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Are you sure about that?

1Sharon:
There is no divorce in the Bible.

Lol, so the original comment was ok. It is noble to divorce a promiscuous woman than to live with her.

1Sharon:
Kill her as the Bible commands.

Best answer so far, IMO

CharisEleos:
Many are not true Christians but church goers. so dont get it twisted.

A true born again who understands and sees marriage from Gods own perspective will never consider divorce no matter the challenges.

Marry a true born again Christian. Not a church goer. Na Dem full church today.

What do you mean by "give yourself"?

Saintmary:
Subjection of women can never be the solution, go and see threads made by people from predominantly Muslim countries, and see the deep resentment expressed by their women for the concept of polygamy and infidelity. You'll see that they hate it, but they are expressing it the wrong way.

This is the thread
https://www.polygamy.com/articles/75131698/why-does-a-man-look-for-a-second-wife

I'll suggest you move your thread to religion section so you can get more contributors.
Since you're so adamant on getting answers, I'll oblige you.

Christian marriages are crashing because they are engaged in by people who profess Christianity by mouth alone, not in deed.
The Bible said the man should love his wife just as Christ loves the Church and gave Himself for it.
How many men can give themselves for a woman who has done them no favour?
The trick is to love first, then the woman will submit to you, but these crop of men expect women to take the place of Christ in their lives and give themselves to them, that is the wrong way.
If you desire to be the head of your woman, just like Christ is the head of the Church and the church is submitted to Christ and adores Him, give yourself.

True. But what if she starts after marriage?

1Sharon:
Why marry her in the 1st place?

Why are you taking issues with what he said?

DenreleDave:
Davash222 aka kriss216


Will you shut up guy?

U r too unreasonable.. You just bash women and its becoming like a sickness to you....


Do you even have a job instead of always looking for FTC on nairaland?

So appalling.... Better do sumtin with ur life and stop this women hate.... I hope u weren't responsible for ur mother's death..

Never seen Sumone so irritating like you on nairaland.... Bashing women for the sake of getting likes and shares, or u r forming to be an Alpha too?

If you are an alpha too, I rather be a simp than be an alpha with this ur stupid mentality..

Gtfo

Good question.

In other words, many marriages aren't even Christian marriages to begin with?

bukatyne:
What is your definition of a Christian marriage?

Atiku Abubakar is the personification of opportunity comes but once. In his case its opportunity comes but twice.

Co ask oh!

UDUJ:
And that justifies wanting to kill the employer?

your wife might want a house help

UDUJ:
Househelps

Nah I'm good, still young and virile. I enjoy cooking and cleaning my house myself.

This is just silly.

FuturionMedia:
I fear who no fear woman

That is not poverty mentality.

People who sweat and earn their money legitimately don't throw it away for fun.

SportsHD:
Why can't it be legit money?
So, I can't take maybe, 20k outta the lord's blessings in my accounts, change it to crisp 200 naira notes and spray it?
20k that I'll probably make times 5 of it in binance at a go.
Poverty mentality is bad bro.

Co ask oh!

illicit:
What's the point of throwing hard earned legit money in the air

i find it hard to believe that people who sweat and earn money legitimately would causally throw their money away.

HillarySnow:
Bro, the world has gone digital. Lots of young online millionaires out there that are legit.
High professional digital skills been paying students since 1900.

This is one of the things Reno Omokri speaks against.

It is okay to be cautious of this story. But it is possible that the story is real. A good number of young men in Nigerian prisons are innocent. In 2016 2017 on twitter i was following an activist named Segalinks. He was the first person to start endsars. This was due to the level of arrests and frame ups that were being perpetuated by Sars operatives. The stories that came to light because of Segalinks activism were unbelievable.

If you hear stories, many of them sounded unbelievable, but sadly many of them were true. There was a story about a guy, this happened in Abj, the police just picked him and framed him for a murder, that was committed by the son of a politician. He was lucky that his story came to light, if not he would have been in prison for crime he did not commit.
There is another story about a tailor who closed late from his shop and went to another shop and was watching Champions league with 2
other boys, police entered the shop arrested them claiming they were armed robbers.

In March 2020, Premium times released a 3 part investigative report on the happenings in detention centers in Lagos and the collusion of lawyers, judges and prison officers. Below are the links. I pray that you don't cry as you read the report.

https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/380327-justice-for-sale-i-inside-lagos-polices-fraudulent-detention-centre.html

https://www.premiumtimesng.com/investigationspecial-reports/381626-justice-for-sale-ii-extortion-injustice-prevails-in-lagos-courts.html

https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/382268-investigation-justice-for-sale-iii-how-court-clerks-prison-warders-others-extort-hapless-victims.html

Tovard:
Sincerely speaking I don't believe this story!

