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Ogatitus:


.... Khalesi has over stayed her welcome in the land of the slave masters. She has forgotten she is on transit to fight for the Iron Throne.

Don't mind her. She is busy playing queen where nobody can challenge her.

SAMBARRY:
Ode!



This one is high on some doses of gbana

He is actually correct in what he is saying. A man in his early 20s is not as desirable (to women) as a man in his 30s or older. This is because at that early age he has not acquired the things that women consider important in their long term sexual strategies. A man in his early 20s is still very likely in school, just graduating or still learning his craft/business. His social status and dominance is not as pronounced as that of a man in his 30s (or older) who has the advantage of an established career or business, improved financial standing and considerable social respect. It is at this age that he is said to be at his peak value and women being the experts at detecting these traits notice him are attracted to him.

On the other hand a woman in her early 20s is at her peak attractive state. The singular factor that men consider first and foremost - her sexual desirability is at its highest here. This is when the woman has the highest number of admirers, she can have multiple boyfriends on rotation while she carefully selects the one she thinks will pay off at the end. She is at her most adventurous sexually during this age. Now because a woman's desirability decreases as she ages it is in her best interest to secure the best mate she can in the attraction marketplace. This decline in attraction value becomes pronounced as she hits 30...

But at 30 (some behaviourists have put it at 35 and it last way way longer than women's, possibly up to his 60s even) the man is entering the phase of his highest desirability. It then appears as though the tables are turned, the man is now at the receiving end of numerous female attention - especially the ones looking to cash out of the marketplace before their currency expires. This is what Donx001 is describing from his own experience. He now has more options, more women are available to him and he has the wherewithal to act on this advantage.

It's great to be a man. All that is needed is to bolster the advantage that is offered by keeping in good shape physically and financially. With this he can massacre the marketplace.

themodernman:
I disagree with you on this. A woman who rations sex has simply not been made to feel attraction for the man. We all have sexual feelings which once ignited gives no damn about your first statement. Once a woman feels it for you, she will do it with you whether its d only thing she got or not...and even if she brings more to the relationship dan sex, if she feels no attraction for you she'll not be aroused & thus deny you of sex.

Self esteem has little to do with a babe dat has been seduced properly. Dont get things twisted bro. I know of women that use the only thing they bring into a relationship which is the "thing" between their legs to keep their man by having him well satisfied- My Akwaibom parole babe comes to mind...she finished me off & she knew she did a good job.

Oh my days!

Moana:
like i have said love and loyalty are the most important then comes sex and everything else comes after those 2.

Anyone can have sex without love and loyalty, but a marriage cannot live long where sex is put before love and loyalty.

Sure those things are important, no one is debating that. What is under question is the role sex plays in marriages; I maintain that it is is just as important as love and respect. Any truly happy marriage will have love, mutual respect and sex.

Moana:
i asked about you personally i didnt ask you to continue shifting from the goal post.

Lol. Why is it a personal question? I won't marry any woman for sex alone, but if she takes sex out of the equation I won't marry her either.

Moana:
dont shift the goal post. Tell me why you wouldnt wife up a woman who gives good sex but you dont love or respect first of all

Many a man have "wifed" a woman because of sex alone. While that is not the best reason to enter into a monogamous r/ship it goes to show how important sex is for men.

Look at it this way, even if a woman is as well behaved, respectful and virtuous as though she was angel Micheal's sister but offered no possibility of sex with her forever, she will most certainly never be "wifed" by any man.

Moana:
you have clearly misinterpreted everything i never said sex is not important i said its not the most important thing in a marriage. Note the difference. There are other things that come before sex in a marriage. Tell me why u will never wife up a woman who gives good sex but u dont love or respect? Since sex is on top of the list?

Whatever list you come up with, if sex is not in the top 3 important things then the man is not being honest with himself.

tpiaT:
the whiney nlers are the same people spamming the forum with threads on fifty shades of grey.

double mouthed.

You deserve a bottle of 7up for this comment! Their duplicitious ways are open for all to see.

Moana:
sex is not the most important thing in a marriage...many are procreating outside of marriage so i highly doubt its on top on the list either.how many marriages do you know that are primarily based on sex and children and they are still standing?

Any man that tells you that sex isn't important to him is lying or has medical issues like low testosterone levels. Sex is important in marriage for men.

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sammieblaize:
Quite sad that something this old is just coming to Nigeria.... its in season 4 right now

Season 4 ke. You mean 5.

Gbola5:
But they ARE making stuff up, and its leading to a lot of plotholes.

When you put it like that one would think this whole thing actually happened. The whole GoT story was is made up.

SpeedyConnect:
Granted, he has the right to contract marriage from anywhere but given that he is a politician inter alia, why Cape Verde? Does it mean there is dearth of comely lasses, junoesque in this country? That's my major snag with the shebang.

What you have here is a very misplaced concern. The governor like every other Nigerian citizen is under no obligation to marry only Nigerians.

Lala247:
Yh in nigeria yes
Her in europe its different .. We got law .. No matter how small it is u dont have to agree . What works ineurope cnt work in nigeria mentality of people are different . Hence ur response

Neway have a nice day

Off course I know that in Europe the law sides women and many of them exploit it shamelessly. When it comes to rapé a man is presumed guilty until proven innocent.

