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Travel / Re: Irukera Seeks Probe Into Foreign Airlines ‘Predatory Pricing’ Against Air Peace by Askmewhy(m): 6:25pm On Apr 14
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God bless you.
Politics / Re: Oba Of Benin Commissions Olumide Akpata’s Project (Pictures) by Askmewhy(m): 6:13pm On Apr 14
Penguin2:
Anyone who’s a keen political follower, watcher and analyst in Nigeria, would agree that the Oba accepting to attend this project inauguration in person in this election period simply echoes endorsement.

The Edo governorship election is getting more and more interesting and unpredictable every day.

The road to Osadabey Avenue might be as smooth for Asue Ighodalo as we previously thought.



Olumide Akpata




No be only Oba of Benin, Oba of London seven joined in commissioning the clinic.

Do you know oba of Benin if you see him? If your answer na yes, you really know oba of Benin well well be that. You better go and google his pics so that you can recognise him.

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Travel / Re: Beta Glass Plc Chairman, Otumba Abimbola Ogunbanjo Dies In Helicopter Crash by Askmewhy(m): 10:55am On Feb 11
immortalcrown:
E come be like OceanGate.


Na real ocean gate
Celebrities / Re: Moment King Of Oniru Refuse Handshake From Olamide & Ordered Him To Kneel Down by Askmewhy(m): 7:49am On Jan 02
meum:
My aged uncle visited our house the other day, I went to where he sat to greet him.
I bowed in respect while greeting him until he brought out his hand for a handshake. I then responded with both hands.

It’s utterly disrespectful to stretch your hand first to an elder in a handshake.

That was how we were taught.

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Politics / Re: Femi Falana's Wife, Funmi Becomes A SAN by Askmewhy(m): 7:18am On Nov 29, 2023
kingthreat:
Sorry but what has she done to deserve the reputation of a SAN.
We know what likes of Ozekhome and Gani did to elevated to the SAN level but now being married to a top lawyer gives one the access to become a SAN
Femi Falana keeps deceiving the world that he is a human rights activist. He is one of the problems of the Nigerian system.

What you don't know ,you don't know.

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Religion / Re: Pastor Isaac Oyedepo Unveils Own Ministry, Receives Blessings From Father by Askmewhy(m): 10:53pm On Nov 28, 2023
layuns:
Thats called diversification of financial stream.

You too know book.

And too intelligent

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Politics / Re: Atiku's Next Move To Clinch The Presidency. by Askmewhy(m): 1:59am On Nov 23, 2023
pharmagba:
Atiku is not a unifier
He can't trade off for greater good
That's why he couldn't get it iunder Obasanjo
Lost it against Jonathan due to impatience
Lost it in 2023 because of self centeredness and arrongance


You too know book 😄😁
Politics / Re: Promise Wosu: Police Deploy Wike’s Ex-Chief Security Officer To Rivers State by Askmewhy(m): 8:26am On Nov 05, 2023
madridguy:
I hope SIM body don come down cheesy For anything in life, don't try to outsmart your master or helper.

E no easy to sponsor election in a country in Nigeria. So person sponsor you, finance you, mobilize for you, consult for you, even do juju for you to win, only for you to enter as a governor and you suddenly put pad for your shoulder.
Agreement is agreement.

😁😁😁😁😁
Foreign Affairs / Re: Fake Kenyan Lawyer Who Won 26 Cases, Arrested!! by Askmewhy(m): 3:44pm On Oct 15, 2023
victory36:
They should give him a license then since he's that good


My thinking too.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Israel Continues To Pummel Gaza by Askmewhy(m): 12:14pm On Oct 10, 2023
Career / Re: Police Celebrate Frank Mba's Birthday (Video) by Askmewhy(m): 7:08pm On Oct 09, 2023
This guy was good as a spoke person for Nigeria police force. Very sharp and articulate man.

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Travel / Re: US Senator Doug Larsen, Wife, Children Killed In Plane Crash by Askmewhy(m): 12:59pm On Oct 03, 2023
finallybusy:
I wish them speedy recoveries.


Speedy recovery ko, aeroplane recovery ni.
Travel / Re: Ojuelegba Truck Barrier That Was Repaired Last Weekend Has Been Damaged Again by Askmewhy(m): 12:54pm On Oct 03, 2023
Lagos government didn't construct it well and that was why they were able to destroy it. Come to Ujogba /Ogwa Road, off Igieduma -Auchi Road and come and learn how Obaseki constructed barricade with big big stone. Sanwo olu should quickly call obaseki and get idea on how to get it done.

