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Nothing wrong with that. Truth is bitter. I rest my case.

MadLogan:
Evil people must have used his office to write some money out ... one reason why it’s possible not to announce his death immediately

Sense no go kill you. Exactly on point.

Kemi should be given an award. She was on point. Good work Kemi.

Op, unless you made up this story to pull people's leg. You no dey shame with this kind post you opened? Your wife complained of your disgusting bad habbit and you came to this forum to rant over sex, instead of taking her advise and make yourself a better person. With your billions, No descent woman can sleep with you with the above stated habbits.

Op, you no dey shame with this kind post you opened? Your wife complained of your disgusting bad habbit and you came to this forum to rant over sex, instead of taking her advise and make yourself a better person. With your billions, No descent woman can sleep with you with the above stated habbits.

It is a habit she grew up with and nothing you can do to change her nomatter how hard you try to. If you go ahead and marry such a lady and you run into financial difficulties, she will look outside and too, could run debt on you without your consent.

The issue of talking it over with her is to force her to accept under durex and could make her hide for a while until you take her in as your wife. Once in, she will continue as she could have friends like her that would even encourage her and make her see it as a normal thing and by then, you will have serious issues with her.
Having been with her for 7 yrs, and no changes, you know her better. For me, I will take a walk 'cus the taste of friendshp is not the taste of marriage.

Ogegeodey:

Women can't handle rejection. Why didn't she release this video when they were still married?
He rolled the weed, they smoked it together she thinks releasing the video is blackmail? SMH! And she is also a drunk according to the report.
You and your former husband na d same thing jare.

Someone said that's why he is referred to as HIS HIGHNESS.... lol

Jamaican women smoke weed. Have dated some of them. She is just wanna run the man down. They've been doing it together.

He still remain a rapist. Intent to commit rape is equally a crime committed. If he has any political ambition in life, he should forget it with her crime partner- his mother who is an accessory to the crime. He should just keep eating the looted fund their own made for them.

I wonder why some people come online and start forming pastors, prayer warriors, evangelists and spiritual counselors asking op to pray to God, you have committed abortion, ask for forgiveness and bla, bla bla.

Op was been scammed by a lady scammer, from the issue of fake pregnancy, getting fake abortion, faking that her business started dwinddling and arranging native doctor all to extort op who has fallen mugu to her. Common sense would have openned up your mind after reading op's post herein, that he has fallen prey to a scammer. Fvck the girl with her story. But it is a pity that sense no dey common hence some of you here forming pastors and ones advising him to sort the girl up has failled to read in-between the line. I rest my case.

Snow10:
Guy its simple...

All you've to do is to calm yourself..
Get to meet the girl and make her calm.
Explain everything to her... (About your mum telling to avoid her).
And try to hustle to pay for what she need.. And let her know you're done..

Life goes on my guy...life is good when you turn it smiling face at yourself...

Nice story tho I hope you learn from your mistake...


And don't be unfortunate by using suicide to threaten us ..

Another mugu identifed. Op that the girl was scamming and instead of you to comprehend and extract facts from op's story, you are advising him to give the girl money for useless arrangee native dr.

donbachi:
fyi; i'm from rivers state.bonny kingdom,from the strongest known war canoe house and my mum is from kula...elizabert jack-rich is married to tienao seyelifubara jack-rich,ceo of belemaoil..the sarki ruwan hausa(water provider of hausaland)..should i increase the volume?

You need not argue with him. You have said it and it should be. Move on with your life as this is public forum.

Ishilove:
Chai, so young and beautiful

Is this fate or village people? This two were never meant to be together.

Exactly. They were not meant to be together no matter how they tried. Something beyond ordinary

Pix of him taken while still in your compound? Contact a lawyer and write the IG and media houses. Go to AIT, NTA with the wounded. He must go down and be removed from office for attempted murder.

