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OLUENTA1:
Hello Nairalanders I need to hear from different people what to do and maybe if there is any advise at all or guidance to the issue/incidence that occured between me and my fiancee

Let me go straight to the story and I will try to make it short and explanatory.

My fiancee happened to have this ex that obviously they had a good time together and infact she left the guy for me and during one of our conversation I got to know that finances during her time with him was a big issue and at one time or twice she cheated on him to sleep with men that could take care of the finances

We started our relationship and I quickly noticed the challenges with this with her but on my own part I can take care of her finances. Anyway, We have been together for more than 2 years and also we are planning to get engaged traditional soon.

The unthinkable happened during one of my inquisitive quest of checking her WhatsApp messages when I saw her telling her closest buddy that she was chatting with her ex the other time and that they were talking about how many times they had sex and also if she ever meet the guy again she will sleep with him.

Well, as it is I am feeling been cheated on and secondly, i can't imagine that she will still have this feeling for the ex so much that she could say that she can still sleep with the ex again.

The question now is, do I still need to continue the relationship with her? and also call off the engagement? Because it seemed she can't be loyal or maybe the she loves the guy more than me and any given opportunity she will always go back to the ex

Oga u are saying fire, and u are putting your hand.
U see road u they face Bush. I pity u oo. Use your sense and borrow legs.

alonzoiv:
Dead on arrival copycat outfit.

This is what happens when you are not creative enough to have your own ideas.

Sense will not kill u. U are too much.

The truth is that Dan Orbih as first cousin of Oshiomole from Ogbonna Etsako Ceteal Will never allow pdp to give obaseki, it will amount to him working against his brother oshiomole.

Who are u deceiving?

[quote author=References post=84480052]Very Good.....tell a Southerner to build, he will remember "Due Process".....Infact, he will be pulled down by his fellow Southerners if not his kinsmen.

Paul Dike, Ihejirika.... You see your life outside?

Olonisakin....how far? or you don't have a

Na so our people be. God bless u for asking those beautiful and wise questions.

MetaPhysical:


Naija is a comical landscape. Where did he go, how long has he been absent and why a rousing welcome....for what?

All this pageantry and ceremony just because he went to Abuja for few days?

Na wah o!

Dont mind them, rubbish.

GistMore11:
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There is no
account is not funded to this tune, I have checked it.

No be her fault now. Has she been to the place before? Did you check her name very well? If you check her name you will know she is an "atounrinwa" she dont know the value.

Wethemain:
This one bad
Sale
Below

What do u mean?

I have not been around since over a week now but I came in to town yesterdsy and I noticed with a great shock the numbers of Toyota yaris small car in GRA, Benin driven by these fear looking and strange Aboki/fulani.
I went to sapele road, ikpoba Hill, ikuen after Agbor park and inside GRA.
These small cars full every where.
These guys sleep inside these cars till day break.

anonymous1759:
... This attack is more of an assassination but the hatred for APC won't allow some people to think. This woman had nothing to do with farm or whatsoever. What's she dragging with Fulani herds men that'll warrant them to waste her like that? Anymore could put on a Fulani attire to carry out the attack...

Rip to her I feel for the old man loosing to children in short period of time is terrible. But let's analyze the issue carefully and stop spreading hate.

Is this Ken?

No fire without a smoke.

[quote author=nurez305 post=79944964]Death sentence for kidnapper and amnesty for boko haram boys[/quote

Oga let's appreciate small now, we have to start from somewhere. ]

[quote author=ERockson post=79490502]They should feed this animal with lion without wasting time [/quot
] Honestly!

Godson26:
Imagine if a Tinubu's son is Lagos state house speaker like T A Orji's in Abia now, some Igbo pipu for don abuse Yoruba tire

That was what caused trouble between oshiomole and okorocha. Oshiomole said okorocha was angry with him because he refused to help okorocha build political dynasty.

Mutteeme:


kkkkk...

Today is Today

Today na today

Oshiomole should go and sit down , he retired political God fathers in Edo and people praised him, why is he planning to make himself God father now? Has he forgotten what he said on channels television during electioneering campaign of obaseki? He categorically said he will give obaaeki free hand to work. He said what usually bring issues between sitting and immediate past governor is that the former one used to believe he can dictate for the sitting governor . Leave obaseki let him do his own , the guy is trying, he pocketed all the agberos in Benin, in conjunction with oba of Benin( an intelligent, exposed a d no nonsense Oba) quashed the Deve people and everybody is building house in Benin without fear of this parasites.
Oshiomole was here 8 years these guys were striving without fear. Ofcourse he tried compare with the former governor Lucky but they should leave obaseki he will be like Fashola in Lagos. And the next thing is to be waiting for Ambode of Edo that will be after obaseki 8 years. At the moment obaseki is getting it right.

