Probably the ones who went for a favor

Magnoliaa:
Well, damn. Look at the party of baddie haters.


Some clothes literally are stretchy. They ride up as you walk and move. So I should not wear a gown I find cute and lovely because of that?

It also doesn't mean the cloth isn't comfortable. It just means I love the way the cloth looks on my body, and I still don't want it showing flesh I deem too much?

But why do they start the pulling and stretching whenever a guy appears??
Don't they know that that actually calls more attention to them?

Several times I've walked past girls and ladies without sparing em a second glance no matter what they wear.
But when they start that annoying pulling? It immediately draws attention and it's disgusting asf.

fadilaMaikiriki:
I think I can confidently that I'm the only female who doesn't have leggings. I mean every female has this clothing.

I went to the market sometimes last month, I decided to get leggings, but when I went to the vendor that sales it, I didn't want to buy it again. The motivation to buy it just died down.

I have a kind of buttocks that is protruded and shakes when whenever I walk, so getting or wearing a leggings will make things worse. It'll bring out everything ( which I don't want). We all know how leggings are- thin and light. So, with buttocks that's somehow protruded and shakes when walking, wearing a leggings will be somehow, at least to me. Everything will be exposed. This will draw unnecessary attentions which I wouldn't want.


So, am I the only on this? Am I the only female here who doesn't have one too?

And men, what's your take on this?

Wait shey no be u post some squat yansh stuff sometime ago? Lol

jeromestarks:
Ewwwww! Ewwwww!🤢🤢
Ewwwww ewwwww Ewww ewwwww Ewww ewwwww Ewww!!!🤮🤮


Modified:
This girl that quote me, I will slap you ooo 😡😡😡

Because the girl don cast your fake life ba? Una go dey form boss like say nigerian foods are lower in quality or nutrients than white people food.

You no get sense at all I swear.

Gideonski:
Hello guys, I'm a 25 year old male and close to over 6'2 inches tall. Right from childhood, I've always had this thin physique that has made me look very lanky. Infact, I've never experienced what it feels like to put on weight or be fat 😁.
Over the years, i have done a number of research and it i read that i have the endomorph body type or something like that, but i really want to bulk up so that it will fit my height.
I can't afford to go on a diet or eat 5-6 times a day as suggested by the internet, but can i get bulky if i join the gym?

*ectomorph not endomorph.
First you need fats to convert to muscle.
I'd recommend seeing a dietician to figure out what exactly your body needs.

pansophic:


No. As a true believer in Jesus, a low and even trimming of the hair is acceptable without total balding or carving (shaping) of the edges of the head or beard. Anything more than this is condemnable according to the Bible. It may be a hard message but it is the truth my friend.

Soooo,,, every man on earth should have the same hairstyle basically?
Tf are we? Clones? Lmao

pansophic:
Do you ever consider at this time we are that God is very concerned about how we dress ourselves as his children, right from the very hair on our heads to the sole of our feet?

God is very interested in your appearance if truly you belong to him and he seeks your total obedience to his word he has given us. Here are some of the things God said to us in the Bible.

He said;

"Do not conform to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will." Romans 12:2

And also;

"Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them." 1 John 2:15

These verses highlight the distinction between believers and the world, emphasizing the challenges and choices faced by those seeking to live in accordance with their faith.

The very "world" the Bible is making reference to are the ungodly things we find around us. From the latest trends to the latest fashion, to the new gadgets, to the glorified beauty norms and products and even to the lifestyle of the world, Our jealous God doesn't want us in any form to be one with them. Thus, he gave us those instructions.

Loving the world and the things in it only brings enmity and separation from God. As followers of his word, we need to understand this and make our adjustments where necessary if we ever desire to be where he is. This may be hard for us to accept but it is necessary and rewarding to our souls. By the guidance and support of the Holy Spirit, we shall conquer all there is to conquer.

Thereby, the issue of hairstyle comes in. What manner of hairstyle do you (if you have a good level of discernment) think Jesus had when he was alive here on earth? What manner of hairstyle do you believe the apostles and godly women in those days put on? If you are a honest person within yourself, you will know that it definitely has no resemblance with the arrogant and lustful appearance of today.

