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 Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Are You Unemployed Or Even Underemployed? Please Come In by AngelSlay(op): 11:39am On Oct 27, 2025 |
We are recruiting to fill the position below: Job Title: Accountant Location: Ogun State Employment Type: Full-time Job Summary We are seeking a detail-oriented and experienced Accountant to manage all financial operations, including budgeting, reporting, auditing, and compliance. The ideal candidate will provide accurate financial insights to support management decisions and ensure smooth financial processes. Key Responsibilities Prepare and maintain accurate financial records and reports. Manage accounts payable, receivable, and reconciliations. Handle tax computation, filings, and statutory compliance. Prepare monthly and annual financial statements. Develop and monitor budgets and forecasts. Liaise with auditors, tax authorities, and financial institutions. Requirements B.Sc. in Accounting, Finance, or a related field. Professional certification (ICAN/ACCA) is an added advantage. 5–7 years of experience in accounting, preferably in FMCG. Proficiency in accounting software and strong analytical skills. Excellent attention to detail and integrity. Salary N350,000 - N400,000 per month. Application Closing Date 30th November, 2025. How To Apply Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV to: info.detconsultingltd@gmail.com using the job title as subject of the mail. |
| Investment › Re: Eight Investing Lessons From The World’s Ultra-Rich by AngelSlay: 9:13am On Oct 27, 2025 |
Invest in stocks Money Mutual funds for savings FG savings bonds for professional exams and children school fee REITs for your rent Crypto 2% of your networth Nigeria Treasury bills for emergency 7 Likes |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Jobs with accommodation or House �️ hunters by AngelSlay(op): 8:19am On Oct 27, 2025 |
SMJay:Thank you! |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: The Hidden Kill Switch: A Global Conspiracy by AngelSlay(op): 8:16am On Oct 27, 2025 |
motayoayinde:What?! This is exactly what and why China doesn't use anything western. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by AngelSlay: 9:35pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
You're free to live how you want. But understand: Relationships built on manipulation rarely lead to anything meaningful. Constantly being a “side guy” might seem fun now, but it often leaves people empty in the long run — because there's no trust, no depth, just cycles of use and escape. If that’s all you want — cool. But don't pretend it's something noble or wise. It's just one way to live. It has its pros and cons. You’re not wrong that many “main boyfriends” get played. But being the side guy doesn’t make you immune — it just makes you a different kind of tool in the game. Be real with yourself about what you're offering, what you're getting, and what this lifestyle costs you in the long run. Goo0dHardDick: 34 Likes 3 Shares |
| Family › Re: What Do You Think I Should Do by AngelSlay: 9:32pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
muyico:N1250 a month  for rent for a space that's complete rip off plus if the area is fast developing. This is 2025 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: What Do You Think I Should Do by AngelSlay: 9:31pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
The man watching the land wants to use you to gain access to your property. Please follow these steps carefully: 1. Verify Shop Rates: Find out how much shops are rented for in that area. 2. Set a Fair Rent: Offer them half the market price. For example, if shops rent for ₦10,000 monthly (₦1.2 million yearly), you can charge ₦600,000 per year or less. 3. Written Agreement: Ensure a written agreement is prepared and signed. The agreement must clearly state that no construction or permanent structures are allowed on the land. Include a clause that allows you to terminate (quit) the agreement at any time without prior notice. Make sure the agreement fully protects your ownership rights. 4. Identification: Collect their NIN and/or a valid means of identification before finalizing anything. 5. Payment: All payments should be made directly into your personal account, not to the man watching the land. N15k is a complete rip off , how much farm for rent in a year and it obvious the man watching the land is not to be trusted because we have seen people take people's land. 9 Likes |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Seun, What's Happening To Nairaland's Official Page? by AngelSlay: 9:19pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
chatinent:The rule of business is maximize profit and reduce cost. How would he pay the person? Are you interested in volunteering for the role? |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: UI/UX Designer (remote – Immediate Start) by AngelSlay: 5:07pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
MaroIlaye:Let him apply or you think they would reach to the number when you have an email to send your application |
| Family › Re: Help, A Shameless And Promiscuous Woman Is Tearing My Family Apart by AngelSlay: 8:09am On Oct 21, 2025 |
