places that she submitted her applications for work, they agreed to employ her only if she will give them her body (SEX)and the girl refused. Infact to cut the story short, I am not buoyant at the moment to get married to her.

What do I do?

You are asking what we want you to do? Na waooooooo. Count yourself lucky because of a lady like her. Go out there and try to be a man and get something to do that would make you stand to take care of your responsibilities. From your write- up, it's like you don't have that zeal to survive and become man.
Braze men and try be a man by ding what you gonna do to get going.

[quote author=Subomi-luv]This is very true that is why am finding it so difficult. I guess i should try harder and see if things can change[/quote]I pray to God to help you work out this situation because I know that you are going through psychological trauma but people might look at it as if what you are stating here is just a mare issue that has no weight.Just try to see reasons and make use of the best advise and allow those who don't think with their brain to say the rubbish here.

Having gone through your well stated mind here, I would at this point say that your inner mind has shown you that you cannot hang in here too long because the taste of friendship is not the taste of marriage. You stated that he is too self centered in the sense that he believes he knows everything.

Listen, you don't have to kill yourself to please someone because you don't date or marry out of sympathy.

Also note, that the angel out there you prefer his looks and his emotional display, could be a devil you would live to regret.
I at this point would have advised you to try to work on his weakness to see if you can change him and bring him closer to what you want and can live with. Further, note that there are no two perfect people on the face of this earth.The most important thing in relationship is the fear of God and every other thing can follow.
Try see and let your inner mind see if you can still work out things and do not take looks in considering the kind of man you want because same guy you prefer out there, might be the one every other girl would love to be with and you might end up having a broken heart that you might find very hard to repair.
I pray to God to help you work out this situation because I know that you are going through psychological trauma but people might look at it as if what you are stating here is just a mare issue that has no weight.

Good news of the year. Even at N5,000 naira, I will not buy Torres.The worst investment ever to be made on a player. I wonder how any club will sign Torres.

How can Chelsea expect 15,000M pounds on Torres? They are dreaming.Let them just tag him bad investment on the club owner and allow him to be given out to any club willing to sign him.

This is serious. With this, anything can happen as prostitutes can now change their sexual status.The world is coming to an end.

Ivynwa: Yes Babes, it's her choice and that's what I've been saying.
Widows are still women with feelings and emotions and shouldn't be limited by views of others that think that they shouldn't date or should stay married within their dead husband's family. They are free to live and love after mourning their loved ones.

My view about the Ugandan case is that it was good that it was cancelled out, a woman shouldn't be forced to marry a man she doesn't like. People should be with spouses they want to be with.

You said the right thing.Why can't they allow the woman to make her choice the way she want's to live? Is her right, but for her brother in law having feelings for her is what I do not like. To me, that young man has questions to answer because bringing up this subject matter, goes to show that he is the one that has feelings for the woman hence he is seeking advise. This woman should be allowed to express her feelings.

Sensual Man: Ddnt know ds babe has yam-legs until today she came 2 do wkend @my place nd wore my boxers, and her teeths r sumhow. I no longer like her plz wat do i do?

Post her picture so that we can advise

There is controversy in Ilupeju-Ekiti over the killing of an undergraduate of Ekiti State University, Joseph Oluwaseyi, by the police during robbery incident.

While the police authorities have said that the late Seyi was a member of the gang that raided the Bank, who was killed during the cross fire, the family insisted the deceased was innocent and was felled by a trigger-happy cops.
Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO) of the State Police Command, Victor Babayemi, confirmed the story.
He said: “One of the robbers, who was shot and arrested, said he could not identify Seyi, because he was not among the team that attacked the station.
“He said that he was part of the team who attacked the bank.

“He also explained that their gang leader recruited them separately. So we do not know if he was one of the robbers or he was caught in the crossfire. But we are still investigating”.
The invasion of a new generation bank last Thursday in Oye-Ekiti, had caused commotion in the area, forcing residents to scamper to safety.
The deceased, who was said to be travelling from Ilupeju, hishome town, to Ado-Ekiti, was caught in the melee when the vehicle he was traveling in ran into robbery operation.

Unfortunately, as the driver and other occupants of vehicle ran into the nearby bush to escape the robbers’ rage, but thelate Seyi was not lucky as he was reportedly sighted by police and mistaken for robber.
The police disclosed that frantic search for a member of the gang who received a gun shots led to the arrest of late Seyi, but the eventual discovery of a wounded bandit by the policeactually changed the story.

Lending credence to Seyi‘s family’s claims, a witness, Mrs. Victoria Adewuyi, who was in the bus with the deceased, said he was innocent.
The 72-year-old Mrs Adewuyi, who corroborated Mrs Fasere’s explanation, said the deceased was not a member of the robbery gang, but a victim of circumstance, adding that she boarded the same car with Seyi before they ran into the robbery.

