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kidman96:
this generation is something else.

Epositive:
i'm sure the "bouncers" sitting around the king are fully loaded with charms.... the lord is their strength



#positivevibes

mckazzy:
The man must be very stupid to be asking if he can still keep the relationship because of the money he spent on their wedding.

Always sample whatever you want to buy.

WINDSOW:
I av always advise guys, as far as the so-called fiancee ain't a virgin, bro, test it, I say test it, I say use all ur muscle to testament it else na 1 chance u enter so o.

CplusJason:
Good question young man, it wouldn't have stopped her. But what I'm trying to say is that the bullshiit "Wait until marriage syndrome" is a bloody deception.




Who knows, the she-goat might have deceive the poor boy that she's a virgin.

hmmmn what about the ladies that insult.
I remember ma ex, we broke up some weeks ago due to the fact that she insults so much.
The F word and mad word are nothing to her.
She dishes them out to me carelessly.
I really loved up, but men when the insults were escalating, had to back out. funniest thing is that she really loves me as well, but she had grown up with that psyche already. She probably learnt that from her mum and dad cos even when i visited them, her mumc can talk carelessly for Africa.
I disdain Insult cos i can be very temperamental, so instead make i vex, its better i avoid the relationship.
Insult is a No No for me as well.

Ugosample:
There is nothing justified in the man or woman flirting
What is wrong is wrong

ProfEinstein:
On what basis please, we are all sexual beings and we must exercise our sexual feelings with or without marriage. Enough of all these religious fanaticism that is taking away our human nature.

0b10010011:
I won't try a shoe or cloth that I want to buy?

Tell me another story.....

HungerBAD:
Giving too much can bring you down.
Forget the bible verse that says God loves a shareful giver.
Not happening again.

oscarnoble:
thanks for d question sir,it is a twin duplex and each has only one lounge ,have I answered your question?

Alajiki:
Experts in the house,

Please I need your candid advice on this. I just acquired the parcel of land shown on the attached survey plan. I am contemplating building a bungalow consisting of 2 units of 2 bedroom flats and 4 units of room and palour self contain while still leaving enough parking space. Can this be descent and appealing to prospective tenants?

I want all apartments to be on the zero floor. No storey building.

martins946:
Good afternoon my fellow nairalanders. Pls can an architect or a builder help me with a good plan of a four bedroom bungalor. All room en-suite, two sitting rooms, a pent house en-suite if possible, with a sit out in front.Any similar plan is acceptable. My e-mail is ( neboh48@gmail.com) Thanks

Pavore9:
Ladies always forming "surprised" over what has been their prayer points!

makydebbie:
This issue of women/female pastors is a very delicate one and I want to know something once and for all....

Now I know views may differ but we all know the Bible is our absolute "as Christians."
But again in this same Bible we can find some paradoxical situations/scenarios and please before you get me wrong, by "paradoxical" I specifically refer to:

"A claim that two apparently contradictory ideas are true" or.

"An unanswerable question or difficult puzzle, particularly one which leads to a deeper truth."


I don't deal with the self-contradictory angle of paradox here.... Just wanted to be clear on that.



Now sometimes ago, I visited this church and the pastor that day preached like someone who was spoiling for a fight.... Well maybe because he was talking about women or probably it is because he was just being passionate about his preaching..... Whatever it was, that's not the issue.


The issue is what he preached about, "Women pastors and the place of women in the Kingdom of God especially in the church..."


The pastor said that any woman who is found behind the pulpit preaching as an ordained Pastor or preacher is in error and in total disobedience to God's Word and because God hates disobedience, these women will end up in hell.

Boyyy! He went on and on and even gave scriptures which I will drop here soon.

