Sports › Re: Osimhen, Oshoala, Ighalo, Boniface Nominated For Dubai Globe Soccer Awards by Archworld(m): 2:42pm On Nov 22, 2023 |
naptu2: Globe Soccer Awards @Globe_Soccer These guys are trying to make themselves relevant. If you like nominate the whole and give the award to Cr7 you are on your own . We are not interested in Dubai d'or All Dubai d'or(backyard ) award should be given to Cr7 and his fans |
Family › Re: How Do I Confront My Wife With This Kind Of Question by Archworld(m): 1:38pm On Nov 21, 2023*. Modified: 7:11pm On Nov 21, 2023 |
UnproudLife: So it happened that at this certain time, I was running a lucrative business that had so much cashflow., to the tune of about 2-4m monthly and I married my long-time girlfriend whom I disvirgined and had been dating for 7 years.
The moment we married and started the family journey, I tried making conversations about having a core family standard that would make harmony stand the test of time. Note that I am a man who is disciplined and goal-oriented. So first I approached my wife with a conversation on how to both make meaningful contributions in getting the family from point A to B at all times, to be more detailed, one of the conversations we had was about our finances because I also mentored her in the same business and she was raking in cash as well and was profitable.
I asked her that we make it a habit of both of us making contributions, having a certain joint account where we drop in cash from a certain amount we make sure we get paid monthly from our businesses. This was because while I was a reasonable spender who knows that if I go broke nobody got my back in the whole wide world. I'm the kinda person who when I spend, let's say for example, 200k just knows I'm worth times 30 of that but even with that I didn't have a concrete structure in business, I just spend money or do things as though my business was an extension of me, which the same was my wife's as well. And this was the reason I wanted us to make the conversation and also do things together. So I told her when we get paid monthly from our businesses we send a certain percentage of it to a joint account to run the family and if I was doing let's say 70k she should do like 30k because, with all honesty, I valued her business at if not half of mine or slightly above it was close at the time. And this was immediately we got married oh.
I was met with strong refusal, as she told me I married her and it was my duty to cater for everything, but as a patient person that I am in not making my judgement rashly I kept trying to convince her. I did till when it dawned on me that we was stern with her objection. And then this created in me a sense of deep selfishness from my wife and also note that I wasn't ever nosey about her income and even though I had a way to access her accounts to monitor Everything I wasn't interested and I was being the sole provider in the family while I watched my wife spend her money how she liked, making decisions that should involve me with her sister and calling some things to surprise me, and I don't mean it negatively.
It happened that i started a project in building a house 3years before we married which I'd credit to her sisters's advice and by the time we married we were already done with the roofing, remaining plastering and the rest. We were living at a very moderate house in town but had this project at a suburb in lagos which we all know that as a lagosian is still Lagos but only that the area would be less expensive. So at a time we were planning moving to a better apartment in town when her sister and her friend advised we pour money in completing our own place to move in. After much convincing I agreed and God blessed the most during this period in business so I had a dream house kind of finishing to the interior and we moved in.
During this time we were managing living at our business place because I was still accommodating her in my business space and we lived there and went home ones or twice in 2 weeks as it was easier with my driving. We then had a certain disagreement that made my wife without my agreement move her business and everything to that house and the area sighting her sister advicing it be done. I winked at it for peace to reign and because I wasn't a fool. Sorry without having to correct what I typed up there, this was the real account of what happened. When we had our first child she moved directly there and I went home weekends while running both businesses with me just directing her staffs and guiding them with discipline. We all know when you leave business for strangers it's OYO but all that doesn't mean I was also having access to her money, the money went to her while I managed the business.
This also was playing out while we dated and got married in how she never likes making any expenditure in even the cost of executing her jobs, and she would rather blackmail which I don't buy and because at those times I stick to mindset in business she'd rebel and take rash decision that would later backfire. So that was how she came one day and moved her everything to the area where we built saying her sister advised it.
