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Well, there is no way of knowing if American men cheat openly and with abandon as their Nigerian counterparts. But the fact remains that they cheat.

Gerrard59:
Openly and in wanton abandon like their Nigerian counterparts? I beg to disagree.

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Biglittlelois:
We have cheating wives, it is happening and you know it, why aren't we saying it is natural for females to be polyandrous when we all know sexuality of men and women can be curbed?

The difference between male and female sexuality is self dignity and discipline which most of you don't have.

Lol. you have no idea how male and female sexuality works, if you did you would not have said the bolded

Biglittlelois:
Naturally? Pls give us graphical details and components of the human male that makes you naturally polygamous, and add pictural evidence while at it, because your premise also applies to women;

A woman can get all the sex she wants from her husband and still desire and lust after other men and young guys.
She might have sex with her husband today, tomorrow she sees another handsome sexy man and desires to have sex with him, until she is tired of having sex with him them looks for another man, all the while still having steady sex from her husband, that is why we have more cheating wives these days, so why are we not saying women are polyandrous in nature?

Lol well, we would not know if Nigerian actresses have taken it to a whole new level compared with their counterparts in the west and other countries.
But the fact remains that it is everywhere.

Arielle:
Please! Nigerian actresses have taken it to a whole new level. The acting profession was begining to get some dignity with people like Taiwo Ajayi-Lycett and Joke Silva. But these younger ones have given the profession a bad reputation. Flaunting billionaire lifestyles with no discernible source of income. Some are social media influencers and even business women but most are not. The reality tv ones who aspire to be actresses are the worst. That is one of the reasons these old farts we call politicians are so corrupt. And silly, impressionable young girls look up to them! Smh

With dedication and selflessness...

TONY042:
'Under the sun and in the rain ....'

Lol it is not only Nollywood Actresses, Bollywood, Hollywood, ghollywod etc. It is the same thing everywhere.

iamyemiakins:
Nollywood actresses and Clitocurrency

Majority of what you have said hinges on the premise, that the man's wife is giving him sex on demand. If that is the case, then, i can understand your argument about how many times a can realistically have sex with multiple women.

However, a man can get all the sex he wants from his wife and still desire and lust after other women and girls.

He might have sex with his wife today, tomorrow he sees another beautiful woman and desires to have sex with her, until he is tired of having sex with her them looks for another woman, all the while still having steady sex from his wife.

In the end it is about contentment and discipline, because whether you like it or not, men naturally are not suited to monogamy.

Jman06:
This is not true!

If we must state the truth, a man's nature is not such that allows him multiple sexual contact at a go nor in a day! I don't know how old you are or how many sexual encounters you've had, but believe me, I'm experienced enough to tell you the truth. How many rounds of sex can you realistically go and for how long before getting tired? Honestly answer that question and then you'll realize that nature never made you to be with multiple women.

Most men that cheat do that for the thrills, not really for the sex. Most of such men like going for the young girls just for the game of having to chase these girls and the thrills thereof.

I have been with girls that kept sugar daddies and I know that they don't get sexual satisfaction from such relationships. They eat these men's money and allow them feel that youthful thrills. The sex is usually nothing to write home about for the girls.

Another reason why men cheat, aside the thrills, is ego. Some men see it as an ego boost to frolic with as many women as they want. Some especially like having other men's wives for that same ego boosting effect. It gives them a false sense of superiority to bed other men's young wives. They may even be weak on bed, but would still chase people's wives to feel alpha. It's all psychological.

Also, being in an unhappy marriage is another factor. Many men are having it hot from their wives at home, so they seek happiness from other women outside.

On a final note, if a man is happily married to his kind of lady, is not egoistic, and is psychological balanced with a sound sense of judgement, he'll not cheat on his wife.

The bolded,
Not necessarily true. In the US and most of the West, a woman can file for divorce on the grounds of infidelity, yet American men still cheat.

Gerrard59:
There is a thin line between hypergamy and polygamy. My theory states that: "as long as women are hypergamous, men will continue to display polygamous tendencies". You cannot use hypergamy to get a man but expect him to be monogamous. If women are hypergamous, it is only fair that men should be polygamous. However, some men are faithful and stick to one partner, but they are a rarity - when discussing societal issues, you look at the majority.

Another reason our men cheat with wanton abandon is because there exist no consequences for their actions. Consequences here mean outright divorce solely based on infidelity. When people face consequences for ill-actions they make, such actions reduce or are made secret. Poverty, cultural and religious factors make the vast majority of women whose partners cheat remain with them even when they know their male partners cheat on them. Should the economic growth increase in Nigeria and women are included in the economy, there will be a high rate of divorce or women will decline to get married.

P.S. The bold does not negate women's hypergamous nature, rather it increases it.

Stranger things, breaking bad, better call Saul

bukatyne:
Not really the romance, but the angst.

Series such as?

Only the first episode of stranger things would have you hooked

bukatyne:
Stranger things

Even the name has discouraged me.

Asian dramas have the right mix for me.

Buhari is the type of leader Nigerians deserve. Buhari serves us right!

All these romance people. She said, "build up to the kissing scene". abegi!!!
I know some better series that would blow your mind. It would make you to keep coming back for more.

bukatyne:
I stumbled on 'Pretty Man' (C-Drama) and I love, love , love the first episode especially the build up to the kissing scene.

I loved the obvious conflict, restraint and decision to fall anyways.

So human, so perfectly done.

I hope the story leaves me with a good impression.

Lol, take a break from Korean drama and watch stranger things instead

bukatyne:
What series is this?

Sir, there is no excuse for jungle justice

Rave90:
Jungle justice is not right, but most times, it is necessitated due to the high level of distrust in the police.

