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Guy, i feel u, and i know wat? so long as u posted dat thread ere, it only means u r trying to hold on, maybe scretly, u want people to tell u to fight for her, its wat ur herat is tellin, though ur head is tellin u to run, u love dis girl, so keepin her in life on a supposedly temporary basis only complicates issues for u, u'l probably only sink more n more into ur own emotions, the right thing to do, though difficult is to let her go, i know it will be difficult for u to do dis, and am quite sure after sampling opinions ere, u'll go bak to her, but, the ball is in ur court, am in a similar sort of situation, i love dis gurl to da bone, ders dis omata guy the mother is pushing her onto, she finally seems to have left the guy but by no means has she left cheating wit someone else, if they do it now, they'l surely do it later, i cant seem to psuh her out of my mind though dats wat every body tells me, i know how it is wit things of the heart, i known her now 3years, and maybe my own differnece is dat my own gurl seems not to be ready for marriage yet, we've broken up now 3weeks and dats a record, i tell myself its one day at a time, soon it will be a month, then two months, then six then i;ll be rid of her, but she knows if she ever came to beg, she knows i'll keel over, so all i want to do is for our separation to last so long i'll healcompletely such dat by the time she comes, i;ll be off her, even now, i know she follows wat am doing on facebook, but do i care, u can follow my story on
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=106413.msg1864152#msg1864152

d fisrt post der was sometime last year, d prequel was only last week
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=270901.msg3849616#msg3849616

Be Brave!

My sister, u never went wrong, but obviously, u r hurtin, u have every right to, u guy has gone off wit anoda woman and no matta how painful it is, u have to let go, am in a similar situation, my gurl has gone off wit anoda man too, and am trying to forget her while hurting as hell, he may come bak, wen his fling with his actress collapses, but once anoda actress comes, he'l be off again, move on, its difficult, but then wats easy in this life, d same advice am givin is the same am still struggling to implement in my own life, be brave

Guy, u get money ooooo, no need man, shit happens, loved n lost tooo, she cheated broke my heart so many times i lost count but i feel the only way to make her know what she lost is by making a success of myself, diz type of gurls r not worth, even as i write i have not gotten over her yet, no kill urself

@poster: ur status shows u r female n u r talkin about being in love wit a gurl? r u a lesbo?

yea, any investor has to do a proper fesibility study be4 venturing into biznes. even if they come to lagos, wont they pay for diesel here? all companies plus banks in lagos run on diesel, some spend as much as 3m on diesel every month. diz r costs they pass over to d consumer, they ought to have done thier pricing in such a way dat they take into account these costs plus they ought to hav come with enuff workin capital, nigeria is still one of the only countries in the world where a company's sales can increase annually by more than 30% while profits can hit more dan 120% where d global average is around 30% on sales, foreigners who come ere despite every, do u think dey r fools?

friend, u talk about embarassing job interviews, heck, with the kind of grammer you spill, i can only imagine how u must have made a mess of youreslf on numerous occassions way back, and to thinbk you must have improved by now and u still write such gibberish, not being too harsh though, but do try to soruce up your lingua, i dont know wat employer will keep on his books someone who communicates as poorly as you, but atleast we sha understand u

What the hell are u giyz talking about? someone is asking u guys about the safest place to live in lagos and u guys are saying okota, magodo and the like? Does that look or sound like a place any savvy yankee returnee would wnat to stay? Tak my advice dear, anything off the island dont even bother. The island is relatively safe- and i say relatively, and LAgos is not entirely the way these nairalanders are putting it.

I used in to live in Dolphin and because all us were nigth crawlers, almost every night, the door to the flat was always open till morning. Never did we even have a break in. I also lived in 1004 estate and the place was also cool. So for your needs though, i wont recommend Ikoyi or v.i due to congestion, i'll still say v.i extension is it- dat is around shoprite or Oniru or millenium estate. The place is peaceful, there is a police post there too and OPC are also very active. The serenity and quite is what must appeal to you. and if u r the romantic type, u can still afford to take strolls with your wife without the fear of being run over. Plus, accessibility is excellent.U can cut out the leeki ajah holdup by coming through ligali.

Another place to recomend is lekki phase1, anywhere off admiralty. super ambience and the sea breaze is excellent.Quiet too. Ajah is off because of the distance and go slow from the CBD's of Lagos. You wont enjoy it, not even within the much reverred VGC. Within Ikoyi, u can choose to be Dangote's neigbor at Parkview or Osbourne. Anything asides that, maybe old Ikoyi.

na2day? na2day, u r so pathetic, u suffer from a complex that hinges on inferioty, dats for sure, look at how desperate u r trying to validate ur status here, nobody knows u , and i doubt if any one ever will, there u went trying to sound off- i browse from home, i have this, i have that- ur rants are just the ugly self promotion of an upstart- i wish u could hear (or is it read) urself, u r a sorry idea of what a man shoiuld be, grow up. there are millions of people like u out there on the streets, mediocres who would never amount to much except what their bosses pay them, i used to think like u (though my thinking was never at the low levels urs is) till got tired of my boss and fired him(know how much he was paying me? 157k less deductions and taxes) and went to set up on ma own.Now thats something u'd never do, its more likely u'd be the one who'd get fired (make hunger no kill u o). U r just a hungry guy, simple, u shdn't think about women, since its so obvious u cant afford these demanding chics.

But come to think of it, there are differnet cadres of women- the low lifers who know they dont even merit to ask a man for money, another category who'd cook for u and even borrow u money, then the sophisticated category who need money by the second and then the social climbers who'd only hang with celebrities. There is a woman out there for every man(and am sure there's one for u too), so u r free to make ur pick. So know its not every woman that demands money, if u r talking about demanding chics then, may be u r looking @ the wwrong places wwithout recourse to ur poor financial state.

