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Celebrities / Re: Cynthia Morgan Calling Davido A “Bleep Boy” In Throwback Video by aspirebig: 9:14pm On May 24, 2020
Inside life ....

Always stay hungry( vision wise o, no be food hunger o) and be humble.
Politics / Re: Solomon Ogunji Is Dead by aspirebig: 10:59am On May 24, 2020
GreenCap:


There's another guy with similar name prefix. Independence Ogunewe from South East, Imo State to be precise. A former House of Rep

Ok. Thanks.
Religion / Re: The First Shall Be Last And The Last Shall Be First by aspirebig: 10:57am On May 24, 2020
Honestly, I just read this passage early this morning.

This is one the passage in the bible that I really like.

Never look down on anyone.

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Religion / Re: Breaking Every Connection With Your Sex Partners by aspirebig: 10:54am On May 24, 2020
Ok
Family / Re: Woman Cries As Husband Surprises Her On Her Birthday With IPhone, Money In Cake by aspirebig: 9:24am On May 24, 2020
Old video
Politics / Re: Solomon Ogunji Is Dead by aspirebig: 9:20am On May 24, 2020
RIP to him

Ogunji sounds west?
Business / Re: Have Fraudsters Invaded The BVN System? by aspirebig: 9:52pm On May 23, 2020
Honestly,a bank need to be sued big time then they will stop this nonsense.

Recently some of the banks are really misbehaving.

Many IT bankers that lost their jobs have been trying to use the customer's info in their disposal for fraud.

CBN need to vet these banks and start sanctioning those whose cases of fraud on customers account is high. Public trust on bank integrity is dying.

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Family / Re: Francisco Tchikuteny Sabalo Dead: Angolan Man Who Had 281 Children From 47 Wives by aspirebig: 10:47pm On May 02, 2020
DNA pls , all of them MAY not be his biologically. Is a possibility.
Romance / Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by aspirebig: 10:13pm On May 02, 2020
Look for another girl. There are many other girls out there.It may not be easy,initially. Don't marry her by force o.

But come to think of it, is the man's preference for her daughter.

The babe already has M.Sc , not just B.Sc or BA, the guy with HND .The issue is a case of M.sc vs HND.,not B.sc.

Though, that doesn't determine the future o.

The guy still need to do PGD before going for M.Sc.

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Business / Re: Access Bank To Shut Down 346 Banks Nationwide (List) by aspirebig: 10:00pm On May 02, 2020
If your life savings is in that bank or your pension or any investment, you already know what to do now before it is too late.
Career / Re: Coronavirus: British Airways To Sack 12,000 Employees by aspirebig: 8:44am On May 01, 2020




Use WhatsApp support

Please share the whatsapp number 10q.
Career / Re: Coronavirus: British Airways To Sack 12,000 Employees by aspirebig: 9:23pm On Apr 28, 2020
Why is DSTV and gotv not having 24 hours till free customer care?

Is their Nigerian customers not good enough to be served 24 hours per day?

How can someone pay for their service and is still suspended in this covid 19 lockdown and no customer care line to call?

Enough of this please.

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Health / Re: FACT-CHECK: Is Coronavirus Caused By 5G Technology? by aspirebig: 9:55pm On Apr 04, 2020
How will this stop a scammer from being a scammer

This is the face of Damilare Emmanuel Olusegun.
This guy collects money for services and disappears.

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NYSC / Re: Why Do People Show Off Their NYSC Certificates But Hide Their Degree Cert? by aspirebig: 12:22am On Mar 10, 2020
Is simply, in Nigeria you can get more job as NYSC certificate holder than a degree holder without NYSC certificate.

The class of degree is not the issue , but have you served and completed your NYSC?

Some served but did not complete their service year.
Politics / Re: Jonathan Congratulates Okonjo-Iweala On Her New South African Appointment by aspirebig: 10:09pm On Mar 08, 2020
That is a country that thinks well. Not choosing one tribe to occupy all key roles,whether they are competent or not.

Let see whom among this administration will be poached for such position in future by other countries.

Despite all our issues with S.A.,they still come after one of very own to occupy such a sensitive position.


I wish her all the best in her new role. She is a performer with world class experience, no doubt, she will excel there like she always does.
Politics / Re: APC Congratulates Yemi Osinbajo On His 63 Birthday by aspirebig: 12:21pm On Mar 08, 2020
Okoroawusa:

Oga be specific


What did he do so that we will know how to avoid him.

Do business with him and find out.

