₦airaland Forum

Divine88:
I’ve been watching a lot of Dr. Gabor Mate lectures on YouTube.
He once said and I quote “the best and most effective way to discipline your child is make them your disciples”
That’s stuck with me.

gopel8052:
Agreed but there's a dark side to it. Some kids don't change until you discipline them in the traditional way.

What should we say about those kids running rampage in the UK stabbing each other? , mostly brought up in a westernised way and still ended up violent.

phyl123:
I was hoping you will say that. A lot of Nigerian adults say that also.

But look around you, look at the country, why do men beat their wives and people think it’s alright, violence is seen as the norm. A lot of parents damaged their kids all in the name of discipline. Most of the adults in Nigeria today have been damaged by their parents and the saddest thing is that they do not know it. They carry on that same mentality to bring up their kids and the circle continues

phyl123:
Beating a child doesn’t solve the solution all it’s doing is just encouraging violence.

RalphJean:
Disclaimer: I am not a guru.
My ‘church mind’ advice:
I would advise the person to visit UK job sites (such as indeed, Reed, CV library, TotalJobs, etc). Search carefully for the skill sets required of an MSc Operation Management holder.

My inner thoughts: MSc in operations management (on its own) will not place you above other applicants in the job market.

LagosismyHome:
Not to small thing our country don cause due to the stress of living there

I agree, many people have Post-traumatic stress distrust symptoms without the person even knowing it

fatima04:
Thats the sad truth and even when you find someone that has experienced it, it doesn't mean you will have the same treatment. Leg pass leg

justwise:
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..About anything Nigeria you mean?

justwise:
This is really good news though i don't know how the implementation will be

Mamatukwas:
Every time I see these type of posts my heart skips a few beats. Cause us it’s only the LORD Himself that will help us

LagosismyHome:
Let me not talk.... it when I joined nairaland my eyes open to the magic that is been done with agents. Our people are too blame they go with it eyes open and later shift 100 percent blame to the agent ...... d way we dey blow/package fabu ehnn, even me self fear who no fear
Deliberately didnt write that in English because it's a public forum

Bourne007:
What's the point of divorcing someone who doesn't exist. I think she should come clean and also hire a lawyer. Surprised there's no ban on that letter and if none, there's a chance.

wallg123:
Madam sorry to see this happening to you but the truth is you were dishonest....
Look at the reasons for refusal?on several occasions you’ve declared that you’ve not been married before ...At the same time you married with two spouse simultaneously ?
..
My advice would be you go back to the drawing board and
(1) divorce one of your husbands and
(2) provide proof of this divorce
(3) Also in the future be honest and declare all your marriages....
(4) Take responsibility for your actions and stop blaming any agent ( you are an adult if you see someone using your details to commit fraud confront them .......
(5) let your current husband take lead and provide all the required proof that your marriage this time is genuine... Goodluck

Aykomo02:
This is my story
I married my spouse 2014,he based in uk,but because of d anxiety that I want to go nd meet my husband we made a wrong decision,I applied for visitor visa 2015 through an agent who told us he will provide all necessary documents because then my husband was not having a good job nd he just moved frm London to Manchester,not knowing dis guy used fake documents nd all,he even changed my spouse to another name nd provide another marriage certificate nd I was refused due to fake bank statements nd fake references,though I dnt knw why I was refused because he ran away with refusal letter,Nov last year I applied for spouse visa when my husband is financially ok nd we have all d evidence,and I was refused because I provided my marriage certificate of 2014 with my husband when I told them am still living with my previous husband in my previous application with marriage certificate,so they are convinced that my marriage with my real husband is not genuine,am confused on what to do because we want to appeal
N.B———I can’t find d agent and I dnt knw what date he filled for my previous marriage certificate even if I want to apply for divorce paper
Pls help me because am going through trauma already
What can I do to correct my mistakes....thanks in advance.Below I included my reason of refusal

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Chreze:
Bros there are some things wey more research go need to come out for us. Some of this things I feel say na assumptions cos if e de enter thru eye ball like that, then forget am everybody for this UK get as our HR guy talk. Till today I am still wondering how come everyone who flew around the world are not infected, bros for flight and for airport people just de touch same knob and rails and all that. That flight own still scare me till we completed 14days before my mind come down. When I watch people suffering at the hospital men I go just de feel sad, if no be fear of going to the hospital I for go donate blood make them see use work for people cos we gat do the little we can. I for carry my family go donate. Na just fear of going to hospital.

Grace321:
Please I am going to University of Chester, where do I set as flight destination? I noticed that international flight do not get to Chester so where is the nearest international airport? Liverpool?

