 Christianity Etc › Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Marrying More Than One Wife? by Archworld(m): 10:04am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Righteousness2:
GOD'S Standard from the beginning remains One man one wife.
GOD'S Standard is HE hates Divorce.
Jacob, Solomon , Society or whoever are not the standard. The Word of GOD is the Standard .
Read Matthew 19: 4-9 to know GOD'S Standard!
And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,
And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away?
He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.
And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. You said it all. 99.5% of what's in my mind |
| Politics › Re: Wike Commissions Gunboats Built By Abitto Global In Rivers (Photos) by Archworld(m): 5:29pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Totilopussylick:
The black soots in river state can reset one brain  . There is no more black soots in Rivers state. Wike handled it already |
| Family › Re: I Walked In On My Parents Having Sex, Now I Feel So Embarrassed. by Archworld(m): 2:09pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
BSsniffer:
Typical Nigerian 90s youth  still living with his parents. Learn to knock and if you're still living with your parents you probably need to start planning to get your place and give your folks the freedom they deserve. People like u make others to go through depression . It's really bad |
| Family › Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Archworld(m): 12:35pm On Mar 12, 2022*. Modified: 1:06pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ElonEmpire:
GoodMorning all ,
I will make this as short as possible.
Before marrying my wife she seems to be this very generous and accommodating fellow . I felt fall in Love with her because this is just the kind of partner I want,
I have not really stand very well financially, though comfortable and contented, but I have this great dream of, because of what I pass through to help as much people as I can.
While dating her, she told me all kinds of stories of her philanthropic and generous gestures to people.
But moving forward to today, she seems to be direct opposite of everything.
She detests people coming close or we offering any kind of help or assistance to family both hers and mine not to talk of friends.
What about suggesting to assist a relative that can't afford, with their child education na war
We have not born but I have more than enough space to bring one or two children to see them through school but my wife is not buying is at all at all.
I know who I am before I marry, this is the only thing that gives me joy, and my only reason for asking God everyday to bless me so that I can bless people.
But right now am seriously confused
it hurts me alot but I don't wanna force anything against her will.
I have tried discussing it over and over with her but she is still not buying it, with the excuse of that we have not stand enough to carry anybody .
What could be her reasons and
What should I do? Remember you are already married hence, you can only build on your marriage in whatever way you can. But there are so many ways of doing good things without involving your wife. If you so much wish to train or cater for the needs of others , do it without letting your wife know. Your wife does not need to be aware of all your goodwill or financial help to others as long as you are not using her money. Women are very territorial hence you don't need to bring another person's child to live in your house. I once told my ex girlfriend that I would like to adopt children later on and that I will like to raise and train other people's children. My dear If you see serious quarrel that day ehhn She said she can't take it and that no other children other than her children should bear my name . |
| European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Real Madrid Vs PSG UCL (3 - 1) On 9th March 2022 by Archworld(m): 7:19am On Mar 10, 2022 |
mixta140:
How far na Leave me alone o Mbappe should leave PSG make them no spoil he career |
| European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Real Madrid Vs PSG UCL (3 - 1) On 9th March 2022 by Archworld(m): 10:18pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
WibusJaga:
PSG posing more attacking threat so far. But I see Madrid having the last laugh. Laugh ni Laugh ke ? Madrid laugh no go even near mouth |
| Sports › Re: EPL: Arsenal Could Miss Out On Champions League Even If They Finish In Top Four by Archworld(m): 2:21pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
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| Food › Re: I Caught This Pigeon Flying In My Room, I Cooked And Ate It by Archworld(m): 7:20am On Mar 09, 2022 |
Simran94:
Ahhh!! A pigeon?
What kind of humans do we even have in this country? Pigeons that people play around with at the park, is what you killed for meat?
No wonder Ebola and some other diseases emanated from Africa. What is the difference between Africa and China where Covid came from.
Your type no fit near New York sef because you go dey kidnap all those pigeons when dey always dey for park.
