₦airaland Forum

Angelfrost:
Man City, watch your back.... Liverpool is seriously breathing down upon you.

Better not drop points to Spurs!!!

I love this form of Liverpool! EPL must not be turned to a Farmer's league.

It is already a farmers' league whether Man City win the league or not. PEP dominance is all over EPL. Liverpool will al ways try as usual , they are very good but Man City are more disciplined. They could win the league with a point or more.....they will definitely win the league no matter the outcome of their match against Tottenham

Ghostwon6511:
Look, again, you really don't know nor understand us the Edo and you keep confusing us with yourself !

Your monarch, is a fake monarch whose relevancy was made up by the British in order for him to serve the British interests.
Our Oba, is a true emperor, the British had to defeat his army in order to take over our land and create Nigeria.
Your fake monarch is under the authority of your local government ! Our Oba is under no such authority, it is even blasphemy to contemplate such an idea !

We are not you ! You have your particularities and we have ours !

I already told you that we maintain our treasures very well, nobody can take care of our ancestral belongings better than us.
So save your concerns for your white masters and your none existent ancestral treasures.

I thought I was talking to a learned person . I am not a man of stup*d argument. If you can't reason with facts , you don't worth my reply at all. Learn to be logical . Humans are higher than animals because they can reason . Use your sense in argument . Bye

Ghostwon6511:
I love how Benin ancestral heritage has suddenly become the belonging of every Nigerian and subject to every Nigerian's uneducated opinions.

1) these treasures belong to Benin kingdom, not to every Nigerian, and not to your "tribe" wherever you are from, these are the treasures of Benin empire !
2) Obviously they had value before the British stole them, indeed, they were decorating the palace of the Oba !
3)"the ones which weren't stolen", you seem to not understand that Benin city is not an ordinary town, what you had in Benin city is not the se as what you had in Abeokuta ! Benin city was the capital of Benin Kingdom ! Benin kingdom was a large and rich empire, it had treasures, among those treasures, you have these bronzes !
These are unique treasures, not existent elsewhere in Nigeria ! So there are no one's which weren't stolen !

4) some other Benin treasures had already been returned to the Oba of Benin in the 1930's: one of them is the traditional needed attire of the Oba of Benin and it is very well kept !

5) I understand that my ancestral heritage has no value to you, an alien to my culture and my ancestral country, just don't expand your ignorance by claiming to speak for me !

Your are deviating by raising a different argument entirely . No one argued that whatever they stole doesn't belong to Benin people . If I were to argue blindly with you , I would remind you that there is not part of Nigeria that is greater that the whole country, the constituents make up the whole. There is nothing like the sovereign Benin kingdom, but the Sovereign Federal Republic of Nigeria. I agree that every kingdom had their sovereignty, but that was in the past. In our current constitution, even your chiefs and kingdoms are now under the local governments , no matter the relevance you attach to it. The past is history , stop arguing with emotion because you are from Bini. The law of Nigeria takes hold of all

All we were talking about was about maintenance, I expected you to argue on this , not raise a different argument that you can't win

November24:
Which them? You are not a bini. You wouldn't have said such

Benin is part and parcel of Nigeria, same way is Nigeria a part of Africa. Benin problem is a Nigerian problem, same way Nigerian problem is an African problem

No emotion; Some of us were born and raised in Benin before you were born.
We've seen many years and experienced many governments/leaders than you in Benin so calm down, not just by reading but by experience. And whatever I said is peculiar to Africa as a whole .

It's a beautiful feeling but I think the whites would value it more than us. In fact they were the ones that even made us to know such thing exist because they took care of it over the years. Whites attach values to many things . The ones that were not stolen by the whites , where are they today? I guess dust has finished them . Africa lack maintenance culture . We only begin to value things when they are stolen

KiNg0G:
hello all.


Orphanage kids that grew up without getting adopted what happens to them when they've reached adulthood? like between the age of 20 to 25?

I mean they can't be living at the orphanage house for the rest of their lives?

Does the government give them money to start up a business or the orphanage body.

Please feed my curiosity.

You are going too far. Every Nigerian is in orphanage home , forget the fact that you are eithe paying rent or in your house. As long as you deprived from basic amenities like good roads, well equipped hospitals, better security and electricity, and so many others , you are an orphan. Even if you have money and can foot your bills you are still an orphan cos a friend of a poor man is a poor man. If you are rich in the midst of wealthy people you are actually poor.

