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Bugatie:
I shudder when I hear this Efe noise and I wonder what the hype is all about

He went haywire last night after drinking himself to stupor and his fans call it been real, I wonder if they would've said same if it was another housemate

Knowing you aren't perfect and not acting contrary to it is what being real is about and that is just how the dude is.

kimbra:
I guess you actually meant "Soweto" in South Africa. How e take be country?.

Abeg help us ask her

How many minutes now?

lovelygurl:
Oh please SHUT THE FVCK UP. Son of a bitch! Man do you even realise HOW RIDICULOUS YOU are. A NOBODY jumping up and down. I have to improve on my communication? Dude are you that dumb? Who was the 1 claiming to have written what wasn't there in the first place even though the PROOF was there?! Always nipping at my heels like cold sore. Acting like a stupid bastard, wanna be intelligent slowpoke

Still ranting like a bitc.h on heat, y don't u run along and look for a horse to mount you as you always do cos u are getting all cranky and it's not helping your ass like face one bit. How easy it is to get under you skin, I can't just believe that the SOMEBODY AND MATURE ONE, would end up cursing and replying the NOBODY AND IMMATURE ONE, now who's the real HYPOCRITE? I am no longer gonaa give u the so much desired attention you have been seeking, I believe giving a minute of such attention to polishing my shoe would yield a better result compared to an eternity of it trying to tall sense into a fool. So this is goodbye but it would be rude to just leave without giving you a gift. Enjoy!

lovelygurl:
And also a hypocrite. How old are you? To think that a 'man' is acting like this, even giving advise to the ladies. Dude, honestly when it comes to maturity levels I don't know if you realise how low yours is. Too proud to acknowledge his mistake, too childish to stop being a hypocrite.

Wie behindert und kindisch muss denn bitteschön ein Mensch sein? Hurensohn. Einfach mega traurig und verstörend

Stop whinnying like a b.itch. Next time, don't think of starting what you cannot complete. You could actually do with a major improvement on your communication skill, cos that shi.t u put up there in German, I don't understand and I really don't give a bleeping fvck.

lovelygurl:
You are extremely childish

Loool...... Is this the best you could come up with?

lovelygurl:
I guess you are one of those stupid people he is referring to

Keep on guessing but meanwhile;

lovelygurl:
Oh no German is what I prefer. English is more like a 2nd language but now I'm worried. Your mentality seems shallow. There nothing like nota bene though, at least not if that is supposed to be Latin

Nothing like nota bene?
no·ta be·ne - /ˌnōdə ˈbenē/
verb
1. observe carefully or take special notice (used in written text to draw attention to what follows).
It seems u just can't resist making a fool of yourself every time u get to open that thing u call a mouth.

lovelygurl:
Like I said you wouldn't know what it is


Tipp: Go and learn comprehension

I should go and learn comprehension? U are a
lost cause . U feel using words randomly makes u sound intelligent.
Nota bene: Comprehension is a noun and cannot be used in the manner u just did. No be by force to speak English

lovelygurl:
Oh no need to feel sry for those who see me everyday. The looooove me, adooore me just like I love and adore them. I doubt you would know what that is, the feeling of being loved

Looool....... I said it, U are bananas. Wishful thinking,all that care and adoration u speak of is mere PITY. Like the Nut job that u are, being delusional isn't a characteristic I am surprised u would showcase and u didn't fail to disappoint.

lovelygurl:
Foolishness.
I understand you are confused though. Confused people are sometimes mentally sick. How is it being 1? Living a pathetic life?

I do understand ur frustration at not knowing how deranged u are. I really do empathise with u and pity those who get to witness such lunatic behavior daily. You really need help cos all u just said is simple projection of ur state of being. I sincerely wish u a quick recovery.

lovelygurl:
You countered my argument? Looooool. I took it personal? looooooool. Man you are confused af. I don't think you realise how ridiculous you sound

Loool....... Yea, I am actually confused as to whether you are plain stupid or psychotic cos that's what laughing at ones own foolish actually is.

[quote author=lovelygurl post=55136809]Still talking rubbish I see. This is getting tiring. Someone who can be convinced easily can also be manipulated easily. About your comfortable stuff, you wrote it up there, I quoted it for you. Two different meanings. I never said i was intelligent, you are just too dumb[/quote]E pain am!

Your level of knowledge and understanding issues is still @ an infantile level. I countered your argument and like every unintelligent fellow took it personal.

lovelygurl:
I wouldn't say the logic is flawed, more like your brain is since you can't comprehend what I wrote. I said Mr A and Mr B represent the CHARACTERISTICS, APPEARANCE etc of Mr P and Mr O who are in this case the ladies.

To what you said earlier



You did NOT say 'not so comfortable'. Unlike you I have some health brains cells, you know. What you said is 'NOT allow your FRIENDS become comfortable..... 'Two different meanings. It seems you like twisting words.



