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Solofresh2:
Please how can i do this.I
am tired of being an Introvert.
A boy of my younger Brother's age beat me yesterday while throwing punches at each other and am not happy with it because am not exposed to things I should be exposed to
I am slim too. I need to gain more weight but I have been eating well and it's not showing in my body

Friend, you messed up by fighting: you risked getting hurt physically and emotionally. You could have acted as a peacemaker.

Fighting skills is not good. Might mistakenly end one in jail one day (they are there in prison).

People fight people of their sizes; you could've allowed the boy to go and challenge them at WWE for just 10 secs if he was that serious, and see if his head will remain the same size when he's back.

The one who Fights is weak, the gentle and peacemaker are Strong.

You need God to Overcome common weaknesses of introverts; no need to learn how to fight and later cause more pain for yourself and others.

Peace

omorttee4u:
This thread is something else , I can't believe I read through most of the ordeal tales.

All I can say is : we must always have for sight on unforeseen circumstances.

Because in my case, when a Lil girl comes to my room, if my cotton is down at the time, I will fold it to the door. Just leave my door net transparently . So her mother can peep in anytime, see her playing. It's an eye opening so far anyway. May God always protect an innocent soul.

Friend, for a girl, I'll recommend you use style to manouver her to play outside your room. Forget about adjusting curtains, pls.

I know I hate child abuse, but as things are going, I also want to avoid any chances of Rubbish. It takes less than 10 secs for some Rubbish to happen you know.

It's easier with boys, I could warmly put my arm around them for awhile and all that. Not however very likely with the girls.

It's better to stay safe as suspicions and accusations are on the increase...

Peace

anu3:
Don't worry... Just be strict and cool reasonably. Love them even when you need to dish out some very hot strokes.

Make sure they respect you...

You are the authority; don't be too friendly, cos to start with, you're the teacher not a friend. Even if they get offended, hold your ground. Don't compromise, otherwise you'll lose your respect and the class altogether.

Modified...

C blessedofchrist

Connected1:
It's good to love everyone, but I can't love everyone, I hate people who hate me, that's just the truth, the anger doesn't hurt me in anyway except I take actions against that person, that I will begin to have guilt in my conscience because the person or people involved would be facing extreme pains and I imagine myself in their shoes, but if I hear that God uses someone else to punish then I feel a special kind of happiness.

It's not my fault, I have forgiven people too much when I was much younger and everytime they just find a way to put me in pains and I still forgive them and they never stop, suddenly I changed after I drew back from reading the bible and people became wary of me and learnt how to behave around me.

At the moment I don't let anyone take advantage of me unless I allow it, I don't feel any friend or person is too special to let go.

Hmmm... Well, I understand you. But you might get a little tempted to be surprised if you knew me many years back.

In my case, I had a major crisis that almost led to death, and I started a complete change of life process which dealt with my Anger issues as well.

You see, if anyone gets me angry now I'll have to blame myself for resisting the Holy Spirit.

No! I no longer give anyone Power to get me offended with them no Matter What they Do or Don't do—which they ought to do.

By God's Power, Not really me. It's been over 11 years now.

God bless.

Aaaaarghmed:
see mumu dey talk of loopholes.body never tell you.pray make you no fall victim.dey talk of loophole.you mumu no be small,you are trying hard to sound smart,but na mumu talk

Well, it's true that familiarity breeds contempt... But like I think you're trying to point out, some situations might not have respect for your level of discipline and integrity.

I have had regular dealings with girls, ladies and women for many years as a regular person and as an educationist, but I guess it never crossed their minds to accuse me of such: even when there were misunderstandings, etc.

Many times they wanted to get too familiar with me, I tried not to reciprocate. They usually get Hurt! But hey, that's my salvation.

I've read some comments here on how men allow neighbours' girls, or some random ladies/women to enter their rooms or apartments freely. Well, that's like inviting trouble.

When you start giving much freedom, then check your heart, you want something, and are suggesting something.

If they know you're different, they'd even be scared to come near your doors. Then they can try another person they can possibly Kidnap with their false accusations later.

God bless

Blessedofchrist:
reading all these stories is giving me goosebumps as I'm a teacher
...make devilish pupils no go lie for my head

Don't worry... Just be strict and cool reasonably. Love them even when you need to dish out some very hot strokes.

Make sure they respect you...

You are the authority; don't be too friendly, cos to start with, you're the teacher not a friend. Even if they get offended, hold your ground. Don't compromise.

blessedofchrist
Modified...

Antyxx

Connected1:
I have been trying to learn how to forgive people but I still can't oh, I heard marriage is all about having a forgiven heart but if someone offends me very badly I can't forgive them no matter how hard I try.

Friends, you'll keep hurting yourself more. I was stuck with that for years... It was so bad that my friend nicknamed me using the word malice to form it.

I heard that anger or unforgiving attitudes are possibly linked to some ulcers and health issues.

Strange right? When we get angry certain hormones are released and when it's get too much in your system it's trouble. Also nervous disorders and bad dreams.

