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Rossikki:
Your logic is based on sheer wickedness and thoughtlessness. What if the man falls sick and cannot work? What if he's in business and govt seizes his goods? In life anything can happen. What is the point of marriage vows made before God - ''For richer for poorer, in sickness and in health''?

Is that just another meaningless phrase done on a wedding day? If it is, then why bother saying it, and lying to God? Instead of lying before your maker, simply remove those words and state the truth, ie ''If he's rich we will be fine, but if he's not, I cannot stand him.'' Why lie?

Women need to understand that there is more to life than money. Love, commitment, honour, loyalty, selflessness MATTER, or we are little more than wild animals in the bush.

cococandy:
How were their identities verified?

praxisnetworks:
Not enough.
Question: is he truly crippled?
Is 3million enough for his abused rights?
Is the 3 million a substitute for implementing our laws concerning the matter?

lalanice:

to some quote I find very unnecessary to reply, but let me tell you this. my post has nothing to do with my status, I only stated what I noticed and I didnt just mean the story I meant even the lines and the write-up, I have seen it before. I do not attach any attitude to gender I believe people are just who they are women and men can be equally wicked as the devil. stay with who you can and avoid who you can't.

Benjom:
Quite unfortunate. Even buying a second hand phone can be dangerous.

lalanice:
I know very much that men are emotionally abused, I even have a crazy neighbour here that is trying to ruin her husbands life. but this story just seems like a repeated story with more juice

Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

IgboAmakaa:
Is high time the world add these BADOO on Terrorist list

what kind of barbaric tribe is this?

laudate:
See this joker! Does he think we have forgotten all his broadcasts of hate, that were aired on Radio Biafra? Even his acolytes bought into his hate speeches. Now, he is trying to change his tune. 'I dont hate the North, like people believed....' indeed! Tell that to the marines!

juman:
I also smell some illegality things between him and the couple.

Martins98:
A Nigerian woman has taken to Facebook to share touching story of how God miraculously healed her son of Autism!

She wrote:

I PRAYED FOR HIM TO DIE
Dont judge me, wait untill you hear me out.
#Dilemma#Myonlyson#Autism#nohope#prayernotanswered#gaveupthefight#


He was a healthy awesome child when I had him but by age 2 we noticed there was something wrong. There was no eye contact, he could not talk, didnt understand instructions, and so many other bad vibes.

That was when my nightmare started. I ran from pillar to post seeking solution. In some places they said he was partially deaf at others they said it was Autism. Up untill then I never heard the word Autism. The information I got about it was frightening and I saw those signs clearly in my son.


My life stood still.


No school would take him in as he couldnt settle. Finally and luckily an Indian lady with a nursery school took him in, but my heart broke the Day I went to pick him up from school and asked her politely how he was doing. Her response was i don't know what to do with him. Am just a teacher not a psychiatrist. I cried all the way home. Thoughts bombarded my mind. Worst of all there was no answer to the tormenting thoughts.


An only son, Autism, was it generational? Or the devil? No answer!


Up untill then I was having a swell time living my life to the fullest.. But with this dilemma I crawled to God .I attended every Christian gathering, crusade, vigils; just name it.

I prayed; prayed , cried, fasted , sowed seeds but nothing happened. The years went by and it seemingly got worst.

People were begining to notice there was a problem I couldnt hide it any more. (By the way, dont try hidding your shame if God doesnt hide it you can't hide it)


My husband was tired. My mother who was perpetually encouraging me was tired, I was tired, exhausted and tired of casting, binding, fighting and faithing, so I prayed for Him to die so I could move on with my life.
(I wanted a short cut)

He didnt die instead he grew. Seeing God wasnt ready to take him I went back to God again in prayer, I repented and continued from where I stopped .Running from pillar to post, church to church.


At one church I was told to go on one week dry fast with consistent midnight prayers. At midnight when I came down to pray I was usually afraid. One night as I came down for the prayer routine, I heard a voice say to me how can you be praying and afraid. You are afraid because you do not know the God you are praying to.

At that point I packed up and went on a quest to know this GOD!
I stayed alone for 2weeks with only one prayer point. ( God if you are real let me know you.). I spent more time within those weeks studying the Word of God , and through the pages of the Bible I came to know this GOD.


After that 2weeks of word immersion I had peace like I never had since the ordeal started. The burden for my son to speak or get normal left me. I was just at peace with God and the World.
About 3weeks later we travelled to England on Holiday. We were in a shop on Oxford street when my son that had never spoken came to me tapped me and asked me a question.

His first words to me were where is kamsy?

He was asking for His older sister.

That was how my son started talking.

One thing led to another; he started doing things he couldnt do and like magic caught up with his age mates.
It was like Magic! No! A Miracle!
Today I celebrate God as He turns 18.

There is nothing we dont talk about now. From His school work to the Girls that likes him and the ones He likes, lol..
Sometimes I even scold him that he talks too much, correcting him that as a gentleman he shouldnt talk much. How we so quickly forget...smh...

I cant thank God enough for him.
Through my trial with him, I was reconnected back to God, I found my purpose in Life, and my ministry was birthed.(That is another story for another Day). Family Word Centre

I encourage you today in your own trial to fight on. No short cut.
God has not disappeared, take your eyes off your problem (if you can)
Seek Him and He will do the needful plus much more

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Am still praying... During my prayers today
I PRAYED FOR HIM TO LIVE AND SHOW FORTH THE GLORY OF GOD.

Destined2win:
It was a fantastic day when the news of Evans, a notorious kidnapper who has made billions of naira from ransome collected from his victims filtered through the news media. For a week straight, it was the most dominant headline in news media all over the country and even beyond the shores. It was a victory needed by the Nigerian Police as wealthy people feared for their lives every minute.

The Nigerian Police who should know know better went AWOL, chanting songs,taking selfies, revealing all the strategies they deployed in tracking down Evans. There is nothing wrong in the Nigerian Police celebrating their victories. I have watched a lot of American documentaries on issues like this but they leave some things out. America is a developed country and can always decipher new avenues in tracking criminal yet some take them a very long time to catch.

But Nigeria is still crawling and needs to keep a lot of information about their modus Operandi secret. Even a country we claim to be better than noticed it.; https://www.nairaland.com/3879308/kidnapper-evans-nigerian-igp-shared

This Ghanaian guy said the real truth which shouldn't be taken lightly. Evans is not the only kidnapper in Nigeria and the kind of publicity given to him has only given the other high profile kidnappers the signal to restrategize.

Now the deed has been done. What can the Nigerian Police do to salvage the situation.

1. They should stop further publicity of any news related to how Evans was captured and acquisitions he made with kidnapping money.

2. Henceforth no policeman should be seen in any picture that has Evans in it.

3. Every news about Evans will only come from the Police Spokesman.

4. No pressman should be allowed to interrogate Evans any longer.

5. The police should fast track the trial of Evans which would be aired openly.

6. Evans should be publicly executed to deter prospecting kidnappers.

7. The police has already fumbled on this. and therefore needs to restrategize. They should seek other methods of operation as an intelligent kidnapper would have learned one or two things from this Evans saga

8. Let them be trained on the effects on crime reporting in the open society.

I believe if they can do this, the situation will be salvaged to the point where they will learn a lot on how to handle sensitive issues in a sensitive country like Nigeria.

Written by Destined2win

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