Ivynwa:

Somebody's sister got killed and you came here to run your mouth that she is a runs girl, if it were your sister that passed away and others are gossiping and saying rubbish about her how will you feel about that with your heart breaking over her death? Some of you that are quick to label women names are the same men that patronize the runs girl. What mentality are some of you showing off here in castigating a young girl that has her business running at 24. It is too much for your minds to grasp that is why you are painting it all shades of colour.

If she decides to pass the night in a hotel and do her business and go back to where she lives, is it your business to judge her down because she stayed in a hotel? What manner of thinking are these? Abeg make I do important things Ojare---- I no get una time.

You are so foolishh and empty,and in another clime and time, it would have been your mutilated body that would be in the morgue. So what if she is somebdoy's sister or my sister? Does that subtract from the substance of the episode and what lessons can be gleaned from it? why come here bandying about sttupid sentiments about sister na d mother bla bla..If you need sympathy for her or your ilk, go host a pity party

The young girl left Nassarawa, came to Abuja, stayed with her friend, a certain Aisha who has come outwith a press release rambling about the virtues of her dead friend instead of mourning her. This Aisha was the last person that saw Cynthia before she left for lagos, yet the Cynthia couldnt tell this bosom friend about her rendevous with her lagos friends once she entered lagos. Cynthia already knew she was going to engage in reprobate activity hence her refusal to tell her Abuja friend who she was going to meet or who was coming to pick her up. If she did and the friend kept quiet all this while, then she should be picked up for questioning.

Having a business at 24 is no big deal. Only someone with little exposure will think 24 is such a young age to own a boutique. Go to university campuses all over Nigeria, young boy s and girls own boutiques, photo studios, restaurants, fashion outfits, media houses etc. so nobody can be over excited that another young person is doing same.

But the fact remains, Runz girls always have a legitimate business by the side to obscure their major source of income which is always male patronage. Many are even working class and hold 8-5 jobs that cannot sustain their fly lifestyles.

Its not ste in stone, but Cynthia must have been doing same, else she wouldnt have ended up the way she did. nothing wrong with making friends on FB, but she would have atleast confideded in her Abuja friend before leaving for lagos. Had she paid for her hotel room herself, she would most likely have met her suppliers in their own shop or wareehouse as the case maybe and not in a hotel room. They were only together in that room because they paid for it and since they couldnt trace her, hotel register didnt have her name, meaning its most likely those boys filled out the reservation card themselves.

And yiu want to tell me she didnt have female friends, cousins, nephews in Lagos? Why didnt any of them pick her up from the airport? Because she didnt want anyone, not her Abuja friend, not her family to know what she was upto in lagos. You cant tell me a girl whose father is a General doesnt have a family friend or cousin in a 16million man Lagos.

Do not try to obscure the truth so that many other girls will learn the hard and bitter lesson. If you keep on trying to justify her romp, many of the other girls doing same will go like: 'oh, she was killed by her business partners. Its not as if she died because she went to meet a man in a hotel room.'

If this theory gains grounds, then cynthia would have died in vain and no lessons would have been learnt. A few months later, we would all be here again to mourn another girl who died in slightly different circumstances but egged on by the same mentality...That time, it may just be you.....or your sister.

A word, is nowadays enough, even for the foolishh!

Ivynwa:

In the bolded part of your post above, you painted yourself as a myopic person with some limiting mentality about how far the girl child can dream or spread her wings and fly to the best of her potential.

If this girl is your sister, will you come online and call her a runs girl?

She is somebody's sister and daughter dearie. You can't even give it up to a 24 year young girl that is up and about running her business and carrying her shoulder high. A girl that has left her parents to struggle and make a life for herself is now a runs girl. If she stays strapped to her parent's apron, tomorrow somebody with the kind of mentality some are exhibiting here will come and marry her and enslave her because she is woman that must never work hard and succeed in life. WTFr*ak!

Comeon go sleep..with your dumb gibberish about the girl child and labor\struggle.r u writing a thesis?wat do u knw? Police haven't concluded their investigations but only a dumb hediot will fail to guess wat she went to do.just like I guessed right 2weeeks ago she must be dead,am also guessing right that she went on runz to fund her boutique.