It was when I got converted to Jesus that I learnt to Forgive even before they ask for forgiveness: many don't even ask, might just use smiles and jokes to make up.

Today, by God's grace it seems people get frustrated trying to get me offended.

No! I still love you even if you Hate me! For peace, I may avoid you, but deep down I'm willing to help if I have the slightest opportunity. Hence, I Love even my enemies.

God bless

okoroemeka:
come on man,that cannot possibly be true,how can you remember what happened when you are 3 years old or press boobs of a primary 2 child,it is not possible,how can a 5-6 year old in primary 2 have a pressable boobs,I have not seen that,maybe in your place

I remember things from that age range too: kindergarten to pry1... That's about 27 years ago...

annisy:
I feel your pain but God knows best! But men needs to learn a thing or more from this story. We leave in a world were a woman's word is key and the word of a kid is assumed to be factual to yours..
Lean to draw lines especially when you are single. Don't keep female friends if you are not into relationship with them every dealings you have with the opposite sex should be as formal as possible ... If kids are not yours and not related to you avoid them and keep every dealing as formal as possible some of you believe when kids are free around you it wins the good will of people around,....
If a woman or child accuse you it take the grace of God for any one to believe you!!!

Nice... Even coming from a woman.

OFAIKGROUPS:
Glad you were finally scheduled bro....

Wishing us all the best going forward.

Nice

OFAIKGROUPS:
U re welcm

Friend, the exercise went well today. I was starting to forget about it after sending an email that I won't proceed for some reasons; but they still sent me a message about it again yesterday reminding me about it. That was how I changed my mind.

Thanks.

Are you sure these boys are 15 years old or 12. That smallest one should be around 8 or 10.

This is also a little bit of the pathetic effects of— BBnaija, Common musicians and their filthy songs, Molly, Nolly, Jolly, Bolly and other woody film Industries—on our young ones.

It's high time we woke up and seek God's grace to help them.

Hmmm...

OFAIKGROUPS:
Oh! It's ok....

Better days ahead.

Do take care too

Thanks bro...

OFAIKGROUPS:
Not sure about the physical interview thingy.

We were asked to be on the lookout for subsequent mail updates.

The mail is to let us know when to come for physical screening of our credentials...and other things which might include the interview (not sure of the interview part though)

Ok thanks... Some said there is.

Anyway, I've just sent them an email that I won't continue for some considerations.

Take care.

OFAIKGROUPS:
I did mine already.

Was scheduled on scheduled on Tuesday 12th April.

On the sceptism part eeh, me sef still dey reason the matter cos of location and other engagements.

Heard there will still be physical interview (final), how real is that pls?

OFAIKGROUPS:
I did mine already.

Was scheduled on scheduled on Tuesday 12th April.

On the sceptism part eeh, me sef still dey reason the matter cos of location and other engagements.

Ok, nice...

Well, I haven't decided yet. So even if I don't get scheduled, it won't matter.

Thanks.

OFAIKGROUPS:
Hello @Anu3, did you participate in the microteaching exercise?

No, I've not been scheduled yet.

In fact, I'm still a bit sceptical about the process because of my location and others...

Matt.24.11 - And many false prophets will appear and will lead many people astray.

Matt.24.12 - Sin will be rampant everywhere, and the love of many will grow cold.

Matt.24.13 - But those who endure to the end will be saved.

Ge0grapher:
Yes

Oh, ok. Thanks.

Ge0grapher:
Update from TFN

Dear applicant,



In preparation for the next stage of your application, you will be evaluated in four main activities:



Sample Teaching: During the Final Evaluation Day, you will be required to conduct a short teaching lesson (5 minutes teaching time). You would be given a list of subjects to choose from for this activity. It is advisable you choose a topic you feel comfortable teaching. The scenario for this exercise is an underserved school. We strongly suggest you prepare a lesson note for your sample teaching activity as well.


Group Discussion: All applicants will be expected to participate in a group activity. You would be expected to collaborate with your team members to work on a task.



Problem Solving Activity: This is an independent activity designed to test your critical-thinking skills. It requires no pre-work.



One on One Interviews: At this stage, you would be interviewed by one of the assessors. You would be asked a few questions to test key competencies that are important for our Fellowship. Please be honest and clear in your responses.



It is important that you understand the vision of the Teach For Nigeria Fellowship program. As a result, we implore you to commit your time to learn about our work.

This is very critical for a successful application. You can visit our website and social media pages to get familiar with our program.

Again, we look forward to meeting you at the Final Evaluation and wish you the best of luck as you prepare. For more information, please call 0908 247 2261 or email us at recruitment@teachfornigeria.org.

Sorry, is this going to be online?

iLoveYouToo:
You should be proud of the kid and the school, the world is changing fast and there’s too much to learn, these kids can’t be ‘spoon-fed’.

BTW what’s the answer to no. 15?

Huge

ibinaboonline:
You’re already judging. Take it easy o because this life no balance. Jesus once asked an interesting question: “do you think those people that died in a quake are worst sinners than you?” Check am o.