Even though I don't trust the ways and manners these EFCC guys operates, there must have been an atom of distrust or element of doubt about their personalities!

They can proceed to legal action against EFCC. It is against their fundamental human rights as a citizen to be labelled criminals in the cost of finding!

I feel for them... because their future is dented already.

bukatyne:
I would rather you say what's on your mind/how you feel very often.

Love wan ti ti

Anything that i don't want to do

Hear! hear!!

Jones4190:
Recently i come to realize something about life that life itself is a form of suffering. The rich suffer because of their riches. the poor suffer because of their poverty. People without family suffer because they have no family. People with family suffer because of their family. People who pursue worldly pleasure suffer because of their worldly pressure. People who who abstain from worldly pressure suffer because of their abstention.
This isn't to say that all suffering is equal. Some suffering is certainly more painful than others suffering but we all must suffer nonetheless.

Lol based on this picture?

You might be a victim of propaganda.

Look for the other pictures they took together.

FarahAideed:
This girl doesn't look comfortable around this dude but I might be wrong

The more the US continues to use its dollar(which is a world reserve currency) to abuse and strong arm other countries, the more other countries would continue to facilitate the use of another currency most likely the yuan as a reserve currency.

Lol. Typical American hypocrisy.

Nbotee:
I don't understand what the uproar is about.. The Taliban were the ones ruling Afghanistan for years until America attacked the country in search of Bin Laden and removed the Taliban. Now the Taliban is back after America withdrew it's forces so what's the uproar about? Clearly the country doesn't want the western system of govt. The country had always been an Islamic nation so I wonder why everyone is making a fuss about it

Congratulations to them.

Not true

TechNana:
Someone once said the Pakistans now are formerly call philistines... Is this true?

Meanwhile we never stop learning, join this tutorial class on VFL today as this informations has never been revealed on the internet...

https://www.nairaland.com/6705451

At least your friend realises how bad things can get for a man abroad. He also realises how different their thinking and attitude towards family is.

There is no place like home.

The bolded,

LIES!!

America was not forced to do anything. And America did not invade afghanistan because of the Taliban's human rights record. They invaded for other motives.

America went to Afghanistan 20 years ago to defeat the forces that attacked this country on September 11th. That mission resulted in the death of Osama bin Laden over a decade ago and the degradation of al Qaeda.

https://www.whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/statements-releases/2021/08/14/statement-by-president-joe-biden-on-afghanistan/

milann:
Extremist group Taliban says it will allow women access to education as it continues to advance with its plot to take over government from Afghan President Ashraf Ghani.

TRT World Now reports that Taliban spokesperson Suhail Shaheen said the insurgent’s government would respect
the rights of women.

He also disclosed that the insurgents will allow women access to work, adding that punishments like executions, amputations and stoning will be at the discretion of courts.

“Rights of women will be respected – They will have access to education, work – They will be allowed to leave homes alone – Punishments like executions, stonings, amputations up to courts,” Mr Shaheen was quoted by TRT World to have said.

Peoples Gazette had earlier reported that Taliban fighters entered the city of Kabul on Sunday, demanding the unconditional surrender of the central government.

In the report, The Gazette disclosed that Mr Ghani will abdicate in the next few hours after the Taliban came into the city limits.

The extremist group has made major advances across Afghanistan as the U.S. and other countries started withdrawing their troops from the country. The original date for the full withdrawal of U.S. forces in Afghanistan was September 11, to mark the 20th anniversary of the 9/11 attacks.

The group has taken over most of southern, northern and western Afghanistan.

Mazar-i-Sharif, the capital of Balkh province and the biggest city in the north, fell to the Taliban on Saturday, as regional leaders and security forces abandoned the
city fleeing to Uzbekistan for safety.

While in charge of Afghanistan in the 1990s, the Taliban’s government was characterised by systematic violations against the rights of women and girls.

The U.S. government was forced to seize power from the insurgents in 2001 after series of human rights abuses including executions; and extreme suppression of freedom of religion, expression, and education was recorded under the Taliban rule.

However, in 2020, U.S. and the Taliban entered a truce, outlining a phased withdrawal of U.S. forces from Afghanistan in exchange for Taliban commitments to restrain from attacks on the U.S. or its allies from Afghan territory.

As negotiations advanced, Human Rights Watch in 2020 highlighted the need to address issues bothering on fundamental human rights, with special focus on the rights of women and girls; education; freedom of expression and the media.

https://gazettengr.com/afghanistan-taliban-government-to-allow-education-for-women/

Life is not a race.

Lol how would they show US shege?

Authoreety:
Not surprised... This guy's are preparing to show USA shege