About the definition of manipulation. The fact that I wasting my precious time by replying you and also unfortunately losing some healthy brain cells does not mean I am ready to be your google or dictionary

Looool...... Healthy brain cells? Joke of the century. I know what manipulation means but I don't think you do cos if that were to be the case, u wouldn't have created a very faulty scenario which entails conviction as a result of perceived doubt in making a decision and like u did by the example u gave, shortchange it for manipulation. Trying to fault my use of not comfortable with your friends and not so comfortable only goes to show how shallow you could be in your understanding since you couldn't fault the intention and emphasis for which it was said in the first place. You don't need to be my dictionary or google but if u were intelligent as you are trying so hard to prove, you would know that clarification of concept is of utmost importance and gives credence to whatever example or impression one aims to create in a given discuss. If and only if you had defined you perception as to what manipulation is or know what it means in the first place, you wouldn't have come up with that bogus scenario.

lovelygurl:
Oh I know common sense is not that common, you are actually proving me right. Nobody was asking you of the crap you wrote up there.

The fact that you think the girl you quoted is wrong because she's not a man is what we are talking about. Being a man is NOT an excuse or whatsoever. She said that she wouldn't hide her man from her friends and you were saying blablabla men think differently, that's why they should be hidden? Or what were you trying to prove with that post.
Nobody is talking about owing sth and nobody is saying ending the relationship is bad blablabl, so stop twisting things. Advising friends not to get close to your man? loooool.

Manipulation in this case means, if you don't know what you want then you can be easily manipulated.

For example
A man does not know which party to support.

His friend, Mr A tells him to support Mr O and gives him some reasons why he should. The man being his stupid self didn't think with his own brain to know if Mr A is right. It sounded right so it must be

He visits his other friend Mr B, who is a supporter of Mr P therefore convinces him to support Mr P. Now he feels that Mr B is right, still not using his own brain to think of what HE wants

Mr O and Mr P are the ladies. Mr A and Mr B are the characteristics, appearance etc which lead to an inner conflict.
Why should it be the ladies fault because the guy doesn't know what he wants and can't decide on what to choose. Why should the ladies WORRY about HIS stupidity and childishness. If he is a MAN NOT a boy, he'll know EXACTLY what he wants and go for it!

Advising girls to not let their friends get close to their man is so stupid! If he wants to cheat on you and hurt you, he will! He'll find his ways and this is not the girl's fault for not protecting him like an OBJECT that shouldn't be stolen from. He has his own mind, did it on purpose, it proves he is not yours. Don't blame yourself, don't be bitter, just move on. The right 1 is waiting for you and he'll be a keeper



Kapiert?

Manipulation in this case means, if you don't know what you want then you can be easily manipulated.
WHAT DOES MANIPULATION MEAN?

A man does not know which party to support.

His friend, Mr A tells him to support Mr O and gives him some reasons why he should. The man being his stupid self didn't think with his own brain to know if Mr A is right. It sounded right so it must be

He visits his other friend Mr B, who is a supporter of Mr P therefore convinces him to support Mr P. Now he feels that Mr B is right, still not using his own brain to think of what HE wants
FLAWED LOGIC. SEEKING OTHER PEOPLES OPINION AS TO A PARTICULAR SUBJECT REQUIRES THE USE OF THE BRAIN, COS IT FIRST MUST BE THOUGHT OF. IT ISNT MANIPULATION BUT SEEKING OPINION

Advising girls to not let their friends get close to their man is so stupid! If he wants to cheat on you and hurt you, he will! He'll find his ways and this is not the girl's fault for not protecting him like an OBJECT that shouldn't be stolen from. He has his own mind, did it on purpose, it proves he is not yours. Don't blame yourself, don't be bitter, just move on. The right 1 is waiting for you and he'll be a keeper.
IF YOU READ WHAT I EARLIER SAID, I WAS SO CAREFUL AS TO USE THE THESE WORDS “NOT SO COMFORTABLE” WHEN I SPOKE ABOUT THE LEVEL OF ACQUAINTANCE BETWEEN THE BF AND THE FRIENDS COS I KNOW SOME PEEPS LIKE YOURSELF WOULD BE SO QUICK TO JUMP TO CONCLUSION WITHOUT READING THROUGH AND SEEING IT FROM MY PERSPECTIVE. JUST TO BE CLEAR, I NEVER SAID ALLOWING YOUR FRIENDS TO BE CLOSE TO YOUR MAN IS BAD AS YOU ARE OPINING THAT I DID. BUT GIVING ROOM FOR THAT LEVEL OF COMFORT THAT EXISTS BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR MAN TO EXIST BETWEEN HIM AND YOUR FRIENDS IS WHAT I ADVISED AGAINST, WHICH IS ACTUALLY WHAT I BELIEVE TO BE THE ROOT OF WHAT HAPPENED TO THE AFFECTED LADY.

lovelygurl:
Sry but what you are saying is not making sense. So because of you being a man, you have no control of anything in your life therefore can be easily manipulated like a dog?