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Forum Games / Re: Between The Two, Who Is A Good Leader And Why by Askmewhy(m): 2:38pm On Sep 30, 2023
Woodshot:
It was a Sunday morning In the trenches, way way back in early 2000s mother after parboiling and washing Sunday rice handed me the basin of hot water to throw away. Without the least complaints I headed out but never came back the same way.

I saw the family of number one with their indefatigable mother reclining in a nearby shrubbery. The chicks were in my childhood a little bit dirty plus the weather outside was cold.

Innocently, to help relieve and make their living great I splashed and because I expected it Usain bolted.

The ever strong willed and hardened mother hen was my fuccking guest...

My Usain bolting speed was snail when she pursued, swiftly gained and like a war plane perched on my young head and ahead she went to administer deadly excruciating pain from her knife sharp like peak.

Mother hen is a dear mama in 2pac's voice to her chick.





🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 am sure in your next life, you wouldn't try it.
Politics / Re: Wike Sacks 21 Heads Of FCTA Agencies, Parastatals by Askmewhy(m): 4:38pm On Sep 28, 2023
VinnyBaba:


This Man will end up in SHAME and DISGRACE.🙁😟

He thinks he is God.😒

If that's your prayer, God don't answer such.

What exactly do we want in Nigeria? A performer or laggard?

Person that will work for the country or someone that will steal the country treasury?

Like it or leave no politician as today has beaten his record and achievement in recent time.

Give wike and Abuja two years and come and see what he will turn the city to.

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Family / Re: I Feel Hatred Towards My Husband by Askmewhy(m): 8:21am On Sep 27, 2023
yrhuhfy113:
PLEASE PEOPLE BE WISE AND GO THROUGH THE PREVIOUS POSTS OF THIS PERSON BEFORE COMMENTING

If your previous posts are anything to go by......... YOU TOO ARE NOT FAITHFUL.... so why hating on him. YOU HAVE BEEN CHATTING WITH MARRIED MAN YOU WERE ONCE WITH.

See, there is something wrong with you. YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND MARRIAGE...... you didnt seek wisdom at the beginning.

if your STORY IS TRUE..... then find a counselor offline and meet any wise person whom your husband respects and confess to your husband your FLIRTING chats and your misdeeds.


YOU BOTH NEED HEALING










You are too intelligent.
Family / Re: I Feel Hatred Towards My Husband by Askmewhy(m): 8:20am On Sep 27, 2023
PaigeTaylor:
Hello house. I'm too angry to type. Been married for 10 years with a kid. 10 long hard years.

He always assures me and portrays himself as a faithful man. I have never suspected him of committing adultery, not because he's not capable, but because I wanted to give him benefit of doubt. I wanted trust to be in my marriage because I'm extremely faithful to him. He disvirgined me on my wedding night.

But he does A LOT of flirting on social media. Passwords his phone from me. This has caused a lot of problems between us, almost leading to marriage break up many times, until people advised me to stay off his phone, which I did. I lost my job since February and have been unable to get another one.

Now I'm learning some soft skills online, using my phone but it got to a point where I couldn't proceed because it's an old phone. I told him yesterday morning that I would love to use his phone, he said ok when he returned from work.

Only for me to go to his browser to enter a website address, I started seeing past searches from him.
LOVE SMS YOU CAN SEND TO UR CRUSH
LOVE MESSAGES YOU CAN SEND TO UR EX GIRLFRIEND.

The one that shook me to the bone is, HOW TO SEDUCE MY SISTER INLAW.

She came to visit two weeks back. She is very beautiful and plump and he has always told me he had a crush on her. So I know.
And those internet searches are RECENT.

I feel so disgusted by his presence now, so much that I don't allow his body to touch mine on bed. I feel for my daughter, she's just 6 years and I don't have any money to take care of her. He doesn't take care of me either, but I have put up with him, I have struggled and suffered with him all these years. Only to see this on his phone. I'm beyond depressed.

He's talking of us celebrating our 10 years anniversary by December and thinking of inviting few family and friends. BUT I'M NOT INTERESTED. The love is dead. I've been played all along.

HOW WILL I HANDLE THIS?




These were your words sometime ago . Internet no dey forget.

Your husband must have seen your chat with that guy u wanted and this might have prompted him.

Although this is not an excuse but you started it. So ready to swallow the bitter pills 💊. Ire o.