If I had been warned about him, I will not be posting this now.
Crime / Re: Oko Polytechnic Student's Plan To Kill Her New Born Baby Fails (Graphic Photos) by aspirebig: 11:30pm On Mar 07, 2020
Those students are really heartless like Emmanuel Damilare Olusegun.
Who collected money from me since and disappeared.
His name on Facebook is Emmanuel Dharey. Avoid him.

Foreign Affairs / Re: US & Thai Soldiers Tear Snakes Faces, Drink Their Blood In Bizarre Ritual (Graph by aspirebig: 11:23pm On Mar 07, 2020
Guys please avoid this fraudster who collected money from me and disappeared.

His real name is Emmanuel Damilare Olusegun.

We noticed he was active on Facebook an hour ago.

His Facebook name is Emmanuel Dharey.

Avoid him. He id a smooth talker.

Politics / Re: APC Congratulates Yemi Osinbajo On His 63 Birthday by aspirebig: 11:15pm On Mar 07, 2020
Hello guys beware of this fraudster, Emmanuel Damilare Olusegun.

His Facebook name is Emmanuel Dharey.

He will take your money and disappears.

We cannot keep quiet and allow people to thrive with scams.

Health / Re: Coronavirus: Chinese Nationals Ihedioha Hired Abscond From Project Sites In Imo by aspirebig: 11:09pm On Mar 07, 2020
Guys beware of this man.
A smooth talker who collects your money and disappears.
Emmanuel Damilare Olusegun.
His Facebook name is Emmanuel Dharey

TV/Movies / Re: Name That Old Movie You Think Children Of This Generation Have Not Watched by aspirebig: 11:05pm On Mar 07, 2020
Guy beware of this fraudster. Emmanuel Olusegun Damilare .
His name on Facebook is Emmanuel Dharey. The guy was in Facebook an hour ago.

He is a fraudster, He collected money for services he never rendered.

Career / Re: Have You Ever Been FIRED At Work? Share Your Experience! by aspirebig: 9:35pm On Mar 07, 2020
I see people surprised over the N750k monthly pay,many earn 20k , graduates still earn 30k ,as in N30K THOUSAND NAIRA here in Naija.


Today, someone told her salary is 15k. Though she has only school cert.

As far as all fingers are not equal, the inequalities of life will NEVER stop.

You guys all know how much our senators earn monthly, Last last, we all buy from the same market.

It is well with Nigeria.

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Health / Re: Dr. Maduka Performing Spinal Surgery On Patient In Las Vegas (Video) by aspirebig: 9:18pm On Mar 07, 2020
The man should face his medical profession jejely.

Dr Oduaghan in Delta State was also a medical Dr but never did well as a governor.

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Crime / Re: Oko Polytechnic Student's Plan To Kill Her New Born Baby Fails (Graphic Photos) by aspirebig: 9:06pm On Mar 07, 2020
Hmmmm

Inside life...when many are looking for this. Going to different churches and pastors daily.


The people behind this act may not know if this is the only child they will ever give birth to.

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Crime / Re: Herdsmen Kill 3, Rape Oliver Chado's Wife, Sisters-in-law In Delta by aspirebig: 11:38pm On Mar 06, 2020
Issele Azagba guys should rise up and protect their land. This is NOT going to stop soon if they do not follow it with utmost seriousness.
Family / Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by aspirebig: 11:20pm On Mar 06, 2020
Ineedtoheal:
Hi Famlanders, Please I need your advice. I beg you all to save a sister. I have to bring this here coz I know it's where I will get wonderful contributions. Again, I am using this new account coz I have friends and customers here. I don't want to blow my cover. Please this is real and not fiction. This will be quite lengthy, please bear with me.

I met this guy in 2013 when I was in year one. It was not a steady relationship coz we barely call nor see so I didn't take him serious. And whenever we see, it was always at one friends house or another. I accused him of being married but he vehemently denied it. Later on I figured out he had accommodation issue after he lost his job. He later rented a house when he got another job with one of our prestigious federal universities here in Nigeria and that was when things became serious (kinda).

We became very serious around 2016 that is why I count it as 5 years instead of 7. But then during one of my visits, I was sleeping in the room when I overheard him talking to someone but the only thing that caught my attention was when he said "I don't even have a girlfriend". Though I didn't confront him, but I thought about it deeply.

Two nights ago, I had a dream where he was getting married to another lady. I was crying while he was still saying he loves me but can't marry me. I confronted him yesterday, he said I am pressurizing him to marry me that was after he first asked what will happen if we don't end up together. He hasn't told me where the relationship is leading to after 5 years. We have been living for the moment. Just for the moment!