Op, calm down. Listen, this is pure scam. Did you see the foetus? The girl has arranged everything right from the pregnancy to the issue of native dr. Never fall for it. Never give her a dime for anything. In as much as she claimed that she had aborted the pregnancy, that should be the end. She no carry any belle. She is a scam artist. Cut her off and if she like, let her go to the express and announce it. Na herself she disgrace. She is above 18 and na she be the first to carry belle? Let her go to hell. Open up to your mother and woman and damn her. Man up. No fear anything as far as this issue is concerned. Tell her to go to NTA and announce it. She wants to make money from your foolishness. Maybe you be village boy. Nothing they happen.

Op, calm down. Listen, this is pure scam. Did you see the foetus? The girl has arranged everything right from the pregnancy to the issue of native dr. Never fall for it. Never give her a dime for anything. In as much as she claimed that she had aborted the pregnancy, that should be the end. She no carry any belle. She is a scam artist. Cut her off and if she like, let her go to the express and announce it. Na herself she disgrace. She is above 18 and na she be the first to carry belle? Let her go to hell. Open up to your mother and woman and damn her. Man up. No fear anything as far as this issue is concerned. Tell her to go to NTA and announce it. She wants to make money from your foolishness. Maybe you be village boy. Nothing they happen.

Just 3 months and through cs and you are after sex and not her health and you are seeking for an opinion from public forum? You must be devilsh. So, your pric.k is more important to you than her life? You are a killer. What do you take women to be, sex object? Your legally married wife?You must be sick.

Omeku:
Thanks to all of you. I appreciate so much. Never believed that through reading of some responses I will get better. You guys made me better and with prayer God will see us through. U guys are the best. You have really helped me in one way or the other. As for my maid,have decided to take her to my mom so to help her finish her education,cos she has nobody to train her. Thank you all and God bless.

Since you have decided to take her to your mom, counsel her not to get involved with such act again in her life. Hope too, you have not disclossed this issue with your mom as she could spill the beans knowingly or unknowingly to the maid on any provocation and this will turn to public discuss as it will get back to you? If not, keep her.

Omeku:
Thank you so much dear. My God will bless you.

Madam, you're welcomed. I'm glad you've even forgiven the girl you expressed that you see or took her as a daughter. This goes to show a kind heart you have and may God Almighty help you to overcome this storm. For the girl, do call and counsel her from time to time never to try such, even outside your home. Devil wants to destroy your peaceful home.Since your husband was remorseful for his action and pleaded for mercy, in your closset, both of you should hold hands together and call unto God for the restoration of his manhood. Nothing Jesus cannot do and he should avoid sugar or eatables that contain sugar. Bitter colar from time to time. God bless your home.

graciamore:
I understand why you still bring up the issue here even after forgiving your husband, forgiveness is a gradual process, u may need more time to heal and trust your hubby again... Send your maid back to her village while you trust God to heal your broken heart, keeping her around may bring up other issues.please let it go completely dear for the kids sake. May God uphold ur home

Good advise. She will get over it with time. I hate when some people advise others to seek for divorce while they are still managing theirs or have not married before as single ladies, but advise married women to seek for divorce as a solution and when it happens and the woman get her divorce, they cannot be there to help her. Women can seek for divorce if there is an abuse- domestic violience, I support divorce but not a case like this. No two perfect people on the face of this earth, just like in relationship or marriage.

Op, I feel for you and appreciate the fact the he accepted and asked for forgiveness. That said, never seek the advise of any pastor or outsider over this issue as most pastors don't keep any form of secret as he will expose you to his wife and other elders and too, any third party you discussed the issue will ridducle your family as they can never keep your secret. Secret is the only thing only you knows.He has asked for forgiveness, forgive him and don't abandorn him now. You send the girl back and don't create any problem with her. Your husband's issue can be treated. That is another issue/topic for another day. Forgive and trust God for His grace. Never follow those talking trash here that you should divorce him. Do you know their own secret? Hell No. Nobody without sin.

karnap:
Nigerian loves abusing an order, they president says stay at home unless you are on an essential service, but some people will abuse it,tell me what make this Driver not to stop for checkup,now he is dead.

I believe that you're insane for your statement. Food items were among the items allowed movement. Why must they kill the man and you are supporting evil. May you and any member of your family fall victim to either robbers or government official.