I was a faithful man, a born again personality who ever since I gave my life to Christ about 5years to our marriage I stopped having fornication even with her or anyone and till that point in the marriage. So as she had moved, ye little things I knew in her business started diminishing while I was running the family financially. But this lady was always making me feel less than a man because she was so so not submissive even though I married her with the us being both core Christians and born again where she was even more fired up than me so we all knew submissiveness was the watchword but she wouldn't sub to it at this point and when I was home she'd make life miserable for me shouting in an area that the voice travels far, insult my life telling me that she regretted marrying me because I was a person who just wouldn't budge and I used to say I don't "think" as in the thinking that leads to depression and I guess this was why she wasn't having it. I always found ways to channel my thoughts to things positive that gets me going and even forgiving her on time while she sometimes take days to stop keeping malice.
This lady graduated to the aspect of telling me she stooped so low marrying me and I could go out and meet other ladies that she wouldn't even give a damn, and this went on for a long time. Without exaggeration, I myself was someone that in her words she feel for initially because of my looks although I was 5"7 and she like 5"6 in height which isn't that short for a man. I knew how young in thought and look I was when I start taking care of myself and dressing nice again and without a doubt an handsome man, so it got to a point I said to myself I've had enough. At this time I was already lusting at my spec in ladies out there in which I married her like but she refused to remain at. I brushed off and even while being in my early 30s I had several ladies saying I looked 23-26 in age and I started meeting ladies and having affairs with multiple through platforms and it was mind-blowing to me because they were telling me I looked better in person even though the profile pictures I had were compelling themselves. So I had several young ladies wishing we were dating for real but u didn't want that and wouldn't lie to get them laid with promises but the only lie I told was that I wasn't married neither with kids which some weren't even suspecting not to talk of asking such. But something was just not clicking with the way guys if this age behave when I relate with them and this is when we have more deeper relations and then they start sensing the nature of responsibility which makes them ask if I was married.
So at this point I said to myself, I was separated from my wife and I told her in several occasions because I wasn't going home as often as before she noticed all the changes in my looks but cared less. I was so far gone in having other ladies that I didn't even know what could ever make me wanna get back with her again. But in all these I was still a man who doesn't believe in divorce, which is what I always tell her made her misbehave. Then lemme note this. I was so far gone playing churchy Al these years I never knew the age had turned around and ladies were now so much for sale, I could remember hearing the word hookup for the first time 2 years ago when I had started contemplating cheating and I turned so many girls down on those platforms when I understood what hookup meant. I mostly kept them friends online for whining and all and I went off without meeting anyone until last year, that same last year by almost the middle of the year I had my first encounter with a lady who was almost begging I had s*X with her right in my car as the car was tinted at the back, and this was while being friends. I refused and explained I had never done it before. But a month later I started getting in the act until miraculously this year at mid year I had been longing for a change in lifestyle when I got the gift of repentance right in church and I just at this moment didn't care what my wife had ever done to me, I just forgave her in my heart, asked for forgiveness from God. Then it has been happening lately by then that she had been begging me and her sister was saying she in the person of my wife was already fed up and wanted to beg back in good terms with me but you know basking in the love of flesh I wasn't into it and knowing she was the kind that goes back to her vomit. But at this point I determined to make her come where I was and then we reconcile. But shortly after I did restitution with her and told her all I had done and what she made be go into but to my surprise she was so disappointed crying and telling me all sorts which was surprising to me because I expected this woman should have already seen the writing on the wall because I don't know how to pretend at all but she said she never suspected that she knew I was a Christian. Although I played a clean game but was was obvious was the fact that I changed in looks and all and shouldn't that be glaring. And now she only sober occasionally when the thoughts kicks in
My main problem now is that, while my first child is a copy of me, I started seeing the looks of my sister in law's last born in my last kid, which my mum has vaguely noted and I seconded. We can't even nurture the thought as we just said it. But personally each day I now stay with the kid I keep looking the semblance and thinking what if my bro in law which is my sister in law's hobby fathered this child. You see that would have out the child conception at about 3 months before I ever started having affairs outside marriage. I just wish to know what you guys think because I haven't even been able to ask any question relating to that as my wife just seem to off to ever fall into such.