Few info about the relationship
1) He will be 40 this November while I am 27.
2. He has always had numerous girlfriends that when he's with them, he doesn't pick my calls though he always apologizes and he's trying his best this year.

3. He always send pictures of other women to his friends to let them know they are the people he wish to marry but never has he sent mine. Though he claims he's not doing it again.

4. From the look of things he's still searching while he wants to have me all to himself. Maybe a second option since the others are not accepting him and I love him foolishly.

5. The relationship is 50 -50 .We spend on each other. He believes it's the woman's duty to do all the house chores but not the man's duty to take care of the woman.

6. On his Fathers burial last year, 3 of his girlfriends came (me inclusive) and we all wore the burial uniform. Together, we served his guests even when we realized we are dating same man. His neighbors were giggling and gossiping but we all decided to be matured and work together.

7. When my sister that raised me died, he didn't come for the burial. his reason was he had supervision that day in school,same person that calls his colleague to cover for him during exam supervision so he could do other things. He also didn't send me any money but he questioned me for not giving him any money for his Father's burial. Even when I paid him excess for the burial uniform. I know why I did that. Mind you, he has asked me before if he can give one of his ex 10k during her Father's burial which I agreed and he sent her the money.

8. I have rejected some suitors who were willing to marry me coz of him. Though he has never encouraged me to accept any of them. In fact he gets angry hearing that another man is coming close to me.

9. He doesn't call often, I do more of the calling though he always return my calls. He can stay for days without calling unless I call. I know I have been the one holding the relationship coz I thought he will change.

10. Sine 2017 till last year, all I did was forgive him coz I love him. He keeps bringing new / different ladies into the picture. I have gone through a lot of emotional stress. He keeps asking me to stay that he loves me but he's confused.

His good side: He's understanding, motivates me to do my best, he doesn't hit me, he is gentle.

Me on the other hand is sometimes stubborn though very faithful coz I love him to a fault. I easily get angry but forgives easily. When I'm angry I talk so much but I don't abuse him. He is simply the cause of all my anger. He always say I am very understanding, a good girl, drama free but yet he doesn't want to marry me and won't let me go too. I have never involved a third party in our relationship except my late sister who said she wish I will walk away from the relationship because I love the guy more, that it won't end well. All my friends thinks I have a perfect relationship because I don't discuss him with them.

Back to last night, I told him I won't call him again coz he said I am pressurizing him to marry me. The truth is I have seen the hand writing on the wall, not today but two years ago but I keep going back. Please I need advice on how not to go back again. The love he proclaims for me is not enough for him to marry. I have wasted enough time already. Maybe hearing the raw truth here will help.


My take is simple.

Follow your heart.

Some people that met their partner, in five years already have 2 kids. This I don't understand.
Politics / Re: Disquiet In Bayelsa As Supreme Court Reviews Judgement by aspirebig: 9:19pm On Feb 25, 2020
If courts are now the ones deciding the electorates fate.

Then FG should scrap INEC..

In civilised world, is this how they go court daily?
Politics / Re: IGP Adamu Scraps SARS Satellite Offices by aspirebig: 9:13pm On Feb 25, 2020
If you are driving a fine car in Naija, as a young man, you are not safe o.

Just try to disguise even if God bless you, #Wisdom.

I mean only for legit work o. Not yahoo boys, kidnappers or ritualists etc.

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Politics / Re: Gombe Assembly Approves Death Penalty For Kidnappers by aspirebig: 9:12pm On Feb 25, 2020
A welcome development.

If government is serious to fight corruption, let all fraudsters,corrupt politicians,contractors that failed to complete projects, those that import fake drugs,kidnappers all face death sentence. Within a year, all these security issue will die down.
Politics / Re: Delta State To Ban Cow Meat Sale And Consumption by aspirebig: 8:56pm On Feb 24, 2020
I feel the country is not truly independent.

Until, the people are truly free. People getting killed daily and kidnapped. Imagine.
Travel / Re: EU Plans To Impose Visa Restrictions On Nigerians by aspirebig: 9:50pm On Feb 23, 2020
Whatever. Who cares.

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Crime / Re: Samaila Musa, Our Husband Chained Us Up, Put Pepper In Our Private Parts - Wives by aspirebig: 10:09pm On Feb 22, 2020
Hmmm

You marry after one week, kwontinue

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