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lavylilly:
I started sex education during extra classes, I cannot come and kill my self

Sorry, what does this mean?

Modified...

Oh, I see... Too bad, though. We all wish to have kids too, you know...

VeryWickedMan:
Marriage
Hookup

Well, proper marriage in Christ isn't; hookups or marriage outside of the Reality Christ is.

God bless...

Burntcoal:
See as I take miss this opportunity ooo

Maybe not really... It has its ups and downs. Not really the best thing to get. It depends on individual situation, though.

anu3:
Check your spam folder...

Check your email again...

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OFAIKGROUPS:
I saw the update 3 days ago

Yeah bro... I guess they'll start dishing out offer letters to applicants of their choice lastest by mid of next month or thereabout.

We shall see, God willing...

Check your spam folder...

jaxxy:
who handsome epp??

Exactly... It's a deception: true about men and women.

It can be easy for us to joke a lot about this word as common today; however, its Real version is what we really need to Overcome vices and evil in general.

Many of us are stuck with all kinds of evil and addictions: porn-masturbation, gambling, gaming, adultery, evil attitudes and all kinds of Sexual immoralities. Yet the Solution is real VIOLENCE.

I call it Holy VIOLENCE.

Not the jovial or physical VIOLENCE with humans, but VIOLENCE against those evil.

Many are wondering how to Overcome: you think the habit of watching internet Pornography, masturbation, lying, stealing, fornication, drinking and womanizing, etc., are just going to leave you Just like that?

No, nothing doing! Our flesh deeply loves those things, hence, we got to Fight, Violently!!! And they are set to lead us into Hellfire: where their Fire is not quenched, and their Worms do not die! (Mark 9:44 or 46)

Many use this verse below to just claim prosperity or selfish things, but try connecting it with the Reality of God's grace:

Matt.11.12 - And from the days of John the Baptist until now the kingdom of heaven suffers VIOLENCE, and the VIOLENT take it by FORCE.

It's time to humble ourselves, repent and ask for Power to do Real VIOLENCE against evil.


God bless.

jidemosaic:
Good day everyone, I have had this problem since I was in SS2 - about 15 years old. I was in a Biology class that fateful day and the teacher was treating the Reproduction System.

He mentioned the male s*men and asked how many of us had seen it before - it was a public school in Lagos. I was a completely ignorant person about sexuality before then, so he said we could use our hands to stroke our p*n*s to see what a male semen looked like. That was the genesis of my problem.

Engaging in the act from the start was out of innocence and curiosity to see what a s*m*n looked like. I was having my bathe that evening when I tried it with the soap lather. In about 15-20 minutes, I discovered my legs were weak and some thick substance got discharged. I had it out and felt it was some kind of discharge I needed to keep engaging in to ease my body, so I repeated it the next day.

Coupled with my classmates engagement in porn, I got inducted into watching pornography as well. It became hell. I watched porn and masturbated continually. Sometimes, I masturbated up to 5 times daily. But they still called me Pastor because my struggles were in secret.

It was that serious and worse to a point I got almost dehydrated. This went on, until I got saved after Reinhard Bonnke's farewell crusade in 2017.

After my salvation, I got baptised in the Holy Spirit and was able to stay away from the act for about a month. I was even happy that I had finally been delivered from the act.

Going into the next month, it resurfaced again and the struggle came up. I was always sad after every masturbation and always wondered why I still struggled after salvation.

I asked the Holy Spirit to make me impotent till I was ready for marriage. It didn't happen until I drifted off the faith after a while following up some indoctrination by some atheist-peers.

While off the faith, I got involved in a lot of sex engagements, outside masturbation with public sex workers.

To shorten the story, I got restored to the faith back and things has been difficult like when I left. I am still battling with masturbation, even though the law of God written on my heart tells me it is wrong. I have prayed, fasted, read the word to get myself off the hook but nothing seems to be working. At a point, I tied my p*n*s with a rope but never worked.

Worst of it is that I have a calling and everything looks really confusing in finding fulfillment. The highest I've gotten over masturbation was a month of walking in the spirit and feeling alright with God, then the masturbation shows up again.

I have gone through the internet to seek solutions. Two answers I got was:
1. staying out of the act or
2.getting married.

I have always tried staying out but that has failed, even applying the Word of God. Getting married would have been the best since I have someone but I have financial constraints.

Right now, I am stucked between what to do and even how to pray. I don't know whether asking God to still deal the masturbation or for finances to get married would do.

The masturbation thing has hindered me greatly from God and my purpose. Please I need advise from Christians. Don't come here to justify masturbation - I know it is bad. Thank you.

Haash! What the teacher taught was too bad. He must have got some of you into that evil, unfortunately.