The fine chics always have men running after them, even begging to spendd money on them, so they get to know pretty quickly they dont have to pander to a man to get the good things of life. If a woman is not fine and ddoesnt have much traffic on her, then she wont be too confident demanding from a guy she ensnares, would she? So try the really ugly ones. Why would a girl a Chevron or MTN big boy is begging to take out to the Galleria or LaCAsa consider a weasel like u who probably is too broke most of the time to even afford a N200 beer down ur street?

But, do u know how many women on ur own sstreet who would gladly die for u? the phone girl, the one whose mother sells pepper, the local breed, next door- those ones wwould even steal to give u, y should u go for ones who demand. Because u r atracted to them. y r u attrated to them. Because of their glamor and sophistication perhaps. U think when they walk into the saloon, they make their hair for free? If they cant pay Bobbies for their hair, or buy Claarins from their own pocket, then a man somewhere must do that. If the men who foot those bills are not complaining, why sshoud u? Go for the girl who buys N200 powder instead of the one who buys MAary KAy powder for 3k or 5k. Simple.

The world is a simple place and we really are a prodduct of our choices, so makee ur choice andd stop compaling women are hoes and they like money.u will compalin and complain and complain, going to bed with hard ons every night fantasizing about the hott girl next door u cant lay. Know ur level simple.

U dont and thats why frustration rings through ur posts and blogs, ur boss doesnt pay u enough to feed and still want to keep a woman, too bad, earn more money boy----maybe one of these days i'l invite u out and buy u bottle of Dom P or cristal (know what dat is?) @ Reloaded (ever been there before?). If u r too timid to pop cristal or Dom P, i'll buy u a bottle of beer @ the Saipan or Fashion Cafe in Ikoyi (a bottle of beer there costs N900 anyway). There, u'll get to see womeen who really, really, really like money and the guys who never, never, neever mind spending on them.

So, if u dont have money, u dont have any businesss chasing a woman, it becomes torture if u have any ego at all, and its understandable u feel the way u do about women with ur cathedral sized ego and no money. Whether the Dangote's have women who are disaffected is mere polemics, and why shd u call them them dogs? u r just a big fool. U dont know who Otedola is, u r an ignoramuss, he probaly sells u the diesel that powers ur generator at work.

And broke ass boi, u r way out of ma league when it comes to dissing so just take this little piece of advice- make money, then make more money, so when a woman requests for 100k from u, it would be like the little girl of ur neighbour who says u shd give her 5naira. U suffer from poverty of the mind, kits wworse than physical poverty.

NA2DAY, I DIDNT REALLY WANT TO REPLY U, BUT REALLY U R FULL OF SHIT, TOPIC IS- NO FINANCE, NO ROMANCE AND THERE U WENT AT A TANGENT TALKING ABOUT INDIA AND TV SETS. i THINK EMPLOYERS SHD DO SOMETHING ABOUT BROKE ASS NIGGERS LIKE U WHO KEEP POSTING NONSENSE ON WEBSITES FROM THEIR DESKS AT WORK WHEN U OUGHT TO BE EARNING UR STIPEND THAT CANNOT EVEN TAKE U HOME. WORD OF ADVICE- DONT THINK ANYBODY WHO SAYS MEN SHD MAKE MORE MONEY TO GET DEM CHICS IS AN ENEMY. U R THE TYPE WHO KEEP COMPLAINING ABOUT WOMEN LIKING MONEY, YOU COMPALIN AND COMPLAIN AND COMPLAIN WHILE THE LIKES OF THE OTEDOLAS, DANGOTES DONT EVEN NOTICE WOMEN LIKE MONEY, KNOW WHY? COS THEY GAT PLENTY, SO PEOPLE LIKE U HAVE A VICTIM MINDSET, U FEEL U  ARE VICTIMS OF THE SYSTEM, WOMEN SIMPLY DONT LOVE U GUY, AND THEY WONT EVEN IF U DIED AND CAME BACK, BECAUSE, U R REALLY THE POOR MAN U R ACCSSING SOMEONE ELSE OF BEING.
NEXT TIME DONT GO LECTURING ABOUT INDIAN PMS AND TV SETS WHEN WE ARE TALKING ABOUT ROMANCE AND FINANCES- U R SO SO BORINGAND OFF CUE. IF EVERYBODY WAS LIKE U ON HERE, NAIRALAND WOULD HAVE CLOSED DOWN SINCE. MY FINAL TAKE IS- AND WHETHER U LIKE IT OR NOT- THERE MUST BE MONEY FOR THERE TO BE ROMANCE. AM QUITE SURE U R THE STINGY TYPE WHO GIVEES HIS WOMAN NUTHING, LITTLE WONDER SHE'S SCREWING THE GUY DOWN UR STREET. GUYS LETS MAKE MORE MONEY MEN, AND LEAVE THE LIKES OF NA2DAY (HEAR HIS NAME SEF? U DONT HAVE TO MEET HIM TO KNOW THE TYPE OF PERSON HE IS) TO KEEP WHINING, MURMURRING AND COMPLAINING. WORD!!

first time i am contributing here on nairaland, and i must say that for Nigerian men, our biggest blesing is our women and their demanding anture. If not for dem gurls, u wont believe just how many men would still be waking up in their houses(for those that have houses) by 10am. When u know that you cant get laid by dem chics becos u r too poor, u know u just have to go out to make this money, the gurls and their attitude is a challenge and not a problem- it just depends on ur orientation to determine which side u belong, instead of complaining and sulking- go and make money- why shouldn't a woman u meet on the street care whether u have money or not, when even in ur house, ur mother( though she may not admit it) probabbly regards ur richer junior brother more cos he gat more money