If u want go chasing the shadow instead of d substance in dis story,u will also soon fall victim in a noda way and anoda format in ur ill thought out quest of not being enslaved by a man..

wat stopped her from transacting her bizness in a public space like a fast food joint?do u knw how many people in lagos transact bizness without offices?more people transact biznes than eat in places like mr biggs,tantalizers,food courts in mega plaza,silverbird,palms

We never speak ill of d dead,but don't try to giv dis story a nice coloration least d young girls reading this and doin d same same thing say it doesn't apply to them cos she was hard done by her biznes

I wonder how many bizness deals cecilia ibru struck in sleazy hotel rooms

Better check urself o,u dis ivywa girl or wateva ur name is

MAy her soul in peace.

That siad tho, this shd be a lesson for all these young girls.but do they ever listen? In life there are always scapegoats and cynthia was one.

She was prolly a runz girl,somene paid for her flight she went to meet him ina hotel room,for which he also paid for.it was no legitimate biznes she went for,just d quest for dubai shopping,blackberry porsche, living a life of indulgence all paid for by men.

Even as. I write this, there r girls all over Nigerian airports goin to meet men they hardly know, or returnin to meet men they knew in similar circumstances as cynthia.

70% of the young girls you meet in any local Nigerian airport hold tickets paid for by men. They all want to live lavida loc with all expenses met by men.so sad.

'Buy me ticket, I'l cum'- dats dia mantra.two days after meeting dem, they r even d ones to suggest.

One deleted me off her bb cos I started hedging about fulfillin my promise of buying her a ticket so she could cum visit frm PH.

Another has been harassin me for not wantin her to come visit frm Owerri.I even had to lie at a point I was not in d country forgetting that my location\time zone settings on my bb profile wwere visible. She took offence.

3oda ones are in various levels of posting by me.if I was a ritualists? These girls r gooners naa.

So its a bout seeing a new city to dem and flying 'aeroplane'.it doesn't matter if they have done so countless times in d past.so long as they r not paying and dey feel they r gonna catch fun and ccum bak wit ' Thanks for Comingg'.

Imeediately I saw her broadcast on bb last week, I just knew.she don fall victim. I understand all diz Runz girls very well and dia mentality,and wen I say Runz girls, I mean almost 70% of the young unmarried female population.

I was talking to one the other day and she had this to say; 'Guy, any girl wey don comot her mama house enter street to find money na winsh.she don see things.even if she dey 15yrs old,no b small girl again.she don see.'

Cynthia too been don see,unfortunately, she never lived to tell us what she had seen.

Young girls be cAreful

sunboy:

bro u r on point but two things involved. If i meet d smaller demands what if more are rolling in without honey pot yet then na me lose money b dat. Or she may bone jest like ur gf.

Naaa..she didn't leave me.we dated 5years...left her for my oda long time gf

About women? Nothin is set in stone.u may spend n hit d jacpot,u may spend n hit dud. Its a toss upbut if u r a correct guy,u shd hav a 70% successrate. Not every woman can say yes to u,even if u hav money.even cassanova didn't get all d women he toasted

Dats why I say meet d small bills the 2k,3k bills..then follow wit plenty of mouth.let her feel that there is more whre dat came from n if she was 'nice' to u,u cld be nicer to her. Here ur success rate depends 30% on ur lil money n 70% on ur personality.buh sumthin must giv,and as d man u must budge first.if it doesn't work,cut ur costs n count ur losses.move on.in life, no b every woman wey u meet go ggive u ccongo.believe!

Woman na wash..but before u fit wash properly,u must pay na..chose d cheapest of her demands n meet it..if na cosmetics how much sef? Budget 3k cosmetics..shine d congo andscram. If u spend 3k to shine congo,is dat too much? D bb tell her u'l buy it,u r expecting a check upper week or end of month,which ever is more convenient,u'l buy the fone. Now,she doesn't send u.she is only after wat she can get frm u,s o u must drop small sumthin to see d kitten. Chances are dat before d time for d fone buying comes,if u r a likebale personality she may get to like u and keep grudgingly accepting your stories till you feel in your heart she needs a fone.

My ex gf,the first time I called her,the Verynext day after meeting her,she told me I must buy her a fone.I said okay,month end.by dat month,I had her on a leash so kept givin her stories. I didn't buy her a fone till after 2years and even though,I actually saw dat she needed a fone.

