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FashionRe: Glass Van Runway Causes Stir In Lagos (Photos) by Arkmanbuddy(m): 5:52am On Oct 05, 2019
What's the purpose of this, If I may ask? Advertising at night? For who?
CelebritiesRe: DJ Cuppy And Anthony Joshua Spark Up Dating Rumors As They Vacation In Spain by Arkmanbuddy(m): 5:23pm On Aug 25, 2019
Jaynom:
grin anyone that knows MIA KHALIFA na chairman for pórn! grin
Including yourself!
BusinessRe: Subomi Balogun Arrives At Ojude Oba In Rolls-Royce Phantom by Arkmanbuddy(m): 10:18pm On Aug 18, 2019
ola33t:
Pls who has this old song?


Emi nlo by Yinka davies. (not the one on youtube with lagbaja)

There is one audio or cover or studio version.
Anyone who has it can mention my post. Thanks.
Where are you going to exactly?
PoliticsRe: Ayo Fayose Reacts To Ekweremadu’s Attack In Germany by Arkmanbuddy(m): 6:56pm On Aug 18, 2019
Ganiyat72:
FayoFOOL, if I have my way I will not only stone u, I will behead u join.......omo ale
Ahn ahn, Aunty Ganiya, take am easy na. Your blood dey hot o!
CelebritiesRe: Photos From Toyin Abraham's Baby Shower In Dubai by Arkmanbuddy(m): 8:40am On Aug 15, 2019
Lamasta:
Its officially Toyin Abraham's not Chrlseas T. Abraham's week grin congratulations to her and famiky
You just dey wake?
SportsRe: Chelsea Arrive Istanbul For Liverpool Clasg by Arkmanbuddy(m): 7:44pm On Aug 13, 2019
Good luck to them.
TravelRe: Baby Dies In Car Crash, Weeks Later Mom Sees A Detail In His Old Photo Everyone by Arkmanbuddy(m): 7:42pm On Aug 13, 2019
This is so heart-wrenching! RIP to the young blood. May we never make costly mistakes that will cost us a lot in our lives and that of our loved ones. Amen.
EducationRe: Onyiuke Akachukwu Matthew Tackles JAMB On Withheld UTME Result by Arkmanbuddy(m): 7:36pm On Aug 13, 2019
JAMB should come up with a good reason for withholding his result because its not making sense to me at all.
RomanceRe: Help! I'm Emotionally Wrecked! by Arkmanbuddy(m): 12:37pm On Aug 12, 2019
pansophist:
My young bro, take heart. The sad truth is, she has found someone better, and you should accept it even if you do not feature in the picture. It's about emotional maturity and letting this just be.

Your next step is to give yourself time, as time has a way of healing things. You'll pass through it, and you'll like yourself better after this. I experienced something you passed through when I was 18, and felt even worse than you, but I was naive, innocent, and didnt understood the timeless truth of female nature, keeping attraction, and stimulating the relationship sustainably. Looking back those times, I could see clearly the mistake I made, and I've refined myself to a point that such could not happen again. And in the unlikely scenario that it does, well, a replacement is around the corner. You should do the same.

It seems to me that your relationship with her is your job, you specialized in loving her and treating her as the best thing, while ignoring your own personal growth. Listen attentively, women DO NOT want to be your goal. They want to be part/beneficiary of it, not the goal. You treated her nice and gave her everything to the best of your ability and probably didn't focus on your growth, and compete with other men in the free world.

You were too available, making you appear as someone with female scarcity, with no option and not a real catch. Also, pursuing her even after her formal declaration for relationship withdrawal is something that men with no options do. You cannot beg a woman into a relationship with you, it's an instant attraction killer. You attract and keep her with the lifestyle you've built for yourself, and the man you've developed yourself to be.

Remember the biblical story of when God told Adam (after eating the forbidden fruit from Eve), that henceforth he would toil the ground for food and survival, and cursed Eve that she will suffer doing child birth? The true meaning of this story is that as a man, you have to be out there hustling, pursuing your goal and fulfilling your dreams, as no woman want to be for a man that is not out there toiling the ground.

She dont want to cry during child birth for man with no purpose, and be amother to his kids. Whether you believe in this story or not, you may comb any other religion, culture, science, and just observe the world around you, you would see that your value as a man is by being resourceful. Women are made, men are born. You see where a woman automatically becomes a first lady or a queen just because her husband is a president or a king? But it doesn't work in the opposite direction, there is no first firstman for the husband of a female president. You should know that women are rewarded for being women, all she has to do is look beautiful, and men and society will reward her. For a man, you must build yourself to be rewarded by women and society.

You're almost depressed (that's if you're not), because you are not pursuing things in the real world that would make her wonder why you do not call her always, that even if she breaks up with you, you're too busy achieving and breaking through to even feel an inch of her jilting you. She is at a stage of her life with male abundance, she wont do anything special and men will find her attracted and seek her commitment. All she has to do is sit back and choose, and if she left you for someone else, it means the other guys playing their game better. Loving her is not playing, buying her gift is not playing, but to play, you must develop yourself to be a good catch. That your presence is enough for her to find you attractive. Any man can save, spend and impress, but not every man is a top dog.

