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@OP,im not surprised that what you have said is lost on those who have commented above me.Im sure many more would still call you jealous,envious and all what not.
What you have stated up there is soo true.What however matters to the black mind is ostentatious living.Constructively criticize them about it and you are seen as been envious.
Whether african american or african nigerian,the problem is same.The average black man needs to learn to give in order to build the community(and im not talking physical cash)

https://www.nairaland.com/125308/african-americans-spend-much-more

madam,wake up very early in the morning to go look at the faces of your sleeping innocent children.Imagine what it would be like for them after their dad throws you out for sleeping with another man.
If that thought doesnt help reset you,nothing can again.
Snazzylove has answered you and you are still here looking for solution.Her methods might not totally be applicable with your husband but you can work around it.
Or you are still waiting for those peeps that are quick to insult instead of offering counsel.

I told myself same thing and it's becoming increasingly more difficult to abide by with my 21month old son.
He runs the water dispenser almost everyday completely running it out on the kitchen floor at least once
He goes to his clothes drawer to empty the neatly ironed and folded clothes.
He empties his laundry basket too;at least twice a day
This is minus going to turn off/on wall sockets as soon as no one is around.
He's also pulled a standing wall mirror on himself crashing it in the process and slightly bruising himself.
I have introduced spanking on the bum to caution him
Have I also mentioned he's a pro in climbing any and all things?chairs,dinning tables,centre table,climbs into his own high chair amongst many others?
He needs to be cautioned before he endNgers himself unknowinhlu

In line with 5minsmadness,my father in law too was quite physically aggressive to his family whilst they were growing.He beat everyone in the house silly plenty times.
After his wife nearly broke his hand with a heavy stool one day,he stopped beating her.
he continued with the kids though especially my husband"s younger sister.he beat a lot of times for no just cause and really severely.
One day my hubby could take it no more(he was 18 or so).after one of those beatings,he dropped a strongly worded letter for his dad that the next time he ever hit his sister again,his fuc*k up would be treated by him.
The man no believe himself,he became like jelly.cAlled all the family members and a Neighbour to come see the letter his irreponsible son had written.that they should serve as witnesses incase any harm was to befall him suddenly.
My husband just stood there looking unruffled and defiant.
Let's just say he NEVER hit anyone again after that incident and calls my husband Mr ***** ever since then

operation to save the girl is ongoing or what did i just read?

hello house,
One of my husbands" previous work experiences was work outside Lagos.Can his former employer e-mail/scan him a reference letter with his signature on it?

Chillisauce: Carry your thread for your head ojare. I don talk my own.
Dis is cyber world, sieve through the comments and pick the ones you want. Na you Sabi.

Please she"s hurting enough as it is.Whether it was her or not,shes in pain presently and needs support.Lets not further break her down with harsh words.Please.

hustla: And this one is a Nigerian oo

what has your own government done to better your life?

Please when last did you have light in your area for 20 straight hours?

Please tell him that all land line calls in Dubai are free.

nikkyshyne: Chai.... *pours cold water to douse the anger*

As in ehn!whats the negativity about?
I think shes a pretty lady who dresses very well.Very few Yoruba actresses accomplish this(and yes I know shes from Edo/Delta)

She always looks good and I like that about her.

badesco: A 2 Nos of 3 Bedroom Flats for sale at Jakande Housing Estate, Abesan Ipaja, Lagos. Close to Akinyele Bus stop.
Asking Price: N4.5Million.

For Info and Inspection.
Call: 08094550164, 08071003461.

whats the last price and are there any other charges apart from this 4.5m

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SenseiX: What I love best is that he attracts credible individuals to the party, Jimi Agbaje for Lagos, Ribadu for Adamawa, Dr Alex Otti his old friend for Abia, plus he was probably the best performing northern governor of the 1999-2007 set

I served in Bauchi 2004/2005 and I attest to the fact that he was a performing governor.Very humane,humble,approachable and tolerant of other tribes and religions.I spoke a lot bout him when I came back to Lagos and hoped he would contest for the presidency cos I was ready to mobilize and support him.

Needless to say I was disappointed when I heard he was involved in the pension saga.
I still like him though.

