₦airaland Forum

Gflat:
Actually this is the right thing to do... No parent want their daughters to suffer from the hands of a broke boy. Let me share my thoughts in this.

Let's take this from the religious community: A woman is mostly believed to be soft hearted, an item of delicacy and someone you care for (Men are designed to care for women that is why they are referred to as the HEAD)

Enough of the sideway talks. Let's accelerate the hammer towards the nail.

Ladies make sure you have nothing to do with broke boys. As accurate as this sounds many girls will still try to be Sentimental about the golden fact. Broke boys have nothing to offer.


Ok let me give you a quick scenario.

Yester-evening I was at a restaurant on the island just to relax and get a bit of serenity. While I was chilling with what I had requested for earlier, I noticed a couple sitting opposite my table.
I could feel the love from her heart and the optimism for a better future for both of them but what Spoilt the picture was Their table has all sort of similarities to the Sahara desert.

It is so embarrassing to say as beautiful as the lady looked he couldn't make her feel good on a date and later on he got her a chicken pie and ice cream. I felt disgusted at the sight of this!

Ok, having mentioned that, I want to inform you ladies about a Proven point.

No guy will choose you over a richer lady.

This might seem funny to you but that is the truth. That guy that keeps reminding you how much he loves and adores you?
That guy who wouldn't stop sending you good morning/good night messages?
That guy that sounds romantic and sweeps you off your feet?
He will desert you at the twinkle of an eye immediately he Uncovers a rich lady.

So tell me ladies, why are you forcing this to work with him?
Why are you suffering when someone who isn't looking half as good as you are is being treated like a real woman?
Why trek under the hot sun then later jump into a hot distressful danfo bus while your mates are sitting with their man in his latest Ac filled cool machine?

It is no news that Women are emotional beings but being emotional shouldn't equals stupidity. If you don't care about your future at least care about the future of your kids and their upbringing.

PS: Don't quote me to spill your conundrum. I don't reply idiots

seXytOhbAd:
This is so childish though. So calling people dear, sweetheart will lead to illicit sex? Please define illicit sex jare? Is it illicit when a babe slips on a banana, flips and lands On my cassava "by mistake"? Lol. There's no such illicit sex.... Maybe apart from rape. Now that's illicit

pocohantas:
Nope.
Abstract as an adjective in the context I want to use it, means... difficult to understand, not conforming to reality/regular.

Maybe I should have used weird to avoid ambiguity.

Agimor:
Happy new year to all nairalanders it's our year of spontaneous blessings....

CHARLOE:
The important thing is he was conceived out of wedlock, Mary married Joseph with pregnancy.
If its today, d church will indirectly force d couple to do abortion!

Dauraking:
The OP should please give me the phone number of the architect that drew the plan. I have a 90ft by 150ft land to build similar building. Thanks

Medunah:
True thou but seriously, how many guys of these days are worth keeping the hymen for?

hopefulLandlord:
Even Jesus was not the son of Joseph

so he was conceived outside wedlock

OLAADEGBU:
Jesus said "For the poor always ye have with you; but me ye have not always" (John 12:8.)

Even were we are poor in local currency we are not necessarily poor in international/heavenly currency. The poor is actually rich in all things in Christ.

optional1:
black is really beautiful.

opethom:
4.3million Don loose job under APC, recession follow.... Things like this will continue until government do something... I'm not in support of this, but we have to say the truth

feodan:
I cancel every spirit of untimely death ijn (AMEN)

buharimustlive:
Afonjas again
Both of them kept knacking themselves illegally.
Just like my neighbor BABA RONKE and his bedmate. Father Lord please hide my sisters from these AFONJAS.

mykeljosef:
christianity and. CHURCHTIANITY are different

fragrance2:
4 bedroom on a half plot? that's great. Pls, is it possible to build standard 3 bedroom flat on 24 by 120 half plot of land cuz my hubby is thinking of selling d land to buy somewhere bigger but I'm afraid we might not get a populated place like that cuz the places we saw were bushes. Pls can anyone help with a good design?

Godprotectigbo2:



ofonja and certificate forgery




nah their trade mark

60% of ofonjas dont have geniue certificate.....if i lie ask Ogun governor

softMarket:
TB for president!!!

TB joshua is working more than Buhari and his Ministers!!!
This is the type of Change we need in Nigeria

NinjaX:
Now we are going off the topic of discourse to disputing the validity of the bible. I don't know much about the history of the christian religion, but I do know that other religions that share similarities with it well precedes it. And if something is gotten from another thing, then it's only logical to think that that thing is not authentic.