That even if she breaks up with you, in the back of mind, she knows there are younger and far beautiful women out there waiting to take her place, and will question herself if she can get a man in the same calibre as you. Do you think Davido will be worried if Chioma decides to leave him? Davido will laugh at her because he knows that she will be dead lucky to meet a man in his status, and she knows this as well. In every relationship, many young boys are clouded with feelings and love without understanding the power dynamics that is ever present and playing in the background.

I hope you get well, but remember this, you will never loose women chasing money (interpret it as goals, achievements, purpose etc), but you'll always loose money chasing women. Men compete with other men for success, women compete with other women for successful men. If you do not have women competing for your commitment, then you've either not reached there yet, or you're doing it wrong.

Goodluck young blood.
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Good Post.
PhonesRe: Full Features Of Harmony OS, As Huawei Unveils The OS For All Devices (Photos) by Arkmanbuddy(m): 12:11pm On Aug 11, 2019
nedekid:
In a good mood and will want to buy 10people breakfast or data this morning. I asked for 500 naira to feed but if your notice I did not give my acct details cos I wanted to see anyone signify benevolence to me. Nobody except 1 fellow that asked told me to go find work. Lol.
While not encouraging begging we have all gone through rough times at a point in life and little coins makes a difference.
Any one that would he offered my 500, I intended giving 5k.
1 will rather break 10k into 1k each.
If you need kindly buzz me. I could send data or money transfer.
Thanks
Send to me then.
PoliticsRe: Borel Teguia Invents Solar Drone To Fight Boko Haram by Arkmanbuddy(m): 2:41pm On Aug 10, 2019
crafteck:
We are busy doing water power bank,, dat drone is better as wind Mill, clearly he has no idea why cars are streamlined in shape
True talk
CelebritiesRe: Lynxxx Celebrates Four Years As A 'Born Again Christian' by Arkmanbuddy(m): 8:03am On Aug 08, 2019
I congratulate him.
PoliticsRe: Unbowed And Unbroken: TIB Members Visit Defiant Sowore In DSS Detention by Arkmanbuddy(m): 9:19am On Aug 07, 2019
chudez0147:
I mean the one on earth.. He is very stupid
Well, Not as stupid as your ashawo mother! That I can say.
PoliticsRe: Unbowed And Unbroken: TIB Members Visit Defiant Sowore In DSS Detention by Arkmanbuddy(m): 7:48am On Aug 07, 2019
chudez0147:
Your father
Which art on heaven!
PoliticsRe: Unbowed And Unbroken: TIB Members Visit Defiant Sowore In DSS Detention by Arkmanbuddy(m): 9:50am On Aug 06, 2019
[quote author=WeRblessed post=80986231][/quote]Cornerstone where? Are you not in the same zoo? Keep deceiving yourself.
PoliticsRe: Unbowed And Unbroken: TIB Members Visit Defiant Sowore In DSS Detention by Arkmanbuddy(m): 9:47am On Aug 06, 2019
chudez0147:
You that is not coward.., oya go and free sowo?? Anu
See how beardedboy replied you maturely. You should be ashamed of yourself!
PoliticsRe: MURIC Reacts To Kidnap Of 5 RCCG Pastors, Members by Arkmanbuddy(m): 8:33pm On Aug 03, 2019
CrimeKsmart:
And for you to talk about the cause of the problem knowing full well that the cause of problem will only weaken the unity of this country shows you are retrogressive in thinking.

You are acting like a typical IPOB member. If you are really a patriot you should lay emphasis on solution not cause... I pity the future of this country with people like you
So you'd rather play games rather than straighten things out? How can you solve a problem without addressing the root cause of it? How can you say you've cured a disease with the virus or bacteria still living in the system of the victim? What kind of "education" do you claim to have?

I pity your life Son! Seems I've been wasting my time replying you. Thought you were different. Absolute garbage of a comment you made here!
PoliticsRe: Why do European countries have a single ethnic group dominating a country? by Arkmanbuddy(m): 5:56pm On Aug 03, 2019
pchukwudi:
I think your narrative is misleading.

No country in this world is as diverse and self contradictory as Nigeria.

The US population is over 70% white and over 70% Christian.

The second single largest racial or religious group is less than 15% of the population.

That shows that the US is way more homogeneous than Nigeria has ever been or will ever be.
When Obama came out in 2008 to run for presodency, more of the "70%" voted for him than the 14%! Its more about mentality and the willingness to grow than on differences in tongue and culture.

That's just my take.
PoliticsRe: MURIC Reacts To Kidnap Of 5 RCCG Pastors, Members by Arkmanbuddy(m): 5:47pm On Aug 03, 2019
CrimeKsmart:
Its uniting us of course. At least it shows no one is happy with what is happening in the country except IPOBS.


The cause of the problem is really causing division. You should rather say the panacea to the problem.
You make me laugh. You've only proven to me that you're not just a tribalist but an APC apologist.

You're only applying balm to the sores but not killing the microbes inside the blood that's causing it.

