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Why do ladies date a married man and what are the risk of a young lady dating a married man,particularly when the man was his boyfriend prior to marrying another girl.

I need candid opinion please.

mikeansy:
folks chill, Nuclear Energy is the future

The last time I checked the Uranium deposits in Nigeria are not necessarily in the Niger-Delta

There is no North vs South as far as this issue is concerned

the true war is between those who are well-off vs those who are not.

I think the worst or rather the most unrealistic post so far.

Do you think nuclear energy is a day job? Where in the North do you see the signs? Oh, you believe by deposit, benefit can be calculated, then, you are totoally wrong. My delta state should be heaven by now, due to oil deposits. The last time I checked out on Nuclear energy, IT IS STILL NOT THE TOTAL SOLUTION BUT JUST A COMPLIMENTARY ONE LIKE ALL OTHER SOURCES OF ENERGY. How do you think that will put the North in sirvival? What is the mathematics?

I only agree with you that it is north a war of south and north. it is a leadership problem,  Poverty anywhere is a threat everywhere.

Nuclear energy Requires:

1. A huge, I mean, very huge capital running into billions of dollars to kickstart. Does the north have that?
2.A very much larger reserve/working capital cost because of emergency, containment, etc
3. Organised and maintained radioactive waste and storage systems due to explosion control;;;;;;;;;ehmm, bomb very close to energy here.;;;;; oh my Naija.
4. A  long-term  resolution high level waste storage must be in place, ofcourse you know about nuclear waste management, the cost, and environment implications
5  Obama will keep an eye in the North due to Potential nuclear proliferation issue. You may also consider sharia with it.

Please, i think it will be more realsitic if you can tell us how the north will surivive without oil money. I tell you(1000x) they will not survive as at today.

Go to east, you will see elcetrical transformers, community roads, town halls, small schools, etc built by contributions from sons of the soil. But in the north, it is either governemnt or nothing.  The human development is so low. You even beg them to go to school.

Let us not talk about attitude to work here. it is another thing entirely.

Please concentrate on how this Ba-turanchi people will survive without oil and not one form of nuclear reactor or rocket science.

ganext:
Do think fallin in love is just a magical act or something you can force,fallin love is just two minds recorgnisin each other and picking the signals so tellin her how u feel gives you a chance to get a signal.dat all.

The poster did not ask you how to be in love: But how to MAKE someone fall in love.

He already knew the natural type, the realself type, the endurance-and-toast-for-one-year type, two minds pumping together at equal heartbeat type, etc. But he was asking about you MAKING it possible at the neautrality of the other.  Then, it becomes magical and cash does it real well. Think of it.

This means that El-Rufai is not a man of honour. Why did he keep quiet since? Oh, because he's fallen out with the president? When will all these idiots stop using state issue to settle personal scores.

With all Ribadu's performance, the only thing I may have against him was that He allowed Obasanjo to use him to settle personal scores. At one time, Mike Adenuga ran to Ghana. Suddenly, he was no longer corrupt! Now El-Rufai is blinking. Medicine after death.

moph:
Yes, Bet the fish will need to survive without water first. If the north have the slightest idea that they can do without Niger delta Nigeria will not be anymore.

Very good. You are interested in realities.

There is nothing wrong with early marriage. Those who do it late reget it. I have not found anyone that married late that can say: THANK GOD I MARRIED LATE. No one yet in this forum, at least.

Marrying early does not mean:
1  no money

Marrying early does not mean
2  immaturity

Marrying early does not mean
3. Unpreparedness

Marrying early does not mean
4. boy/girl attitude

Marrying early does not mean
5. Ist love syndrome

I repeat, and I stand to be corrected. Maturity for marriage does not go by age. There are younger ones who are prepared and for sure should not deny themselves of the wonderful opportunity of training your children while still young.  They should not look at those old people whom for certain  reasons were not able to do it quick: That is their headache, never join them.They regret daily.

It pleases my heart. Each time I drive around with my 1st son on visit to friends/associates, they would wonder if I am the father. If I had the opportunity, i would have married earlier than 31. But it's still okay.

I wish you good luck on your choice. I made mine already, and still one of the best decision I have taken in my lifetime.

