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Ah! are you sure its the same girl?

Is murder a bailable offense?

Lol. Lets get something straight, the side chick is beautiful, no arguments about it.
Those people who are surprised that he cheated on his "wealthy" wife don't understand the psyche of men, probably they are women. Men don't care how wealthy a woman is, it does not give us an erection.

With that out of the way i don't know why he felt the need to have a side chick. Maybe his wife was not giving him sex or maybe he stopped seeing his wife as sexually attractive(this is important, a woman might be beautiful but she may not be sexually attractive. That is why some men complain about their wives adding weight etc)
Maybe he did not like the fact that his wife has more money than him(this is a possibility, watch this movie: crazy rich asians)

there could be any number of reasons or there was no reason, his wife might have been giving him tai chi sex style but he still wanted Chidinma.
His wife might have submitting her earnings to him, so as not to make him feel bad about her out earning him and he still wanted Chidinma.

Many things can drive a man to cheat. Or he just wanted to cheat.

I don't know the circumstances of his household so I can't really blame him for cheating. Personally I would have divorced my wife and married Chidinma if things were that bad with my wife. However, all men are not the same. Also, it is convenient to keep a wife and have a side chick or chicks, you get the best of both worlds.

Like crackhaus said even right now many married men around the world are going to meet their side chicks in one place like that. Same for many married women. Oh yes! some married women are in the game too.

If I was forced to blame someone or something for the CEO's cheating, I would blame the lax sexual morality in our world today. Sex is everywhere, from music videos to billboards, to social media like instagram, to the kind of dressing women wear that make men think of sex! sex!! and more sex!!!
Or you think its a coincidence that there are many body hugging, tight dresses available in the boutiques and markets these days?
A few weeks back a nairalander female was complaining about not finding decent clothes anymore, instead all she could find wear tight dresses and their likes.

The same Boris Johnson that can also be described as a philanderer?

SegFault:
Britain is a Christian country and legalising such is akin to your dear Nigeria legalising homosexuality so leave it as it is, the idiot is going to lose his job. One thing about men who cheat shamelessly is that they are all incompetent and foolish, just look at the words Boris Johnson used to describe him.

Asin eh! all those that like saying that nonsense they wouldn't have anything to say now

greatiyk4u:
According to Nairalanders

In a sane country nothing bad happens there.....lolz



Have you blamed Buhari today?

It is happening everywhere. Super Tv CEO in Nigeria was sleeping with a side chick, health minister in the UK is kissing a married woman.

The bolded,
You can't blame them, Lai Mohammed represents an oppressive and wicked government, and many people have nothing but hate for the government. So don't be surprised if people refuse to believe what that same government is saying. I bet you some people are using VPNs just to spite the government even with all the dangers free VPNs represents.

KingOfAmebo:
Do a search on spywares and get informed, this is not about granting permissions to the app...this is done from the backdoor, a compromised app can steal your data wether or not you grant it permission...

why are people so bent on been ignorant even after enlightening them?

Keep downloading any app you come across, las las you go fall victim to hackers as una no one hear word.

Lol, true. But There are still girls that are virgins, plenty in fact.

crackhaus:
I think what you mean to say, is that there are still good girls who don't go about lodging in hotels with sugar-daddies and yahoo boys.

This doesn't mean that these good girls are still virgins though...

Two different things.

There's nothing to weep about. There are many good virgins girls. Throw away that mentality that all the girls are doing it.

SpringofLife:
My experience working in a hotel.

Although I always wanted to write this but I think with the trending story of Chidinma and Super TV boss, it is a good time to do it.

I finished school 3years ago and have been hit by unemployment in the country. Out of no choice, I landed for a hotel work with meagre salary. Well, that story has already been told on another of my thread (check my profile for the thread).

So out of hunger and frustration, I accepted the offer as it was the only available option. About 6 months into the job now, I can say I'm marveled by what I see daily in the place. The level of sexual immoralities in the country is something else.

First, thhe owner of the hotel is a calm gentleman married to a beautiful woman with kids but he still has side chicks. He's someone who travels a lot but he has chicks in all these places. Secondly, the manager is a prolific womanizer. He has this habit of lodging different girls in different rooms and would go round having sex with each and everyone of them. Of course the cost of doing this is no child's play. He probably spends at least 30k or above daily to run these multiple of sex partners. Not castigating the man but the wife is quite industrious trying to pick every penny here and there while the husband is spending big on girls.