Mine was in the boarding house. I got into the bathroom with a senior, and we started chatting. Then boom, I saw him do the filthy thing. I think I started to try it out when I went back home. And I think it went on for some years, I guess—in partnership with porn that I was already quite bound to from childhood.

Well, I had some major life crises shortly after secondary school that almost led to death. That was when I started repenting of sins and bad attitudes in general. I had to get rid of all other common addictions like video games, break dance, love of money, films and sport idolatry, sexualizing girls and women, anger and unforgiving attitudes, etc.,as well.

Friend, the fear of God did! We got to Hate Evil to escape Hell. Jesus wasn't joking about Hellfire where their fire is not quenched and their Worms doesn't die.

It's been over 11 years now. The fight is still on against evil in general, cos the flesh is always present. I've fallen into internet porn shortly just few times, though, and repented.

Friend, we got to truly Repent and Hate those things...

I guess I first saw porn around age 4 or so. But I'm just interested in HATING sexual immoralities with holy passion now. I hate how porn is destroying children and Students nowadays, and they do terrible things at home and away.

We got to humble ourselves and truly Repent and Fight... Asking God for Power of the HolySpirit to Overcome.

God bless.

zudozz:
TOO MUCH

Forgiving spirit.
Sacrificial life especially for ingrates.
Open mindedness.
Dont trust easily.

If you aren't in Christ yet, then you should not be far from God's Kingdom, cos you already possess some great spiritual fruits—the first two.

That forgiving spirit was what I had to get by God's grace. It was so terrible that my mates back then used malice to form a nickname for me.

But now people get frustrated after failing to get me offended I guess. Cos I'll surely bless you whether you're a friend or an enemy: everyone qualifies...

B2K4LUV:
Omo so no be only me dey this table, just umagine I'm even an entrepreneur sometimes i offer services without profit its annoying. I even need help with strong heart.

I think it's quite ideal to be considerate to the poor and needy, not to the rich.

If they're richer, they should be giving you more if they want.

Giving to the rich constantly is foolishness...

Proverbs 22:16 ►
NIV
One who oppresses the poor to increase his wealth and one who gives gifts to the rich—both come to Poverty.

God bless

New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.

Friend, if this story of yours is true, I pity you and especially the little girl for falling for this. I don't wish getting too close to others sometimes because they seem to be comfortable while going ASTRAY, deeper and deeper into Sexual immoralities and so on...

Now, I urge you, don't terminate it. Brace up and face the consequences... You've taken too much risk already, and done evil by taking advantage of the small girl easily.

You're concerned about the Dad? Ok, imagine you're in his shoes, and such happens to your beloved daughter. You would consider it Cool, right?

In your own interest, Don't multiply God's judgement by Killing the baby, please...

Now, do what is right, Repent and ask God for grace.

God is interested in changing us all.

God bless

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Hausa:
Any experienced teacher with an idea of the kind of questions that'll be asked during the Saturday exam?

In general it should be some word problem Maths questions, English, current affairs and possibly ICT...

Hausa:
Thanks.

You're welcome

Hausa:
Thanks for your response.

But na the exam (cbt) I dey ask about.

Oh, sorry I misunderstood.

In general it should be some word problem Maths questions, English, current affairs and possibly ICT...

Hausa:
Fellow teachers, greetings.

Using experience, please I'll need your help.
My name was shortlisted among those to do a cbt test/exam for the Anambra Teachers recruitment.

Can anyone please enlighten me in what and what I might expect?
I look forward to numerous responses.

Thanks.

I guess the next thing should be interview + micro-teaching + document confirmation, etc.

Just prepare well as much as you can; be yourself and be Real.


Peace...

LoveTalk:
Wow!
So, I will also become like this one day?

It's your body, not you.

Our works now will determine where we'll go or become.


God bless

Well, IF you're a God-minded type: who is seeking to trust and obey Jesus in all things, DON'T make any job a do or die thing, otherwise, you might get terribly nervous or troubled before and after the exercise.

Have Faith in God!

You trust God, if the job is yours it's yours: the devil can't do anything about that. And if you don't get it, praise God! It's because it isn't yours in any case.

Getting the job could have hindered something much better, OR reduced your lifetime to just 2 years, and that's why you wouldn't get it, who knows.

So, to have rest, say: "if this job is from God, then I'll Surely get it! But if not from God, praise God I won't get it: I can wait for what's mine."

It gets cool and interesting with this reality...

God bless.

Lovethaa:
It's saddens my heart when people call men that treat a lady nicely as Simps .
"A Good woman's heart is Like a trophy and only the best player wins "...
An average pretty lady today have over 5k Facebook friends and thousands of followers Not to talk of Men at her area or work place,

With lots of Men chasing her ,you would have to prove that you are worthy if you really want her to choose you over the rest ,

The world is so messed up,That "wrong" Is Now the New "Right "
How did we arrive at this point.?.