Please ignore any typo as it was long and I'm trying to get by with a new course and it'll be hard to go through what I've written again. Pardon me Secretly take the child for a DNA test . If you have repented from your sins or sexual acts and you believe that God has forgiven you , there was no need of telling your wife about the acts. It would definitely demoralized her . Many women do change when they begin to see money . Many are in a relationship today or married because they are not wealthy. Once a woman is wealthy, she thinks she doesn't need a man while on the other hand, once a man start getting wealthy, he thinks of getting married or think more of his family. I once asked ladies, if truly you are building home with your husband and the children are yours(not strangers) why can't you spend for your home? Why on earth are you making money if you can't spend it on your family? The children are yours, the man is yours and you are both building home together, so why on earth are you making the money if you can't spend it on them? They just believe that it is the man's right to take care of his family.. it's true . But why the hell are you making money ? Are you not supposed to be a helper ? Many men die early because of this . And if the man's business crashes that means the home will scatter . What a life !! I don't need my wife's money but I can't marry a selfish woman The mistake you made is that , you dated her for 7 years and noticed her behavior and yet you still went ahead to marry her without thinking about the future. |
Events › Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by Archworld(m): 12:16am On Nov 18, 2023 |
henrimoto: Where is your brother's current location ?
Can't your brother make arrangements to hand-over the vault keys to the bank management. ?
The lady is already doubting the marriage. In her mind, she is like, "is this what I will face in this marriage?" No Attention! Women always will tell you that they need a man that can provide for them or a wealthy man but forgetting that such men will hardly have time to be with them. I can't risk my job in the name of village meeting or journey that won't put food on my table. And if I have no job, the lady in question won't even think of marrying me in the first place. If I have to take care of you or provide for your needs don't also expect me to be with you 24/7. I must sell my time to make money for the family |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea, Man City Face Relegation From EPL After Everton Point Deduction by Archworld(m): 7:43pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: My Single Female Neighbor Has Been Giving Me Food. What Could Be Her Intentions? by Archworld(m): 2:57pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
Keepamsafe: For two weeks now, my next door neighbor who is a young single lady has been constantly bringing different meals for me after cooking. Please note: I have never asked her for food before, as I cook at home and enjoy doing my things myself.
The second time she brought me a meal she wore a skimpy dress. I didn’t mind tho, I just told her she is a very good cook and I enjoyed the first meal. Since then, she’s been bringing different dishes to me now. Sometimes she even calls to know if im back from work that she’s cooking something.
Also note, I have never given her any money for this meals she’s been giving me.
My question now is, should I continue eating? do I have anything to be scared of? Could there be another motives behind this her kindness? Or maybe im over thinking?
Advise please.
File Photo for illustration to Obviously she likes you and she's interested in relationship. If you don't want her , or you feel guilty be giving her money too . If she gives your #1 worth of meal give her #1,000 for it. And if you are already in a relationship, always be talking about your woman to her. This will discourage her from you except she's stubborn or you want to play game |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Manchester City (4 - 4) On 12th November 2023 by Archworld(m): 5:59pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Jokerman: I support Chelsea today.... EPL must not fall to city again...