Hmmm... A really searching question.

MadeINchenzen2:
I was awake for hours last night trying to figure out what the married enjoys that the single people do not.

I couldn't come up with anything logical or cogent points at all.

I now understand the reason why a lot of persons have chosen to stay single for as long as possible without plans of getting married.

Clear conscience before and after sex. With a clear conscience in Christ, one overcomes the fear of death, and other fears.

You've to be especially disciplined and full of the Holy Spirit as a single to contain sexual immoralities in any case.

God bless.

Optimistic4life:
This option is definitely not in the picture at all.

He said I am free to remarry if I want but we aren't divorced and also remarrying isn't a day's affair nor a joke.

Sister, I thought your separated meant you were only living together. It's serious because if you are a real Follower of Jesus, and strictly want to please Him then remarriage is not possible At All except your ex is Dead (which I believe he is not).

Pastors and christians don't take Jesus' words seriously that's why they don't think of marriage long-term Before deciding to tie the knot: cos divorce and remarriage are Considered to be rather cheap.

Please, see these:

Matt.5.31 - "Furthermore it has been said, "Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'

Matt.5.32 - But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.

Matt.19.8 - He said to them, "Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.

Matt.19.9 - And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery."

Matt.19.10 - His disciples said to Him, "If such is the case of the man with his wife, it is better not to marry."

1Cor.7.39 - A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.

May Jesus bless you

001spice:
Am from akwa ibom state but i base in lagos. I`m in need of a job.any job i will be cool with it for now. Life is really hard for me.please someone should please help me. Sometime the thought of ending my life runs in my head but i keep rejecting such thought.bt things are getting even worst. Someone should please help me with a job even if it a security work i dnt mind. Adim please help me puch this to front page.I can be reach 09125400219 Thanks all

Seek Jesus, friend. Your life is worth more than highest paying job in the world.

Repent, and obey his words. Seek his Kingdom first, and other things be added.

Blessed is he that hears and does the Word.

God bless

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AntiChristian:
My Username no matter! Can you show me one person Jesus met and gave that message?

Friend, your name means you're an enemy of Christ. So, you can't possibly understand or get light until you're converted, or at least Broken First.

Well, the thing is any follower or disciple of Jesus represents Jesus. And they speak and live for Him.

Paul's words in scriptures were inspired by the HolySpirit of Jesus; hence, Jesus was actually speaking through him as much as other apostles and prophets.

Here: Matt.10.40 - "Anyone who welcomes you is welcoming me, and anyone who welcomes me is welcoming the Father who sent me.

John.17.21 - My prayer for all of them is that they will be ONE, just as you and I are ONE, Father--that just as you are in me and I am in you, so they will be in us, and the world will believe you sent me.
John.17.22 - "I have given them the glory you gave me, so that they may be ONE, as we are--


Concerning the main post, well Jesus himself mentioned severally about the Judgment Day. How he's going to take people to himself, and send sinners to Hell.

Matt.13.41 - I, the Son of Man, will send my angels, and they will REMOVE from my Kingdom everything that causes sin and all who do evil,

Matt.13.42 - and they will throw them into the furnace and burn them. There will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.


Matt.7.22 - Many will say to Me in THAT DAY, "Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?'

Matt.7.23 - And then I will declare to them, "I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!'

Matt.23.33 - Ye serpents, ye generation of vipers, how can ye escape the damnation of hell?

Please, this is not to argue. You choose what you want...

May we get grace to be wise.

Take care.

MadamVanessa:
Goodmorning Christian brethrens and to all nairalanders.

In today's society, I noticed that people seem to see those that do not go to church regularly as not being serious with their heavenly race and salvation of soul and this makes it look like one salvation of soul is tied down to going to church regularly.

I am one of such person that do not like going to church at all, but I believe so much in God and I know I am not the only one in this. This problem is faced by so many people in the world.

So is there anything wrong in one not going to church regularly but believe in God within himself or herself and try his or her best in doing the things that pleases God.

"Forget not the gathering of your brethren", this is true, but it's leading many Astray.

It says forget not your Brethren, not Clubs. Common churches of today are like religious clubs.

If you don't fear God, and want to please him by all means, you will never get out of the church trap. Because the honour and opinions of men will be more important to you than God's.

FIRST, Jesus said "Follow Me", NOT "find a church" (except you're blessed to find a local church led a Christlike leader around you, not any of the common denominations).

If anyone wants eternal life, Jesus said, "keep My commandments", and to be perfect, surrender everything for His sake.

First, we're to seek Jesus, Not Great men or pastors.

May Jesus bless you.

AntiChristian:
Did Christ himself say this?

Friend, even your username alone won't let you understand no matter how long the explanation is.

Peace.

2Cor.5.10 - For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, that each one may receive the things done in the body, according to what he has done, whether good or bad.

Rev.20.14 - Then death and Hades were thrown into the lake of fire. The lake of fire is the second death.

Rev.20.15 - If anyone's name WAS NOT FOUND written in the book of life, he was thrown into the lake of fire.