Nigeria as a country is a big Orphanage home, her leaders have abandoned her children and would only check on her during the time of election

Now I just made you know that you are an orphan

To answer your question, if you have been surviving in Nigeria every other person will definitely survive

Datboredberry:
Im dark!

We're difficult because of the bullsh** we receive from men...

Everyone wants the fair lady... Never us...

Make i hear word joor...Ooin....Drop your number to see the end of the matter.
The results would be accurate wedding plan, and twin(boy and girl)

Optapidgin:
Former President Ibrahim Babangida in a recent interview gave a quite optimistic projection of the kind of person who should be Nigeria’s next president.

Politics in the country has come to the crossroads. More and more Nigerians have come to see the wisdom in statecraft. Better to have a president who helps bring food to the table i.e. earn enough money to provide the basic necessities for oneself and one’s family. There are some who still bend to the illusory preferential option for the kinsman. So, it’s merit Vs zoning.

Interestingly though, both sides of the divide have proponents who think that for the sake of fairness, equity, even for justice and such values that promote peace and order, an ethnic Igbo person should get the next turn at the presidency this time. This is the loudest, the most sober and sensible view. The influential Sultan, Muhammadu Sa’ad Abubakar thinks so from Sokoto. The pragmatist reformer and current Governor of Kaduna State, Mallam Nasir El Rufai likewise agrees that it should be the turn of the southeast now.

When the Igbos have had their shot, then Nigeria can evolve from turn-by-turn presidency to merit as the overarching criterion.

Thus on the whole, there seems a fair consensus of opinion that the presidency goes to the Igbos this once. So what then?

The problem actually is the incapacity of the Igbo political elite to inspire consensus around a viable candidate and then throw their weight behind him or her.

Owelle Rochas Okorocha has shown remarkable imagination and innovation in his declaration to run. A former governor and presently a senator, he has had a more than successful run in business and entrepreneurship. Plus he has shown a milk of kindness in his widespread charities and beneficent foundations. No matter what one may say, Rochas is not perfect but he has the pedigree suitable to do the job.

To recap, there is a growing political concurrence that it is only fair for the presidency to be zoned to the southeast. Even those who in principle would prefer merit to the option of zoning believe that if for no other reason than the sake of equity and fair play, someone of Igbo ethnicity be president this time. After that, all parties can throw their doors open and allow for only the criterion of merit and suitability.

One standard ex-president Babangida proffered for the next commander-in-chief was the candidate’s familiarity or association with diverse parts of the country. Okorocha has that in the bag. With deep roots in the north and eloquent in Hausa, he has roots and association in and with almost all parts of the federation.

Where it is not consanguinity, then it is business ties or some form of interrelation. In fact, a lot of the arguments made against him prove to be reasonable as to why he should be the next president.



Source: https://2023.ng/2022/02/17/2023-can-rochas-be-the-way-out/

Rochas is not different from Tinubu. Just as Tinubu sold Lagos to himself and till date he decides on what happen in Lagos , to the extent he can fire incumbent governor if he doesn't dance to his tune , Rochas also willed almost all Imo state properties to himself. Later on, he felt it nice to handover the state to his son in-law

These two men are just the same , no difference. If Tinubu gets hold of Nigeria, this country wil be mortgaged forever. Everything will forever be decided by him even when he's not in power.

The little difference is opportunity, loyal boys and ethnicity. The Igbo do not like to rally along just one person, in their words, "every man is a king in his own house", No national leader. Whereas the Yorubas have national leaders. If you dare criticise Tinubu, most Yoruba will come after you while if you criticise Rochas, na only his family members go defend am .

helinues:
Take them to court quickly, one of their members close to the royalty family or leaders fit don donate the land for the church without the consent of others.

Na so we woke up one morning, the big flat big screen has disappeared while the bro we were staying with then who was a member of Christ embassy was no where to be found. Mixed thoughts about being robbed or bad things happened as the bro was unreachable.

When he came back, he said he is the one who took the Tv to the church cos they asked them to donate what they cherish most to God...

That church get format for mouth gan

Do you read at all? You see topic you just rushed to comment
"One of their church members fit don donate land.."
Didn't you read that they are acquired the land through legal means and they got relevant documents to their claim.

