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Give me Angola free, I won't go.
I must have all my papers legally if I must go to anywhere and my going must be for a good reason. Why are they risking their lives? What is in Angola?

The painful part of the matter is that SA,Angola,india,China etc all these countries treating Nigerians citizens anyhow and put them in jail,their citizens are in Nigeria stealing our oil in the creeks,going scot free without their documents. I have never heard that Nigeria caught an Angola man for Visa related offence... Even Chikko guys are all over Lagos moving freely without any intimidation or disturbance from the authorities. In fact,our security guys guides the yeye foreigners more over our own indigenes in Nigeria. Too bad.

See we don't need an old man to rule again,we need young and vibrant people to take over the affairs of Nigeria.

If we must seek change,let it be a new person.Why are we going backward in the name of change... Same people that spoiled our democracy before.

Hmmm

This is another bad signal,only bad people will want to force others to get their vote.

It happens, give him space...he might come to his senses, if he doesn't, good for you. Thank God you are still doing well in your right, who says tomorrow you won't blow too?

I dont get moved by such things because God has been faithful ....

If you keep going to him, he might start avoiding you, giving you fake appointments, promising to help you as if you are actually coming for help, as an old friend, there should be some levels of relationship no matter what, but human beings are highly unpredictable.

Op,

Have you prayed about this? God will definitely take control of everything, you need to worry less about the issue of work now. First think of you and your baby, living with your inlaws should not be a problem. As an expecting woman, you need to shift yoyr focus more on the baby coming. Then you and husband should have time to discuss this issue thoroughly.

The whole thing is a phase that will soon pass, do not overreact because you may say something out of anger that your inlaws will hold against you.

I do not support him leaving you behind or renting a different apartment for you either since his parents are still here.

On the issue of going to meet him,that will happen but just try to be patient. Do not leave your child with anyone ooo.

How many times will this be discussed?

It is her life, people should let her be.

She is an adult and she is into showbiz. The same people criticising her still pay and go for her shows, even if she is to perform 2moro now.

I have seen her in Eko hotels and suite perform, she dressed okay then, I think her dressing got worst while performing after her marriage, and the reverse ought to be the case.

Those guys are still learning.

Some places in Nigeria are very expensive as well. Even more than that.

Guys that love their wife,go there and do those stuff quietly and peaceful and receive their parental blessings waka. It is better than having a partner and your union is not leaglised and approved by the family traditionally.

However,it is not by force o,or a must to marry from such places,u can marry from somewhere else,there are always options . Everywhere can't have same high demand.

I just dey watch...

I know the result of 2015 Presidential election will surprise many,many will cry,wail and many will know that wasted their time supporting the wrong person.

Time is the thing in between.

Another funny topic.

Abuja should the first on d list,followed by Lagos,PH in that order.

We need more trained and well armed uniform men with good vehicles to do their work well. They should provide bullet proof vest for all of them,up to date weapons.

They robbers deserve to die. The robbers always strike as if there are no security forces around.

People,be more careful this season,do not keep late night outside,avoid too much showing off,there is so much hunger,frustration,joblessness,anger and poverty around.

Almost weekly,they waste people life for as little as 2k about 8 UKpounds...

Remember that unreported cases of news are more than those reported...

Hmm, someone decided not to create it as they never wish to be in that situation.

One thing I know about those korea countries, be it North or south is that they are way ahead in technology. As in they are next to Japan , remember Samsung belong to korea...

Most people don't go to villa ok.
Be it for xmas or ordinary time, if you doubt it, jusy find time to take statistics.
What take people to village is maybe their parents, burial, marriage,etc.

I know my villa wella...Thank God for that.

Where are the France crew oya over to you guys.

All those schooling in France!

People keep travelling down there for medical and IT stuff...hmmmm

I hope CNN is aware.

I do only Arik, local routes, or I take God is good.

GIG first bus or their new Priority bus can enter Lagos as early as 11am to 11.30am from the east...or from Abj to Benin.

Ask Jabez

OlamiB:
Do it on monday morning, nobody will have your time. Here in lagos people get married in weekdays just to prevent crowd.
Go for church blessing that monday too and end it in court.
You can decide to host yoou family and frnds at home

This is the best advice.

Make sure you first tidy the traditional things with your wife family, then do the rest as advised. Ensure that you have a good photographer to take few shots, enlarge it and you are done.

Getting married when you already have money comes with plenty demands, expenses, sleepless nights, effizis, , different suggestions, especially if you are already driving a Jeep as a bachelor and you work in a good company. The demand , no b here ooo...so be wise, do your thing quietly and enter house.God bless your union in advance.