D big big bills,neva eva directly say no,but neva pay them.however d small small ones,so long as u can afford dem,why not?if sum of her financial pressures r off,she is happier,u enjoy her more,shikena

Lpls dnt mind d hediotts tellin u its such a bad idea to apply for the dangote trainee driver scheme.infacxt if u ask me,dat is d fastest way to cum from d bak door to work wit d dangote group as a permanet staff.once they r doin recruitment,and u r driver with a mechanical engineering degree, nand they r callin for graduate nigerian engineers to apply,u think they wil turn u down if u appply if u r qualified though u r workin as a driver? Dos drivers will always hav d right of first refusal.aliko dangote is smart.he isn't a billionaire by mistake.if u can drop down to b his truck driver,he knows u hav d maturity to b a future production. Manager at Obajana cement or financial controller at Numan sugar.

D mentality here demonstrates why so many r so poor and so few r billionaires
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There she is-my babe.aint she gorgeous?

temmytanny:
ok, thanks

They operate in sum nothern cities as ABG subscription 3k5,wit playboy 4k.they r ok in terms of football coverage,they r better than DSTV but menhn,have it at your own risk.once small wind blows,d signal goes off.if a heavy thunderstom comes,lightening may blow the antenna.u will need 3k for a new one.EPL commentaries r always in english buh oda games?spanish,arabic or italian commentary.d entire EURO had no english commentary.arsenal wenger n gullit were sum of their analysts during d EURO but d english analysis was superimposed wit other languages.

U won't hav any issues wit it once its dry season,but during rains,its almost useless.d only positive is dat u get to watch every damn soccer match on d planet if and wen it manages to work

She wants to come and visit and she doesnr have all the transport.what warranted the having bigger bills to pay in such a conversation? I dnt see any connection with adding her money and you saying you have bigger bills to pay.are you sure you even meet her needs before now as you claim?

You were the one who spoke out of point in the first place.

u should count yourself lucky naa..i once had a girl whose mother was like that and i was darn uncomfortable. if i handnt called my girl by 11am on anyday, next thing- the mpther will call and go like- why havent you called lucille today? if i was too busy and couldnt come up with the work excuse and mistakenly said i didnt have credit, dat was why- next thing is, i'l see N1500 credit on my fone with an admonition - call her now.
I checked everything then withdrew

See pot calling kettle black..when you are also struggling to express yourself correctly.'house, please advise me quick am getting nut about my relationship'
follow the girl jare..two of u will speak your native language

Dis guy werrrin dey worry u?abi u b weakling as she talk? There was nuffin wrong wit wat u did.she needed sum hiding and she got it.now she wil tuck in.her skoin skoin will disappear trust me.am talking from experience.
My girl was like yours-no not exactly a little better sha.and for most times,she often seemed like d aggressor if we had issues.infact one day after a night out,we had a serious misunderstanding,and she slapped me wen we got home and I parked.did I hit her back?Nope.I simply picked her up and took her upstairs.next day she came,she was sorry,she was high bla bla.I shd forgiv her.I did,but I didn't forget.I filed the incident sumwhere in mind.
Fast forward a year later,and after another misunderstanding,she started shouting and ranting at me publicly.in d club.I had never hit her before,so she must have been surprised at my reaction.I grabbed her by the scruff of her neck and pushed her out of d club like a common thief. I bundled her into the car and half way home,parkd and gave her d hiding of her life.she had to try to jump out of d car onto d expressway..it was almost 3am in d morning.

We didn't talk for 2weeks after then but since that incidence,she tucked in and beacme more pliable.that was 2years ago,and as I type,she is in d kitchen preparin me a meal.since she don't want me to ever beat her again,she behaves herself and all those skirmished between me n her have reduced ever since.Never ever fear to hit a woman,but then never ever hit a woman out of fear..cos of ur own insecurities

