Pls learn to live within urself.love pple but dont live all ur life on them-if u loss a dog it must leave a vacum,talk all u can of parents but u must blive dat was all they were to offer;wat never leaves u is u,it will 4ever b wat u are,so blive in it,invest in it and see all others as coming to help u build it so when they are no more u feel their absence awhile but must continue with it.

@delafruita=If u were tring to say God didnt (instead of did) Sorry mayb u are not a christian-its ok,am talking to christians who own and read their Bibles.

Hope we cld together throw more ligth on dis topic without abuse of individual's belives. Considering d scripture according to Gen 1:27 and Gen 2:7 who was d first man God created.

[quote author=inspire101]1). Have a skill: I see most people moving about with Bsc without any skill….Some even go cap it with Msc from Uk or wherever but Unfortunately, they were not taught that employers don’t pay u 4a certificate….they pay u 4d value u can add to an organization! Now, let me ask you sincerely…Do you go to the market to buy what you don’t need? If you were the employer, would you employ a “valueless” staff?

2). Create a product/service: Create a product or service and charge a fair rate….even if you will still go look for a job. Make sure you carry a solution to someone’s problem (could be a potential employer or end-user). Exchanging your time for money is a short term strategy…Don’t ever rely on that as your income. Your skill is the only thing that would guarantee a continuous flow of income.

3). Save as if your life depends on it: Listen my friend, to arrive too soon is to arrive too small. Don’t be moved by the pressure to look like the Jokes and the dejis. Live within your means. Paying bills without paying yourself is the number 1 secret to financial suicide. There will always be a reason not to save…so do Save, save and save at every opportunity you have.

4). Invest Wisely: A fool and his money would soon part ways. Avoid funny schemes. Run away from “Get rich quick programs”. High yield investment programs come with high yield of loss and disaster. Your race is a marathon and not an 100meters dash. Seek to understand the dynamics of investment before getting involved.

5). Know God: Understand that there is an infinite intelligence that oversees the affairs of the Universe. That you and I have his spirit within us and we can achieve a lot more that we are achieving if there is an alignment with this source. That he that dwells on our inside has no religion or skin color. That he hears our deepest thoughts and aspirations. Share your thoughts with him, whatever you conceive him to be and I am sure he will strengthen your desires.


There are a lot more but these are the basic principles I set in motion about 6years ago.I am 30years old now and I can tell you that i have achieved many of my financial goals.

Are there people here who have tested similar principles and would like to share or add to these ones…kindly go ahead.

stay inspired.
*PLEASE REFFERENCE* - very important

D overflow of d river-niger has resulted to heavy trafikjam.i write from a vehicle within d holdup in lokoja;our car which has been held to a spot for 7hrs now,others express pains and disappointment owning to d fact dat they' ve been in d situation for over 20hrs.For now there's no sign dat dis situation wld improve today as more cars pileup on d cue and d road remains blocked. Incase,u cld imform anybody possibly stil onward this root,dat wld help reduce d conjestion and save time.

olu jacobs and liz benson....wat a comparism;smart enuf to share it across among them-they gave most of wat nollywood is today.

Imagine a lady tells u she's a virgine,suddenly she happen to fall ill,only for d doctor to tell u she migth not b able to takein for too many abortions.

@op..:-)dat is to say i go die no die again o!!! Hope he keeps his eyes on a happy home,not like odas counting wife-s after awhile.

Wat ever u do with ur time shld met d motive u've set bhind it. Most club ladies go out alone with d motive of creating a room for a male-nite friend(if undastd)- so make ur stand clear on a self-date;pls no need for insults. Wateva ur motive enjoy d single life u've got while it last.

and so? wat next?? Dats stil all part of running capital;wat ratio... Lets just hope someone takes a drastic step-in to stop coruption in dis country or else......who has lost- d french or nigerians? Who is losing?

U cld b sure God is punishing u, when u are 37yrs and aint defined on marriage-but u re absolutely willing to b settled marritally.