I think it depends on the individual, it is a yes and no answer. For some people yes, maybe say first timers, but for others no...What about those raped once that never had sex again till they deliver normally. Some people body are more open than others, then most of our Naija doctors these days are no even patient enough during labour to assist the woman through that painful time, others are just inexperienced in such time, they next they say it is CS.
When most of best hands are on the run to the US, UK, Canada, etc for greener pasture, what do you expect? Never in the history of Nigeria had we experienced the high rate of giving birth through CS like this generation or even women dying while giving birth.
My mother had plenty of us naturally. She stay alone and give birth in the 60s.

A time is coming when all these recyling stuff will end.

I will add the following: 1. Wicked Landlord'...
The landlord is the owner of the house,he packed erosion sand from gutters during the rainy season and keep them little by little,he will pack one tipper of sand,call a local bricklayer and erect another one room beside your room.

This type of landlords are uneducated but they know the expiring date of all tenants rent off heart.
The landlord is the only person that has a car,which he uses only on sundays to go to church...if you want to know such a landlord,go to N10 Anuoluwapo street,off Bamako by hotel bus stop, near Omole,Lagos.
The landlord wicked,no be small,he is a white garment man.He uses jazz on his tenants too. They only day he laughs is the day you pay his rent. He will charge for water,govt water oooo,he didn't have a well nor borehole,he charges each tenant for nepa bill monthly,when he collects the money,he can make like 500percent gain on the bill monthly. He doesn't pay nepa bills.
2.The night crawlers,these set of tenants go for night parties,friday nights,clubs,then come back by 1am or 2am and start calling you on phone to open the door for them.
The borrower,some tenants borrow a lot and never pay back as at when they promise.
3.The haters,these are the kind of tenants that will hate you just because you are prospering ..that is your offence,nothing else.
4.The Teachers,the type of tenant maybe the most educated one in the compound and he is actually teaching @ a high sch nearby,so he is now a teacher that teaches the landlord children and other children free at his spare time.

5.The wicked landlady,she sells @ the front of the house,if you like use N1000 note to buy just N100 thing from her,always she never have change except if you finish the money in her shop and her things are normally very expensive.
And if you she knows that you are buying things that she is selling from another source,immediately you are her enemy,the next morning when you greet her,she won't answer neither will the husband. Refer to the address in point 1 for more verifications.

6. Unmarried landlord daughters,these ones are seeing themselves as god,because their father build house in Lagos,so u are a nobody.. They will hate you when you have female visitors,even their mother will hate you too for leaving her daughters and bringing in female friends from outside.
7. The music player: some tenants are dj in their one room apartment,they play from old sch to new sch songs,once they are around,they increase their volume to the highest.

8.The guest room occupants: This type of room,u don't really know the actually person that rent it. You will hear that Tony is the main person that rent the room but he has moved to a three bedroom flat @ Ajah now and the house is @ ikeja,then you will be seeing Tony's cousins,his younger brothers,sisters,friends,village people,even those coming to the city for the first time uses the place as their initial house before getting their own house.
9. The jobless group: they are always @home,checking who went out and who did not,who cooked and who did not,they will tell u the dates that nepa came visiting to collect their bills from Jan to Dec.
10. The peacemaker: usually the oldest tenant in the compound,he is very loyal to the landlord and if there is no landlord in the house,he is the 'caretaker'..he likes making peace..he may have spent 30 to 35yrs in the compound. He will tell u proudly that he has been living there since 1978... When the whole place was still a bush.

11.The prayer man: this guy is always waking up around 12midnight to pray,he is always minding his business.

13.The drunkard; this guy normally was an okada rider before Fashola ban bike,or he was laid off in the factory,or he works in a construction company and no more work or money,now he drinks to be happy. He is owing the landlord 6months rent.

14.The nurse: she works in a private or public hospital in town,now she is a medical consultant in the neighbourhood,giving prescriptions,injections,treating sick people,administering drips,etc...
15. The late night cook: the set of tenants always come back late and will be cooking when every one else is sleeping,disturbing others with noise and generates heat in the whole building..
16.The Light tappers,this tenant refused to pay his nepa bill and had his nepa light cut off from the connection source,the guy will get an electrician,enter inside the ceiling and reconnects the nepa quietly,he will stop putting on his light or play music,but will be using fan,electric kettle,fridge,charge phone.etc..till he will be caught.
17.The NFA team: the set of tenants have 'No Future Ambition' they are contented with level of achievement and their lifesyle. They will tell you that some people are still in the village,under the bridge and they are doing better. They dress on their best clothes on sundays and buy enough drinks on the table,they are very happy with their condition. No plan of buying land,building house or moving out,they move out by force. They usually have plenty childern and wife say like 6 to 9 of them inside the 10 by 12 room.
18.The sports analysts: they are die hard fans of d diff clubs in italian seria a,EPL clubs ,spanish la liga. They will tell u all the news about Man U,Man City,Chelsea,liverpool,Barca,Real Madrid etc...