Simple , the guy doesn't like u enuf to marry u.maybe u r d type dat look more beautiful in pictures..on ground dey r not.I have done it most times. A girl blows my mind on fb,bb,twitter or other social media.
I hook up with her and most times dey just don't match up with wat I wanted physically.the attitude mayb good,but its either she's a head too short,a size too big or a touch less pretty.I go on with the charde,and once she's gone,the calls stop.she keeps wonderin my sudden change in attitude when she knows she was so sweet to me.it often aint about only attitude,the attraction must be there.
Right now am waitin for one-a gurl I been shadowin for almost 2yars.she finally gave me an ap now.if she's not fine?gave save her rat ass.I'l prolly tell her to her face cos she suffer me well well.or I mayb just b polite and suffer thru d outing till she goes off.den I delete her frm my memory

Analysing football is big money business, and you are called a pundit and the whole world is meant to listen and enjoy your analysis. One of the prerequisites for being a pundit is having a good command of English language or whatever language you are analyzing in. We have Spanish as well as arab speaking pundits- you see them all the time on Al jazeera sports. All of them are fluent in those languages they have chosen to ply their trade. Anybody who will come here trying to defend Ikpeba sure has a problem with speaking or writing English so perhaps they also view the thread as an attack on their proficiency.

Ikpeba is an absoulute disgrace. He was a good footballer, we all agree, but very few good footballers make that seamless transition from playing football to other areas of football related careers. You need to listen to Efan Ekoku speak- he is a commentator on Sky and most times it is his voice we hear during matches. Thomas mlambo of Supersport was absolutely fantastic on the EPL beat till he was redeployed to Soccer africa- he was so professional in his analysis as an anchor that till today, nobody knows the team he supports. Only God knows how Ikepba managed to snag that role with Superpsort Nigeria. One of the wonders of the world, but then, sshit happens. He is there undeservedly there so we are daily punished with his gibberish.

I dont complain about what I know I can change- so I no longer subscribe to DSTV as a whole. On my ABG which is even cheaper than Ikpeba's DSTV, i watch analysis straight from the EPL studios as well as IMG pitch side analysis before the match. Those guys are fantastic. Its always an exhilarating experience listening to Gary Linekar, Ruud Gullit, Andy Townsend, Ray Wilkins(yes, same Ray that was Ancelloti's deputy), Alan Shearer and others. For those of you who like mediocrity and even try to defend it, continue listening to Ikpeba while i listen to these guys and improve my English everyday. Because of the analysis, i no longer even watch football outside my house cos in all public places, its DSTV and Ikpeba's rubbish.

God punish those DSTV people.

location please...lemme relocate and have you as my neigbor...so i can ffuck those daughters of yours to submission...we'l have a threesomme, menage ala trois..am sure you wont mind...cos i'l be a niegbor too

Who eva comes first shd take d front seat.but sum of diz low esteem low life girls take it as an affront.dey just like posin in d front seat.I used to have dis girlfriend of mine who stayed in d same house as me.so if we were goin out,she always invariably in d car before any one else.my friends knew dat so der was neva an issue.

However,if I was goin to pick her and I was with sum1 else,no P,I don't think she eva made a fuss.if I was wit her and I was going to pik my brother,she always knew wat to do-move to d backseat once he showed up.I can't imagine for d life of me why my wife would tell my friend to go to d bak seat.it doesn't mean I love her any less.nor would my friend come n take d front seat wen he knows am wit my wife...e no make sense.

D rule shd be:howver comes first seat infront,period

you are alone o.continue watching dia ini edo, and rita dominic your africa magic, cine afriq and movie africa then

Lagos girls ofcourse.....there's none to touch my Lagos girls anywhere on d face of this our obodo africa...and i stay in Abuja for now.

For one, Lagos girls are prettier...that is easily explainable because more population of girls in lagos means you are more likely to see a prettier girl in Lagos than you are in Abuja.
You dont need to look to hard to see swaggerlicious girls in Lagos- right from on your street as you are stepping out in the morning, in traffic, at bus stops, markets,lifestyle malls like Silverbird, Mega, Palms, Clubs, bars, Lounges, beaches, etc. In Abuja everyone will tell you you must go to ceddi or silverbrid to see girls with swags. as per clubs n bars at night. mostly over run by runsgirls and whhores

Lagos girls got more swags cos Lagos is the fashion capital of Nigeria anyway, so for the socially inclined, the girls are more on point. Even mgbekes know where to go on d island or Yaba or Vespar to buy clothes that look good on them. The average unilag girl also knows where Dubai is, so continental junkets paid for by money bags are frequent and their wardrobes always stocked.