The deceased mother, Mrs Florence Fasere, 60, who addressed journalists, said the family was curious about the whereabouts of their son after the incident, before they confirmed his killing.
She explained that the deceased, a 400 Business Administration undergraduate, had come to Ilupeju to collect N100,000 meant for his school fees before the incident, adding that the family was further subjected to more pains when it attempted to protest his killing as some police officers gave them the beating of their lives.

She said: “It was sad and bad for the police to have caught Seyi where he was hiding, tied his hands and detained him from Thursday till Friday, before he was shot just to create the impression that they had caught a robber.
“They even spread the news into town that he was a memberof the robbery gang”.

There is controversy in Ilupeju-Ekiti over the killing of an undergraduate of Ekiti State University, Joseph Oluwaseyi, by the police during robbery incident.

While the police authorities have said that the late Seyi was a member of the gang that raided the Bank, who was killed during the cross fire, the family insisted the deceased was innocent and was felled by a trigger-happy cops.
Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO) of the State Police Command, Victor Babayemi, confirmed the story.
He said: “One of the robbers, who was shot and arrested, said he could not identify Seyi, because he was not among the team that attacked the station.
“He said that he was part of the team who attacked the bank.

“He also explained that their gang leader recruited them separately. So we do not know if he was one of the robbers or he was caught in the crossfire. But we are still investigating”.
The invasion of a new generation bank last Thursday in Oye-Ekiti, had caused commotion in the area, forcing residents to scamper to safety.
The deceased, who was said to be travelling from Ilupeju, hishome town, to Ado-Ekiti, was caught in the melee when the vehicle he was traveling in ran into robbery operation.

Unfortunately, as the driver and other occupants of vehicle ran into the nearby bush to escape the robbers’ rage, but thelate Seyi was not lucky as he was reportedly sighted by police and mistaken for robber.
The police disclosed that frantic search for a member of the gang who received a gun shots led to the arrest of late Seyi, but the eventual discovery of a wounded bandit by the policeactually changed the story.

Lending credence to Seyi‘s family’s claims, a witness, Mrs. Victoria Adewuyi, who was in the bus with the deceased, said he was innocent.
The 72-year-old Mrs Adewuyi, who corroborated Mrs Fasere’s explanation, said the deceased was not a member of the robbery gang, but a victim of circumstance, adding that she boarded the same car with Seyi before they ran into the robbery.

The deceased mother, Mrs Florence Fasere, 60, who addressed journalists, said the family was curious about the whereabouts of their son after the incident, before they confirmed his killing.
She explained that the deceased, a 400 Business Administration undergraduate, had come to Ilupeju to collect N100,000 meant for his school fees before the incident, adding that the family was further subjected to more pains when it attempted to protest his killing as some police officers gave them the beating of their lives.

She said: “It was sad and bad for the police to have caught Seyi where he was hiding, tied his hands and detained him from Thursday till Friday, before he was shot just to create the impression that they had caught a robber.
“They even spread the news into town that he was a memberof the robbery gang”.

A young man killed by police who claimed he was an armed robber only for the people he boarded same taxi with him exonerated the young man but before then, the did has ben done.He has been killed by the Nigerian Police.
Source: http://informationnaija.com/crisis-looms-as-police-kills-400-level-student-in-bank-robbery-raid/
On Friday, March 8th, 2013

Must we be killed by same people we pay? What a wicked world. Always ready to waste people because of their unprofessional attitude to their work.

A young man killed by police who claimed he was an armed robber only for the people he boarded same taxi with him exonerated the young man but before then, the did has ben done.He has been killed by the Nigerian Police.
Source: http://informationnaija.com/crisis-looms-as-police-kills-400-level-student-in-bank-robbery-raid/
On Friday, March 8th, 2013

Must we be killed by same people we pay? What a wicked world. Always ready to waste people because of their unprofessional attitude to their work.

[quote author=Prebaby.G.]@andy, yeh i got ur msg, may reply dat lera.[/quote]Ok noted.Take ur time

[quote author=Prebaby.G.][/quote]Morning Princess. check ur mail

[quote author=Prebaby.G.]Why do some men love to impregnant someone they want to marry b4 their marriage??[/quote]They are not men.They are men with low esteem or iq, and you better run away from them.

[quote author=Prebaby.G.]Why do some men love to impregnant someone they want to marry b4 their marriage??[/quote]They are not men.The men are men with low esteem or iq, and you run away from them.

[quote author=Prebaby.G.]@andyanders, tnx 4 dat. Buh i resyde my email add der, cnt u make use of it?[/quote]Ok, I got it.Will contact you 'morrow. Have a blessed day. Just dont feel bad, you will overcome it .Its just life.

[quote author=Prebaby.G.]@andyanders, tnx 4 ur concerns. Can't ans d ques pls.[/quote]I can understand your statement, if you are not comfortable to answer here I can send you a message through ur nairaland email contact so that one can help answer some of your questions to help guide you because this doesn't sound normal. I wish you the best and would want you to have the best of life because nobody can claim monopoly of knowledge.will send u msg through Send E-Mail Message To Prebaby.G. if you dont mind so that yu can air your mind