JohnSin97:
All these affiliate marketers and their lies

Remain there with your doubt. I have affiliate marketers that earn up to 75k/month from me . Some of them , I have never met them one on one .
Even in Lagos market there are some Igbo men that earn 15k per day and guess what?? They don't have shops nor goods. They simply market other peoples goods.I think I have seen this post on nairaland or Yabalefftonline. I started my own business like that . This Buhari regime dealt with me till I started marketing other people's goods and within few months , I could eat very well , salary was being saved and later on , I started my own business . And right now, people are earning from me .

Xcelinteriors:
I made a post yesterday concerning my missing brother and how I was told on phone that they will burn him

https://www.nairaland.com/6974692/vigilante-held-brother-enugu-threatened

Well to the glory of God he was found in police station this morning with wounds all over him. The police said that he walked into the station by himself and has not alter a word since then. I told my parent to take him to hospital and he's receiving treatment.
By the grace of almighty God, I believe he will regain his senses and talk

I want to use this medium to thank everyone that said a word of prayer to my brother, lot of nairalander even called to check on him. Nairaland is a great family. I pray Almighty God will bless you all

Congratulations and thank God for the preservation of life. I pray for his quick recovery

HRprof:
I saw this post on LinkedIn and I felt I should share to encourage everyone is a testimony on grass to grace.

I went for an interview at UBA. Immediately I stepped in, I felt defeated already. You know why; I wasn't having the best outfit. My shoes were filled with dust like a man that works in the quarry. My socks, hmmm! A story for another day. I sat down quietly waiting for my turn. While sitting, I was praying, 'casting and binding,' in tongues.

Lord, do it for me! Lord do it for me!! I sent a message to Adebayo Adegun (The Impacter) on WhatsApp and asked him for some interview tips. He gave me some pointers. I digested them all.

When I got into the interview hall, I saw two recruiters (a male & a female). The male made a mockery of my outfit. He asked, "Bros, na farm you come from? This your outfit no be for here o. �

I giggled. You can't shame the shameless. I stylishly told him I came in my best clothes. And that's why they must employ me so I can be a fashionista like Tony Elumelu. We both laughed and the interview started. I answered all the questions thrown at me. Thanks to Adebayo. At some point, they had no question again. So we started talking about my childhood days.

The interview I almost gave up on turned out to be my best. And you know why; the interviewers made it easier for me.

God bless them wherever they are. I left knowing I would be called for the job. A month later, I was called for the role. But I had already gotten a remote job as a copywriter with an American company. So I politely turned it down.

It's amazing how our life can change in a second. This picture reminds me never to give up. From feeling like a failure in 2017 to getting an international job.

And now, I have created a Copywriting Academy in 2022 to help ten people leverage the internet.

No matter what life throws at you, never give up. You are always a second away from your breakthrough. Keep believing!

#copywriting #socialmedia

Thanks for this. Your tongues didn't fail. I did not believe this copywriting can bring so much benefits like being employed by a foreign firm . Though I received training on it , I have only be using it to market my POS device
which has been yielding results daily.

Hello guys , if you are seeing this , note that you have access to Android POS device at 30k and with free banner and training. Distribution of our Android POS is nationwide.
Check my signature and whatssap or call .
God bless the owners of this platform, through nairaland I get inspired every time . Now I need to take my copywriting serious

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

That is lust . Don't think with your di*k . Use your head. Having such thoughts towards 15 years old girl means you can do anything against female gender irrespective of their age. Person like you wil molest your daughters. Your wife trust you that's why she brought that girl into that house. Don't betray that trust because of stupid emotion.

Kuginzi:
http://saharareporters.com/2022/02/12/one-year-old-pupil-who-received-31-strokes-cane-delta-dead

The baby receiving treatment in a hospital

The offenders should be flogged to death. I can't imagine flogging a child that is just a year old plus. What kind of mind do you have ? What was the offence of the child..that he played with water and sand? Is that not a child's behaviour ? This country is really becoming so annoying. Buhari dey do hin own with high food prices and all manner of taxes and right now this woman and her son are adding to it

MarveworldG:
He has family to take care of

Is the NPF a civil service commission

Gospelpreacher1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=80aTHjfk-YM

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10493925/amp/Iran-unveils-missile-capable-hitting-Israel-named-Jewish-castle-overrun-Muslims.html

The 1st time a child goes out and earn his first money , he will start challenging his parents
Not knowing his parents have been earning money for ages. Iran, North Korean and others should stop making mouth. If America could render Japan(Hiroshima ) useless and drafted a new constitution for Japan( taken away their ability to start war) as far back in 1945, do you think this same US can't do something more than that today? As you are discovering, they are doing the same. This is a nation that spend over 1trillion dollars on weapons and ammunition annually , far bigger than any nation in the world. Not that they can't be challenged but not by Iran and North Korean . If you allow them use this weapon now they will destroy themselves and not US.

golbe1972:
With deep pain in my heart I'm crying out for justice and help from all those who can help me locate my son .