TheGuyFromHR:
Debenham's are holding a closing down sale - its online now as stores are closed - check and see if there's anything you can still get there.
Some others are giving reduced prices for instance - M&S still had its 30% off sale on as at last week.
Do Primark for a 2 year old - they grow so fast and you don't really need to invest good money into children's clothes which they'll grow out of before you know it. Fast fashion all the way for children. And your money goes farther there too - there's a reason why their stores are usually so full.

umarwy:
Primark

Divine88:
I think IDV app was specifically used by applicant who submitted their applications during the first lockdown months. This was done as there were a lot of pending applications.
I submitted my application last month and did my biometric this week.
Like I advise the original OP. New appointment dates are release at 12 midnight every day.

foxyvisa:
Same concern I had last year. You can book dates/appointments when the site informs you via email. For me, they sent a mail/link directing me to use the new app UKVCAS IDV 21 days after I filled the application online. The app which you download on your mobile phone was where I uploaded all my documents and picture. They explained that applicants whose previous biometric are less than 5 years old are qualified to use the app instead of booking appointments and going to the centres. 3months and 1 week later I got my FLR residence permit card.
Hope this helps

Tobexin:
yes oo very spacious and in city centre

Lexusgs430:
The property is probably now mortgage - free, for the landlord........

So £500 is strawberry & cream money...........

Tobexin:
bro I bet to go against what you mean there isn’t Job out here in Middlesbrough, stop giving people bad impression of that city. I moved to Uk last year January on a tier 4 visa and I have not struggled to look for jobs. We all know the commonest jobs in Uk reside in the health industries or retail industries and you could find those jobs out there. I can bet you I have made times two of the money I invested in coming to Uk within 8 months. I haven’t seen any body out here who is jobless unless he or she doesn’t want to work. As a student your direction of jobs should focus on the health sector or retail and you will surely find something to do.

Settling in a small town has it own advantages. House is very cheap, I basically pay £500 for a tastefully furnished 3 bedroom apartment here, car insurance is low, less noise or struggle, less population to compete for few jobs available unlike London if exist 5 openings for a position in a job like 200 person will be fighting for the position of 5 person. Think wisely!

Olinga:
URGENT: hello house please I have a question.

on my visa it says entry date 11th January

My school starts on the 11th of January, however I have booked my flight for 10th January. Will I be allowed into London (its a morning flight so I will be arriving that same 10th January)

moetariq:
Hello House,
I got my study visa in November, My TB test is expiring this month, January 22nd 2021. With this lockdown, I plan to enter between January 29 and February 10. Will my 22 January expiry date be a problem for me at the border on entry?
I am going with family and their TB test is still valid till May 2021, I am the only one whose own is expiring this month.
Do they always check this TB test cert at the borders?

Lexusgs430:
Cutediva in distress...... We never like to see a damsel in distress.......


https://www.gov.uk/biometric-residence-permits/collect#:~:text=Collect%20your%20BRP%20once%20you,your%20BRP%20for%2090%20days.

wallg123:
Which brain ?...
The one u dey use now or u get another one ?

oxygyne:
Aphrodite, thanks.

To clarify, what I am asking is that should the entire 6months statement be within the 28days or just the last month before submission.

NIFES:
Hello All. Please help on this.

We are applying for spouse visa with one dependent child. But while completing the FM child application form for our daughter online under the Finance section, it requested for my (applicant's) employment details instead of my husband's who is the sponsor.
I need a guide please as I do not know if I made a mistake somewhere along the line.

Note, the employment I have is outside the UK, which I do not think suffices for the purpose required and even at that, my annual salary is below the financial requirement threshold.
Thank you.

oxygyne:
I am thinking more about the 28 -days rule ....

ronvlaar:
Happy New Year guys..
A quick one pls, I've paid to renew my spousal visa last week and was redirected to another site to book an appointment but there were no dates at all (due to the current conditions). But the thing is, I haven't received any form of communication from HO in regards to uploading of my docs.
When do you think I should expect to hear from them?

oxygyne:
Happy new year to everyone, we pray for a blissful year.

Please can someone point me in the right direction on bank statements.

I have official bank statements sent to me monthly (e-copies) which I download and save, so they have the dates they were sent to me which would be e.g July 2020, August 2020, etc..

My question is can I use these statements which show print dates e.g 11 July 2020 for July, 12 August 2020 for August, and so on up to December 2020 (the one for December will be within 28 days rule), or do I need to have the bank issue new 6-months statements which I believe will all show a single date (e.g January 2020 since the bank will send to me this month).

I hope I am making sense...lol