I fear for the youths in this country.
PoliticsRe: Nnamdi Kanu Reacts To Omoyele Sowore’s Arrest By DSS Over #revolutionnow Protest by Arkmanbuddy(m): 5:40pm On Aug 03, 2019
MelesZenawi:
Brief and concise but kanu should seriously distance himself from sowore and his band wagons before he ropes u in..


Be wise as serpent...


Allow oodua to do their thing.
Your idiotic self wouldn't get you to know that Idris Abdul Kareem is not Yoruba.

Idiotic comment!
PoliticsRe: MURIC Reacts To Kidnap Of 5 RCCG Pastors, Members by Arkmanbuddy(m): 5:09pm On Aug 03, 2019
CrimeKsmart:
We all know people like you only want to read news that will divide this country not news like this that unite us.
Is this news uniting us as a Nation, when we shy away from the cause of the problem? Don't be fooled!
CrimeRe: EFCC Arraigns Wealth, A Yahoo Boy In Port Harcourt (Photo) by Arkmanbuddy(m): 4:48pm On Aug 03, 2019
windofjustice:
Someone should tell me what to invest with ₦700,000
Real Estate
CelebritiesRe: Man Photobombs Nadia Buari's Picture by Arkmanbuddy(m): 10:49pm On Jul 25, 2019
simonlee:
if i ever come across a celebrity on the streets....
Ypu no gbadun, i swear! Lol.
CelebritiesRe: Cici Officiacici Rocks To A Song As Fans Go Gaga (Photos) by Arkmanbuddy(m): 10:49pm On Jul 23, 2019
starbuck:
Odiegwu undecided undecided... I am more sexier than her...
Tarrr!!!
CelebritiesRe: Cici Officiacici Rocks To A Song As Fans Go Gaga (Photos) by Arkmanbuddy(m): 10:47pm On Jul 23, 2019
Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]What if she doesn't have sense?

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She most definitely doesn't!
PoliticsRe: Crowd Welcomes Governor Yahaya Bello Back From Abuja In Cotonou (Photos) by Arkmanbuddy(m): 5:08pm On Jul 21, 2019
This only confirms the fact that many Nigerians are cursed. Cursed with the spirit of mediocrity, and stupidity.

This same thing happened when Ibori returned from prison in the UK and was welcomed by a crowd, and all they had to say for that was: "they lied against him, he's our Son!" A son who nearly ruined you and the future of your children?

It's pathetic how we reason in this country, and it saddens me that I live in this present generation in this country. No wonder we're not moving forward.

It's just so sad!

EventsRe: Happy Birthday Seun by Arkmanbuddy(m): 3:24pm On Jul 17, 2019
Seun is a Kabarilaga Nkpi! grin grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Yagana Musa Becomes First Kanuri Woman To Become A Major In The Nigerian Army by Arkmanbuddy(m): 12:26am On Jul 13, 2019
mygee2:
People as foolish as you are what brought this issue
Beware you are browsing with an IP address Watch your tongue
You spoilt your response there with the IP nonsense. Are you going to trace his IP address and bomb him? Respond to comments maturely not with threats.
PoliticsRe: Why do European countries have a single ethnic group dominating a country? by Arkmanbuddy(m): 10:48pm On Jul 07, 2019
ITbomb:
Don't ever use USA, US is a country of immigrants.
So the founding fathers had one agenda, stick together and crush the locals. All of them, Irish, Germans, Spainanrds etc ganged up against the locals and overcame them.

Nigeria has indigenous tribes, overly suspicious of each but forming ad-hoc alliance to share the free oil money
Whether immigrants or indigenous, the fact still remains that they were and are still of different tribes sticking together for the main purpose of developing their country. Let's have a working leadership and all will work out.
SportsRe: South America Football Bosses Fire Back At Messi Over Corruption Comment by Arkmanbuddy(m): 7:15pm On Jul 07, 2019
I seriously believe that the red card shown Messi was as a result of his outburst after the Brazil match, CONMEBOL themselves cannot deny it. They should thoroughly investigate the decision of the referee and apply due sanctions. Its unbelievable!
PoliticsRe: Why do European countries have a single ethnic group dominating a country? by Arkmanbuddy(m): 6:57pm On Jul 07, 2019
Let me ask you: how many tribes make up the US, can yi count all of them? US is the biggest economy and is a country of several different people from different ethnic backgrounds. How many tribes make up the Koreas yet they're so divided?

The truth is, to develop a nation requires the joint effort of a people who believe its possible, regardless of tribe and tongue. That we're not developed is not due to the fact that we're made up of many tribes but because we haven't gotten leaders with the right combination of intellectual wherewithal and ownership of this great Nation. When this happens, every other thing will fall into place.

That's just the fact!
PoliticsRe: Free Trade Must Be Fair Trade, Says Buhari by Arkmanbuddy(m): 5:56pm On Jul 07, 2019
I just pray and hope Nigeria will not be a dump site for all goods from African countries. Fair trade is when we have a viable manufacturing sector with all the factors that enhance it in place.

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