Mtchww Hello , do you eat chicken , goat , Turkey , fish ? If you do , then you have No right to judge him . There are some people that also play with chicken and other animals you eat. Some even go as far as worshipping cow . Just imagine you eating cow in the presence of an Indian . All animals have been given to man by God . And as a man you are completely in charged |
| Food › Re: I Caught This Pigeon Flying In My Room, I Cooked And Ate It by Archworld(m): 7:16am On Mar 09, 2022*. Modified: 9:33am On Mar 09, 2022 |
Maj196:
You are a fool for eating such a harmless creature. Wtf is wrong with Nigerians eating any animal? You just ate your destiny helper if you no know If you cannot use social media without insulting people avoid it . Learn to drive conversation without using insults. If you eat chicken , goat, cow ....why do you think he shouldn't eat pigeon? He ate animal , not human. His act does not in any way affect you or remove anything from your body. You are still you . I may not like what he has done but how does a pigeon become a destiny helper ? What kind of superstition is that ? Possibly you might have said so because of the way the Holy Ghost was described in the bible as dove (gentleness) |
| Romance › Re: Should I Save My Sister Or Mind My Business? by Archworld(m): 7:08pm On Mar 08, 2022 |
Rubyjade:
My cousin sister who went to study her masters just came back home with her husband to be, she introduced him to my parents and the are making arrangements already for introduction. But, I have had a one night stand with him while he was in Nigeria in the club, in the rest room for that matter and he paid me.
Should I tell my sister the kind of man she is about to marry ? The guy did not even recognize me, I guess he has done it to a lot . BL should I save my sister or mind my business? Tell your sister who you are , not who the man is. If you were not a pros*tute he wouldn't have met you |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I Was Given A Suspension Letter by Archworld(m): 2:28pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Rtk5:
I went to my director's office to get something from the secretary, i met the presence of a lot of people including a visitor, so i left.
While going he called me back infront of everybody and said didn't you see me?
I answered by saying how? he said, so you can't greet me? I now told him but i greeted you earlier on while you were outside but you never answered.
Then he said that means you didn't open your mouth loud enough. I replied by saying sir, even if i don't greet you, my mind might be somewhere else, then he said why will your mind be somewhere else, your mind must always be here.
I said it is not possible for my mind to always be here sir.
That was all and the following day, i received a letter of suspension without querry. I was asked to sign the letter but i refused and i told the secretary that before i leave all my outstanding salaries should be paid to me. But they refused saying until i finish my 4weeks suspension, I refused and then threatened them with legal action.
Then I received this text today. You responded wrongly. No matter the options you have out there , you shouldn't have replied him like that. Humble yourself cos recommendation is better than hustling. What hustling can not do for you in 10 years , a simple recommendation can do it |
| European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City Vs Manchester United (4 - 1) On 6th March 2022 by Archworld(m): 7:50pm On Mar 06, 2022 |
Maziaugment:
Wrong Liverpool have played Chelsea both home and away. Sorry, I thought it's Man United I was typing . |
| European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City Vs Manchester United (4 - 1) On 6th March 2022 by Archworld(m): 7:49pm On Mar 06, 2022 |
oluwaseyi0:
For which league again? Sorry it's Liverpool and Man U. I thought it was it's Chelsea. I didn't know that it will be anothee bonus match for Liverpool |
| European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City Vs Manchester United (4 - 1) On 6th March 2022 by Archworld(m): 7:24pm On Mar 06, 2022 |
N2B2:
3 - 1
City will now use Utd to improve goal difference. Lol. No just that , Liverpool will play Chelsea few days from now . That could make them drop point |
| Sports › Re: Who Would You Pick To Take This Trophy Winning Freekick? (Picture) by Archworld(m): 9:55pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
OJEEMAH:
21-37??
Do you know, Ronaldo has not scored up to 3 free kick in the last 3 seasons?