If the Northern governors think they can survive, they should write open letter(media) to the president asking him not to include oil revenue in the allocation. They all should sign so that no litigation will stand on their waiver.

For now, even with the oil allocation, the North is still not surviving let alone when the money is removed. Their tax revenue is very slow. I have not heard of any grant from Saudi or anywhere. Technology is not there. Birth control is not there. Education is lowest in the North. The social environment may not outrightly welcome a non-muslims foreigner.

I dont know what they mean by survival. maybe a Normadic live again in this 21st century.

All the nairalanders football lovers have opportunity to contibute whether they want Amodu to continue as a coach or for Siasia to take over.

Our posts will be printed out and sent to NFA as a public opinion for records.

Please make your sugesstion constructive and give reasons with verifiable references, when necessary.

Please consider the exigency of time for World cup qualifiers.

Any form of antics could actually make some girls fall in love with you. Particularly when those antics are the answers to the qusetion of their need.

But for sure, keeping her in love would need good money now or at some other time to come. She must ask for it. Do not forget that at all. Make a budget, hope it won't run into deficit.

Somehow, 95% cash should be an overall issue here.

But for men falling for women, I think it goes with a man finding a very humble and honest woman. Most men don't freak for women's fund. I think.

wanville:
But offcourse, Love is a give and take situation

It's like this your explanation needs explanation! if love is give and take[/color], can we correctly describe it as trade by barter[color=#990000]? Then, what do you exchange for what? Just life for life or death for death? I am conservative because the poster said "aside money"

let me know the substance or what is being given and taken. In another terms, nothing goes for nothing! Okay, If we use Shina Peters as an example: Money for hand, back for ground.

davidif:
ehn, ololomu, in some states here, it is called pedophilia, o. . Abeg, nobody should marry before 24 or whenever they at least finish there bachelor's degree.

I disagree totally with you. Bachelor's degree is not a pre-requisite for marriage, but various facets of maturity is.

Early marriage using the instance of the poster is very okay, if the age is the only limiting factor.

Most things done early in life are generally never as bad as[b] doing them late[/b]. Pls, dieing early is not included!

Your question has no connection with Destiny.

However, I will tell you that if you believe in Desitiny, then, it's applicable in every thing but you must recognize its' manifestaion. This of yours isn't it. There must have been an apparent hindrance/separation and eventual reconnection for you to talk about the power of Destiny. Think of it.

You totally sound unprepared for what is called "Marriage". You are still very youthful and very crude in your question about marriage.

In your last statement, you said you are confused. By what? sightseeing? and you want to get married

Boy grow, and it comes with the time. good luck.

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Even after investigation, nothing will still happen.


Some other politicians would love to have a cook that can handle even 2million naira and still loves  and continue with his cooking job.  Very loyal cook.

I do know that a day will come, everyone will be accountable for all his/her deeds.

Women want everything and they don't know what they want!

But the good news is that they are flexible and you can mould them to what you want, ofcourse, men know what they(men) want,eventually they(ladies) will accept what is available and hope for what is not.

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I will never assist my child to cheat in his/her exam, no matter the name you give to the cheating type. Those who hate the future of their children can do that. Not me.

I have always said one thing. Everyone must not be a graudate. If they are not intelligent, they must have at least a minimum of one other talent that they can develop and become sombody in life.

allycat:
I was recently approched by someone I knew as a shop attendant, whom I know for a fact did not go to secondary school but miraculously got an excellent SSCE result and admission into a university. He has graduated now and was asking me to help him get a job. And the question I asked myself was 'in what capacity', he cannot even speak english he communicates in pidgeon English or Igbo. Unfortunately there are many like him in the system and as the saying goes if one finger gets stained with palm oil it will spread to all the others. Any potential employer that meets a candidate like him will be sceptical of all other graduates and will want to be sure of their mettle before employing them. It is unfortunate but our educational system is a mess from the primary school level all the way up. In Ghana, because primary and secondary education are so good, you do not need a degree to make a decent living. They have good vocational schools so if you decide to be a fashion designer or graphic artist or even beauty technician, you are properly trained and employable. In Nigeria they cant even use our so called technical certificates to do anything and so the people fro.m technical colleges AKA polytechics are all fighting for white collar or office jobs and bachelors degree holders are now tailors and mechanics.