Funny sha! I dont tink its funny. I've seen a raped microwave oven with a wet mentrapad in it. Atimes d class u invite maters but better-stil, we are africans,and here marriage means alot to our background if we claim we dont care or tink we've gone western,then so b it but those who brougth d gift nos wat it meant, if u dont.mayb later in life u would need to get more serious when people do tins u dont undastd.pestle &morta are for cooking abi..... ...am laughing in greek.

Funny sha! I dont tink its funny. I've seen a raped microwave oven with a wet mentrapad in it. Atimes d class u invite maters but better-stil, we are africans,and here marriage means alot to our background if we claim we dont care or tink we've gone western,then so b it but those who brougth d gift nos wat it meant, if u dont.mayb later in life u would need to get more serious when people do tins u dont undastd.pestle murtal are for cooking abi..... ...am laughing in greek.

Haven seen wot happend to my elder sis,i was on d watch for her although she was very little while my elder sisters got married,i dont Wont any lady around me face delay again(no b good tin)so i took it upon myself to monitor her.One nite i saw her with someone i dont like hanging around our fence.i call her later in d nite and spoke to her on why she shld b careful with men-am a man myself and i ve made my mistakes as well;but as a man u cld always cover it up-but i didnt discouragê her,only made her to undastd she cld count on me for advice;told her to b decisive on who her friends were to aviod lifetime mistake.i was very happy she undastod.

@op-WHO IS UR MAN?Dats wot only u can answer.stop to generalise on men,just try to undastd ur own man-personal discretion.Some men wld see u as a queen if u do their lundry other wld tink u are desperate.TO answer ur question-truely caring for a woman is wot men do to treat their women right.if u love a woman/man caring for such makes u fulfiled,and u dont need bn told to respect wot makes u fulfiled;at dat if a person does not respect u it shows to wot level or xtend he appreciates u which is tranlated from love.so dont let pple tel u tins dey do because u askd even its wrong.

Except a breakup in d pdp,ACN+ CPC cant unseat pdp;dats because d both parties are region restricted but pdp has dia base more spread among all regions.-pls note dis- what ACN needs to unseat pdp is d sametin CPC needs to get dsame,which is dsame logic dat has kept pdp.

Well a child because u are d father-sometin related to this happened wereby d father discovered dat his child's DNA tells otherwise and d said child is d only male child among his 3 kids,while d wife had a first child from a diffrent man(they were never married thuo) b4 dis marriage.it happend dat d man told his own brother but went on living with his family and nobody knew of it-later d man died and the wife claimed nobody should b involued in her late husbands properties-if u were d brother wat wld u do?

Luke 16:17 was a conditional phrase while Rev 12:11 affirms divine method of victory. If u have agreed to dat condition and u no its true,why not declare his faithfullness to affirm ur victory -by sharing ur testimonies here,u might b saving a life.

Drive to a quite place alone with some beverages, sit to meditate>though not a bad one; i use to do lots of wat u call bad but makes me glad,e.g leaving d church b4 close of service(after sermon) - hanging out latenite - midnite meals - enjoy been alone -etc but also love some good sturf.

Well mine....men run after women,women run after real men. Also mind those advice>so u dont get too careless letting d right man/woman go + opportunities are dressed in overall gowns they dont look it.

First we are humans-next when God calls a person,get it very clear no condition permits ur spouse to come on board.its obvious going by d letters of d story,d man is not called but has forced himself to it. If God calls a person it's definately for a purpose and who knows mayb he took her tru all d challenges for just such:but she had a "lot" which she didnt handle with wisdom which may cost her-her call. D man is only lacking understanding because if God calls ur wife then she must b d -G.O- not u. At home u are d head in ministry she is and dat explains y he is afraid,his fear now is his drive and so d cause of every problem giving d devil an avenue to distroy d ministry.