Very dumb league Some dying men don't deserve help . |
Family › Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Archworld(m): 4:12pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
lecoeur: While growing up, sometimes my father takes me out with him and during those times he teaches me certain things that a man should know. Thing is, something happened I can't recall but that thing made him tell me he preferred my younger brother to me (We are 3 boys tho), I even noticed it because he took him out more and bought things for him. I was this kid that's so quite, reserved and always on my own and he never liked that. On the other note, my brother is very agressive have this agbero type of behaviour lol. My dad fell ill and I took care of him both at home and in the hospital to the point of his death I was with him, I didn't take what he said to heart and he never apologized but I did all that because I loved him very much, I saw him as a hero, even the person that he preferred wasn't interested in taking care of him as much as I was. I totally forgot about this whole thing until this my younger Bro accused my Mom of been bias towards him which is true but as the first and oldest son I always stand for him whenever that happens because I know how it feels. Please I urge present and future parents to do better with hiding or avoiding this favourite child thing, it's not really ohk. When I saw this post my mind was like, WTF!! Adults shouldn't care about this at all. You don't give a damn about being preferred or liked by your parents. A grown man with responsibility shouldn't care about this . Only teenagers in their parents house should carw |
Sports › Re: I Want To Be Like Harry Maguire — Super Eagles Defender, Calvin Bassey by Archworld(m): 7:34am On Nov 10, 2023 |
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Celebrities › Re: John Voight Expresses Disgust In Daughter Angelina Jolie's Attacks On Israel by Archworld(m): 7:39pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
God1000: Angelina jolie is an upstanding woman with a conscience, the man should not expect her to behave like him.
This Israel-Hamas war has exposed a lot of people, divided friends and families, but I will always say the truth and stand with the oppressed, killing innocent Palestinians under the guise of fighting Hamas is a serious war crime and crime against humanity, how can any sane person support the bombing of hospitals, schools, churches, mosques and refugee camps
Generations of families are being wiped out right in front of our eyes and some religious bigots are rejoicing, Arab leaders are cowards for doing absolutely nothing to help Palestinians.
Those of you insulting other people for calling out Israel should desist from such unholy act
If I will not make heaven for saying the truth, then so be it
I'm withdrawing my support for west as well because I hate double standard and hypocrisy
I lambasted Mr Putin when he invaded Ukraine but I'm beginning to have a change of mind about him
Some of you that idolized Mr Putin then, calling him a hero are now making a U-turn because he's saying the truth against Israel Honestly you are one of the problems we have in this country. You see red you call it white |
Business › Re: Naira Continues Recovery, Strengthens To ₦950 by Archworld(m): 10:47pm On Nov 03, 2023 |
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Sports › Re: Cristiano Ronaldo Likes And Comments On A Video Mocking Messi’s Ballon D’or. by Archworld(m): 8:58pm On Oct 31, 2023 |
AImiron: Cristiano Ronaldo is the perfect example of "What Jealousy Does To A Person"
This man never had a peaceful life because of his unreal jealousy towards Messi. He was always too obsessed with Messi. In past he used to mention MESSI in his interviews. Now he is not relevant anymore so he started commenting on posts related Messi.
2021 : Factos 👀👍 2023 : 😂😂😂😂
They say "Messi destroyed his mental health", nah bro it's not Messi, it's his jealousy which destroyed his peace.
Y’all see why I despise this godforsaken retaaaaaard, I mean who does that, he’s so insecure and jealous that he can’t even hide it anymore. I knew he was in severe pain since Leo won World Cup, na the pain go kill am.
He is a lil biiitch, cos this na bitchy attitude, and na this bassstard and miserable fellow some ppl dey look up to as role model. If any of you act like this in real life, one thing is certain you’ll never go far in life.
Leo doesn’t care about this serial rapist, cry baby, unfortunate soul. Messi always act with respect yet he Dey always misyarn, he should thank his stars that Leo is reserved, if not e no reach. Just like fav and fanbase. Toxicity run in una blood, and the ones on Nairaland here, I’m sure most of y’all are having a shitty life your fav.
He’s so rich, jumping into whenever he scores against imbeciles yet he’s unhappy cos he can never be Leo
Penado has been forgotten, nobody care about him anymore, as a whiny biiitch that he is, he Dey look for attention. Y’all will cry blood.
