₦airaland Forum

bukatyne:
How people celebrate divorce that is the failure of a marriage is baffling.

You know that smile or laugh that we normally laugh when we are embarrassed in public, to hide our embarrassment?
That's what is happening.

paul100:
Why are some men like this?A good 8yrs wasted.Pls if you are a man,stop doing things to a woman that you will never allow a guy do to your sister.This also applies to women.

Is the woman a baby that can't think for herself?

What kind of woman insults her late mother in law?

you are just projecting

descarado:
No single advantage in this present Nigeria at all.
It's full time house wife that breeds arrogant and over ego bloated men. Men that see their wives underneath them

It's full time housewife that trained our male kids not to enter kitchen, it's for the girls cos that what she was told when growing up and she abides by it.
It's full time housewife that think that the beginning and end of every woman is marriage and raising kids.
It's full time housewife that made our men love the Bible and the Koran only quoting where it suits them.
It's full time housewife that made women to accept all manner of insane treatments meted on them by hubands and family cos she is fully dependent on their son for survival.
That you are a full time housewife does not make you a good mother.

If the man will stoop low and see marriage and kids upbringing as joint venture, who will talk about full time housewife?

Those boys full time housewife trained will then marry and expect their wives to be like their mum. Always at their beck and call. Do you blame them, no. Rather blame full time house wives.

The reason I strongly blame the rot we have in our society on women.
You allowed yourself to be dehumanised because marriage is all for you, your male kids are watching.
I wonder how you want them to treat their wives.
Indoctrination start from the home.

Tomorrow you start crying your husband is abusive and a cheat when you gave him the power and control. Goodluck to you all.

I stayed at home for a period cos of sensitive pregnancies and I still struck a bargain while doing that. I still have streams of income( make more money than when working) but as soon as the coast was clear, I started work again.
No joy like being your own madam. Making your own money no matter how small.
But due to the rubbish we do and call it dating, we all believe its the man's job to take care of the woman. Who told you that?
Go out there and make your money and quit relying on any man. Lazy lots with the excuse of full time housewives.

Well said.

Layormiii:
This lady in my office resumed from maternity leave after 3months and was dropping her 3months baby at day care.
She would always take excuse to go breastfeed or check on her baby.. later she started coming late, or closing early, the excuse was about her baby.. maybe running temperature of teething etc . And then she started missing days, she would only send text messages to say her baby is sick so she wants to take care of her today.

Everyone started noticing her absence and lack of attention to work.

There was a time her daughter was terribly sick and refuse to eat anything except brssstttmilk or except her mum feed her . Anti was bringing her to work o.. customer service officer o. She brought small baby mattress and would lay her down. We all saw that d baby was truly sick and honestly I pitied her too. When baby is awake she will beg a colleague to help carry her and play with her.

Finally Sha, HR had to call her and tell her to take voluntary leave for some time. She said she would resign.. that she cannot imagine loosing her baby because of a job. And she has not really have time for her baby and give her all the care that she needed. That everyone around her is even insulting her for picking a job over taking care of her baby. She wasn't happy about it but she had to resign that week so she can focus on her child.

Honestly It broke my heart. But it's understandable.
Full House wife oo, working mum o, 9 -5 office mum oo, carear mum o. none is easy.

They all require determination, hard work and sacrifices of course.
Just do you and do that one that works for you. If you leave in Lagos you will know it's not easy atall

Well said.

pansophist:
Even if there are disadvantages of being a housewife, the advantage outweighs the disadvantage if a woman marries a good man. The kind a man a woman should marry is one decision that a woman should never take likely, and must get it right.

But it's good for a woman to be able to make her own money, it's what responsible adult do.

You have said it all. I was thinking of typing something Similar

UyaiIncomparabl:
The fact that a woman is a housewife doesn’t mean she is jobless and/or a liability as you people call it. Being a housewife is a job on its own. Do you know what it means to take care of the kids, cook and tend to the home affairs? Do you understand the monotony that accompanies the role of a housewife? Do you know that being a housewife is more monotonous than your regular 9-5 job?