Hello people. Straight to the point. I met a guy in my 400level. 14 years ago. We connected emotionally, but he never asked me out. He had a serious girlfriend and never hid it. The night he came to my room, I persuaded him to sleep over. I was sooooo into him sexually, the feeling was/is too strong. He grabbed my thighs and sucked my pussy thoroughly. Something I had never experienced with any man. Heck I was still a virgin at the time. I left this world temporarily. The feeling was too overwhelming. Immediately he finished, he asked me, " do you know why I did this?" I answered "no". He said "I did this so that you will never forget me". People, till date, I find it hard to really forget him. Although I refused allowing him have penetrative sex with me that night because he refused to formally ask me out, and I believed I was just a fling to him. So I refused sex with him. Since then, the degree of hatred he felt for me is just too strong. He hated me soooo much and even banged his burglary against my fingers another day that I went to his house, allowed him to do all sorts of things on my body, but still refused sex with him. My fingers even bled. He even said he would kill me here and nothing would happen. He really wanted so bad to sleep with me but I would have loved to be respected enough to be dated by him first, something he wasn't willing to consider because he had a girl. I begged and begged but he refused. At a point, I was considering giving up my body to him, I cried alot because he repeatedly rejected me. I yearned so much for his body, he smelled so nice and he's so big and strong that he carries me like a baby. Till date I chat him up on WhatsApp but he ignores me totally.
Now we're both married to other people, but I can't forget him. I envy the woman he is married to. My husband disvirgined me on my wedding night yeah, but he doesn't carry me the way this guy did, even though I have a small stature, he detests sucking a woman's private part. I don't even connect with him emotionally as I should. I try but I just don't feel it. I feel guilty. If I'm in an enclosed space with this other guy, honestly I won't be able to resist him. I totally yearn to see him again, but I don't want a broken home. But why is it difficult to forget this particular guy? Why does he hate me so much?
Politics / Re: Which State In Nigeria Is Faster To Get Your Nigerian Passport by Askmewhy(m): 11:59am On Sep 25, 2023
Donedeal1:
Akure,ondo state.
How may days?
NYSC / Re: The Power Of Goal Setting: Definition, Consequences, And SMART Approach by Askmewhy(m): 12:07pm On Sep 10, 2023
Blissfulnita:
Goal setting is a crucial process that helps individuals define what they want to achieve and create a roadmap for reaching their desired outcomes. It involves identifying specific objectives, creating a plan, and working systematically toward those objectives. In this article, we'll explore what goal setting is, the consequences of not setting goals, the importance of setting goals, and how to set SMART goals.

I. What is Goal Setting?
Goal setting is the process of defining clear and specific objectives that you want to accomplish in the future. These objectives can span various areas of life, such as personal development, career, health, and finance. Goal setting involves setting targets, establishing a plan of action, and monitoring progress towards those targets.

II. Causes and Effects of Not Setting Goals:
Causes of Not Setting Goals:

Lack of Clarity: Without clear goals, individuals may lack direction and a sense of purpose.
Procrastination: Without defined goals, it's easy to delay tasks and important decisions.
Missed Opportunities: Goals act as a compass, guiding individuals towards opportunities they might otherwise overlook.
Effects of Not Setting Goals:

Lack of Achievement: Without goals, individuals may feel unfulfilled and struggle to accomplish what truly matters to them.
Wasted Time and Effort: Time and energy can be wasted on activities that don't contribute to meaningful outcomes.
Reduced Motivation: A lack of goals can lead to a loss of motivation and a sense of stagnation.
III. Why Setting Goals is Important:

Direction: Goals provide a clear sense of direction, helping individuals make decisions and prioritize their efforts.

Motivation: Goals act as motivators, driving individuals to overcome challenges and persist in their pursuits.

Measurement: Goals offer a way to measure progress and success, allowing individuals to track their achievements.

Focus: Setting goals helps individuals stay focused on what truly matters and avoid distractions.

IV. How to Set SMART Goals:
SMART is an acronym that stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-Bound. Using this framework ensures that your goals are well-defined and achievable.

1. Specific: Clearly define your goal. Ask yourself who, what, where, when, why, and how to make your goal as precise as possible.

2. Measurable: Establish concrete criteria to measure your progress and determine when you've achieved your goal.

3. Achievable: Ensure that your goal is realistic and attainable given your resources, skills, and circumstances.

4. Relevant: Make sure your goal aligns with your values and long-term objectives. It should be meaningful to you.

5. Time-Bound: Set a deadline for achieving your goal. Having a timeframe adds urgency and helps you stay on track.

Conclusion:
Goal setting is a powerful tool for personal and professional growth. It provides direction, motivation, and a structured approach to achieving your aspirations. By setting SMART goals, you can maximize your chances of success and lead a more purposeful and fulfilling life. Remember, the journey of goal achievement begins with a single, well-defined goal.