The last time I saw my son was when he was two years old before the mother eloped with him. His name is Nelson Raymond but I heard they've changed his name to ADEWALE.

The woman in question is from a popular Kotun family in Lagos. I was literally slap on the face due to my financial incapability. The woman's name is RONKE KOTUN, heard she's married to one Mohammed.

I was deprived access to my son because I'm not a Muslim and she thought I would influence the boy from turning away from Islam if I should be in his life. The last time I managed to get her contact she boasted that I'm nobody in Lagos and can't take her anywhere. I contacted the Justice court for mediation but we couldn't locate her to serve her an invitation.

Please I'm using this medium to reach out to anyone with useful information on how to track her. I contacted a family member of hers who claimed he doesn't know where she lives, yet he kept collecting money from me under the pretence of helping to locate my son.

It's really depressing as this is my only child and I'm not getting any younger and with underlining medical conditions which makes me think I might never see my son again before my time comes.

Please this is a plea of a helpless man seeking for justice.

Now the question is , did you marry the mother of your son?
Anyway, tradition differs sha .

Basher8583:
Please speak for yourself
Na me say make you go live for the shittiest part of Naija.

I'm sure if you travel out na the same shit hole environment you will be looking for.

What is really wrong with this one ? Are you insane or someone is using your brain to smoke ? Has sense become to too difficult ? To whom brain is given , sense is expected

Bobloco:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/02/fg-grants-citizenship-to-286-foreign-nationals-2/

Does not anyone need visa to move to and fro in Nigeria especially as black man ?
Seeking for citizenship is a total waste of time cos once you are in Nigeria, you are in Nigeria for sure. Nobody can track you especially if you are black man. If you are white, just give police #2,500 , they will protect you with all the ammunition.

For those seeking for citizenship, let them be informed that i have not had light since on Sunday.
I pay for electricity bill, NEPA will fail to read the meter and will bring estimated bill. Despite of the estimated billing , give me light , they refused. We buy electric poles , wires, transformers, pay for meters , pay for electricity bill, and when the light gets bad, we hire NEPA and pay them specially for the repair and yet we can't have light.
Why do we pay for darkness ?

WriterNig:
The heart of women is desperately wicked. I'm literally shaking right now. After women fear devil.

~Never ever leave your child in the hands of any woman, not even the mother, your sisters or anything female just to be safe...~

My sympathies goes out to the father of the dead girl and the family. May God grant them the fortitude to bear the loss.

This is not about gender issue . Purely about drugs . If you don't work on yourself you may have problem in life with women

JAMO84:
Wasting money on a dead body


ISLAM IS THE SOLUTION FOR HUMANITY

That's true. Banditory , boko haram , Isis, taliban , Ah-shabaab , child marriage is the solution for humanity.
That's true . But i do not encourage the wastage of that resources. A whole #30m wasted like that ? Anyway, it's not from my pocket

Optimistic2021:
*Amaechi is the most qualified for 2023 presidency says northern leaders.*

The leaders from the north-west geo-political zone under the umbrella of Bridge Builders Initiative For Green Nigeria (BBIGN) said the Honourable Minister of Transportation, Rt. Hon. Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi is the most qualified and preferred candidate of the north for 2023 presidency.

In a town hall meeting held at Fulbe Villa Hotel, Gasau, Zamfara State, the representatives of the seven states which made up the north-west zone gathered to plan on how best to support Mr. Chibuike Amaechi come 2023.

Speaking on the theme; The Roles and Achievements Of Rt. Hon. Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi As A Leader and Politician, Dr. Musa Aliyu from Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria said Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi is a unifying factor who has a large vision to save Nigeria from her challenges.

The university Don highlighted the characters and attributes of the Minister of Transportation as he defined him to be a patriot who has Nigeria at heart.