I'm speaking about hairstyles such as

1. Afro, Fade, Galaxy, Phunk, Sports Waves and the like

As true believers in Christ, the names of these haircuts are supposed to irritate us alone compared to wearing them. They give the vibe of worldliness and canality and do not speak of or glorify God at all. Their design is of the ungodly world of which God himself is enemy to and shouldn't be put on, practiced or admired by anyone who claims to belong to him.

Remember Leviticus 19:27 (NIV): "Do not cut the hair at the sides of your head or clip off the edges of your beard."

This scripture emphasizes on the detestable appearance of hairstyles which involves the cutting of the hair at the sides of the head such as those mentioned above. Most boys and men alike today act contrary to this verse by cutting the corners of their hair and leaving the middle to be full. This will only bring God's judgment upon us as we are being disobedient to his word in that verse. You may feel, "this is far stretched and insignificant today" or "it applies to only a specific set of people".

Dear friend, it applies to all God's children. God doesn't seek half obedience or service but a total of our personality ranging from the heart, to the mind and even our bodily appearance. You need to accept this message as many has fallen and been judged because of it.

2. Attachments, Tinting, relaxing, stretching and perming of the hair:

1 Peter 3:3-4 (NIV): "Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight."

1 Timothy 2:9-10 (NIV): "I also want the women to dress modestly, with DECENCY AND PROPRIETY, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God."

A deep research on the origin of these things will reveal that these things are from the ungodly world and the devil, not from the Father who chose us. They are the vices of the devil to trap as many women as he can to fall with him to destruction and putting them on will make this a reality for you when you leave this world.

The Bible urges women to be decent in their appearance as God wants there to be a stark difference in appearance between his own daughters and that of the world which by design tinting, relaxing, perming and attachments to the hair won't give. Yes dear reader, this is true though you may be told otherwise, accept the truth and make adjustments where necessary as a daughter of the Lord you are - to be natural in your appearance as he had created you. Keeping your hair long, neat and well dressed without any forms of artificial beauty attached to it. You're beautiful in the eyes of the Lord just the way you are and making artificial changes to your appearance will only separate you from God and puts you up for his judgment.

Romans 12:1 (NIV): "Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship."

3. The total scraping of the hairs on the head or keeping of long hair as a Man.

Ezekiel 44:20 (NIV): "They must not shave their heads or let their hair grow long, but they are to keep the hair of their heads trimmed."

Scraping your hair until your scalp appears is detestable unto God just as the style of keeping a long hair as a man. God spoke his mind, his very heart of what he desires for his people in that verse and other verses in his word. If he had no issues with such, he wouldn't have made it known as God never gives empty words or speaks to just to fill the silence. You need to understand that you aren't just any ordinary individual but one who is chosen by God through salvation as a priest unto him forever. Thus, you have to live your life in accordance with that which pleases him as this and only this is your true service to Him. Doing otherwise will only make you a rebel and a sinner before him.

1 Peter 2:9 (NIV): "But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light."

An Ending Message For You

If you're reading this, it is because God wants you to. You're blessed by his grace to be here. Do not abuse or waste it. You don't belong to this world and you're surely going somewhere beyond this world. You may go tomorrow, next year or the other years to come. By the mercies of God, be wise enough to make corrections through the Holy Spirit as you are loved by Christ who died for you and I. Accept this truth from him with your heart and live by it genuinely. You are a precious soul to Jesus who died for you and that is why you're privileged to be alive to read this. Make wise use of this privilege to correct your errors as only the truth can save you if you apply it to your life. Grace of the Lord be with you.

In short, make we kuku no dey barb again?

onajo2000:
Which car has the right of way? Not many people know!

When you’ve been on the road for a long time, driving becomes an extremely familiar habit.

You may think that you already know how to behave in most situations, and that you’ve already encountered all the problems of the road.

But let’s put this assumption to the test with an example from a real-life driving test.

Examining the provided image, we can observe a traffic scenario at a T-intersection.

In this situation, a pink car(A) is heading towards the intersection, accompanied by a yellow car(C) approaching from the right and a blue car(B) from the left.

The intentions of each vehicle are as follows: the pink car intends to make a left turn, the blue car plans to proceed straight, and the yellow car also wishes to make a left turn.