I am standing beside you. I weep for the academic system that breads these graduates.

@Ejikeben,
Not only honda, so many great men of this world never went to any formal higher institution. If you are able to persist an do well in what you do, surely, there will be away out in life.

Check out the words of Calvin Coolidge :

"Nothing in the world can take the place of Persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan 'Press On' has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race"

In another thread in this forum, I maintained that there was nothing to rank in Nigeria. The academic systems are faulty and are not working. Please try education outside the shore and you will understand. This is not meant to spite our graduates  but to say the fact and also encourage them not to make the mistake, for those who are ready for MS degrees, in doing it in any Nigerian University.

I was in a forum arguing with one Nigerian graduate with BSc in Engineering as he claimed. He was so serious in saying that as an engineer, that he is not meant to go to site. He's is design according to him, maybe solve the equations. But ours' is done from: classroom-laboratory-workshops-office-field/site. To do well in design, you are expected to have enough of interplay from physical results and feedbacks.

Their main interest here is simply how to discriminate against poly graduates whereas, their Uni graduates know almost nothing. Check out their final year Project work: Plagiarism!

We can improve on this. Nigeria is only a country where a local government councilor earns more than a PhD holder. It's that serious. How can the University work.

In Nigeria, you must be a graduate to belong, maybe do NYSC , whether you can spell your name or not.

You do not need to be a graduate in life to do well. You must have a minimum of one other talent. I think.

soludo2008:
Nigeria condition is no worse than what we read on dailies. selective pressure is the formular used by employers of labour to recruit their staff. The descrimination line is not only conspicuous on BSc/HND, 1st/2nd degrees, 1,2.1/others but also working experienced and non-experienced. In most cases, you are required to be endorsed by high-profile person that has a strong tie with the company before you will be offered the job despite the rigorous interview that you passed through. I advice every Nigerian graduate to embrace enterprenuership at the lowest cadre. Yes, go into fish-farming(aquaculture), snail farming(heliculture), cassava cultivation and other agricultural activities that demands minimal capital. set a target and in five years time you will have some graduate working under you.

You are not wrong at all. Long term target should be the main focus, not just having your name to be on staff list of a big company.

I also need to say here that CBN should enforce the microfinance fundamentals. Banks should reserve money for loan to starters.

1. OBJ is the best in imposing an unprepared Yaradua to lead us ( no agenda: still studying the economy?)[/color]
2. The best hypocritical thief.
3. The best Authocratic civilian president
4. The best in turning Ota farm that could not produce two eggs in 1999 to a mega million investment by 2006
5. The best in abandoning Lagos/Benin Road, as much as he did to others in South East
6. The best in abandoning all federal roads in Lagos.
7.The best in selling goverment investment to his cohorts/ and could not give us electricity for 8 years
8. The best in travelling abroad more than he stays in Aso Rock and yet never sees anything good in rule of law of the WEST to bring home.
9. The best in institutionalising election as a 'do or die affair'
10. The best that could not finish his tenure for 8 years and wanted another 4, and possibly for rever. Never change a wining TEAM[color=#990000].

Redman44:
I will vote for an Ex-Politician's offspring if he or she has demonstrated the will to toe a different path away from the corrupt antics of his or her father. If the aspirant is honest and has a track record of excellence, he or she has my vote. I wouldnt want to judge people because they come from a certain family. Cheers.

You said it all. 10q very much.

To me, the look is always horrible both on girls and boys, though their businesses!

Thor:
In the meantime I have written a letter to all Nigerian ministers calling for the death penalty for 419. Lets hope they agree 

Send the 'acknowledged copy of your letter to the ministers'  to this forum. Even though your lack of education could not make you think that a Bill should be sent to the National Assembly.

Like I said before now, you are never objective. But I encourage you to try this time. Just send the copy. at least, the copy is there with you, right? Prove your worth.

You will help to gather evidence against yourself in court if[b] SATAN[/b] your father could persuade you to send a forged paper.



You have scored 100% for  posting your faked  and adulterated pics. Try and score 100% in posting the letter you sent to the ministers, let us be constructive this time.