According to him; I want to tell you today that there is no other candidate for 2023 except Chibuike Amaechi. It will be unfair if we the northerners do not support him, and Allah will not forgive us. What better gift or reward do we give to him, if not to support him for 2023 presidency.

Others who are interested in the race are anti north. It is only Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi that we can trust. He is a patriot with nationalistic, utilitarian and marxist ideologies. He is heavily interested in the development of Nigeria and welfare of the people.
We must support him.

Speaking also, Alhaji Farouk Shereef Umar, Vice President, north-west zone said he knew the Honourable Minister of Transportation when he was a speaker of Rivers State House of Assembly and Governor of Rivers State.
He said Rt. Hon. Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi is a workaholic whose governance philosoph is to create opportunity for socio-economic growth and welfare of the people.

He said; as a Governor of Rivers State, I know Amaechi. He came, and immediately, the face of Rivers State changed. He prioritized on education, health care, infrastructure development, security and agriculture.
You can also see what he is doing as a Minister of Transportation. For forty years, our railway sector was moribund.

But as Amaechi came, there is speedy rehabilitation and reconstruction of rail transport system. There is improvement in maritime sector. Please we must go for Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi because he will be our messiah. Nobody should come and deceive you. It is Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi we know in the north.

The National President of Bridge Builders Initiative For Green Nigeria, Dr. Emmanuel Orgwu who was a special guest of honour thanked the north-west zone for their understanding.

Speaking during the event, Dr. Emmanuel Orgwu said; I thank you specially for your understanding on the personality of Rt. Hon. Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi, the Minister of Transportation.

It means we do not need to campaign here. The former Governor of Rivers State has already campaigned for himself through his character.

He campaigned for himself when he took risk to make President Buhari APC candidate and then, President of Nigeria.

Some of us who are his followers suffered for joining him to support President Muhammadu Buhari, a northerner against the south-south Former President Goodluck Jonathan. We were matcheted, shot and our properties burnt.
No APC leader went through the suffering Rt. Hon. Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi passed through.

What was his offence? He supported President Buhari, a northerner.
I think the northerners owe him. I think they need to compensate him with 2023 presidency. No other reward than this. It is not easy for one to stake his life for another. He would have been killed if not God. His followers were killed. A whole family wiped away over night.

Nyesom Wike and other southern leaders were involved in the killing because Amaechi supported a northerner.

Gov. Nyesom Wike hates northerners. He is closing down sources of their livelihood in Rivers State. Call your brothers and sisters, they will tell you. He has chased them out of slaughter market in Port Harcourt.
The northerners whom Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi gave scholarship to study both home and abroad have been withdrawn. Nyesom Wike said they should go back to north.
You can see for yourself.

I believe that when Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi becomes president of Nigeria, there will be unity in this country. Tribal, religious, ethnic and political sentiments and bigotry will be eliminated. We will become Nigerians, instead of Igbos, Hausas and Yorubas.

Rt. Hon. Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi is a trustworthy, honest and sincere leader and politician. He is the only Nigeria politician who says "yes, no" and it will be so.
So please give him back what he gave to you.

In his closing remark, Zamfara State Coordinator, Alhaji Usman Jamiliu thanked the participants for coming to Zamfara State for this occasion.

He said; I thank you for coming, especially the National President, Dr. Emmanuel Orgwu. When I spoke to him, I thought he will not come. But I was surprised when he told me that the insecurity in Zamfara State can never scare him from being part of activities that will promote the interest of Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi. He said even though it means for him to lay down his life for Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi to be President of Nigeria, he will do it.

He is a man who loves Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi so much. He is a grassroot mobilizer who uses little to achieve much. I want to assure him that the northerners will support Chibuike Amaechi massively.

We have already concluded arrangement to visit Baba Buhari to give us Amaechi come 2023 for the interest of the north. We will not be happy with Baba Buhari if he does not give us Amaechi because if anything happens to the north, we will hold Baba responsible.
Mr. National President, go home and sleep. Tell Amaechi not to worry. We are with and for him.

The Zamfara State Coordinator also charged all seven states representatives to go home and work.

NATIONAL BBIGN MEDIA
23rd Jan., 2022.