Don’t forget to take into account all the signs, traffic lights and other conditions that may influence this traffic situation.

Which car will go first?

Whoever gets there first.

Jewessgratitud3:


Well . That is what they say but we know why they do it

This table 🤣🤣

Jewessgratitud3:
we are still saying the same thing. Men are naturally wired to go after "hot girls" and this is affecting the other girls making them feel unattractive hence the reason for joining the bandwagon so they too can look "attractive."

Most men even end up wifing these girls, so ... Some don't just sleep and move on, they get hooked

Lol but if a man says this, the backlash would be insane. I believe it’s self esteem problem.
Those same ladies who join the bandwagon as you put it, would claim they’re dressing that way for themselves. And not because of men.
Ironic.

Jewessgratitud3:


That's the point!.. why do you still have to go after the slutty ones " and treat them anyhow" when you already have a decent and classy woman? Does that not say something about your affinity for slutty women?
If your decent classy wife finds out will that not throw her into competition and make her start dressing like that to impress you? What are we not saying here please...

Now, lemme be shallow a bit. Naturally a man is more attracted to a woman who dresses indecently, not in all cases tho. Some dressings make you wanna puke.

This is because the lady who dresses indecently is already showing off all the private parts of herself to the world. And the only thing a man would want to do with such a woman is to have sex with her and move on. It’s just how the male brain is.

But then it is up to each man to control himself and look away. But naturally, not all men are loyal, so if a man sees a chance to hook up with a particularly sexy lady without any strings attached? 😂

Jewessgratitud3:


That's the point!.. why do you still have to go after the slutty ones " and treat them anyhow" when you already have a decent and classy woman? Does that not say something about your affinity for slutty women?
If your decent classy wife finds out will that not throw her into competition and make her start dressing like that to impress you? What are we not saying here please...

Well, all men aren’t the same for starters. Some are just promiscuous and they can’t stay with one woman.
Lemme use this analogy

A buffet, different kinds and flavors of food, some sweet, some sour, etc....
Now, someone might see all the different available foods, but go for one in particular because that’s what he prefers.

Another person at the same table would sample all the available dishes before choosing one.

Another person would be unable to make a choice after sampling..... that’s how a promiscuous man is. Never satisfied

Jewessgratitud3:
I came across a post where some men where expressing disappoinment over the high rate of indecent dressing among our girls and thought to make a counter post to let the men understand why it is so and how they are not unconnected to it.

Now, you Men come here to complain about indecent dressing of most ladies meanwhile you're the reason this things are so.

90% of the time, You men are naturally and easily attracted to this indecent girls. I've seen it happen a lot of times. If a decently dressed lady and the slutty ones are placed side by side for you men to make a pick , the tendency to pick the decent girls will be low compared to how you would rush after their slutty counterparts and it is this single act that has driven more girls and even the once decent and innocent girls into dressing slutty just to be seen by men.

In another scenario, a girl will be minding her business and you men will come and start flashing cash before her to lure her into sleeping with you even when your intentions are not pure. Like you don't plan to marry her. It will take extra discipline and grace of God for any young girl to reject such offer and when she gets used to getting this free cash and starts demanding or giving her body to the highest bidder, the same you men will start complaining again. Why are you men now complaining now that they are giving you what you want? Abi na me dem dey dress like that for?

Some men will even tell you they need a Christian sister with a touch of Ashawo vibes. I mean.... these girls see and hear these things and the chicken brain among them who don't want to be left out will begin to conform to such lifestyle.
Others will tell their wife's to dress decently but will go and be running after the slutty ones outside. This is the reason you can hardly tell a married woman apart these days because of the way they too have started dressing slutty just to keep their untamed husband. You men had better dropped this double standard mentality because the woman are no longer having it. What is sauce for the goose is good for the gander.

After this carefully expressed thoughts/ points of mine, it is safe to say that you Men are the cause of high moral decadence in the society cos you're the ones promoting it by your actions.

We cherish decent ladies that have class. We don’t treat them anyhow
The slutty ones are seen as “cheap” and easy to get. We treat those anyhow.

Simple

ahnie:

On coloz aka ndi village di'ya!