In fact,poverty and illiteracy are very bad. Many people here in Nigeria are just existing but not living the good life @ all. Is a pity!... Who no go,no go know ooohh.

Time will tell o

Church ...

Height of poverty...

Jamaticulus:
Pls name this varsity...

If you read the article that op posted, you will see 'na UNN" somewhere there.

I hope you understand.

No b me talk am ooo, I no b the op.

I hope the price keep crashing.They never halla. It will crash to the extent that the Nigerian government will be forced to reduce locan fuel pump price.This is just the beginning.

I think it is God that is intervening gradually....All the culprits of fuel subsidy saga come out more glorified and got court granting them freedom, they are untouchables.

Some even came out openly to run for governorship elections in some states, when they ought be in jail in a civilised, less corrupt society.

Only in Nigeria will a man of 40yrs come out to openly say he has made billions by oil subsidy and will go scot free...

Such things dont happen in the west....
What a shame....

Yobo is no longer that captain of the team or the reason why SE did not qualify for the 2015 Afcon.SE also failed to qualify for other competitions in the past. Our football administrators that never wished Keshi well also contributed to the failure to qualifer,as they never gave the coach a valid contract,the same set of people that booked a flight before our game with the Elephants of Ivory coast that paraded the Toure brothers,Didier Zokora,Didier Drogba,Solomon Kalou,Gervinho,Wilfried Bony etc in Afcon 2013. The failure was as a result of many factors. The players minus Yobo,the Coach,the admistrators all have a hand in it. They all lay claim to winning the Afcon collectively,and they should also bear the blame of failing to qualify for 2015 Afcon collectively too.

He is the most capped Nigeria player in the SE and even played in the English top flight football playing for Everton for a decade. How many of Nigerian footballers achieved the feat of playing so long in the EPL?

He may not have won laurels much with the clubs he played,he is a defender. So let us not mix issues up here.

The guy is from Niger Delta ,so I am not surprised. I would have been surprised if he support the opposition... People that claimed that they are 'Born to rule' and if the power leave their hand they will make it difficult for the other person to lead.

I do not blame Yobo,he has the right to support whoever he wishes.My problem with our present president is that he told us had no shoes and promised fresh air in the first term campaign,he came in and increased fuel pump price to N140 from N65,then due to #fuelsubsidyoccupyNigeria,he later reduced the price to N97,which I am not happy with. Now fuel prices are down in the international market,GEJ and his Petroleum minister refused to reduce the fuel price locally.

GEJ,if only you can read this,reduce the fuel price to N50,Nigerians will be happy with you.Yes,N50 is possible.

Secondly the issue of security,the Bh guys are having field day,killing people,kidnapping girls,burning houses,breaking prisons,capturing towns,raising flags etc.Last year,I remembered that GEJ said it around the first quarter that by June 2013,there will be an end to the BH activities,however we are almost in 2015 with guys getting stronger by the day.

GEJ have not done much on that regards. The issue of unemployment is there,with so many state governors with not aligning with GEJ on national issues. The issues of Naira devaluation,the issue of inflation,etc. The adminisration can still make amends here and there.

I do not understand why all successive Nigeria Governmnet cannot fix power till date.we keep hearing budget of Billion of Dollars,we do not see where they use the money on... Most of the money do change hand and account into private individual pocket,even the privatised power stuff is even worst. I mean electricity,only people in Abuja and few cities are enjoying the power,others are on their own. You either buy a generator,the expensive fuel or diesel to power it or you remain in darkness. Some state capitals are even glorified villages without electricity...in 2014 too bad.

This pass thing in HND is just too bad, I know someone tgat is similar situation .They cant even do a Pgd with it.

Noun, hmmmm pls go to real uni for weekend pt programme, even if is for 4yrs.

Op

Shine your eyes ooo

Some things I am seeing here as in posts odikwa risky ooo

Remain prayerful,there's nothing God cannot do.

Someone is busy duping job seekers and he is blaming joblessness...

Hmmmm

Enough of all these broken marriage news jare.

Can we hear good news like someone just had twin baby boys,baby girls,wedding bells,just did engagement, promotion,bought a brand new car,moved to personal house,got his PR and citizenship in Jand,bought land somewhere,just land a good job!

This is festive period abeg,let's stop celebrating failures,our grand parents stayed in their marriage all their life time. Now every week,we hear,ab divorced,xy divorced,gh divorced,that is their problem.