As he has sold his brother for a mere piece of bread right? Anyway I am not against his presidency neither am a fan of Tinubu . But i feel anyone who must be president should at least have the support of his immediate people. Chief Ameachi is only recognized and supported by few people in Rivers state , let alone the south south. Jagaban has more support than him but I can't imagine leaving the affairs of Nigeria in the hands of Jagaban , he will turn it to his personal property and for years to come, he will dictate who rules and who gets appointed as it is in Lagos , to the extent that he has the power to sack a seating governor.


Look at the pictures of those rally around Ameachi, in this topic, they are people with low influence. How can these kind of people make you a president?

Triangles1:
Politics is everywhere is not how you play but achievement and numbers of fans you have if you doubt me ask the two goats.

If that were true , Cr7 would have been winning everything cos he got more fans than my man Messi. Pure talent can't be denied no matter the politics

joyandfaith:
How old is she?

Old enough to make a transfer

Wakanakarue:

Op you sef dey generous with Mark walai

It's not from him. He copied it from another group. I have seen this post from several places today .
They will just take someone's post and make it as theirs

Ankapaige:
We live in a country whereby most of the degrees we acquired do not correlate with our jobs. I graduated from the Department of Political science & International relations, but I currently work in a heavy equipment operator training firm where I am earning well. Most of our trainee operators earn more than what some firms or banks can pay their employees in a month. We have trained Ph.D. holders, masters, and even BSc graduates to operate heavy machinery. Therefore, working in a company or a bank as an accountant does not mean good pay. some bank workers are earning between 50k to 100k depending on their duties and ranks. Maybe he is earning more as a laborer.

Sir, could you please link me up? I am an accountant and I have worked for years with no result to show for it because of the peanut salary. Kindly help help me out sir . 08.0937.65.79.5

ebukajay184:
https://www.instagram.com/tv/CZi6KGNAsKK/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

In abroad kissing is a normal thing and everyone tend to mind their business while in 9ja, it becomes news

gazeup1:
I created this new handle to hide my identity.

I got married 11 years ago. We both started working before we got married, but my salary was way above my wife's own. I was earning 195k while she was on 108k when we got married, after my MSC, I was promoted and started to earn 350k, this got to me and I started to misbehave, I was doing all sorts and would insult the hell outa her. As the cry cry girl, she would cry, and thereafter I would hear her praying. At times she would say she will one day be greater than me. That to me was an impossibility.

I can't even remember ever giving her money for home keep but we never lacked food at home (we delayed before having kids, so I don't see the need for me to give her monthly money and she never asked). I started giving her after we had kids. She agreed when I told her her money was for the home and mine for investment, but I never included her name in my properties. she knows this as well.

After our kids, it became very demanding, coupled with her office not increasing her pay, she resigned, and that was when I felt the impact of her income. Meanwhile, her pay was reduced to about 80k and mine was increased to like 600k as at when she resigned. In one month I started asking her to return back to her work as to me I was not ready to foot her bills, she never even asked for money, she would even say what I gave her is left 5k or more self at the end of the month.

Now her new journey - When I started disturbing about going back to her former office or getting a new job, she said never and asked me to stop giving her money but go to market to buy food myself. In less than 4 months to her resignation she started talking about online job here and there, I thought it was a scam so I warned her. One day, I was in the office when she said she needs me to help her wit the best laptop to buy, I tried to talk her down on buying one but she ended the call on me.

I got home to see her with a new laptop. fast forward, she paid for a training on how work from home without my knowledge, got her first job of about $200, I also washed her down on going that low for such an amount but she said it was better than her former 80k job, before I knew it, she started talking about $1,000, now it's $3,000, to $4,000 monthly. I earn lower than #1M, my wife gets over #2M monthly working from home. She helped me finished my house project, very transparent and would not hide any $ she earns.

I have not been able to forgive myself of all the things I did to her, the insults, talking down on her but in a way I think I pushed her to become who she is now. I remembered when she asked back then to open a joint account with her, I laughed her to scorn, like how would the ratio be. she saved over 6M and credited my account with everything, just for us to complete our home. I can't even produce 1M.

She doesn't seem hurt, but sometimes she reminds me of those words, I have never officially told her sorry neither have I really changed because I am just like that, I don't mean evil. I wanted her to braze up and never stay low.

Married, men, please how do I ask for her forgiveness? I don't think we have up to 2% of her type out there.

Instead of bashing this man why can't you people ask him what kind of online business his wife is into ?
I have read almost all the comments , none is willing to know , everyone rather focus on the abuse and also call him a scam.

Please let me know this your online business