No idea what that means.

ahnie:
It's weekend let's have fun foodies
I decided to quickly arrange this redoil rice to hold body.


Ingredients

Blended crayfish
Bell pepper
Ginger/garlic
Redoil
Curry
Salt
Onion
Seasoning
Ochra spice.
Smoked catfish

Food don land here. No colos to activate appetite. Pain. 😥

Lmao.... so OP don open thread since September 21?? Wtf 🤣

motymop:


this does not make sense

they are earning in pounds and it makes no sense to convert to Naira because they are not spending in Naira in the uk

The person receiving 10 pounds per hour in the UK is also struggling like the person receiving 30k per month in nigeria.

Well of course the costs of living is less here. But we also make less here in nigeria.

The greatest scam in this country is salary earning. If we can also implement a hourly based payment method here, things would change a lot.

But the politrickians know this. And they don't want to implement this cos it would affect their embezzling attempts a lot.

We have to fight for it ourselves.

psalmsjob:
I'm posting this as a response to the topic that made Nairaland front page yesterday; "See What Someone Bought With An Hour Minimum Wage In The UK £10", the link: https://www.nairaland.com/7929193/see-what-someone-bought-hour

UK & US ARE OVER-RATED NIGERIA IS STILL BETTER in terms of cost of living see a practical example why doing a price comparison: 1 pound to 1 naira today is N1,001 so are you saying with £10 x N1,001 = N10,001 you cannot buy everything in that basket and collect change in Nigeria today?

1 Sliced Bread = N800
2 Spaghetti = N1400
1 Gesha = N600
1 live chicken = N3,000
1 75cl soya Oil = N1,400
1 Midium size Butter = N600
2 Gino Tomato paste = N1,000

Total = N8,800 so your change is N1,200 that's if you exchange pound to naira at offical rate and buying at the most expensive stores or high brands. If you exchange at black market rate and buy at public market "days" you will collect as much as N6,000 after buying everything in that basket....that's about £6 left.

LET'S JUST THANK GOD FOR WHAT WE HAVE AND STOP LOOKING AT AND GLORIFYING ANOTHER MAN'S LAND MORE THAN OUR OWN....OUR OWN NA OUR OWN O

But you forgot that it's minimum wage over there... hourly to boot.
That's #10k per hour approximately...

Assuming you work 4 hours a day, that is #40k per day.
If you work 4 days a week, that is #160k per week, 640k a month.

Minimum wage here is 33k per month.

Rethink this.

FuckingMachine:
To attract men to purchase it.

The fishnet on that fat, round mound is reminiscent of those on pornhub actresses.

Ei yo bruv. Come on man, dat some dark shii bruv.

SweetBuns:
They say that "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder", but honestly speaking there are certain calibres of men I will never go near no matter how hard they try.

To get straight to the point,

1. Short men
Oh my God.... I don't just know what to say about these sort of men. If I'm taller than you as a girl, then sorry but I can never see you as my second piece. You'll always be like a younger brother to me. No hard feelings.
Short men also have this irritating attitude whenever they see girls around, as if they're trying to compensate for their low height. And some even go to the gym and gets muscles.... But it just makes them look shorter like a 5 litre jerry can and irritating
Also, why in the world would I pick a short guy over a tall guy? I literally feel so protected and safe when I'm with a guy that is wayyyy taller than me (I'm 5'2 so my height is kinda average)... So ofc I'd want a tall man and not a mini man.
Imagine hugging a man and he's hugging your waist cause he's short ugh.
I wanna stand on my toes whenever I kiss him and strain my neck just to look at his face. No more no less.
Tall men also stand out more, they're far more attractive and I also want taller sons and daughters.
Who should the short guys date then? I dunno... But not me.
The bar starts at 6'0, but If you're like 6'2 or 6'3... I want your babiesss

2. Bald men
The only age where I think baldness is acceptable as a man for me is if he's like in his 50s or 60s. But if you're in your 20s-30s and you're already going bald.... It just irritates me low-key in a inexplicable way... Like why will a young guy have a hairline that receeds all the way to the middle or back of your head? Where did all your hair go? Gross
I also read somewhere that early balding is genetically inherited so that means my children too will suffer the same fate? God forbid.
My man ought to have a head full of hair well into his 60s, then we start talking about hair loss.