Penadogs y’all free to cry in my mention as usual. The bible said , the Lord resists the proud and gives grace to the humble. Look at Messi's career, it is that if grace unlimited. Professional would call it, infinity grace. While the other, no matter how bad you are , you will surely have people like you who will support and fight for you. This is the reason arrogant Cr7 has fans . If you see the way they argue without sense you will know the character of the person they are supporting. And guess what? Messi and his family will never reply. They are rather quiet enjoying God's grace. I have never seen a more humble player like Messi. He talks like someone that has been helped and doesn't even try to recognize his great abilities in football. He talks with so much humility. Give same mic to Cr7 he would brag about his great skills on how his ability earned him this and that. What a life Funny enough a foolish man will always have foolish people as supporters |
Health › Re: Does Penis Enlargement Really Works? by Archworld(m): 5:56pm On Oct 24, 2023 |
Vicloteck: OP , you don't have sense . With all the things happening in the country , na penis enlargement you dey think. You read my mind . Any dick that rises in this APC government or ungodly hour has no conscience. Price of things has gone up and this guy is here being carnal 🙄🙄 Carnality is expensive o 😂 You even went ahead to talk about enlargement . What exactly do you want to use it for ? Suffer no dey tire you? Pampers don cost o. The woman that you want to please has several boyfriends. |
Music/Radio › Re: Olamide & Asake Stole My Songs - Blackface by Archworld(m): 5:50pm On Oct 24, 2023 |
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Sports › Re: Leaked: Messi Beats, Haaland, Mbappe To Win Eight Ballon D’or Award by Archworld(m): 4:03am On Oct 18, 2023 |
Beverlyjean: You really think Ronaldo and his fans give a 4k?? 2010 Spain wins , they give messi 2014 Germany wins, they give Messi 2018 France wins , they give modric 2022 Argentina wins and they now say it has to be the winner of WC ... lmao ...who are they decieving... yes, they are decieving sheep called messi minions Cry me a river |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Israel Raids Gaza, Looks For Hostages (Video) by Archworld(m): 7:37pm On Oct 13, 2023 |
Taylor94: Wait oo
Do you people remember when Lai Mohammed threatened Israel to hand over Nnamdi Kanu to Nigeria or Nigerian Army will invade Israel
Una know say we get luck? Na so we for take die oo
Three hours later Lai Mohammed denied that he didn’t threaten them that he only said wetin Israel dey Nigeria no good 😂😂😂 |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Gaza To Run Out Of Power Around 12pm UK Time Following Complete Siege By Israel by Archworld(m): 12:56pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
INTEGRITYA1: That's serious, HAMAS really caused trouble. It seems you guys that don't know the meaning of HAMAS. It's an Islamic organisation that was established to ELIMINATE ISRAEL. That's the only reason the organisation was founded. They didn't come to to play with Israel. If Israel like let them supply them with food , water and electricity. It does not in any way stop their plan |
Sports › Re: Arsenal Considering Offering Jesus In Deal To Sign Osimhen by Archworld(m): 7:55am On Oct 10, 2023 |
rinzaugustine: Same Arsenal that killed Kanu nwankwo career when he was at a height in his career never achieved by an African after winning Olympic gold? Instead of England he should make a career move to Spain -Real Madrid or even Barcelona and then retire to Saudi Arabia for the money after 10 years Arsenal didn't kill Kanu's career. Kanu started having problem after his heart surgery. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Peace Treaty; Israel And Palestine And The Antichrist by Archworld(op): 7:04pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
I have been waiting to see if there is any scholar or wise person here unfortunately there is none . It is not my responsibility to make you believe the obvious . This time my words can only serve as witness |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Graphic Images From Gaza by Archworld(m): 12:12pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
IamAtikulate: Gaza is in ruins as of one hour ago.
Get your pop corn as I update you live with graphic images of Gaza across the internet.