ChangeisHere:
There are rumours that a UK newspaper will be publishing something very bad about his personal life

And here you are helping the whisper campaign. Well done.

Lala247:
Yh u say that that but dats how raping starts .. First dey touch, slap , tease den dey graduate to raping soo i guess it depends on law of country .. A country like nigeria dont take these things serious

That's not how raping starts. Let's not get ahead of ourselves. Before long some ladies will start using that accusation at every drop of a hat.

Lala247:
Yes was walking down d market with my friend .. It was a polish guy two of them .. He slapped my ass , i turned around was a police officer opposite side of the road my firend called them they took my details n the guys description.. Next day they came to my house i dropped statement my friend did too .. Next month i get letter both been sentenced to 24 months apparently his been going around doing it to females ..

The sentencing should depend on the type of derrière in question. Not all are deserving of 24 months, a flabby derrière-tapping should get nothing more than a week's detention.

We have to blame the NDLEA for these kinds of articles. More and more reporters are now using crack cocaine.

kramer:
Da Bleep is that on his shoulder?

It's a white Meerkat. You have to wash the fur in hot water and bleach to achieve that whiteness. To reduce organic corruption that is occasioned by bacteria the internals of the meerkat have to doused in formaldehyde every weekend and on public holidays. You can also include parts of the internals like the heart and kidney to your lunch if the decay becomes too much, certain restaurants in VI are eager to help with this.

The things people do for fashion. Don't be surprised people will start wearing grasscutters like this too.

Psych!

gj22:
Wait. Am I the only one rooting for Stannis? Come on nairaland Stannis Baratheon is awesome and a wise man.

Awesome and wise? That's hard to see from where I stand. All I see is a stubborn man who is easily manipulated by a suspicious witch.

CecyAdrian:
Why can't we adopt that law, even though it is barbaric, it will go along way in installing some certain discipline.

Lovely suggestion. Clap for yourself.

Na wa o. This movie has been in developement for five years now. Has it finally been released?

falopey:
If it was as a result of fear. A lot of you remain glued to your seat, holding tight the seat belt shouting Jesus or panicking in your heart whenever there is a serious turbulence. Is that not what fear makes you pass through. But this man out of humility to God, defile any distraction and come down on his kneel to pray.

You have to understand that humility is never prompted by fear. It has nothing to do with fear. It is the man who comes to the realisation of the greatness of his Creator and the insignificance of his own being that is humble. This realisation informs his mindset and his outlook on life as a whole, this is what humility is.

When fear pushes you to acts of piousness and displays of servitude you cannot be said to be humble even if you prostrate on the ground crying out in what we think passes for prayer.

Besides the man kneeling in the airplane during turbulence is even exposing himself to more risk because he is no longer held fast by his seatbelt and can very easily smash his head into something.

tiger28:
it depends on your relationship with your creator. What that man did shows how he humbled himself before without regards to whatever anyone says. That is what touches God's heart.

You hold a very flawed and shallow definition of the concept of humility. The man's action was obviously driven by fear, fear has nothing to do with humility. Humility is a concept that results from acknowledging one's modest importance before the Creator. It is a realisation of modesty that comes from knowledge not fear.

kay9:
Nope. Me and a bunch of other guys trashed out the "Was Ned Stark A Fool?" conundrum years ago... But it certainly didn't take us this many words.

So what was the conclusion, that Ned was a Stark fool or not?

smada13:
what is there to trivialize?

When it is used in every possible and impossible situation like any other exclamation it will certainly be trivialized. I'm certain DSTV didn't put up this censorship for any moral or religious reasons, they just didn't want to offend religious viewers.

kay9:
^^^
Wow... Did anybody read all that?

Omo, I did o, but how Bobby Brown take enter the matter na?

...but also to protect his broda Bobby B...

It's a good thing. We shouldn't trivalize the name of the Creator.

Gbola5:
Do lets. You think the show will still be cool ?

Well it will certainly be judged on the strength of its own plots, not how it compares to the books. That should be good.

gj22:
See, that's where you are wrong. The unsullied were broken down into groups and were greatly outnumbered. They use spears to fight but spears are only good for war in open spaces not small fights in closed spaces. That's why the masked men lured them into enclosed spaces and knifed them to death. It was a smart move.

This raises an interesting point. The Unsullied might just be a bunch of overrated (castrated) warriors! Yes they have been desensitised to violence and all but their fighting skill, which is supposed to the primary agency of any warrior, is rather unimpressive. Their choice of spears as their first - and only, from the looks of it - weapon is terrible. I expect them to have a vast arsenal and mutiple fighting styles that allows them to adapt effectively to whatever conditions they find themselves in. For people whose sole mission in life is the business of war and the taking of life, relying on a single weapon is foolhardy.

There needs to be some kind of ninja class warriors in that world to show people what a real soldier is like.

Danearys thinks she has an army of super soldiers, yet they are easily brought down by the local sons of Harpy. She done enter one chance.