People Now see silly men who smoke all day,sleep with different women and make money fraudulently as "Alpha Males'..
While the church goers and responsible men are "Simps"

Men now see women as piece of boxers that can be easily replaced.

In the Bible it says "For God so Loved the world that he gave his only Begotten son"..
This by far is the greatest Love ever Recorded, Followed by a Mother's Love .

Do we now call God a simp For giving out his only Child to an adulterous and wicked world, or should we call our lovely mothers simps for putting thier children's needs before thier own.

NO!! True love does not expect returns .

"A Good woman is like Gold , he who finds her finds a Good thing "

I went the extra mile to get my wife because I saw qualities I admire in her ..
And being the Good woman she is , she gave me hard time , .
Nobody will ever value something they got freely..

My babe looks up to me for Everything,
. I correct her like a Father and treat her Like my baby..
I put her through when she makes mistakes, I understand she's not perfect.,
I provide the best food and life for her ,
If All this makes me a simp .. Then I'm proud to be a Simp..

Sounds interesting...

OFAIKGROUPS:
Who else received this message

Sure... I'm still yet to commit to it, though.

shaggy007:
All the people that died in car crash today didn't have good livers and kidneys?

The girl that her leg was crushed by a Lebanese driver in Lagos didn't have good liver and kidneys?

Mr man, live your life to the fullest.

If you drink, drink well.

If you smoke, smoke well.

If you fvck, fvck well.

If you make money, make money well.

If you don't do any of the above, then what's the point of living?

Friend, the point of living is actually to Find Real Rest when death comes: no fear of death.

I've stopped several addictions for over 11 years now...

Vices are like saying 'Buy now, pay Later'. Now they actually Enjoy now then Pay horribly later in God's Wrath for eternity.

Sorry, but Jesus cannot lie: unlike many pastors and church owners. He said we got to Repent, otherwise we'll Perish in Hellfire for eternity: where their Worms doesn't die, and their fire is not quenched.

So, let's change and live good now, so can reap blessings and not damnation later.

God bless

Goodlyhrt:
I sat for WAEC in 2012 and I got this result

Eng. C6
Maths. C6
Phy. D7
Chem. C5
Bio. D7
F.maths D7
Geo. B..
A.Igbo. A1
Econs. C..

Can I get admission with this results and which course of study will be suitable for my result.

Thanks

Moreso, if you're willing to humble yourself, you may consider any good social science course that you like, of which you can be sure to make minimum of 2:1.

You don't seem to be science inclined naturally. Go for something you can contain suitably with good grades and mastery without frustration. For instance, managerial courses or educational courses.

God bless

Goodlyhrt:
I sat for WAEC in 2012 and I got this result

Eng. C6
Maths. C6
Phy. D7
Chem. C5
Bio. D7
F.maths D7
Geo. B..
A.Igbo. A1
Econs. C..

Can I get admission with this results and which course of study will be suitable for my result.

Thanks

Social sciences or educational courses...

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Realestatevixen:
Stay away from premarital sex. That's the only advice I'll give you

Right...

@606thearena

Masturbation ruins life... Premarital sex does even worse.

One of the possible backhanded compliments of masturbation is you may start ejaculating just by seeing something seductive, or at any slight sexual provocation.

Premarital sex could dish you some very strong incurable or life-threatening troubles you may later regret.

But you say it's sweet, and you feel you can't stop. Well, if you know where it will land you, you'd have a rethink.

Go to Jesus to help you Overcome, and master your sexual vices.

He helped me, He can help you too: if you want, and if you're Serious.

Then focus on your education for now. Get grace to wait till you're ready to marry to enjoy sex.

Peace

emmyN:
Lost a cousin the day before yesterday to snake bite . Guys be careful and clear all bushes around your home.

Oh, sorry to hear... Wonder what sort of snake that could be: it must be one of those...

Starzo:
wait o,mamba species of snakes don still enter naija??..omo wahala dey o

if I see this kind snake, na to run enter Kieke o...I can't coman kee myself

Honestly, I never knew we had green mamba in Nigeria... If not for the head, I would cast if off as a common bush snake.

Luke.9.54 - And when His disciples James and John saw this, they said, "Lord, do You want us to command fire to come down from heaven and consume them, just as Elijah did?"

Luke.9.55 - But He turned and rebuked them, and said, "You do not know WHAT MANNER of spirit you are of.

Luke.9.56 - For the Son of Man did not come to destroy men's lives but to save them." And they went to another village.

Solofresh2:
Thanks

Welcome, friend. Please, let's be wise. Forget about the opinions of people: not many are wise world-wide.

Wisdom is greater than strength.

God bless.

omorttee4u:
You are right. That was my experience back then, not now. That's why I stated in my Last sentences, that is an eye opening thread I can never allow such occur again. We just have to be very careful on this coming generation.

Right bro