Lagos girls are more down to earth than Abuja girls- atleast blood no dey dia eye. The good, down to earth Abuja girls are few and mostly are never seen. They stay indoors- the swaggerlicious ones or the bad ones are the ones that you see everywhere- in taxis, at Silverbird, Ceddi, Grand Square and all the Lounges. Keeping up with their sort of lifestyle is expensive so since whhoring is their major industry,being down to earth goes outta the window.
And anyway, whatsoever is done in Abuja has to be learnt in Lagos first

So, u looked at the other guy's pictures and he wasnt up to u? so u r wondering why she should chose him over you. You are very foolish..dat you've got a better paying job than her boyfriend wont make her love you more. What if you are spending time and money on her? go sidon..you be her mayee naa. You think its all girls that worry about money? maybe you simply dont connect with her core, she sees you aint soul mates, she doesnt necessarrily enjoy being with you with all your 'money'. Maybe you re too boring.

maybe her shabby looking boyfriend makes her laugh more than you do, makes her happier with his personality, even though he is an applicant. So you can imagine how happy she will be with him if he had your money. You do not excite her enough. look for another girl with your personality fit.. Its not always about money, dude

So for 8years, DBanj was the marketer bringing in close to N1billion naira by way of his music and endorsements into MOHITS?Don Jazzy just sat down there forming big man and letting us all think he owned and ran MOHITS. Then the first deal he Don Baba J brokered,Samsung, ie the first money he ever brought into Mohits- he cheated DBANJ out of $130k.why? Don Jazzy Why? They say DBANJ is arrogant, but I dare say that no one who controlled the sort of funds he did within that establishment can have the sort of humility he displayed over 8years.

Now its glaring that DBANJ owed Mohits, brought in the funds that kept them going, dispensed favors as he so wished, yet never a day, did anybody even suspect that he was the dynamo, he was the cash cow. NO one ever knew he signed the checks and had Don Baba J on a salary. Everybody said Don JAzzy bought him that BMW, he even said so himself, meanwhile it was the reverse. DFBANJ made it seem like Don JAzzy was his master, while all along, he, DBANJ was Don Jazzy's master. He bought a Bentley for Don JAzzy that was N5.2m more expensive than the one he bought for himself. Damn, i dont think there is any living young Nigerian that can show the sort of humility DBANJ showed. Its Don JAzzzy Again (IDJA) reverence deceived everyone into thinking Don JAzzy was the head, while all along DBAN was.Even within the MOHITS staff, no one knew DBANJ signed checks. They all assumed IDJA got the cash and gave DBANJ. And DBANJ never for once even boasted, even in bed to any of his girlfriends or hommies.

Sad sad sad about this report, and everything the report said here about the GOOD MUSIC sidelining DOn JAzzy I will consider as conjecture, till further emails from both parties tell us otherwise. But if it was the truth, then it just casts IDJA as even more of an ungrateful person. From the foregoing, what i can deduce from their breakup is this:

1. IDJA started resenting DBANJ in some way as he made them more money, and termed it arrogance so as to soothe his own ego and create the feel good factor around himself. How can you call a man arrogant who has deified you to the point of being God, atleast in the eyes of the public
2. Greed, finally nailed the partnership because Don Jazzy collected $130k dollars and didnt tell DBANJ about it. He prolly felt it was time he earned his own N15million without DBANJ brreathing down his neck.
3. The GOOD MUSIC deal finally buried MOHITS- because DBANJ owed MOHITS, IDJA wanted it scrapped so they could throw in with GOOD MUSIC. DBANJ knew at GOOD MUSIC, he will be a salaried entertyainer while at MOHITS he signed checks. WHo would agree to that? So the GOOD MUSIC deal just amplified the saying that 'All that glitters is not gold'. Kanye and Jigga came in from nowhere and spoilt one of the brightest African business models ever spawned..and i cry. Despite the fact Don Jazzy stole money, despite the fact he felt DBANJ was arrogant, they would have sorted their differences like the men they are had GOOD MUSIC not being in the picture

Now, a creative partnership made in heaven has gone down and all real aficionados of music and creativity should be sad for this.

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