May peace prevail Grab your what ?? Are you ok? Does this look like a mere movie to you ? We are talking about people's lives and you are here telling us to grab popcorn to see the killings . |
Romance › Re: Is It Okay To Block Your Ex, Or Should You Let Them Watch You Succeed? by Archworld(m): 5:30pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
Animegirl: "I'd like your opinion on this: Is it okay to block your exes on every online platform, or is it better to let them watch how we succeed and overcome the pains that come with heartbreak?" Life is not 9ja home movies. You may end up being the one watching them succeed. God does not stop blessing someone because the person disagrees with you or you hate the person . If you can't get your mind of her/him, restrict the person . |
Christianity Etc › Re: Peace Treaty; Israel And Palestine And The Antichrist by Archworld(op): 7:16am On Oct 08, 2023 |
The Antichrist Consolidates One-World Religion
Revelations 17 | John 1:13 | 2 John 1:1 Once he has said he is god, the ‘man of sin’ will naturally want to be worshipped and he will instigate this through one-world religion. Revelation 17:1-5 tells us about a woman named Babylon. If we align scriptures we understand that throughout the New Testament the Bible refers to the church as a lady[2] (a woman; a bride). Throughout scripture, whenever the nation of Israel worshipped other gods, God called them adulterous. And this is how we know that Revelation 17 is talking about one-world religion. Creating a one-world religion whose focus of worship is not the One True God (Al Shaddai), but rather the antichrist, is adultery before God. This is why this woman is referred to as the adulterous woman.
Revelation 17 teaches us about the one-world religion or the one-world false church (the false bride). This false church will be built on the power of the antichrist as she is depicted as “sitting on a scarlet beast that was covered with blasphemous names and had seven heads and ten horns” (Rev 17:3, NIV). The entire purpose of this one-world religion will be to praise and worship the antichrist.
During this time there will be a forced unity of religion where they will tell you that there are many ways and everyone’s ways are equally acceptable. And that when we come together to worship, the antichrist will try to deceive us into associating with one-world religion. The bride of the true Christ must be vigilant: when we see this, we must know that the end is near. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Peace Treaty; Israel And Palestine And The Antichrist by Archworld(op): 7:15am On Oct 08, 2023 |
The Antichrist Breaks the Covenant
Daniel 9:27 | 2 Thessalonians 2:4 Daniel 9:27 tells us that the antichrist will break the covenant (peace treaty) in the middle of the ‘week’. The Hebrew word for week here refers to 7 years. The antichrist will, therefore, break the covenant midway by proclaiming himself God (2 Thes 2:4). But why or how would this break the peace treaty? The antichrist will be most welcome in the temple of Israel, as he will have been an integral participant in the peace treaty. But the moment he goes into the temple and declares himself god, the nation of Israel will deny[1] him and the covenant of peace that he signed with them will be broken. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Peace Treaty; Israel And Palestine And The Antichrist by Archworld(op): 7:15am On Oct 08, 2023 |
The Rebuilding of the Temple
2 Thessalonians 2:4 2 Thessalonians 2:4, New International Version (NIV) He will oppose and will exalt himself over everything that is called God or is worshiped, so that he sets himself up in God’s temple, proclaiming himself to be God.
The second event that will take place after the peace treaty is signed, is the rebuilding of the temple. The scripture above tells us that the antichrist will enter the temple of God, and this cannot happen unless a temple is built. So the antichrist’s next agenda after signing the peace treaty will be to build the temple. |
Christianity Etc › Peace Treaty; Israel And Palestine And The Antichrist by Archworld(op): 7:13am On Oct 08, 2023 |
The Revelation of the Antichrist through the Peace Treaty
2 Thessalonians 2:1-4 | Daniel 9:27 | 1 Thessalonians 5:3
The first event on the timeline will be the revelation of the antichrist. A peace treaty will be signed between Israel and her neighbours (the Arabs/Palestinians) and this will serve to reveal the identity of the antichrist to the church. In 2 Thessalonians 2 Paul tells us that Jesus won’t return until the man of sin (aka the antichrist) is revealed, and Daniel 9 tells us that the antichrist will confirm a covenant for a ‘week’ (Hebrew for 7 years). The antichrist will, therefore, be revealed by the confirmation of this prophesied covenant. The reason why we call this covenant a peace treaty is because the Bible tells us that “while people are saying, “Peace and safety,” destruction will come on them suddenly, as labour pains on a pregnant woman, and they will not escape (1 Thes 5:3, NIV)”.