You can't reason with a mob. A mob is just a collection of blood thirsty animals.

TOPCRUISE:
I don't know why people exhibiting jungle justice don't want to hear explanation from the other party

Sir, there is no excuse for jungle justice.

sixtuso:
You don't understand what they did, though jungle justice is bad but if you witness the under age kids they kidnapped you will not pity them. Those people are really cruel, and they might have been kidnapping kids before now.

Say no to jungle justice!!!!

Lol as old as she is, she doesn't want to retire? It looks like it is not only Nigerian politicians that like to die on seat.

pansophist:
She is 82

There is hunger in the land!

That Ozor himself na mumu

fman:
no be this banni wey ozor
Wan kee himself for bbnaija that yr.
These hoes ain't worth dying for

Okay, what I mean by finished at the top, is that Ronaldo's style of play is not what elite football clubs play anymore. If you read what Oliver Kahn the CEO of Bayern Munich said, "Ronaldo does not fit our philosophy"
Elite football clubs now play systematic pressing football, that is, you attack with 11 players(including the goalkeeper) and you defend with 11 players(including the striker)
In such systems, the striker is the person that hustles and presses the opposing team first. Can you imagine Ronaldo doing that?

To have Ronaldo in your team means that you have to compromise the systematic pressing football. Ralf Rangnick said it when he was at United. He said, "Cristiano Ronaldo is "not a pressing monster", according to Ralf Rangnick, who has admitted that Manchester United have had to compromise tactically to fit the veteran striker's style of play."

Your Bayern Munich, Chelsea, Man City, PSG etc all play system football so Ronaldo would not fit into their football system.
So, Ronaldo has to go to a lower club. That is what I mean by Ronaldo is finished at the top.

https://www.goal.com/en-in/news/cristiano-ronaldo-philosophy-man-utd-bayern-munich-transfer/blt0ace79bdd3fd0b6b

https://www.goal.com/en/news/ronaldo-is-not-a-pressing-monster-man-utd-compromise/bltc941281db8c547fc

Tobijays:
can I ask you a question? What do you mean by finished at the top? He is going to bag over 15 goals in any club he finds himself in ( I can bet anyone who thinks otherwise) he is old his wages is crazy and he definitely has only a year or 2 so why risked it when you can get a younger player!!! Moreover you need to understand that Ronaldo name is bigger than even Nigeria president it will attract attention every single time (his name is the biggest in all sports) every media attached his name to a piece of junk? Jorde mendes is only looking for a deal and his work is to announce that his player is available but press don ask every coach wey dy see about Ronaldo! just for news item. Ther is also a fiasco going on about Neymar but who knows, Messi too is in contract fiasco but nobody talks about it. Ther is no one other coaches have spoken more except Ronaldo and go check Fabrizo anytime he tweets about Ronaldo he pins it he doesn’t do that for anybody else except in case of Here will go

Lol. Please, give me a link to any reputable football website that gave the news that Chelsea tabled a bid for Ronaldo.

Gangster1ms:
But the news of clubs rejecting is true to you.. Comon getat, You're just a dumb hater

Lol. I won't stfu, and you can't shut me up.
You're the one that is frustrated, because you have bluntly refused to admit the truth.
FYI, Ronaldo is my GOAT, but let's face facts, no elite champions league club wants him.

Rumours on the pages of newspapers don't mean Jack.

How can man city want Ronaldo, is Ronaldo a Guardiola player?

Face the reality, Ronaldo is finished at the top.

Tobijays:
you talking shit PSG wanted him then and mancity debruyne even gave a speech on his page so STFU if you know nothing asin all of you using Ronaldo to show your frustration that your goat is dead killed by mbappe but it is not your fault why go manu for Bleep sakes

Lol. Chelsea never tabled any bid. Todd Bohely had a meeting with Ronaldo's agent. A meeting doesn't equate to a bid.

Gangster1ms:
Chelsea but man utd don't want to sell to Premier League rivals

Lol. Please name one club that has tabled a bid for Ronaldo. Just one please.

Gangster1ms:
Facts are, man utd don't want to sell.
Stick to your 6 league goal man

Lol. Bro United is not holding Ronaldo. No big club wants him. There is nothing United can do.

Heimdal:
The earlier United let this guy go the better. he knows he only has some few good months left to play.
Lose the old timer, count your losses and move on.

Lol. I seriously doubt that SAF was at that meeting.
Ronaldo has no power over man United, he has no leverage. No big champions league club wants him.
United are doing the right thing by insisting that Ronaldo is not for sale. Why?
So as to strengthen their hand when negotiating with a club that might be interested in buying Ronaldo. If the club that wants to buy Ronaldo knows that United don't want to sell, the club would be forced to put more money on the table to make United reconsider.
But unfortunately for Ronaldo, no big champions league club has shown serious interest in him.

Angelfrost:
Wait.... Were they actually begging him to stay back?!!

I understand that Ferguson doesn't want the progress of that club so that they can keep worshipping him as the only true successful one, but Erik Ten Hag should know better na.

Ole had already considerably moved these guys beyond this level till Ororo returned to disrupt everything... Abeg, allow the great player to move on!

Lol. Okay, I would be waiting for that shock.

Sweetplum:
You ll be shocked with the name of the big club he's going to play for. It ll shock you more than when you realise Messi is no more in Barcelona

Atletico Madrid have rejected a chance to sign him.

Basicend:
He needs to understand that he is no longer in his prime years and humble himself.

Why are no big clubs fighting for him?

Look, if athletico can afford him, then that's an escape otherwise he should target MLS or Chinese league.

The facts are, no big club wants him

Gangster1ms:
How do you know that no big clubs are fighting for him or are you listening to nonsense rumours for the sake of agenda?

Ronaldo is rubbishing himself.