Another set of people are yahoo boys. They are the top customers in the place. These guys with their money have been able to bring out the slut in girls. You see them doing all sort of things with our regular Nigerian girls in the street carrying face like they don't know anything whereas they've involved in unexplainable and unimaginable sexual immoralities. Yahoo boys have used them for 3some, 4some and other group/party sex setting. Most times, these boys book a suite to host sex party. it could be 3 boys and 5 girls. I mean even beautiful girls that look calm, homely, innocent and even churchy engage the these act.

And now to the grand patrons, the king of kings and the Lord of lords, the married men. These people take it as a duty to sleep around with young girls. You see them bringing in different girls to the hotel to sleep with them. The case of Chidinma and TV boss was just one out of thousands and millions happening on daily basis. When I look at all these, I weep for us singles guys and the future in general. I may be correct to say there's no decent girl out there again from what I have seen.

Not trying to demonize only married men, married women are not back seat takers at all. They are actively involved in extra marital affairs sleeping with both single guys or other married men.

Finally, I want to dedicate this piece of work to nollywood. Most of the scripts they play are manifesting in our real time encounter.

What does he do?

HitlerGaddafi:
New Bnaira.. dude has been in southy for years. I just like this guy (no homo)

I never knew there were plastic cylinders, are they safer than the usual cylinders?

bukatyne:
Maybe one should consider plastic cylinders.

They can't be repainted (hopefully), lighter and more pleasing to the eyes

i had wanted to highlight 1 or 2 of your points, but i realised that you have too many points. Well said. Especially the kill the matter at the police station. In fact if you can kill the matter before it reaches the police it is even better.

NgHotGirls:
*One of the most prudent things you should do for yourself in Nigeria today is keeping out of trouble. One of the worst things that can happen to a person is to be sent to jail in Nigeria.*

*Jail in Nigeria is halfway house to hell. Maryam Sanda will probably never be executed, most Governor's do not sign the death warrant anymore. Orji Kalu Uzor will probably never serve full-time.*


*But still Nigerian prisons are like Nazi concentration camps. The food is calamitous, healthcare is none existent.*

*I have seen a prisoner holding his eye ball in his hand, it was still attached to his eye socket by a tendril. Someone used a spoon to scoop out his eye ball in a fight. The nurse was off duty. Nobody cared, he died.*

*I had a client once who was remanded in prison. He was HIV positive and did not tell me. Maybe that would have been further grounds for bail. He could not take his drugs and he relapsed. Before I could try to get him out it was too late, he died.*

*The food given to prisoners is not fit for human consumption, even animals should not be made to eat such rubbish. Meanwhile, huge sums of money has been budgeted for feeding prisoners.*

*Avoid trouble, infact, flee from trouble. Anything that will involve police charging you to court is trouble. If you can kill a matter in the police station, by all means do it. Stop shouting,*

*"I know my right!"*

*This is Nigeria. Your right and left can change anytime.*

*Police will definitely ask for big money, if you have it and you suspect your case is not very solid kill the matter there. Even if you think you have a good case, this is Nigeria.*

*If your lawyer is shouting,*

*"we will meet in court!" in Police station tell him to calm down.*

*It is your case, not his. The use of "we," is merely figurative. He will not stand in the accused box with you.*

*Remember, it is not what you know that matters in court, it is what you can prove. Besides, this is Nigeria. Ihedioha can testify.*

*I was attacked once by a pedestrian in Lagos. The car I was inside brushed him slightly. I was not the one driving. I just told him to be more careful.*

*That is how the guy attacked me. He threw 4 punches, I blocked two and dodged two.*

*I had the opportunity to counter punch but I did not. I am not Anthony Joshua. A police man eventually stopped him. I quickly removed myself from the scene.*

*I was happy enough I was not going home with a broken jaw, neither was I being charged for assault. Sometimes it is better to let some things go.*

*I do not mean that you should turn to everyone's foot mat, but if you are going to take up an issue, ensure you are blameless, or almost blameless.*

*Avoid wahala. If people are beating up a thief do not join, or even stand and watch, even if it is your property that was stolen.*

*If someone hits your car don't start fighting because of that.*

*Do not lend people money. It hardly ends well.*

*Do not surety people you don't absolutely trust.*

*Avoid too much night movement, and partying and clubbing.*

*Avoid people who cannot control their alcohol, they always start brawls.*

*Realize that a bad situation can always get worse, or better, depending on how you handle it.*

*Avoid people who talk too much.*

*Be wary with your speech. Do not talk about people behind their backs.*

*Always assume that someone is recording your speech and videoing your actions.*

*Even if someone comes with negative gossip about another person, do not say anything. If you talk, it is what you said that will somehow find its way to the person's ear.*

*Stop saying things like,*

*" Do you know who I am?"*

*"I no dey fear anybody!"*

*"My yes is my yes and my no is my no!"*

*Finally, remember to keep your anger and ego in check, the world does not revolve around you, it revolves around the sun �.*
Please be guided in 2021
God will surprise us with His goodness. Thank you
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I disagree. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

kindlyheart:
the wife is finer than the side chick. I wonder what took him outside

I have seen this saying before.

chiemmanuel:
Show me a beautiful woman, And I will show you a man who is tired of sleeping with her.