Lol...... Manipulate gini.. So attraction is now equal manipulation? Or u are saying one cannot go for that which they feel is better than what they have? I have a beetle and someone presents a Porsche to me for free, would u expect me to stick with the beetle? In this case it's simply a makeshift sort of relationship which could be on mutual or non mutual ground terminated. Your said boyfriend has the right to move on with whomever he chooses cos he owes u nothing and not cos he was manipulated by anyone. You either know this for a fact or u are just plain dumb. I don't expect to make sense to everyone, common sense they say isn't common in the first place and what I said is commonsensical.

kowema:
I am never for this school of thought and would never be.
Why do I have to keep my friends away from him if he doesn't have to keep his friends away from me.
Any man I have to Isolate from my friends for watever reasons never mine.
If he chooses my friend over me finally I will walk away no fighting. It will pain me that I had to be used to bring dem together but I will never stop being positive.
All relationships must not end in marriage.!

The truth will always sound like hate to those who hate the truth. The reason why u feel this way is because u are not a man and thus cannot understand fully what it takes to be in our position. From experience I can only advice u not to allow your friends become so comfortable with your man cos when e happen na soliloquy for u o.

Not hating in anyway but how's this news? @ Seun, gradually, ur site is getting more unappealing by the day. Tonto Dikeh spits, it gets to front-page, Davido takes a dump, immediately they forward it to the first page one gets to see when they click on nairaland. Of what benefit is her building her mum a house to us? Its really getting irritating by the day.

sawansa:
Am not surprised seeing Abia state in the list. Things has not really been going well in the state. I think the political foundation in Abia state since 1999 is the major cause of our problem.

Its quite obvious that Ibori is a thief, but which Nigerian politician past and present isn't? If Ibori had remained in power till this point, I bet u that we would have been competing with Lagos.

I guess you are waiting for her to either break up with you or tell you that she's shagging some other dude. From ur narrative, She has no manners, even the most minute of it. Instead of focusing on how to build on what you have presently which is your job and the only reason the gold digger is back, you are looking for who would teach you some advanced begging skills to use on a wayward liability.

So because Buhari doesn't have waec certificate, that's why mediocrity should become the order of the day. After assignments, tests, attendance and exam, a serious minded human being whose GP is less than 1.0 should still be harboured to continue doing what exactly?

snowblaq:
.....why would it pain me?...is he my brother or husband......with this disgusting attitude he cannot even be related to me.....

Come on, I don't believe u mean to tag his attitude as disgusting. You grew up within a particular culture and enviroment, and that's what informs your worldview. This isn't an issue of morality but a case of culture shock, cos to him such a practice is alien and you should also try and reason it from that perspective not just from the point of your particular culture.

snowblaq:
.....and u have no sense of judgement either....the man has no home training....simple....

Be like say the thing pain u well well
On a serious note, saying thank you is a gesture of appreciation and it's down to the individual involved to be appreciative based on the circumstance at hand. In this scenario, it varies and isn't a standard norm within every family. If it's a case of not greeting her, then it would be more reasonable, not something of this nature.

snowblaq:
...what is this one saying?...all this long epistle just to say a simple thank u after meals.....this is basic upbringing and home training.....ur MIL is not dragging the headship of your home with you....even if you saw her sitting down all day and not helping in the kitchen...simple home training expects you to thank your elders after eating.....with this kind of ego the OP and so many others have....its little wonder why we are raising a generation of mannerless children....i wonder wat he would give his own children as home training.....na wa o

Madam home training, Do u know how I was brought up? Or u are assuming that by proxy, what's obtainable in your family also applies to mine? Or because he refused to acknowledge her after eating his food in his own house, therefore he lacks manners and cannot train his children appropriately? Madam home training, You have a very narrow sense of judgment.

Op, your wife has little or no conflict management skill, which should be the number one characteristic every married woman should be associated with. She has forced you to open a thread this early morning because she couldn't manage a minute situation. It's situations as these that result to biases against in-laws cos I see no reason why the wife's mother should demand to be acknowledged after every meal as though its her house. Common sense should inform her that its not worth causing a rift between her daughter and husband. Op, It's also a good thing that this situation came into play because its evident from this that your wife puts her now extended family ahead of her immediate family cos she would never take your side or defend u if anything comes up.

fiziebaibie:
1. U are sooo completed in beautiful

Lol.... U tell am say u b uncompleted building?

chiomababy22:
I had a child 8 years ago. Ever since then, having a long lasting relationship is a big problem because they leave me with the excuse of my child been an issue. My last relationship has left me shattered and the last thing i want to do is deny my baby. Am confused pls friends what do you advise i do? Am not getting any younger. Thanks as i await you comments.

It's being not been. I bet u were distracted while trying to tell ur story, that's why u made that mistake. I could come here tomorrow and rub it in you face, but would that make me better than u, I don't think so. Could u actually deny it and perhaps try to cover it up, probably but that would mean you ain't proud of yourself and don't appreciate how far u have come. If you eventually refuse to accept that u made a mistake, it would simply mean that u are incorrigible. Lastly, from experience, admitting one's mistake is better than being found out. My humble opinion

OgorCDL:
Poverty is a bitch. This woman has obviously been coerced. If she hasn't seen her daughter in years how does she know her daughter is lying then? Mscheew.

Didn't she allege that apostle Suleiman had gone to her parents for introduction? The father and mother have denied seeing her in years, so why can't the mum on that ground say she's lying?

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