Let’s sentiment and adjust it to 21-32/33 A man that plays football almost every week and plays free kick frequently like water but only scored 3 free kicks in 3 seasons(years) |
| European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Liverpool Carabao Cup Final (10 - 11)pens On 27th February 2022 by Archworld(m): 9:26pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
GreaterFuture:
Buy a DStv now account and stop worrying about Link, never again!
1yr premium account, all stations, full package 1 full year ? Na tv person come watch for this life? |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: China Says The West Should Address Russia's "Legitimate Security Demands" by Archworld(m): 3:53pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
Kingpin1000:
Everyone can see NATO are the aggressors and Russians are just defending themselves from a sudden attack on the west. Sanders, US senator said the same thing. US will not allow Mexico or Cuba to form a military alliance with their arch enemy Russia. Yet, US want to penetrate Russia by forming military alliance with Ukraine. US own the media that is why we see Russia and Putin as a dictator. And most of the key western countries are already with NATO , so it is easy for them to join US and sanction Russia |
| Politics › Re: 2023 Presidency: Don’t Denigrate Yourself By Joining APC, Sagay Warns Jonathan by Archworld(m): 3:09pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
uthlaw:
bros,I'm not a fan of all this useless politicians, all the money de embezzled go to there family.... All of them are useless join together! lolz |
| Politics › Re: 2023 Presidency: Don’t Denigrate Yourself By Joining APC, Sagay Warns Jonathan by Archworld(m): 2:51pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
uthlaw:
one of the most useless president that rule Nigeria! Absolutely yes. The word uselessness is akin to Buhari and his fans and he's thinking about handling the nation to his fellow useless person, Tinubu. |
| Politics › Re: 2023 Presidency: Don’t Denigrate Yourself By Joining APC, Sagay Warns Jonathan by Archworld(m): 1:53pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
uthlaw:
Who is deceiving Jonathan about getting APC ticket, even in is dream,he can't get the ticket! That is true . You don't put white cloth in the midst of pigs and expect it to remain white. Goodluck deserves better |
| Christianity Etc › Re: When Was The Last Time You Gave Alms To The Needy? by Archworld(m): 10:07am On Feb 27, 2022 |
Lemmy123:
Eweeeeeey!
I don't mean to blow my trumpet, I mean I don't even count them as anything, in short I don't call it "alms". Alms sounds like a religious obligation expected of you; I call it KINDNESS
I was at the grocery store one day to get something, and while I was waiting to get my balance, a little schoolgirl who had come with an older sister was pointing at a snack and crying; apparently she loved to have it, but the older sister told her she couldn't buy it because their money was not enough...
"Let her have it," I said
They were both doe eyed
"Sir?" the older one said, not sure if she had heard correctly.
I repeated, and she did as I said and gave her the snack.
Little schoolgirl stopped crying, older sister was smiling, I was smiling too; everyone's happy.
Only the older one said thank you, the little one was probably too overwhelmed with excitement she forgot..
I later found out their snack cost more than what I came to get for myself but I cared less, I did it because I wanted to, and I think everyone should just have that sort of kindness and not speak their life problems into their crumpled money before throwing them at a roadside beggar or something
By the way, I'm available for your writing and design jobs, see my signature below, thanks "You don't need to blow your trumpet" yet you typed 10 thousand words full ground for us to read |
| Christianity Etc › Re: When Was The Last Time You Gave Alms To The Needy? by Archworld(m): 10:03am On Feb 27, 2022 |
Datboredberri:
When last did you give alms to the needy in your community?
1. Not to be appreciated or rewarded but moved to do so out of compassion...
2. When you had little but still chose to make the sacrifice...
3. In private... Not for clout... For this kind difficult period is there even alms to give ? Buhari is busy frustrating millions of Nigeria with hunger. Things are too expensive and salary is never enough. I really feel for the poor especially this period; how they manage to couple is always on my mind . Some of them got no job at all, no shelter, no family ......it's really bad to live in that condition under this wicked Buhari gov't |
| Romance › Re: I Asked My Girlfriend What Is Happening In Ukraine And This Is What She Told Me by Archworld(m): 9:47am On Feb 27, 2022 |
Jennyclay:
Take it OR leave it... Everybody can't be current about what is happening in Ukraine just like you.