You’re not trying to change him (he may be too far gone in denial or manipulation). You're: Making sure he hears how his actions have impacted the family. Asserting your boundaries clearly and calmly. Making one effort to preserve your sibling connection. Creating a record (if needed later) that you voiced concerns about his choices and her interference. What to Prepare Before the Talk Decide what you want from him: Not apologies, but maybe fair treatment, less interference with siblings, or a plan for the future. Have one or two concrete examples of what hurt you and why — not to accuse, but to make it real. Know your line: What you will not tolerate going forward (e.g., her disciplining your siblings, controlling communication, etc.). How to Frame the Conversation You want to stay calm, not because he deserves it, but because it keeps you in control. Here’s a structure: Open Calmly “Dad, I want to talk to you about how things have been since Mum died. I’m not here to argue or disrespect you. I just want to say a few things plainly before I move forward with my own life.” Set Emotional Truth- “Losing Mum was already hard enough. But seeing how fast everything changed — the new woman coming in, how things at home feel off, how she’s taking over — it’s been painful. For me and for my siblings.” Share What’s Not OK “It feels like we’ve been pushed aside while someone else has taken over — not just in your life, but in ours. She's not our mum, and we don't want her in that role. It’s disrespectful to Mum’s memory and to us.” “She’s crossing boundaries — staying too long, trying to act like she has authority over us, and turning you against your own children. That’s not right.” Define Your Boundary “I’m moving out soon to protect my peace. I won’t accept being mistreated or manipulated, and I won’t be part of any family dynamic where my siblings are being sidelined or emotionally neglected.” “I’ll still be there for my siblings and I’ll step in if I need to. But I need you to understand I’m not going to pretend this is normal or okay.” Final Point “You’re an adult and you can live how you want — but so am I. And I get to choose how I respond to how you treat us. If this woman is going to be part of your life, she needs to stay in her lane.” “We only get one family. I hope you’ll think about what that’s supposed to mean, because I won’t chase after you to remind you.” natedensel:After You Move Out: Navigating Boundaries Once you’re out, your control increases. But you’ll want to stay grounded and intentional. Here’s how: 1. No more casual visits or small talk Only engage with your dad on specific matters: your siblings’ well-being, financial issues, or estate matters. Example boundary text: “Dad, I won’t be coming around just to ‘hang out’ anymore. If there’s something important to discuss, I’m here — otherwise I’m keeping my space.” 2. Protect communication with your siblings Keep private communication channels open: group chats, voice notes, scheduled check-ins. If the woman is interfering, address it directly: “I don’t want her relaying messages or inserting herself between me and my siblings. That’s family business.” 3. Document everything calmly If she starts trying to control siblings’ choices, punish them unfairly, or manipulate finances, document it and keep backup. This helps if you ever need to involve child protection services or challenge any estate decisions later. 4. Make an exit plan for your siblings (if needed) Depending on their age, you might want to: Help them access therapy or school counselors. Store important documents (birth certs, IDs, etc.) with you. Have an emergency contact system if things escalate at home. If He Reacts Badly He might get defensive, angry, or deny everything. That’s OK. You only need to say: “I didn’t come here to argue. I came to speak my truth. If you’re not willing to hear it, that’s your choice. But I said what I needed to.” Then walk away — with your power intact. You don’t owe your father tolerance of disrespect or manipulation. You don’t have to accept this woman in your life, let alone your family. But you do have the right to: Speak your truth. Protect your siblings. Leave when you're ready — and do it without guilt. |
| Family › Re: Help, A Shameless And Promiscuous Woman Is Tearing My Family Apart by AngelSlay: 8:02am On Oct 21, 2025 |
dauntless15:Yes I am a therapist. |
| Family › Re: Help, A Shameless And Promiscuous Woman Is Tearing My Family Apart by AngelSlay: 9:28pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
This moment in your life — as ugly, unfair, and heartbreaking as it is — won’t define the rest of your story. Families break, people fail us, and love can feel hijacked, but your identity is not wrapped up in your father's failures or this woman's presence. Your role now is to: Protect your own heart. Stay emotionally available to your siblings. Choose peace over revenge — not because she deserves peace, but because YOU do. You are showing more maturity, emotional intelligence, and strength than most adults would in this situation. And that says something powerful about who you're becoming — not in spite of this, but because of it. If you ever want help planning how to talk to your dad (if that’s a road you want to take), or help navigating boundaries after you move out, I’ve got you. You're not alone in this. natedensel: 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Fact!!! by AngelSlay: 8:53pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
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| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Worst Interview Experience? What Happened? by AngelSlay: 8:49pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