Lol. You are saying everything about the bible is factual just because the bible says it is? What a ridiculous statement.

For a book supposedly inspired by an intelligent, compassionate all-powerful entity, it's not just appalling but shocking that it contains and supports violents inhuman acts against other humans. All the manslaughter, raping, wars, ransacking and what have you

Sir, you are not being honest to yourself so I will leave you to your opinion. I believe my previous post did justice to all points you raised

NinjaX:
Now we are going off the topic of discourse to disputing the validity of the bible. I don't know much about the history of the christian religion, but I do know that other religions that share similarities with it well precedes it. And if something is gotten from another thing, then it's only logical to think that that thing is not authentic.

Lol. You are saying everything about the bible is factual just because the bible says it is? What a ridiculous statement.

For a book supposedly inspired by an intelligent, compassionate all-powerful entity, it's not just appalling but shocking that it contains and supports violents inhuman acts against other humans. All the manslaughter, raping, wars, ransacking and what have you

Sir, you are not being honest to yourself so I will leave you to your opinion. I believe my previous post did justice to all points you raised

delishpot:
Wrong assumption. Society just demands and enforces the lifestyle.



@TOPIC, why would NYSC call her husband? Do they also include family morality duties in the NYSC programme? Would they have called the wife/wives if the husband was caught sleeping with a woman he was not married to?
They handled this thing badly in my opinion.

herzern:
OP.

Tell me where he lives in Ibadan.I wish to pay him a courtesy visit.

I think the man should be bestowed with the National honour thouqh.

TBH,He made a name for himself already,His name can never be forqotten in the history of this Great Nation.

NinjaX:
Most of the accounts of the bible are accepted by people in same measure as fictional books. They need not be certain that those events did happen. Faith takes good care of it.

But faith is useless to humanity, though not entirely useless. One needs a little bit of faith to carry on with the everyday activities of life.

Without faith, we can do nothing. Faith energizes us to pursue our goals, ends, or wants. But faith cannot work on its own.

Faith must go with action. But religion kind of suscribe to stand-alone faith in a twisted way. They say you must help yourself so that God will help you.

That you mustn't just sit idly after praying, you should try your hands at something and God will bless you through that engagement. But that's what humans have been doing ever since. Although in the case of men, it's known as hope, not prayers.

Hoping for something and working hard at it is likely to be successful.
Wonder why pastors say you must go into action else fortunes won't fall from heaven? Think about it.



Whether you quickly perish the thoughts of wanting to engage in sexual intercourse with a woman immediately those thoughts arise, amount to nothing.

Merely harbouring those thoughts, even for a split second, is all that matters. Rebuking those bad thoughts will make room for more thoughts. And it will happen again. Thoughts can take any form. Any form. Thing is, it will keep happening. All through your journey in life. Just like when you inhale oxygen and exhale carbondioxide. It's a continual process. It terminates only at death. You see, the mysteries of this amazing word are interconnected, one way or the other. Somehow. Mankind is doomed. It breaks my heart to admit this, but truth must be told. That's the reality we face, even though our perceptions differ.

gabazin080:
nop. we pay tax to pay their salary. where is the job, good roads or electricity to show for previous tax payed

NEROSKY:
So 4M can't pull it, pls wht should i be budgeting

khristal87:
I ws invited fr NPF special duties, i turned it dwn because f a promising leturing job...now i ve missed both..think teice, dnt mke d same mistake

HungerBAD:
Very sad.

It has become very common to see boys living in Benin, either doing something like this for themselves or their girlfriends. And still, Benin remains one of the least developed places in Nigeria, and their bad roads should be in the Guinness Books of Records, while their old houses makes Ibadan look like Dubai.

Exactly the same character they display outside Nigeria, especially with those living in Europe. Good Governance is not an individual thing, so to the guys bursting Champagne and pouring it on an empty ground, gather the money together and use it to repair the roads in your town or even use it to buy wrappers/Gold Earrings/Handbags for your moms, instead of just pouring it away on the ground.

Nobody who earns money legitimately, acts like this anyway.

And the funny thing is, they always crawl back to their fathers "Compound" where they have a room to themselves, after this show of wealth.

And usually on threads like this, you will see one smart guy or girl ask that question NA YOUR MONEY?or HOW IT TAKE CONCERN YOU? yes it concerns us as long as it has become something public.

We have a say in a public thing.