Hmmmmmmm ........Coursera !!!!
Politics / Re: He Was Not Like That Before, Could It Be Because He Won Counselorship Election? by Askmewhy(m): 4:23am On Sep 08, 2023
Kingbuhari:
he must be ofe mmanu man, they prostrate to everything even their juniors.. maybe he's begging him fuel money

For your information I was working as a Banker when he was an undergraduate and am still working as one now.

I came down to greet them not only him but the other 5 people including a physically challenged shoemaker, a woman and my landlord last born who was in junior secondary school then.

And they valued the fact that I came down from my car to greet them.

It will interest you to know that I did not start my greetings from the counsellor, I started with the cripple, who is a shoemaker.

So you should be able to put two and two together and know that I will not beg him for money.

Life is about humility.
Education / Know The Difference Between Uk, Great Britain, Britain, England by Askmewhy(m): 3:45am On Sep 08, 2023
A lot of people in Nigeria and indeed all over the world, including well travelled, elite class people often confuse England, United Kingdom, Britain and Great Britain. Well, here's the way to differentiate them:

*England* is a country just as Nigeria, and its capital is *London* just like Abuja is the capital of Nigeria.

*Great Britain* is a collection of 3 countries which came together as one country and has its capital as *London.* Those 3 countries are:

1. *England,*
2. *Scotland* and
3. *Wales.*

When you include *Northern Ireland* to these 3 countries, they become *United Kingdom* (union of four nations) Viz:
1. England,
2. Scotland,
3. Wales, and
4. Northern Ireland.

That is why it is referred to as the *United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland.*
Collectively, the four are taken as one country. And when this is the case, *London* is its capital.

Note however that these four individual nations all have their own respective capitals.

Accordingly, the capital of
Scotland is *Edinburgh*,
Wales is *Cardiff*;
Northern Ireland is *Belfast*;
England is *London*.

Ps: Northern Ireland is not to be mistaken for the *Republic of Ireland*. The latter is a separate country. Its capital is *Dublin*.

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Politics / Re: He Was Not Like That Before, Could It Be Because He Won Counselorship Election? by Askmewhy(m): 3:42am On Sep 06, 2023
LikeAking:
Levels don change...


Dont judge a man when he is broke....





Hmmm, level changed...that's serious 😳

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Politics / He Was Not Like That Before, Could It Be Because He Won Counselorship Election? by Askmewhy(m): 3:29am On Sep 06, 2023
I knew this boy 20 years ago when he was an undergraduate student in university. I was already working that time. He comes to our compound to play and he respected me becuase he knows that l was far older than him.

I was at their area yesterday and I sighted him along with others and I quickly alighted from my car to hail all of them as i used to, because those guys were very good and nice neighbours.

I greeted and shook of them with excitement and they were so happy and greeted me except this new counselor. I was shocked to see the cold way this boy reacted.

He almost ignored me as I stretched my hand to shake him.

Is it because he's a counselor now or what?

Is it not too early for him to start behaving this way?

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Education / Her Decision- A Story Book Full Of Tension by Askmewhy(m): 9:28pm On Sep 02, 2023
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Crime / Re: Maid Caught While Trying To Pour Her Menstrual Urine Into Palm Oil (Video) by Askmewhy(m): 12:43pm On Aug 16, 2023
MrsTwrite:
Let her drink it! What sort of evil mind is this? undecided

My judgement too.

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Education / Re: I Made 4.38 CGPA And I'm So Happy... by Askmewhy(m): 2:24am On Aug 16, 2023
Cooolme:
My final exams were just released, and I just confirmed my CGPA, you may be thinking why I am excited over it even though it's not first class but let me explain briefly.

Starting school at a young age, I had a tough time taking my studies seriously. I didn't pay much attention to my notes. This carried on into secondary school, where my grades were just average. I managed to score 188 in JAMB, 230 in my POST UTME, got 1b, and C's in my NECO, which I used to process my admission cos my school WAEC was withheld, and I didn't bother to retake it.

I was only 15 when I started university, a friend's candid portrayal of university life had prepared me for what lay ahead, or so I thought.

My first challenge was my roommate, a very unserious fellow. His mockery of my attempts to establish disciplined study habits took its toll on me, leading to a particularly trying semester during which I had 3 carry-overs, my worst ever.

Before the next semester began, I talked to my family about changing my lodge. They advised me to stay where I was until my second year, but deep down, I knew it wasn't right for me. So, I had to hustle up cash and with the help of my beloved aunt (RIP Ma'am) I was able to rent my own space, the best and most expensive lodge around school as at that time…

This time I will be staying alone till further notice, the GP hustle began. I would read and read, only me, as I never liked group reading or night class stuff. I began to excel academically, was a thing of joy, the last time I felt that brilliant was during my Junior secondary school days.