Now my mind started to wander to all the reputable women preachers I know.... From the Karthryn Kuhlmans of the past to the late Bimbo Odukoyas of the recent past and to the Arch-Bishop Margaret Idahosa, and even Pastor Paula White of the present.... Any for the future? (Time will tell)


Now, The Holy scriptures in the book of 1Corinthians chapter 14 vs 34 says, "Let your women keep silent in the churches, for they are not permitted to speak but they are to be submissive to, as the law also says."

Now we know it was the apostle Paul speaking here and he went on to add in verse 35 of same scripture, the following,

"And if they want to learn something, let them ask their own husbands at home; for it is shameful for a woman to speak in the church."



In verses 36, 37 and 38, Apostle Paul said strong words which makes me ask.......

But why do we still have Highly anointed women ministers being used by God to wrought miracles globally and take the gospel to many?

Why isn't God limiting their power or influence if they are to keep shut in the church? Or am I missing something?


Okay here is another scripture about this issue:

I Timothy.2v 8-15 says a lot but I will pick the key verses which is verses 11 and 12....


"Let a woman learn in silence with all submission. And I do not permit a woman TO TEACH or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence"

This was Paul writing to Timothy who was pastor of the Ephesian church.

The scriptures above said that women are not allowed to teach.... But then what happened in the case of Kathryn Kuhlman?? She was mightily used of God and taught the bible in ways that influenced many Christians till this day........


Did God make an exception of her here? Or am I still missing something?


We also have seen that in the same Bible that harbors the two key scriptures above, there was a woman named Deborah.... **quite a coincidence is it?**


Deborah was judge over all Israel... She was a prophetess and a Judge meaning she was spiritual leader and Also Ruler of Israel in those days. This could also mean that she taught the people God's ways and we know in the new testament that a woman is not to teach or have authority over the man.

Why was Deborah's case different? Even Queen Esther is another example... She was kinda a leader figure to her fellow Jews in her days with Mordecai as her guardian and mentor.

She (Esther) played her role well. So well in fact that Hamann, Israel's enemy was destroyed and Israel saved from annihilation.

The stories of Deborah and Esther can be found in the books of Judges chapters 4 and 5 And Esther chapters 1 to 10.


So back to this day..... I have a question that need an answer or answers.....

In the light of everything said here and said in the Bible and seen in the Bible and in the light of the fact that we have reputable and influential Women ministers who are doing great things or who seem to be doing great things in the world today...

mymadam:
True. May God forgive us... ALL!

mymadam:
Haba, it's just an abnormal medical condition. No cause for alarm guys. Go for it

henrydadon:
the pastor is going to take credit for this

and many people are going to flock to his chruch this sunday...

i wonder what god was doing all those 7 years..

was he deaf and couldnt hear them when they were praying all those 7 years..hmmm

Compliant:
THINGS ARE GETTING MORE EXPENSIVE

DEBT PROFILE IS INCREASING

HIGH INFLATION RATE

TO CLEAR GOODS IS A PROBLEM

ECONOMY IS BAD

COST OF FUEL GOING UP

POWER BILL IS INCREASING

SALARY NOT FORTH COMING

THERE IS RECESSION IN THE LAND

I SEE MORE DEATH IN THE LAND

TIME IS COMING PARENTS WILL BEGIN TO SELL THEIR KIDS JUST TO FEED

OLAADEGBU:
Do you know what real riches is?

CXLVII:
Blood of Wizkid!

May it protect us from the evil ones

plaetton:
Why doesn't he simply divorce her ? And these are the same people that Jesus supposedly died for ? Poor Jesus. .

plaetton:
Yup.
Lack of it often leads different forms of neurosis.

sirfemoz:
Assuming the church built this school with her money,it will be better. But members were tasked, asked to sow seed, paid tithe, fasted, gave all they have, and was promised blessing. Only to discover that none of their ward can afford going to the school. It's a pity that the church today is not the same church the missionaries brought to us.

leksbore:
How many member of the Churc can afford this,judgement day is coming,,,,,this is not Christianity.Apostle Paul and Peter will be really disappointed in Nigeria Christianity.