Until then,  my

As noble as your idea is, l am sure you know that it is "these gaals" that pay for all those perks every banking staff enjoys!
Where will your "upfront" come from, without these babes?
Where will that hefty 400K/month come from, well, maybe you prefer to be deployed to teach at a Secondary school where "morals" are well preached and observed!!

Well, I felt things should be done more professionally, I'm not teaching morals per se but ethics is a more absolute definition of it, If I could say.

Upfront? I'm not a banker. The only upfront we see in my field are Mobilisation for projects which you must secure with bank bonds. I'm fully employed and doubt if I will have spare time for teaching, however, if time comes up, teaching is one of the things I enjoy doing so much: Math/engineering courses.

@Thor, one out of what Nignog quoted you . And you are denying. just look at what you said about OBAMA and Africa. You recommended that 90%of Nigerians should be killed.  But you denied and said it was forged. let the world see it:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-158996.0.html#top

everybody should scroll down to the second statement he made after his first post.


You will die soon.

@Thor, did you actually wrote a letter to all ministers? Do ministers make laws? Or is it another 419 letter? So, you lack education afterall? Please my dear, a bill is what should be sent to the National Assembly.

Nignog will speak for him/herself. But I have no reason to doubt that you are a 419. What is your occupation. Just mention it. I will take you up from there, because eventually, I must get you arrested. I'm very serious. Let us know the city where you are in Uk.

You just want to come to this forum and play good to get people's details and screw them it won't work.

It is a waste writing on this your thread because you are a total failure to this generation.

Letter to minister ko, letter to cleaner ni.  Let us see the copy. Oh sorry, you are a 419, let us see the forged copy, I will check it out tomorrow at the office where you claim to have submitted it.

Whenever you submit a letter, it would be acknowledged, unless it is an open letter through the Media.

Fool. 419. No job, no home, nothing. just wasting in Uk, if you are actually there.

@Nignog,  Nice digging. God will bless you for this evidence.

I told you guys that Thor is a Hardened 419 old man. 

@Thor , you are a gullible idiot without brain.

As for other posters, I am not against any punitive measures for any crime as far as the bill is debated in the assembly as passed into law accordingly. The issue is that those victims of 419 are mostly those who have intention of collecting the money they did not sow. And you cant hang one and leave the other. That's my take.

We all hear how foreign idiots have been used to siphone our money to outside the country and if they were unlucky to have met  419, they will cry foul and ask you to hang them while they the greater dupe should be here posting pictures without idea.

@Thor, I have confirmed you are a greedy fool. You can't chnage this. many other posters feel this way too. DUPE

What is your job where is your office? where do you live? let us turn this to a naked dance! let us show ourselves.
I am a civil engineer in Abuja.  do you have a job

You think you can browse out millions from the internet and not got duped My friend look for work and do. Stop expecting millions that you never invested from internet cohorts.  FOOL

As I said you are a 419 criminal, that is the only reason you are defending these scum, you are one of them and you should hang with them.

Do you call this a defense? It is getting clearer now. If your only reason for speaking in a matter is personal interest or when you are involved like you misinterpreted, then it shows you are a selfish animal.

So, we can rightly said that you were duped[i](interest)[/i] that is why you want them hanged[i](defense)[/i]. Then, you are equally guilty if not more guilty. you need to be hanged, because it is through people like you that Abacha used to remove our money, REAPING WHEN YOU DID NOT SOW HAS CONFIRMED YOU A CRIMINAL IN THIS THREAD but my words has not made me a thief. I live in Abuja here, I'm a civil engineer.

Any time I see our hospital and children dieing because of lack of money which are in swiss banks and personal accounts of foreigners, i will remember you and curse you. The blood of dieing children in the hospital is in your head. You will dead a tough death, since you have decided to reap our money when you sow nothing.

You are shameless to have the impunity to come up to the thread to show your face. EFCC is looking for you.

Come to Nigeria, I live in Abuja, let two of us work down to EFCC and let us know who will be kept in detention.  Thief.

Showing pictures of your cohorts has confirmed that they swindled you with sharing formula and you are now angry. DUPE.
You will never succeed in life until you expose your friend/419cohorts and hand them over to the authority instead of looking for who to kill. Murderer