These officers has families, how I wish the public locate them and start killing members of theirs. This is why people should start snooping arround to know where they stay and pay them back in their own coin since the government can't help her citizens.

The child is like an orphan as the father who is a widower, almost blind, cannot be able to look after them. Why cant the child be taken by the state government to be cared for? I pray this gets to the state governor to help the family.

luckingto50:
With strict conditions
1 if you have above 5k in ur account u re not qualify
2. That they will liase with network provider to know who have bought more 100 naira recharge card is not also qualify.
Useless government

The government don't even know that most people who recharge their network could be friends or some family members who they call or flash to help them with 100 naira card and the person end up sending 200 or more to the person. People are hungry. Let them use BVN through bank to get to those in need, rather their cronnies who will be diverting these funds.

Instead of Nigerian government to use BVN through banks to give the so called palliative, they go through their cronnies who are diverting such funds to themselves. Nigeria is a curse from the british who brought this fulani to marge with normal human beings.

klenton:
oga, what exactly is the moral of this your story, that once someone texts positive they should just marry their partner and procreate HIV free kids and everything will be okay??

if you don't want to tell a story and let people learn from your experience then dont
leaving out completely how u got the virus, handled the stigma and healed defeats what ever lesson your trying to put out there.

prevention as always is better than cure, from your story is obvious your family is rich and that explains why you have to get married immediately with the financial implications involved in not just the marriage but...

Did you ever go through what op stated or you found it hard to comprehend?
Op, you are a man and your advise and how you pulled through will encourage those with the virus to have hope.
Those equally stating that your girlfriend or wife infected you must have been out of their mind as you stated the humanaterian job you handled. God bls u nd yours.

Op, having gone through your post here, you are just reporting this issue as a third party and not the victim. I want to ask you a question; have you attended one of those meetings where the accussed was present? Have you heard a word with the man to hear his own side and proffer solution? You stated that and I quote you ' it seems the woman is the bread winner' that statement by you seem to sound that you are not sure of what you sounded 'seems' you equally said that the husbands family were in support of their sons attitude. Do yourself a favor by finding the man and sit down with him and hear his own side b4 coming back to this forum. This is a family issue and you are a third party so that you don't add to their problem. This is one sided story and I don't offer solution to one sided story.

Ladylite:
Oh why stress yourself... The major mistake was from the beginning, marrying a man without doing the necessary checks and balances of his reactions when frustrated or angry or tired.... It is clear the dude is tired of the bondage called marriage, also he may be jazzed by another woman.... Many of you who claim to have prayed actually do not know how to receive answers in prayer.

Prayer is a dialogue, and not a reported speech. Lemme not start preaching.


God wants you to be strong and move on with your life. And you can ask for a divorce whenever you deem it time. You have done the biblical part of trying to make peace, after all you have done, even the Bible says you should treat..You clearly married an unbelieving believer...

Whatever you stated here doesn't make sense. 'Dump him, unbeliever' you've allready judged the man and condemned him as religious extrimist you sounded.
Note that op is not the woman. Have you heard from the man? Mr/ms pastor?

It is high time the masses start lynching these officials. No wasting of time. Never wait to give such officers any hope to face probe.

Op, pls and pls, never try any nonsense like abortion as that child is a blessing to you and his/her generation. Seek for God's grace to provide to train them. Calm down your wife and give her your support to overcome this trying period so that her BP doesn't go high and could trigger complication. I hope you never started blaming her hence her state of health now?

Sonfethopia:
I accept , I wanted to use police to get my money back but someone told me its the innocent child I soend it in and I should go and God will bless me. I should forget everything.

Forget the child and the mother if you want to be alive. You entered into the wrong woman/family. Concentrate on your education, get money b4 you think of marriage. With this at the back of your mind, never love a woman to a fault, which was what you did here. Never marry out of sympathy. Never seek for any spiritual intervention from spiritualists, if you want to live long. Marriage is a university you can NEVER EVER graduate from no matter the course.

Op, having read ur post herein, I'll say you are too weak to be a man. From ur naration here, you are even their mugu. Never in your future relationship handle such decietful ladies like her. Too weak. The child is not yours.