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| Romance › Re: Tell Us About Your Near Death Experience If You Have Any (NDE). by AngelSlay: 8:48pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
Had a sweet babe in school. One guy was always lashing her from Ibadan. Banker. I was the assistant boyfriend. He pays the bills while I shine her Congo on his behalf. During holidays she went to stay with mister banker. Me went home jejely. Met one sweet imo lady. Helped her to shine her Congo just once ooooo. I returned to school later only for her to contact me that the once I shined he Congo has turned to belle oooooo. Somehow steady babe knew. She kept quiet until after graduation. On My send forth night she took me to a bar and rummed to the fullest. As in I drank to stupor. On getting home I just logged off. I have this attitude of laying still after waking up. I don't move immediately. I'll first observe My surrounding even with my eyes closed. Somehow I woke up that night. Normally if I guzzle na till tomorrow but this night I woke up. Felt someone straddled over me. My brother na this babe o. With knife over My chest. She was telling me that when I come back next time I get to earth I won't ever cheat on her again. The kind push I give her Ehn. Rushed to turn on the light. She had this crazed look on her face. Knife poised. Ready to strike. Stark naked. The babe wan kill me japa. I just dey beg. As I dey beg I dey shout. As I dey shout I dey dodge knife. I managed to hold her from behind before My neighbours barged in. Them follow me beg. Say make I swear with candle say I go marry her, blah, blah blah. As them dey say"you shibaraba do solemnly swear" I dey change am to "me shibaraba do solemly sweat " Na una go marry mad woman. Next morning I tell her say I wan go buy ingredients cook for her. Na there I pass go Lagos. I took nothing. Na she kuku buy everything. Till date I never see her. We talk on phone but it ends there. Still not married and no relationship. Her temper na dynamite. Funniest thing be say if she kill me I for die Sara death. Her papa was one big man for akure that year. |
| Romance › Re: Dear Nigerian Ladies by AngelSlay: 8:45pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
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| Family › Re: Only A Fool Becomes A Second Wife. by AngelSlay: 8:39pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
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| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Are You Unemployed Or Even Underemployed? Please Come In by AngelSlay(op): 4:08pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
We are Hiring! Content Creator/Social Media Manager at a premium mobility, private security & logistics company in Lekki, Lagos. 💼 Hybrid role | ₦200,000/month We’re looking for a creative, organized, and consistent storyteller who can create content and connect with audiences across Instagram, TikTok, and other platforms. You should have an eye for trends, visuals, and premium brand tone. Apply here: https:///6jA75zEFoq3p5BX27 |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: UI/UX Designer (remote – Immediate Start) by AngelSlay: 4:07pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
We are Hiring! Content Creator/Social Media Manager at a premium mobility, private security & logistics company in Lekki, Lagos. 💼 Hybrid role | ₦200,000/month We’re looking for a creative, organized, and consistent storyteller who can create content and connect with audiences across Instagram, TikTok, and other platforms. You should have an eye for trends, visuals, and premium brand tone. Apply here: https:///6jA75zEFoq3p5BX27 |
| Celebrities › Re: I’d Rather Be Rich & Based In Lagos Than Anywhere In The World,’ - Blord Odumodu by AngelSlay: 5:21pm On Oct 18, 2025 |
Totally fair that you'd choose Lagos—there’s a raw, electric energy there that’s hard to replicate anywhere else. But let’s keep it real with a counterpoint, just to balance the scales: Sure, being rich in Lagos comes with perks—access, influence, opportunity—but even wealth can’t fully insulate you from some very real issues: Noise pollution is relentless. Whether it’s generators humming, street preachers with megaphones at 6 a.m., or blaring car horns in traffic that’s not even moving, silence is a luxury that barely exists. Cleanliness? In many parts of the city, it’s a serious problem. Piles of uncollected waste, open drains, and the constant smell of diesel or burning trash aren’t things you can always escape, even behind high gates. Roads—especially outside of a few select areas—can be brutal. Flooding, potholes, and impassable traffic jams turn even short distances into stressful missions. Riff raffs and general security issues are another reality. You’re constantly navigating a city where class divides are sharp and resentment simmers just beneath the surface. The fear of being targeted doesn’t vanish with a bigger bank account. And disregard for neighbors or community rules is often normalized. Loud parties, building violations, encroachments—people do what they want, and enforcement is minimal, especially if you're “connected.” So yeah, Lagos has a heartbeat that’s addictive, but even wealth doesn't buy you peace of mind in a city that never truly settles down. It’s a trade-off—vibrancy for comfort, chaos for charm. Not everyone’s willing to make it. press9jatv: |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: ICC Rejects Israel's appeal To Void Arrest Warrant On PM Netanyahu & Gallant by AngelSlay: 5:16pm On Oct 18, 2025 |