I LOVE the Hillsong Choir and Darlene Zseuch

I think most mobil filling stations are guilty of this.Mobil Maryland,airport road,ire akari and osolo way have all tried the N500 trick with me.It was only the first time they succeeded,I have challenged them every other time and gotten my correct fill.
I go there only when I have to.

bossladyMo: Eshey pupo! Daalu! Danke! May we all achieve our dreams...

Amen

iriferi: Thanks @BossLadyMo... Congrats to You also... Thanks everyone, I pray we keep receiving good news as the minutes unfold...

Amen

bossladyMo: Congrats Iriferi!

I just got my QLD sponsorship also...yay!

congrats madam.so happy for you.

The disease is kukuma terminal.what will a little pesticide do?

Where"s genbuhari when you need him?

justwise: Only VO is allowed to answer questions in this particular thread.

ok

@justwise or whoever deleted my post,

Please tell me why my post was hidden.Did i break any rules or was any of the information i provided wrong?
I believe i directed him to the websites where his enquiries would be sufficiently answered.

Kindly tell me my wrong.
Thank you

so when your wife is cooking nigerian dishes for you,tidying the house,taking care of the girls and braiding their hair,what are you doing those times?

GenBuhari: I recall one case - Patrick Sawyer

I need names of other 9 cases if you can supply them.

I agree with you that there's something fishy definitely going on.A disease is this dangerous and contagious and it's killed how many people in the whole of Africa?less than 5000.
Someone should tell me something else abeg.Even with the so called epidemic in Liberia?whats the casualty figure?
More people will die from typhoid in Nigeria than they will from Ebola.
Soon them no begin share drugs and vaccine(who knows what those actually contain)?
I take precautions but I still have my brains

Don't worry.This too shall pass.

Good evening ma"am.
My husband and I are renewing our US visas and are qualified for the Dropbox application.When booking our appointments though,the system asked for my first name and I gave just that without my middle name which is also on my passport.
My ds-160,gtbank receipt and passports(previous and present) all have my surname,first name and middle name.
The appointment confirmation page has my surname and first name only.
Should I be worried?

Good evening ma"am.
My husband and I are renewing our US visas and are qualified for the Dropbox application.When booking our appointments though,the system asked for my first name and I gave just that without my middle name which is also on my passport.
My ds-160,gtbank receipt and passports(previous and present) all have my surname,first name and middle name.
The appointment confirmation page for my Dropbox appointment has my surname and first name only.
Should I be worried?

check out mesut ozil(the footballer) and enzo Ferrari(the car maker).what makes theirs even creepier is that Ferrari died aug 1988 and ozil was born oct 1988.

https://www.facebook.com/FactsThatWillBlowYourMind/photos/a.422928744410452.85641.422919147744745/656325617737429/?type=1

bossladyMo: 1. I think UOW has a child daycare centre, you can confirm that. But as for the cost...hmmm...childcare is expensive if you are not a PR ooo...check careforkids.com.au to check the cost/day or cost/hr in your chosen location. You can also go for family daycare (i.e where the children are looked after in a home setting), and it is cheaper. Nannies are expensive. But you will get the different costs on that website sha...just brace your mind to fork out some at least 1,200 per month, if schooling fulltime. Also, daycares have a waiting list...so do what you have to do fast. You might be lucky and get a space instantly sha, but the best daycares are always filled up fast.

2. You can't work as a nurse in Aus without being registered...you can't even work as an enrolled nurse. Depending on the school you finished from, you might just need a 3mth additional study period, to qualify for ANMAC/AHPRA registeration. This registeration, coupled with any work experience you have, is a sure banker for getting PR through the 189/190 route...infact, you are sure to get your PR shap shap sef, cos nurses are given speedy application. They are always in demand.


That is the little I know from my Nigerian sense and research.

This is some good info.was under the impression that the least I could get for daycare was $100.i googled the address up there and saw some significantly reduced charges.I guess key is getting slots in those reduced care centres.

bossladyMo: You will need your qualifications equated to a Bachelor's. I think Manmeta assessed with Engineers Aus...he should be able to advise you better. I'm more of VETASSESS.

madam what occupation were you assessed for by VETASSESS?

Madam go and get an iud or use everyday pills.depo provera isn't encouraged for women who still want to have babies.
No take your fertility play.
No need talking about abstinence cos I know that won't apply to you

bossladyMo: Someone should pls answer this...

I don't have an idea on this o