The peace treaty will be intended to establish a seven-year period of ‘peace’. This will be a time of ceasefire; a time of peace and prosperity for the world. What we must remember is that when we speak of conflict in the middle-east between Israel and the Palestinians, it is not just between these two nations, but a conflict between world-wide allied forces. Israel is backed by the USA and its allies, while countries like Russia and China are backing the other side. So if there is a war between Israel and the Arabs, it actually implies a world war. Consequently, once the peace treaty is signed, the threat of war will be gone; everyone will rejoice because the middle east will finally be at peace.
The church must be vigilant of the man that signs this peace treaty, as he will be the one that the Bible calls ‘the man of sin . |
Family › Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by Archworld(m): 6:47pm On Oct 07, 2023 |
MrUchenna1: My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson? A 37 years on man getting married without your approval? If you are talking about blessing it's ok ,not approval |
Family › Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Archworld(m): 2:31pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
Sonnobax15:
 It is well bro...
Sometimes when I look at my dad,I only wonder how he managed to do it....As in,how he managed to take care of my brothers and I after the death of my mom despite being jobless..............There was never a time we went hungry...We were even privileged to attend one of the best private school in town...Tho there were challenges along the line but it really helped shaped us into being what and who we are becoming....
Op, it's never been easy...........But trust me, there's no wicked father anywhere who would fold his hands and watch his children lack when he has the ability to solve their problem....
May we become fathers and not only fathers but the type that will be able to provide eveey basic need of our wards and our parents and every loved one 🙏 I love this . This is the main reason I treasure my dad above all. My dad being a single parent and working with FSL in government institution, he trained I and my brother, in addition to his siblings, we all graduated from university except for one that that wasn't serious for life who has become a plague to us. We faced all manner of challenges . Some days no food but he never gave up on us . I remember when he had just #30 to buy two bread. He would give us the bread and sleep hungry . If your father is educated and has good job, the suffering would be less but mine had none but with heavy load, both from children and siblings |
Romance › Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by Archworld(m): 6:35am On Sep 28, 2023 |
HanisahZuwy: I don't know if I'll ever get a man to marry me. I look so older than my age. I'm in my twenties, but I look like a 53 years old woman. Even men and women old enough to be my father and mother will be referring to me as ma. Some of them are even people who are older than me with 30-35 years. Most people doubt me when they ask for my age and I tell them. They feel I'm lying about my age. I feel I'm more than the age I tell them. I know some people look older than their age, but I don't think any could be worse than mine. Mine is that bad!
I don't know why this is so. I don't know why I look so older than my age.Why is it like that? Is there any one here in this kind of situation? How does that make you feel? Please, what can I do to remedy this? Is there anyone here like that? Or am I alone? What do you normally do to help yourself in this situation? I would like to hear from you if you're in this. If you have found yourself in this situation I will recommend 3 things: 1. Work on your mindset. How you see yourself will determine how the world will see you. If you think you are older than your age because of your daily experience, people will relate with you base on that. Numbers 13:33 And there we saw the giants, the sons of Anak, which come of the giants: and "we were in our own sight as grasshoppers, and so we were in their sight". 2. Change your dressing. I have seen old ladies look so young because of their outfit. Do not wear over size clothes. I am not saying dress naked. Dress smart and young . Be stylish 3. Regular exercise. And if you are talking about marriage , I see no reason while you should be mingling or having exercise with your fellow ladies . What happens to the men ? Get to their gym centre . I am not saying you should be desperate. Know what you want and how to get it . People plan for the future they desire |