3. "Oju yo Bo" people
I didn't know the English term for this so I had to Google it. It's a Yoruba term for people whose eyes pop out of their sockets like that of a wall gecko. This is also something I don't like in my man.... I want his eyes to be like that of Henry Cahill... Neatly tucked inside and having small slit like opening.

Addition: so I just googled it and it's called prey eyes. I prefer the hunter one since it gives my man a piercing gaze and I just wanna hug him immediately.

4. Eyebrows
A man MUST have thick eyebrows. If you don't, I can't take you seriously

5. Men with bad posture

6. Men who supports man U

That last one was a joke but I'm dead serious about the rest. And I'm sure other girls will agree to some up there too.

Dunno if you're just catching cruise or what but we'll play along. We are here for this.

You're 5ft 2in. N'golo Kanté is 5ft 6in.

N'golo Kanté is a very short man. I hope for our sake that you have a huge ass and/or tits; otherwise, you're a tiny girl.

drlateef:





Nonsense. Who told him he is the first. I spent 7 good years in university, one year housemanship, I was a virgin throughout. I lost my virginity at marriage. Can anyone beat that?

7 years in the university here.... currently in last semester.. think I might beat your record

1TrippleCee:
Ogbomoso to the world

Awon Takieites

Event wey dem do opposite college. You dey call Taki. Dey play

I no even reach there once. So sad. Free food gone.

AliEzeOlu:
Buh how exactly do people manage to eat this very irritating things? Do they close their eyes while they're at it?

Eeeewww!!! Seeing it alone makes me puke

One man's food

voltron14:

Make I join u jare

Ttipsy:
So?
The school should mind their business

But she *is* the school's business. Remember the Chrisland school saga? Na so e dey start

Princedapace:


Until a yoruba person does that, my comments are valid. U will never see any yoruba person do it. There are many yorubas in south east, especially, Anambra, u can never see them trying to try such rubbish of returning to south west to host Abacha festival. Lets not pretend abeg.
There are countless northerners in the east that some places, u would think u are in the north when u are actually in the east. U can never see northener return to his region to host abacha festival.
Nonsense has to be corrected. Igbos do this rubbish alot.

Well that seems more like a mentality that needs to be corrected among igbos.
I am not igbo.

Princedapace:


But why cant other tribes like yorubas do abacha festival?

Well because the average yoruba can't prepare it. I can't.
I've seen it prepared once and the process is damn long.

But if someone organizes a abacha festival here in ogbomoso, trust me, we will go. 😋

RoyalUc:


Oh how I wish life is this simple!

People do things they never imagined or planned for but afterwords wonder how and why they did it.

But life *is* that simple.

Instead of humans to take responsibility for their actions and find ways to rectify or adjust the situation, we prefer finding an excuse.... a higher power..... some spirit or demon.... luck.... fate....

My point? Take full responsibility for whatever you do. Whether good or bad. If things are not going well, instead of running around looking for a spiritual solution, why not sit down and evaluate yourself for just 30 minutes.

Most problems will get solved if we just apply a little bit of thinking power.

On behalf of all Spirit husbands throughout [color=#000099][/color]the universe, we hereby reject this woman. We know her not. We torment her not.
We shall not take the responsibility for her wasting her sexy years as a low grade oloso.

This one never serious with her life yet. She never see shege banza.

Na so dem dey take find husband? Lmfao.
Attention seeking idiot.

Urheadmaster:
If you check well, the organizers were raised in Lagos state

And? I really am interested in understanding what you mean by that.

Women wey get sense no pass 100 for this nigeria. And none of them dey nairaland.

Wisereborn:

So you went in with the mindset that you don't intend to pay back that is wickedness!!!

You make the lenders wicked and you turn back to blame them

Must you borrow Dey your dey nah

Do you know that some people brought out their hard earned money to start this business, some even borrowed, when you don't pay, so many things could go wrong, that business that was a source of help to you could fold, some could lose their jobs, some lenders even go as far as committing suicide

Many of you are here day and night asking the government to do right but you are not so different from them

It's a shame, I tell you

Na coded money laundering. We know.