@Desari- if ur story is true,then dont u tink y u are still searching is because u 've misplaced sometin (liketerms attracts).I blive d kind of people u attract is only a reflection of who u truely are.I ve also discovered from bks dat every time u see a late single(male or female),sometin has gone wrong with their thoughts;eg placement of life priorities,blive, association,etc. For instance,Desari u want a man dat could keep 50% of total bills at d standard u have set-instead of a man dat can manager a home building up d little he has over time to become large,dat xplains ur search in clubs,etc7.wat if u get a man who cld pick 100% bills today but tomoro cant care for himself?wat do u really want in marriage?wat matters most to u on d longrun?is it all abt d now?we all know how important finance is in marriage but marriage isnt all abt finance like 100%:wat abt values-unity of goals-integrity-true compatibility*my dear some other tins can make u want to live again only if u can b true to urself and place ur priorities right.may i also tell u dat if ur idea on relationship was rigth u wont have a problem on getting a life partner regardless of where u live.maybe u need change ur perception on marriage and have a little retink.Everybody is met for somebody but if u ever meet depends on u;ur ideas.(bad as it may,u didnt just start meeting Nija men today)

NLders,pls wat's d foundation of all dis? how did it all start? >d bible says if d foundation b faulty wat can d rigtheous do? Maybe God answers or not depends on if he actually approved d marriage in d first place;if he did u can b rest assured he would showup.

I have always belived d basic reason anybody should get married was to have a companion which should be based on true love,well i also discoved dat not everybody has been privileged to ever fall in-love, while others have it didnt end in marriage.As Africans living in Nigeria we all know wat it means to b single at some age, even some responsiblities cant b given to such a person.Now some such people endup been married for other reasons wilfully or not,eg:material tins,lust,fame,etc because they want to have babies or a family.I have read on NL PEOPLE CONDEMN marriages because they were not base on true love. IS IT NOT WORTH IT,TO MARRY FOR OTHER REASONS because U WANT UR OWN CHIlDREN OR A FAMILY? Or is it better to stay single till u get true love?

@OP-I tink u shld change ur perspective on dis issue.

@dozeij84-give and take N7m>good start for an upcoming guy. But its worth all d trouble. For a talk send ur number on N/L.

If u are d bisnes type,(i mean at heart-ready to take d shocks) then watever u get into b ready to make it work and it would.i personally can tel of fotography-foto printing,large format prints etc-anybiz u cant first of all man urself dont do.bisness is like a new baby -u must nuture it to an extend b4 u leave it to anybody.b very positive and ready to see it work not just to own d cash.

Story,story....story teller! Lets just play along,but even at dat dont u see u have so much question to anwser. 1)which church did u wed? 2) he had a home for 9yrs and pple followed him to marry a 2nd wife as a pastor(may b in naija or uk) or was it just 2 of u? (3) a wife walked away for 2yrs (on her own) and now shows up to make trouble was she xpecting him to remain dat way? 4)pls forgive my long interogations - pls how old are u or d lady in question?

@yemi-slimyemi * dont u tink u shld not have use dat word"nonsense"; just curious. May b u didnt get my point.(MATURITY -THEY SAY IS ABILITY TO DELAY ANGER)

Slimyem i've followed ur post awhile on NL so i can atlist tel d way u reason to an extend-u ant d best to decide here but ur friend.Most response to ur post are ladies owing to d African setting of motherinlaw influnce in marriages:i for one wished i got such surport at dat age,i wld ve married and bet u dat wld ve only been an edge not because am lazy but just d situation.u see ur friend shld b mature enurf to tell if she's with a man or a boy.d mother migth undastd dat everyman needs some lifting at some point and been dat he's her only-it cld b as a boy or as a man,but first and formost is he capable to man his home?where money comes from(mother or not)doesnt mata;ve u not seen a man working to care for his parent and d parents stil take d decision of his home.if he's truely a man,a time wld come when his mum cant afford his taste in relation to his ego.

Wl'd somebody pls help tell rep members to form-bizy and over look june 28 when OBJ is surpose to defend his speach againt rep members on "frauds"- because they just cant talk him down.