You did a good job by enlightening her. Now that she has learnt something, if she come across group of people discussing it, she would have something to say.
That's how we learn in life. Nobody knows it all.
~She's not dumb and why must you bring your private issues to social media~
Yeye boyfriend!!! Ladies will always defend their kind |
| Family › Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Archworld(m): 10:53pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.
Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.
Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.
in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.
When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.
My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.
I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.
I will be in comment section if case of any questions.
Thank y'all You don't need to look for those who have similar experience . The question is , you and your wife -are you born again? What comes to your mind when you read these scriptures? 1. Romans 8: 1 There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit. 2. Colossians 1:13 He hath delivered us from the power of darkness, and hath translated us into the Kingdom of His dear Son, Ponder on the above scriptures, let the light of it go through your mind. The understanding of the above scriptures will change your prayer level and give you better direction |
| Career › Re: Should I Go Or Should I Stay ? by Archworld(m): 3:23pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
dawnomike:
I see no dilemma here... Go for the one that pays you in dollars as your salary increments over time will still be in dollars Africans too like dollars I knew someone will definitely say this  |
| Politics › Re: Femi Fani-Kayode Warns USA Against Sanctioning Russia by Archworld(m): 10:40am On Feb 25, 2022 |
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| Health › Re: Please Help: Is She Truly Pregnant? (PICTURES ATTACHED) by Archworld(m): 10:34am On Feb 25, 2022 |
Error401:
why u dey do like dis na... it's a serious issue. Na side chick get belle na  pls if this is a joke stop it abeg..
I just wanna know if that test is positive . Pls for Hod sake A big congratulations |
| Education › Re: No Bra, No Entry - Delta Poly Lecturer Chases Defaulters From Class by Archworld(m): 9:55am On Feb 25, 2022 |
Gold179:
so this lecturer work is to look at female breasts and possibly touch their breast to know whether they are wearing bra or not? beside, touching of someone's breast without their consent is sexual harassment. What about you that is using your nipples to confuse man up and down ? Is that not sexual harassment?  |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Randy Russian Soldiers Flirt With Ukrainian Girls Amidst Invasion by Archworld(m): 9:17am On Feb 25, 2022 |
MadamVanessa:
It's not possible for Vladimir Putin to win this war. Everything is against him , even his foot soldiers has fallen in love with beautiful Ukrainian women. These soldiers at the end of it all may not pay allegiance anymore to Russia. I laugh you. Trained military men can do anything with or against civilians to achieve their purpose. Some security personnel could live with you, marry your daughter , pick a new job , give birth to children...live all manner of a strange life just to investigate a case. It could cost them 20 years , they don't give a damn . At the of the investigation you will find out that they were not really for you. Many spies exist all over the world. Some will join your military, central bank , government house , depending on where they have the interest |
| Travel › Re: A Nairalander's Experience At Arochukwu Waterfall, Indeed Amazing(photos, Video) by Archworld(m): 6:49pm On Feb 22, 2022 |
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| Phones › Re: Please Help Sim Card Hacked by Archworld(m): 1:54pm On Feb 22, 2022 |
Riplogic:
What is more crazy is, the guy did not even send a single otp or something he just did it. Possibly the guy did not activate his whatssap two factors security code |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I Just Touched Down Lagos After Nysc. Where Do I Go From Here? by Archworld(m): 1:11pm On Feb 22, 2022 |
inumidun2010:
Lemme give you my token advice.. Take on teaching position for a start...it's the easiest job to get in this Lagos...
If you reside on the island , then it makes it more sweeter... There are loads of private teaching jobs on the island...some people make nothing less than 200k monthly from private teaching...
You might ask how you'd get this , Google private lesson agencies on the island ( I can recommend PREPCLASS TUTORS )...
Dont be idle, your friend who accommodated you will get tired of you easily if you are... GOD BE WITH YOU Thanks for this info |