While I was improving my grades, I also needed to earn money. My family's support decreased because my dad was sick. So, I had to balance between learning skills for financial independence and keeping up with my studies. It wasn't easy, and I missed classes sometimes, but I kept trying. Eventually, things got better, and I was even able to buy a car last year.

But life threw a big challenge at me during the first semester of my final year, my dad passed away. I had to handle a lot of responsibilities as the first son, and to make things tougher, my uncles scheduled the burial a few days before my exams. I was sick during the exams, but I pushed through and did my best.

And now, the results are out, and I did really well. I've overcome this phase of my life, and I'm so grateful. It's not just about the grades; it's about the journey of going from struggling to succeeding. Thank God for guiding me through it all.

BSc Computer science in the bag, GOD DID!


Waoooo, congratulations my boy. I love this your story. May God mercy continue to shine on you.
Religion / Re: Prophet Wiseman Daniel Arrives In Zambia For Crusade (Photos, Video) by Askmewhy(m): 1:56pm On Aug 13, 2023
Sabadon:
Why e wan use style resemble odumeje

Twin brother
Celebrities / Re: John Okafor: Mr. Ibu Set To Mark 40 Years On Screen In Abuja by Askmewhy(m): 9:04pm On Jul 31, 2023
samwillyco1:
Big stomach

He can eat anything.
Celebrities / History Of Elijah Oluwagbemiga Adeboye by Askmewhy(m): 8:38pm On Jul 31, 2023
For those that were born in the 70s 80s they must know this man.

HISTORY OF ELIJAH OLUWAGBEMIGA ADEBOYE written By Arole d legend.

A MAN OF MANY TALENTS

Elijah Oluwagbemiga Adeboye was born on the 30th of September 1959 at Odeomu, Osun State, southwestern Nigeria.

At birth, he was known as Elijah Oluwagbemiga Adeboye, but as at the time of his death, it became difficult to keep track of his names.

The names were a result of his exploits in humour and music.

Some of the names are Funwontan, Alhaji Pastor Oluwo, Abefe, Jengbetiele, Itu Baba Ita, Alaye mi Gbengulo, Apogunpote of Yoruba Land.

Elijah Oluwagbemiga Adeboye was a versatile entertainer, a singer, an orator, a comedian, a broadcaster, and a songwriter.

Some of his songs did not go the usual ‘words and melody’ way, as he carved his own style of singing. And some of his songs are ijinle oro latori ite mimo, oro sunnukun, pàṣán oro, Funwontan, London yabis, Oduology, Itu baba Ita and many more which he used to educate and entertainment his audience.

Adeboye was a chief host of a popular radio program presented in Lagos State Broadcasting Corporation in the early 1980s where he got the household name Funwontan Oduology He was also described as merchant and performer of traditional Oduology by his fans.

Alaye mi Gbengulo, as he was called by fans, was a mentor to many. Some of those who hold him in high esteem are: Abbey Fagboro, Ereke ni Soobu, and Bashiru Adisa, better known as Baba Gboin.

The ace broadcaster and master of ceremony hit stardom before comedy became a big industry as it is today.

He died on Wednesday, April 30, 2003, and was buried on Wednesday, May 14, 2003

May his Beloved Soul continue to rest in peace.
He left a good legacy
History count for the future
Araba Odudua tv

* Copied!!!

#nigeriamusichistory #NigeriaMusicChart #adeboye #trend #trending #top20nigeriachart
Crime / Re: Man Accused Of Stealing Another Man's Joystick by Askmewhy(m): 11:36pm On Jul 12, 2023
Candidlady:
shocked

Men at work


This gender can steal anything... What does he wants to do with another man's dvck.. maybe he wanna attach it to his own


Covetous gender always going after what is not rightfully theirs


Sister, e be like say u dey vex for this m-gender. Wetin them do you?
Politics / Re: A List Of Tinubu's Titles And Awards by Askmewhy(m): 9:38am On Jan 12, 2023
Business / 3rd Day Of Cbn Cashless Policy, Empty Banking Hall And Looming Job Loss by Askmewhy(m): 1:43pm On Jan 11, 2023
3rd day after CBN commenced Cashless policy of maximum weekly withdrawal of 500,000 and 5000,000 for individual and corporate organization respectively, Banking halls of commercial Banks has started becoming empty. Commercial Banks will soon be asking their Tellers to resign since they will not be counting bulk and paying cash across the counter.

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