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Hiding money is a big problem - you started it and she learned from you. No trust between both of you.
This is a good time to divorce if you guys can't come to an agreement on how to move forward money wise.

Lol, i guess i will cook the regular, aromatic and nauseous (per your description) one first - to get to my neighbors nerve

Please take us through the rice memory lane and post pictures when next you go shopping in Abeokuta

kinah:
The original Ofada is very dark and has strong odour fa. When cooking one would feel nauseous. It is highly nutritious and Delish.

The one that has no strong odor is agric.it is kind of light.

In abeokuta here you will see different variants

Haba mallam mai kudi, you don't want us to be rich like you ?
Say it loud - by the anointing, market is going up

Ibime:
No go buy Crypto now oh, it fit turn your Tesla to Datsun.

Now is time for scalping. Market is going down.

Looking @ your history on that list, I will put my idea of Tesla model X on hold

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I have to put Tesla model X on hold

Ibime:
Keep digging my nigga. I'm loving this use of your time.

A King will never concern himself with the ranting of a poverty inflicted goat.

As poverty is your push button, let me just take one minute to check my "gambles" you keep ranting about from the last couple of days to pepper you more. You know market is in a swing pattern so we have to make do with small percentages on swing trades unlike before. This is just a small play to me that would take you out of Umudike and settle you down for Masters in the Fruited plains. Cue rants about fraudsters as you develop brain aneurysm.

Thank you so much BlueRay - it was advertised as - No odor 2lb 9.95 and Regular 2lb 15.95.
I will buy both as a trial. I'm always curious about different rice.

Your explanations helped because I'm so tired of brown and wild rice.

BlueRayDick:
Ofada rice makes sense; it's a specie of local rice just like Abakaliki rice, etc. The ones I do cook I buy them in the mall and they do come out well when cooked.

I don't seem to understand the part where u talked about it coming in "original and odor ofada", but ofada rice has a peculiar odor that is neither offensive nor bad. In fact the odor is one of the enticing features of the rice. The rice usually announces its presence anywhere tru it's peculiar scent.( I don't even know if referring to the aroma as odor, scent or smell is the right word to use sef)

See below picture of the one I cooked and posted here last time

Has anyone here eaten ofada rice before ?

I'm trying to buy some but they come in original and odor ofada. What does it means?

Bad odor or odor as in Jasmine rice ?

Akposy, cococandy, Mariangeles and all - please come help me understand.

Not sure which one to look - the bush meat hair, the ones on your chest or the belly. Common now wear shirt even if heat too much.

I agree so we don't have to go through the experience again. It is best for China to be out in the open than to continue to hid it came from their country.

Doesn't look like a natural human/virus thing. This covid was one tough thing - phew

I hope that someday we will truly know.

May we continue to be protected even as we go about our daily lives.

Obrigardo:
I agree with Biden and the "others" about finding the root of this disease. That bat and animal market doesn't cut it a 100% yet but with this directive the root will be found. My fear is that it should not be another Iraq wmd debacle, not being conspiratorial.

Strength, gratitude, family etc

I saw more than 20 - a genius!

Grant her the divorce and you guys move on.
No apology means it wasn't a mistake but she isn't interested in the marriage anymore..

nwa mama, na you biko!
Let me send you a cold Alize on the rock
Good morning.

cococandy:
A woman has the right to tell you yes , no or wait, EVEN IF she has had 1000 sexual partners before you. I don’t know where this xtupid notion came from that once a woman has sex with someone, then she owes every man who comes her way more sex. Una dey even think? It’s borderline rapist mentality.

If you don’t like her conditions, you can geddifok but she sure as hell has the right to set whatever conditions she wants to. It’s not by force.

Leave then and let's knack on jare - who no wan taste test

Cakhama:
Going by your logic, the one you're hoping to wife is being knacked and doing sleepovers as we speak.

After you're done with the one you're knacking and increasing her mileage, another man is also zipping up after increasing the mileage of the one you're hoping to pick.

Where will you find virgins and low body count when you all have to knack?

Where else should 22 years old be in your own Nigeria?

Secondary school? Marriage home ?

loswhite:
22 years in college? Are you base in Nigeria?

Omotola and who else ? Give us names.
Besides, that was then - when your Nigeria was in good health and shape.

owowa145:
Nigga, Omotola got married at 17yrs and that didn't stop her education and career path in her hubby's house... Get sense pls.

The right thing to do is to take her to the hospital. There are cure or mgmt to any ailments under the sun.

Nobody is perfect - show me your imperfections and I will show you my humanity.

Stand by your wife - you are already married - in sickness and in health.