Opportuneke:
Abeg pave way,

enough is enough.

Was he told not to bring such into the exam hall, yes or yes?

Horror in the kidnappers’ den
It took me a long time of reflections to put this piece together. First, let me thank my husband for the emotional support, the counselling and for his belief in the creator of heaven and earth which we call God or Allah.
The journey began in Auchi. We had travelled to Akure on a Monday, stayed with my husband’s relations in the outskirt of this ancient town. In the evening of Monday, we visited the palace for dinner, my husband being a close friend to son of the King.
On Tuesday, we left for Ibadan, via the Akure-Ilesa road. Our plan was that after attending the wedding in Auchi, we would travel with (my husband) to Lagos, stay for few weeks before returning abroad where I had lived with my husband and children for more than a decade. We were in the car of a close family friend, an accountant who gave his time and energy for our comfort.

We were five in the car, myself, my husband, our daughter, a lady who is my husband’s niece who had joined us in Akure with the hope of travelling with us to Lagos.
The driver accountant maintained a normal speed. He drove professionally. That gave me a lot of comfort and I felt I could find time to sleep a bit. My daughter was next to me, just 9. She was coming to Nigeria with me for the second time.
Shortly after the Ijare junction, the driver felt the wagon’s tires ruptured and decided to pack the car with the hope of changing the tires.

It was like a film. In a jiffy, motley crowd of armed men in military uniform came out of the bush. They fired at the boot of the car. Ahead of us, five of them came out of the bush, another two came from the rear. My daughter screamed: “Mummy, daddy, what’s going on”. There was no time to say a word. They marched us through into the bush, firing into the sky. They hit me on my chest, hit my daughter on her head, blood oozed. At this time, it was better to kill me. I shouted at one of the armed men. His response was hell. He went straight for my private part, tore my dress with his gun. The others ripped my dresses. I was left with my undies. My husband and my daughter started crying. Two of them dug their teeth into my breasts.
While attending a secondary school in Adamawa, I had lived with some Fulani, so I understand a few Fulani words. I started pleading, at least for my daughter. To my shock, at gun point, they removed the dress of my little girl, one of them carried her on his head as my baby struggled, shouting “Daddy, mummy, what’s going on. Help me.”

I could not help myself. We were marched for 9 hours. I was half naked. My daughter was totally naked. A felt her tears was like a stream of blood on her cheek. Our phones had been seized. We ended up in an ungoverned region in the thick of the forest. We met a well organized group.
There were some kidnapped victims, I saw two women, two ladies and three men. There were some people with their legs chained to trees. They were as if half dead. We were separated. I was separated from my husband. My daughter was taken away. I only heard her scream intermittently. I did not know what they were doing to her.
These men, now about two dozen had a full kitchen, they had a huge camp and a traditional medical team. But the camps appear isolated from each other. We heard noises afar indicating it might be nuclear settlements of camps. Right in my presence, I saw them pack the remains of a woman. They took her and buried her few meters away from us. She had tribal marks.
I cannot describe the agony of 6 days in captivity in this little piece. I cannot talk about how they asked my husband to choose between myself being raped or that his daughter be raped. My husband broke down in uncontrollable tears. One of them hit him saying “Yoruba bastard, you dey cry. Idiot.”
They now gave him the option that he should be raped by one homosexual among them. My husband is a devout Muslim. He told them homosexual and rape of any kind was against Islam. They hit him with the butt of AK 47: “What do you know about Islam?”
You can imagine, you are being asked to choose between being raped by a homosexual, your daughter, just nine years old, or your wife being raped? They gave the forth option, if you fail to choose, they would rape my daughter, rape my husband and rape me.
I made myself the sacrificial lamb. My husband begged, saying they should name their price. One of them asked him to bend down. Three beastly criminals sat on his back, jumping until he was too weak to stand. I was not allowed to put on any additional cloth on my body for 24 hours. The rain fell once. I became the relic and a sexual museum for the armed men who in turn addressed me and asked questions about my financial standing. New Fulani men joined the camp. They organized military training for the new Fulani men that came, teaching them how to shoot and walk through circles of glowing fire.
We were not released until after 6 days. We had to walk the same zik-zag journey back to the main road, our eyes blindfolded. During the negotiation to pay, they said the money was not for them alone that they had to settle “those who send us”. For me, I see a thriving, organized crime supported by powerful political interests.
Now, I do not think we were released to freedom after paying a whopping 8 million naira. I do not think we can ever be free, we can never be free, from the anguish, the psychological trauma, the nightmares we suffered, the occasional fits of our daughter, her waking up midnight behaving strangely, her asking the same question over and over: “Mummy, mummy, why?. Why.?” I do not have any answer.
In my life, I have never passed through a torture chamber like this. I do not think any society should let this happen. I do not know the fate of those we met, and about 7 other people brought during the 6 days we were in captivity. What I saw was a nation that has collapsed but pretends she lives, a people on life support. Crime is not restricted to Fulani people alone. We have Yoruba criminals. But I don’t Yoruba criminals are not as beastly. These elements are savages. I can’t imagine Yoruba thieves going to Sokoto or Maiduguri to kidnap Fulani people and keep them in their own bushes. It gives me mental torture that this is happening and some fools are even trying to justify or look for excuses.
Well, as a devout Muslim, myself and my family have taken solace in Allah, not the Nigerian police, not the Army, not the governments. We have taken our faith the way it came. I thank God that we have successfully returned to where we live, thousands of miles from Nigeria. We thank God that we have made a vow: Never shall me, any of my children or husband in our lifetime visit Nigeria. Our remains any time we die, will also not be buried in Nigeria. It was a suggestion by my daughter which we all adopted.
I pity the country. I pity her people who continuously walk like the living dead. I pity those who parade themselves as leaders, because they know nothing about what is going on and the abyss the country sunk already.