Health › Re: Who Else Can't Sleep With The Lights On? by Archworld(m): 12:38am On Sep 26, 2023 |
Wizardslayer: It is normal for every human being to sleep with the lights off. I only switch off my room light because of security. I can sleep whether light is on or not |
Celebrities › Re: Nollywood Actor, Charles Granville Is Dead (Photos) by Archworld(m): 6:18pm On Sep 24, 2023 |
4akomnehpetS: #include <bits/stdc++.h> using namespace std; #pragma GCC optimize ("Ofast" #define ll long long #define pb push_back #define ull unsigned long long #define nl "\n" #define vll vector<long long> #define vull vector<unsigned long long> #define vi vector<int> #define vc vector<char> #define si set<int> #define sc set<char> #define msi multiset<int> #define msc multiset<char> #define usi unordered_set<int> #define usc unordered_set<char> #define umsi unordered_multiset<int> #define umsc unordered_multiset<char> #define mp make_pair #define all(x) x.begin(),x.end() #define gi greater<int>() const int MOD = 1e9+7;
bool isprime(int number) { if (number <= 1) { return false; } if (number <= 3) { return true; } if (number % 2 == 0 || number % 3 == 0) { return false; } // Check divisibility for numbers of the form 6k ± 1, where k is an integer for (int i = 5; i * i <= number; i += 6) { if (number % i == 0 || number % (i + 2) == 0) { return false; // If number is divisible by i or i+2, it's not prime } } return true; // If no divisors are found, the number is prime } bool ispalindrome(int n) { int original = n; int reversed = 0; while (n > 0) { int digit = n % 10; reversed = reversed * 10 + digit; n /= 10; } return original == reversed; } string simedit(string s) { string result; for (char c : s) { if (c == '0') { result += '0'; } else if (c == '1') { result += '1'; } else if (c == 'B' && !result.empty()){ result.pop_back(); } } return result; } bool isBeautiful(const string& w) { vector<int> freq(26, 0); // Initialize a vector to store character frequencies
// Count the frequency of each lowercase letter for (char c : w) { if (islower(c)) { freq[c - 'a']++; // Increment the count for the character } }
// Check if all frequencies are even for (int count : freq) { if (count % 2 != 0) { return false; // If any frequency is odd, the string is not beautiful } }
return true; // All frequencies are even, so the string is beautiful }
int sumdig (int a){ int sum =0; while(a>0){ sum+=a%10; a/=10; } return sum; }
int main() { ios_base::sync_with_stdio(false); cin.tie(nullptr); cout.tie(nullptr); //cout << "Hello World"<<nl; //map<int, string> a; cout << "RIP" << nl; return 0; } H |
Health › Re: Milk: I've Been Farting Uncontrollably After Taking This... by Archworld(m): 11:04am On Sep 24, 2023 |
fadilaMaikiriki: Whenever I take milk, I tend to fart uncontrollably, like non-stop farting. Imagine you being with someone and the person is farting every three or five minutes. Honestly, this can be so annoying for the fartee and embarrassing for the farter.
The farts is the type that make the "ssshhhhhhhhhhh" sound. And sometimes the fart becomes noisy or vibrates.
Please, what can I do to remedy this? What can I do to stop the fart? It happens whenever I take milk. I take pap alot( infact I prefer pap to tea), and I take the pap with milk because I don't use sugar. Please, is there any alternative? Maybe a better milk that I can use for the pap.
Please, is there any one here who has/is experiencing this?
Or is it because of that particular company's product (milk)?
Has anyone here experienced this?
I would really appreciate your inputs, suggestions/opinions.
Thanks. This is normal especially when milk is too much in tea . It will embarrass you . Too much of milk could also make you have running stomach. Reduce the intake of milk |
Family › Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Archworld(m): 4:18pm On Sep 23, 2023*. Modified: 5:58pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
MS247: I am saying you are not a disable or an imbecileee so work for your own food
Give others and don't have entitled mentality to recieve like a beggar Did you understand the post at all? He's an apprentice. He didn't sit at home waiting to be fed . In case you don't understand the meaning of apprentice kindly use the dictionary. Where do you expect him to earn money from and what time does he have as an apprentice . The question should be what kind of job is his elder brother doing ? Can he take care of two people |
Politics › Re: Travel Advisory: US Warns Citizens Not To Visit Enugu, Imo, Borno, 15 Others by Archworld(m): 12:07pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
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