A housewife is a homemaker and as well a home manager. And if she's a competent and energetic one, that's perfect.

Do you understand that a HOUSEWIFE can as well make money from home too? Do you know some housewives live better and more quality lives than you that run the usual rat race of trying to meet up to society's standard of being a career and industrious woman?

In totality, this means that she is likely to have a better home than her counterparts who are always out of the home because she is always present at the home front and for the kids.

For me, there are no DISADVANTAGES.

Side note; you are allowed to have your opinion(s). Don't force yours on me or make me see reasons why your reasons are superior to mine. And if you say that housewives are being maltreated or cheated on, then Ataga's wife should have been adored and been made a monumental piece of worship by her husband. If you marry a man who's conscientious, kind and humane, you will know peace. Working-class or not, you will be disgraced and trampled upon by a man who doesn't understand how to treat a woman right. The advantages and disadvantages depends on the kind of man you married. Please, let people do whatever works for them.

Housewives dey and housewives dey, abek.

No need someone has already answered me.

Aboks:
Check Google

that is their interpretation of Islam.

Mad and sick people everywhere. He might even running from some people that is why he disguised himself as a woman. It is not the first time that men have disguised as women to escape their pursuers.

Thank you.

Egein:
Essence, I think.
Formerly with Kennis Music.

Do you know the name of the lady that sang the song?

Aboks:
THIS IS SUPERSTORY, A LIFE OF STRIFE AND SORROW,
THIS IS SUPERSTORY OF GOOD FOOD AND HOUSING, FOR THE FISHES DROWN AND EVEN DIE OF THIRST ,
THIS IS SUPER STORY A LIFE OF PRECIOUS STONES AND GOOD TASTE ,
THIS IS SUPERSTORY
THIS IS SUPERSTORY EEE EEAHH!
THIS IS SUPERSTORY,
THIS IS SUPERSTORY , STORY

Leadership is not by certificate

Cancer is not a sexually transmitted disease.

orohbiro:
Good day fellow nairalanders am here to save lot of persons from impending destructions some folks are ignorant about sex they sees it as fun and nothing more, some enjoying it in their area , place of works, brothels, and so many other places.
Sex is more deep as you see it sick can be transfer spiritually if u like use 10 condoms it will still penetrate to your body. Any girl u sleep with u became one Flesh with her or any guy u sleep with u become one flesh with him.

If that person has sickness in his body even if u use condoms it will still penetrate, if that person is having problem sleeping at night it also apply down to u also all the demons in that person body will also come down to your body. The worst guys are those who go to Brothels to sleep with someone u don't know is background someone that has been filled with lot of demons and it will now be pass and transfer to u .

Fornication has send billions of people to the great beyond. That y is good to marry early pre marital sex kills it brings
Cancer, HIV.syphlilis, bad luck, mental problem, and keep the holy spirit far from u .

Is better to smoke weed or be a drunkard than be having sex with different humans u know nothing about. The only thung worst than sleeping around for me is virtual betting.

If you know the implications about sex u will run from it a word is enough for the wise.
If you must have sex it must be with your wives anything apart from it sorry. And if u have already guilty of what am preaching just go for deliverance we serve a merciful God . thanks

you have good taste.

bukatyne:
I would only visit cousin.

This is good. Who owns the facility? How would it be maintained? How and what is their economic model?

A road constructed by the federal govt.
Buhari(if he even knows about it) would be thinking that he has done wonderfully well, by constructing that road, not knowing that it was a shoddy work that was done, and money was embezzled.

Who is going to be held responsible for such shoddy work? No one. Buhari would say he budgeted money for it, federal ministry of agriculture would say, they sent the money to the account general to approve, account general would say the money was approved and sent to the contractors, the contractor would say what he was paid was not enough and so on.

Buhari can not be in Abj and know what is happening in Edo state, it just can't work.

This is why we must restructure Nigeria to let the federating units have control over their regions.

Doctors are really trying, especially Nigerian doctors. Kudos to them.

Lol being on call is similar any where in the world. The most likely difference is that the doctor to patient ratio is better in western countries.