This is the type of question JAMB should be asking so that the number of students repeating JAMB every year would be increasing leading to money for JAMB.

meobizy:
Answer this question first; why a bike rider in my village with an able-bodied wife, children and two pregnant side chicks would decide to rape a deaf mute in the bush one random morning.

God is great. 2021 minus 1996, 25 years later. Sometimes that is how God works. There might be a delay, but in the end.... Congratulations to her.

Another story.

LastProphet:
Same fate awaits your daughter, shameless oaf

Story

Pierocash:
clap for yourself. People like you shouldn't exist in our society,you are wicked.

You took advantage of her situation to exploit her sexually without honouring the agreement. That is wickedness. It doesn't cost a thing to be kind to others,if you happen to be there in her trying moment,you won't need to go subtle to have her,she will lovingly and willingly give you her body anytime.

Stop been wicked,because there are repercussions for every evil deed

I believe you can use bank apps to verify if a said amount of money has entered your account.

Some days ago someone paid some money into my account in my presence, I did not receive any alert, but I opened my bank app, checked my transactions and behold the money was credited to my account. It was an hour or so later that I received the alert.

abatically:
U won't use pos but will rather do transfer lol. Maybe u don't know pos has less fail rate than transfer. At least for POS once it's approved it's instant. For transfer they will ask u to wait till they get alert and God help u in some cases that alert doesn't come until the next day. Sometimes sef 2 days they won't see alert.

Lol everyone can't have the same temperament

Triangles1:
You're such a gentle man or you have enough, believe me no man can do that shiit with me.

For God sake why would you pay in money to an employee's account? Involve the police.

it's not by fine boy. Also it's not by money. Too many guys like you have this mentality of; get money women would come or go to gym and get 6 pack women would come or post pics with red pouting lips and women would come. All Na wash.

If you are savvy enough and understand women you wouldn't need 6 pack or money to be bedding women.

rawtouch:

with that kind face some ladies self nor sabi select who to hookup with

it's not by fine boy. Also it's not by money. Too many guys like you have this mentality of; get money women would come or go to gym and get 6 pack women would come or post pics with red pouting lips and women would come. All Na wash.

If you are savvy enough and understand women you wouldn't need 6 pack or money to be bedding women.

Ceenachi:
I am finer than this guy, more straight forward than this guy, BUT his bed has a lot more counts than mine go to my inbox, you will think another pandemic is happening there and when you go to his, you will think they are sharing palliative there........
This life refuse to be balance.....

guy you really don't know what's going on. Girls that have been traveling from Lagos to Calabar, you're now asking such questions.

If you don't know, know it now, many girls, Nigerian or not are willing to do almost anything for relationship, sex, hook up or whatever.

prince3009:
This doesn't make sense!

Which Nigerian girl in her right senses will use her own money to book flight, use her own money to pay for a hotel room and then you come to the hotel room and still agrees to open leg without you reimbursing her of what she spent on flight and hotel booking?

Na juju be that?

I don't believe this one bit!

God have mercy!
Too many Vehicles on Nigerian roads are not road worthy.

We need to restructure Nigeria. Imagine, in a restructured Nigeria, where the federating units are in control of their economy, so if the south east wants to give identity numbers to all the southeast indigenes, the money would come from the south east's pocket. And because the money is coming from its pocket, it would be mindful of how the money is spent. Corruption would be minimal.

As Nigeria is now, everyone is just looking for his own share of the national cake.

RESTRUCTURE NIGERIA!!!

Lol. IMO national identity data should not be Hosted on foreign severs. Nigeria should have its own servers.

OjoMadiba:
God why you put me for this kind country,

90 servers to register 100 million people, AWS cloud service would solve this for way less than 10million naira.

Lol coke and Fanta. All the best to them.

People are jobless

A good number of young men that are paraded as armed robbers, cultists, rapists, kidnappers, unknown gunmen etc are innocent men that were taken from the streets.

It's not going to be easy, If in the household the 2 parents are working, monitoring would be near impossible.

It's because of things like this that I've made up my mind that my wife would take care of our children and keeping an eagle eye on them. Let me worry about how to put food on the table.

Ishilove:
O pari. My children will never watch this show, ever. This is so sad that this beautiful show that I grew up watching has finally been corrupted by this gay agenda being shoved down our throats.