The Hidden Kill Switch: A Global Conspiracy One of the most shocking revelations he exposed was that the United States had secretly embedded failure and destruction mechanisms within critical infrastructure projects built overseas. Through private American companies — not official government contractors — the U.S. allegedly ensured that key systems in other nations could be remotely disabled or destroyed at will. According to this claim, whenever a foreign government turned hostile, independent, or simply refused to install a U.S.-friendly administration, Washington held the ultimate leverage — a hidden off switch built into the very backbone of that nation’s power grids, telecom networks, or water systems. Think about it: how many “mysterious” breakdowns or accidents across South America, Africa, and Asia could have been the silent hand of these covert mechanisms? How many governments were punished for refusing to bow to U.S. influence — not through wars or sanctions, but through the quiet destruction of their infrastructure from within? Even more disturbing, he revealed how major tech giants — Microsoft, Apple, and others — cooperated with U.S. intelligence agencies, building hidden backdoors into their software and devices. These backdoors allegedly gave the NSA unrestricted access to global data: private communications, government secrets, and real-time tracking of millions of devices worldwide. This wasn’t limited to American citizens. It was global espionage, powered by the very tools people use every day. Your phone, your computer, your cloud account — all potentially gateways for surveillance and control. Now it makes sense why countries like Russia, China, and India have banned or heavily restricted American tech within their government institutions — not even allowing officials to use U.S. devices privately. They know that what the world calls “innovation” might, in reality, be a Trojan horse — one built for control, manipulation, and silent domination. 3 Likes |
| Family › Re: I Had A Friend Who Got A Scholarship To Study In Canada. by AngelSlay: 5:16pm On Oct 18, 2025 |
Thank you for this wonderful piece. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Give Me One Advice So I Don't Make The Same Mistake You Made by AngelSlay: 5:15pm On Oct 18, 2025 |
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| Foreign Affairs › The Hidden Kill Switch: A Global Conspiracy by AngelSlay(op): 5:14pm On Oct 18, 2025 |
One of the most shocking revelations he exposed was that the United States had secretly embedded failure and destruction mechanisms within critical infrastructure projects built overseas. Through private American companies — not official government contractors — the U.S. allegedly ensured that key systems in other nations could be remotely disabled or destroyed at will. According to this claim, whenever a foreign government turned hostile, independent, or simply refused to install a U.S.-friendly administration, Washington held the ultimate leverage — a hidden off switch built into the very backbone of that nation’s power grids, telecom networks, or water systems. Think about it: how many “mysterious” breakdowns or accidents across South America, Africa, and Asia could have been the silent hand of these covert mechanisms? How many governments were punished for refusing to bow to U.S. influence — not through wars or sanctions, but through the quiet destruction of their infrastructure from within? Even more disturbing, he revealed how major tech giants — Microsoft, Apple, and others — cooperated with U.S. intelligence agencies, building hidden backdoors into their software and devices. These backdoors allegedly gave the NSA unrestricted access to global data: private communications, government secrets, and real-time tracking of millions of devices worldwide. This wasn’t limited to American citizens. It was global espionage, powered by the very tools people use every day. Your phone, your computer, your cloud account — all potentially gateways for surveillance and control. Now it makes sense why countries like Russia, China, and India have banned or heavily restricted American tech within their government institutions — not even allowing officials to use U.S. devices privately. They know that what the world calls “innovation” might, in reality, be a Trojan horse — one built for control, manipulation, and silent domination. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: "When Good Is Never Enough: My Experience With Ungrateful People" by AngelSlay: 5:12pm On Oct 18, 2025 |
I help from a distance. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: The Untold Truth About Working In Hospitality by AngelSlay(op): 5:11pm On Oct 18, 2025 |
Gotocourt:it difficult to even get a relationship because your lot thinks every girl is into runs in the hospitality industry, most especially when you tell them you don't have money, they kind of stare your get from telling them you are broke. 2 Likes |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: The Untold Truth About Working In Hospitality by AngelSlay(op): 5:10pm On Oct 18, 2025 |
bummyla:Amen 1 Like |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: The Untold Truth About Working In Hospitality by AngelSlay(op): 5:09pm On Oct 18, 2025 |
skedman:I swear, so switch becomes an uphill task. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: The Untold Truth About Working In Hospitality by AngelSlay(op): 5:08pm On Oct 18, 2025 |