DropsMic:
Doctors wey remain for Nigeria are those wey just graduate newly wey go soon Japa and those wey don tire to dey write PLAB test... The really good ones don Japa tey tey.

Virtually all my medical friends are now practicing abroad. Even those wey been dey form patriotism when reality hit them, them sef Japa.

PrinceOfLagos:
Why she always frowning like she not in love with the guy

Forced marriage ?

Why are you only seeing the pictures where she's not smiling?

Well I'm not a fan of sarcasm.

Klass99:
Smh and lol , please learn to discern sarcasm.

Yes, I do recall such a thread.

Lol, one of my own? You make it sound like we have a group or something.

Whoever said that a men's penis controls men is wrong absolutely wrong.

It's his own opinion but it is a wrong opinion.

Also, if you Klass99 believe such and its a logical conclusion for you, then you shouldn't have any qualms when some men rape women and blame it on uncontrollable penis.

Please be reasonable.

Klass99:
Please where is Efficiencie & Angelfallz?

Do you both recall the thread where I asked this question? - "Are you saying the human dick has a mind of its own and it controls its owners? You're the logical gender o, how can a small part of your entire being be ruling you like this nah?"

One of your own, just confirmed that the prick cannot be controlled. Meaning the prick controls its owners, that's a very logical conclusion if you ask me .

Please direct me to the passage that says so.

Saintmary:
The Bible, have you read it today?

Look at them, challenging the scriptures because it does not suit them.

I suggest you realign yourself and profess exactly what your Faith is, because a lot of people will suffer through the tribulation coming and still not measure up to make heaven.
Double tragedy.

Interesting. You're confirming my suspicions.

Emotionss:
Its quite understandable that I lot of people find it hard to believe the kind of shadow Sexual perversion that is taking place all around us. Only few people around the globe get to witness or experience such level of perversions.

I get to know the marital status of this women and the occupation of their husbands/boyfriends because it is part of my job. (Those in shadow business will understand)

Our club is a SHADOW CLUB Meant for PRIVATE and Highly INFLUENTIAL personalities. And yes we have 3 of such clubs in Nigeria...

Not Believing the existence of shadow clubs in Nigeria and the level of Sexual perversion taking place there on a monthly basis is of no concern to me.

The only reason I posted some of this things on this thread is to let you guys know there's a possibility that, that your BEAUTIFUL graduate/undergraduate of a girlfriend is probably a SEX slave to some Shadow guy.

So while you're hustling to make your woman happy and comfortable, she is probably a regular visitor to a sex club where she Ride many diccks knowing fully well she has a glorified SIMP that will accept the left overs.

Abeg unna good night.

Lol. And who said, it is only one partner that should give themselves?

Saintmary:
If you can take the time to meditate prayerfully on what Christ has done by sacrificing Himself for all sinners, and becoming the mediator through whom all genuine and fake Christians hope to enter Paradise, then you'll understand what it means to give yourself.
You give yourself not only TO your partner, but primarily, you give yourself FOR your partner.

how old was regina daniels when she married Ned nwoko?

Terrence99:
Taliban wife.
Underage girl married an old Alhaji because of money, her mother now married an underage boy because of sex.

I wonder what their family meeting will look like.

Lol. There is nothing to argue about with my ancestors they are all resting in peace.

You have refused to answer my question. Let me repeat it in case you did not see it before, 'How did what that guy say bash or demonize women?'

You created a nice a topic and question, but instead of engaging your respondents constructively, you took issues with what one of them said, based on your own assumption.

DenreleDave:
Pls argue with ur ancestors.... Mm

i have not seen this news in any of the newspapers i visit online.

Guy, his past posts is not the contention here.

DenreleDave:
Do u support demonizing and bashing women

If No, check his past post

If yes, don't worry

okay, so how did what he said bash ladies?

DenreleDave:
How does my post demonize women like he is doing..

I did nt create this post to bash ladies....


Sefini

Lol, its normal. the bridegroom whispering to his bride.

kestolove95:
yusuf and his wife have started gossiping already