I pity Yoruba people, oh, I pity you. I pity my people. For me the issue is not about President Buhari. Democracy can produce anything, even the worst in the society.

What I worry about is the conspiracy of silence by the people themselves, the ignorance, the treachery and the illusion that one day, things will get better through another election.


Since I was born in Nigeria, each year had led from bad to worse and on and on. I do not have a solution to what is going on, but I think very soon, hell will let loose upon the earth as long as there is no law and order and anarchy and the rule of brutes is the order of the day.
Once again, there cannot be anything more comforting than my husband who saw what I went through but has been able to encourage me and even encouraged me to write this little piece after months of agony and sociological imbalance. Good night Nigerians.

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festacman:
You don't call out a big man for a donation made out of free will. That's rude and insulting. You remind him as subtly and politely as possible. Compared to Ikorodu Bois, Davido is a big star that should be ordinarily on a high horse. Davido may have a good heart that tends to empower others financially but it shouldn't be abused.

Did anybody forced him before? Or did those boys beg him for money before? Was he not the one that wanted people to believe he is generous? Let him pay his is promise or vow.

i always love this guy.

Honor10:
chai! evil APC, no o, vote for righteous PDP. u lack sense

Oga proof that those roads mentioned were not constructed by obaseki.

chriskosherbal:
No weapon formed against Obaseki night and day shall stand ..

Edo now have a Governor that understand the plight of the people .


Long live the Oba of Bini.

Honestly speaking obaseki has delivered when it comes to Road construction in Edo State than oshomole, he just a quiet achiever. Go to Esan land where u will think road construction can never get to in 20 years time, enter Ugbor, Airport Road, Ogunwenyi, ogheghe, upper soluko, that is just few places out of different, different location the guy they open up. I think Binis shouldn't allow this people remove this guy. Is it because he didn't alow them to chop edo money. The man open up and said money dey government and he is using it for the good people of edo state. He and oba of Benin send "deve" boys to oblivion. Now u can buy, build and develop your house without any disturbance. A community where u buy land 1.5m and u pay 500k for deve, u pay for crop, pay fence, pay for driling borehole and many monies, all these things were stopped by obaseki and omonoba nedo ukuakpolorkpoor, and some wicked people want to remove him.

Make una be careful o

SageMK:
They have the same nose.

They are meant to be together. Nose-mate.

oga u will not kill person.

chiommy123:
But the military no send am message na

Abi o.

ojimbo:
Bring her unto me let me lay my annoited hands on her

Oh boy you want to wake a dead horse again?

HIV in embryo

Four years ago this man said we will not take this, we are not going to allow this. Who play that role this year?

lexy2014:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2019/02/breaking-viral-video-shows-customs-officer-shoot-man-dead-over-alleged-n5000/amp/


Read d customs statement on d issue. U will b shocked

This is failed country, it has failed beyond repair.

MrMcJay:
He won't.
He would plead accidental discharge.

Even if he is sentenced to death, the Governor won't sign his execution warrant.

I trust oshiomole for this, he will gladly sign his execution warrant.

A failed country.