You think it's just AI talk? Bros, if you ever did six months in the Nigerian hospitality industry — no, even three months — you’d understand it’s not storybook stress. The kind of mental gymnastics you do dealing with VIP egos, underpaid staff, ‘oga say no get budget,’ and last-minute ‘change of plans’ will humble you real quick. It’s not just toxic, it’s radioactive. So no be ChatGPT talk, na lived experience talk." webincomeplus:Everything too you is chatgpt. Have you v |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Avoid These Four Types In Corporate Nigeria by AngelSlay(op): 5:27pm On Oct 17, 2025 |
You know them: colleagues in a meeting who don’t really add anything. Or worse, who disturb your meeting through their toxic presence. Avoid these four types. My general attitude toward people is very positive. I always assume people want the best, not just for themselves but also for others and their organizations. And also that they do their best to achieve this. This works most of the time, but sometimes I get disappointed by people that don’t live up this expectation. Through their presence, they add negativity to a meeting, process or collaboration. Originally known as “the dangerous animals of product management,” there are four types of such people: the Zebra, the Hippo, the Wolf and the Rhino. This is what they mean and how to deal with them in your strategy meetings: ZEBRA - Zero Evidence But Really Arrogant ZEBRAs think they know it all but rely on their opinion rather than any actual evidence. To stave off the ZEBRAs in your midst, make sure that you’ve got data to back up your decisions. Come up with quick experiments you can run to test ideas and gather evidence. HIPPO - HIghest Paid Person’s Opinion It can be tempting to give in to the HIPPOs (founders or CEOs who want to make all the decisions), but don't let them steer you off course. Bring everything back to your vision and objectives--if the HIPPOs aren't aligned with these, you could be headed for dangerous waters. WOLF - Working On Latest Fire The WOLF has a short attention span and a temptation to jump from one problem to the next. This will disrupt your team's focus and effectiveness, making you easy prey for your competitors. Create a process for collecting feedback about problems and only consider these along with all other requests. RHINO - Really Here In Name Only The RHINO is just there to collect a paycheck without contributing much to the team. They might not be actively impeding your decision-making, but they're certainly not helping out much, either. Having a clearly defined prioritization process can help ensure all your team members understand how decisions are made and give them the confidence to actively participate. Now think about your latest strategy or team meeting, or about the people around you more generally. Which toxic personalities do you recognize? If you cannot avoid them next time, this awareness should at least help dealing with them a little more effectively. 2 Likes |
| Jobs/Vacancies › The Untold Truth About Working In Hospitality by AngelSlay(op): 4:24pm On Oct 17, 2025 |
People aren’t really ready to hear the truth about working in hospitality. On the surface, it may look like a regular job — serving food, smiling at guests, and clocking in and out. But behind that smile is a person who’s often physically exhausted, mentally drained, and emotionally worn out. Growing up, I was vibrant, outspoken, full of life. But working in hospitality stripped a lot of that away from me. You constantly have to dim your light, lower your voice, and reduce yourself just to make others comfortable — just to please customers who often don’t see the human behind the service. And it's not just the guests — the management can be even worse. They push you, frustrate you, and you're left with no choice but to accept whatever is thrown at you because the fear of losing your job is always looming. Yes, you may be making money — but what’s money when you don’t even have the time or energy to enjoy it? You're lucky if you get one full day off a week. Even on your "off" days, all you want to do is sleep and recover, because shifts are long, draining, and demanding. Standing for hours, dealing with rude guests, running up and down — it takes a toll on your body. No matter how well you eat before a shift, exhaustion catches up. Sometimes, you end up eating scraps or leftovers from tables just to make it through. And let’s not forget the environment — working late nights, inhaling second-hand smoke from customers, dealing with drunken behavior, and trying to stay professional in the middle of chaos. Over time, it chips away at your self-worth and your health. I could go on and on about my experience in this industry. The nightlife and hospitality scene might look glamorous from the outside, but if you value your mental and physical well-being, it's not a place to stay for too long. It teaches you resilience, yes — but it can also break you in ways people don’t see. 🙏🏾 6 Likes |
. My job is to just do my thing and leave. The main boyfriends carries all the loads on his head, bills, payments, her feeding etc, while the side guy just keeps satisfying her konji on a steady. This is my story with several girls I have met. They all have boyfriends but yet kept coming to my house on a steady. Mind you they'll be at my place and bill their boyfriends for either anything and the guys won't hesitate to make transfer. 