₦airaland Forum

NoWorries7:
Can Satan bless?

zinachidi:
I don't agree. That's the most shitty proverb I've heard. So u want to tell me its better to know for certain your child is dead, than for u to have hope?

zinachidi:
wtf bro? Wtf.

Mrjo:
Yes, it do happend yotube is ur frend

armyofone:
The sad thing is that Africans use the juju for only evil and bad things. If juju is real, then I wish they use it for building good roads, schools, homes, better the society etc juju doesn't want anything good or benefiting. They die with the knowledge because it was and is a bad knowledge.

vertueptime:
U tried but i can photoshop u into a pix with that, somethng concrete, i dnt blame ur efforts cos cultist hardly do anythng openly

vertueptime:
I knw one of his PA in kano, hardly says about him like dat, but do u hv any insightful info or proof for us

armyofone:
Very interesting...Africa still has a very long way to go.
In the West, the blinds can see, the deaf can hear through Cochlear implants, limping di.ck are made stiff again, IVF to the rescue, bone marrow is doing wonder for blood disorders such as leukemia and sickle cell, you live comfortable through hard work not money ritual etc stem cell and many unimaginable things but then what happened to my Africa ??

Africa, my Africa what happened ??

vertueptime:
A quick question, has anyone ever seen a rich juju man?

thesicilian:
All I kept seeing was "she stayed with..." "she stayed with..."
What exactly were her contributions to the husband's eventual success?

PierreDeFermat:
Isiaku Rabiu also,Isiaku Rabiu is into oil and gas and other businesses and stupendously rich,now in his 90's and his son is one of the richest men in Nigeria today. Isiaku has many trucks also for haulage,there was a time he built about 57 duplexes with furniture's,and everything and started renting to people but people started complaining and packing out because they were hearing strange sounds of ghosts and babies crying in the midnight and Isiaku Rabiu was accused of being a ritualist. the estate is still in the north with nobody living in any of the mansions

imustsaymymindo:
If he or she is not threatened by the thought of break up because of some habits that can be corrected. Isn't the love questionable? For instance, if there is an extravagant person in a relationship and you have been telling the person to change but does not adhere because there is still enough money. If paradventure there is no money, wont this extravagant person leave you? You said it all though. There are always warning signals but desperate people ignore them and never talk about it.

I agree with you it takes two to tangle. Personally, I just feel a man should put extra effort in a relationship as a sign of servant leadership.

imustsaymymindo:
You need to be assertive on certain issues. If you can't live with a woman that is addicted to social media for instance, make it clear with divorce threats or break up threats so she can know how serious the issue is, it is part of communication. You hiding under the guise of "It is her to decode whether she would change or women are now empowered" is withdrawal and would only hurt you emotionally and she might not know she is doing such damage. I opine that any issue of addiction be it addicted to drugs, phones, internet, social media, women or even some addictions that you think might not be a problem e.g being addicted to books, career, coding, films, food, church etc should be treated before entering into any relationship or marriage. There shoukd be balance in life and as a man, the head of a relationship, you should cordinate the activities of the relationship to the good of the both of you. For a good relationship, a man has lots of work to do than the woman and you need assertiveness for this.

stevedre:
I am absolutely not domineering but I command mutual respect when ever the need arises. By the way did you miss the part where I wrote sacrifice from the couples (not just the man) or you chose to ignore that part.
As for divorce, we are losing our cultural values as Africans in our quest to look and act like foreigners thereby creating a comfort zone in our societies for things we used to frown at in the past.
A good example is being baby mama, back in the days it used to be a big deal but now its not in Nigeria, I stand to be corrected though since this is just my personal opinion.

Oildichotomy:
We are talking important matters, you are veering into political sycophancy of supporting a government that is hell bent in pumping more money into it.

Save your support admin story please

Evablizin:
what are you saying?

Oildichotomy:
You hinge on the 60's to buttress your economic Ist among equals argument.

The question now is Why is it not like that now?
Why can't they develop their resource?
Why are they waiting for oil allocations to operate?
Let's tell ourselves the truth

stevedre:
My broda there are some steps that must be taken by man if you want your marriage to work, if she is addicted to online stuffs cut her off from it until she undertstands how it is affecting your home.
She will never be bold enough to confront it because it was not an issue until she met you. Sometimes as man, you have to cut off from some relatives and friends if you want your marriage to work, its a sacrifice that must be done with the couples supporting each other.

Kirigidi:
It should be we [Niger-Deltans] giving "Abuja" a defined percentage of our wealth and not the Federal Government taking our resources after which they give us a minute percentage in form of allocation. That is injustice! Why must every other region [NE, NW, NC, SW, SE] depend on Niger Delta resources for sustenance? The rest of Nigeria should go develop their own resources.