@ 22, she should be in college or pursuing/building up her career - don't you think so ?

Haven't you heard that Nigeria men now want a career wife ? If at 22 she is married, where is the time to accomplish that ?

BadBradley:
a 22 year old isn't old enough for marriage?

You want them to be prostituting and become an old dejected lovlorn-shrew like you?

Old frustrated feminists like you won't allow these young girls breathe except you corrupt them and level the playing field for oold oafs like you whose pussy is as dry as the biblical wilderness.

Many women now see their menopause in their 30s, but a damaged community object like you would even encourage a woman to keep close male friends in their marriage when it is clear the male friend wants only one thing.

Na God go punish bitter old olosho like you.

A good way to seat the poor non gift bearing people who only come to eat wraps of poundo, jollof, moimoi, assorted meat, dessert and then leave

We know them from last wedding - they came without gift. Please sit them close to the toilet/Rr

Poor people and sex !! It is like the rest of us don't know how to climb bed!

sisisioge:


Six children borne by broke asses! How! Wahala mo dey finish for this life o! 6 kids!

abi! Rant on bo ranting is good.
One can only rant at Nigerian entitlement mentality.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga let the man rant in peace joor

Who wan chop sufferhead konji? Only poor person ofc.

mrwonlasewonie:
you no add the cultural factors.you go see Okada man, gateman or vulcaniser wey no see Food chop go dey get mind to marry 2,3 wives,carry all of them pack for inside 1 room with over 12 children

Na those poor people wey dey fertile pass and their konji Na non stop

Can you hold a small meet and greet to educate the men on using condom ?

Not all sex or lovemaking should result in pregnancy.

Those skin feelers continue to make Nigeria a very poor country.

Pregnant bride and perks indeed

Neighbors: "see am, she never marry but don carry belle - my daughter don't be like that o"

Boyfriend's family: "Don't marry her until you know she fit carry Belle"

Nigerians and confusion

That same machine was used during the Trump v Hillary election year right ?
They should go deeper into the past 2 elections.
Possibly Hillary won Arizona.

basilico:
A straight question. What if the forensic aidit proves Joe did not win Arizona?

So the woman is impregnating herself ?

ibedun:
Yes because black woman’s small sense na born, born, born, born, born which they have used to destroy many men. How many white man has more than 2 or 3 children?

Emmmm na so - smh

blasterman:
i can get a nanny or help for that abeg

Worse case there are grandmothers

For business me and my friend want to start bizness we are contributing money and ideas wetin concern wife in that. she has no investment watsoever-mental or financial

All this Londonite Nigerian guys self.

Pataki thats you or Saga eh ?
Awon big London boyz to men

Just move and sort it out with no arguments. The arguments made madam to call the cops

She no want chop Nigerian style slap

Lol me sef no go do
What? Imagine I can't say babes, please I need/want peppermint and chamomile tea without him looking at me with bad eyes cuz he go work come back ?

cococandy:
If it’s not this formula, I no dey do.

I understand - not everyone can combine both. Some women are holding down full time job while raising their kids with little help here and there.
For me, i don't think women should leave the money making to their husbands - all hands on deck. We both would work, take care of the home and raise our kids together. Nothing should be solely for one person - we will work together pooling resources as a team and care for the children together.

Your post made me laugh

babakb:
Raising kids is a fulltime job, harder than some jobs out there.

Who would want to combine that with another fulltime job again except a suffer head person.

Please men should stop being hypocritical, you can't have it all, the rule is simple, men pay all the bills and women raise the kids and do the house chores.

I like as the OP's wife is standing her ground, besides all the kids are bearing the father's name so why should the women labour to death.

Dear women, don't allow men to deceive and manipulate you, there is no shame in being a fulltime housewife, raise the kids and do the house chores, let him pay all the bills.

You are right - some people don't want to combine work and raising kid. They see it as something hard to do.

mariahAngel:
Even if she's not a graduate, there are so many other easy things she can do to generate income and support her family.

Maybe the guy won't understand she doesn't want it.
Normal convo from an understanding guy, yeah.
The OP should be like "baby since you are feeling this way, let's wait till we are married ok. I love you and will gladly wait"

uboma:
What is it with the 'crocodile tears'?

What happened to having normal conversation about issues that worries her?

Vaccinated - and will continue with my mask on if I'm out.

Mintum:
FAUCI on CBS: “If you’re vaccinated and you’re outside, put aside your mask. You don’t have to wear it.”

Flip flopping everyday, tomorrow he will say the exact opposite of this. I wonder how people still listen to this clown.