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Op, pray about it and it will become history. Have faith.

Put God first before seeking medical solution.

Their relationship was not legalised, so on what basis will the man be compelled? She took a risk that backfired had the man married her now, this issue won't have risen.

Nigeria is not like west yet, even in west, some forms of legality will be there before such action can be taken.

Even legally married women don't resign their job, let alone baby mama, let her get a job and keep herself busy. For how long will she continue to wait and rely on a man in a foreign land.

Those populations figures about certain tribes, are they official?

Being neutral politically is just being diplomatic, as not to be quoted.

In a soceity where we have several issues of social media fraudsters and dangerous blind dates.She people will never learn.

This easily reminds me of the late Cynthia that made headlines few yrs back,still a facebook lovers bad experience. Thank God she is alive to say her story. Where did she tell them @ home that she is going to ? Wetin she dey find?

The cultist should be arrested if found.

Money miss road, I know people that got their wedding suit for N15k and it looks really good on the guy.

The most important thing is the success of the marriage thereafter. The happiness of the couples.

Dem don dey fear. Yee. X3 laffs

Gej will sha win even if it is by one vote.

daniel2090:
na ur thinking be error..find out about mandela, or even ronald reagan, how old they were as presidents and their legacies.

How can u mention Mandela when we are talking . This is a great insult. Pls recall that post immedaiately.


Your thinking must be escalated to be checked. Nonsense.
We are talking about someone without certificate here.

Jona will win even if it is by one vote.

By the special grace of God,there won't b any trouble.

I prefer a young man to an old man.

How can an old man be making such a comment that has capacity to cause unrest with all the problems the masses are already facing and some people say he is their face of change?

I want a peaceful change and not this type.

[quote author=duni04 post=29683935][/quote]You are on point. Don't mind the op.

[quote author=duni04 post=29683935][/quote]You are on point. Don't mind the op.

My stand is she should have rejected the man from onset. No coming here to yarn kpaas. Do you think getting job is that easy in Naija? How she even fine reach? These girls can be annoying o. Imagine.

This is just a one way story,so the story is incomplete,hearing the other side would have make sense too. Why did the op not tell the man ,no from the onset that she is not interested,that she is in a serious relationship. You kept quiet,which kind of means you agreed,you got the job and you are on NL for advice.

We have many girls like that,if a man approached u,job or no job,let the man know your stand from d onset,that is my point.

I see the op as a girl of double standard,that can't take up decisive decision. The man's approach too is not good,he should have talk to the girl maturedly and give her time.

Many people are jobless in Nigeria, more experienced, more qualified, more responsible, more respectful, more prayerful, more connected, so op, is just by his grace. Dont think you are too smart.

Personally,I prefer to help guys only because all these girls,hmm no way . Simple. Most girls you will help to get a job,will see you tomorrow,even to greet you is a problem for them,I mean to greet ordinary 'good morning' ooo,not 'good morning Sir' ooo. This one is for real,but a guy can't do that.I have seen this happen very well.
My reasons are simple,guys are more appreciative,they will remember that you gave them job,there will nothing like demand for sex and all this nonsense talk,he will know the worth of the help u gave him.

And what annoys me most is that some female folks can hide under the sex demand guise to run some men down. That is bad.Once you show interest in a girl,she is not interested, free her,that way,she will know she is not the only person in the world. Why wasting all the time calling,texting,chatting,buying recharge card for someone that will not appreciate it. I don't understand some people.

What is the meaning of the guy fleed since, once they arrest his parents or close family, under 24hrs hours he will show up.

It might be beyond what is reported since the guy is into yahoo,#jazztins.

This is a serious foundation problem ooo

This can only happen in a big compound, plenty tenants.

I don't understand op.
You stay alone and u want a house help,a female btw 20 to 25 yrs? No naa

Bro, are u staying in an expansive bedroom duplex alone? Most people stay alone withou having maids till they are married.

Sincerely speaking,I will not allow any female that I know to go and live with a bachelor,no way. It is not healthy @ all,then if you must get a maid,get a boy of about the same age from Calabar or those areas.

Op should start a relationship that will lead to marriage. How long will u continue to have a maid as a bachelor?

Or,alternatively,depending on your location,get an elderly woman of about 60yrs plus to come and clean your house during the weekends,then allow a trusted drycleaner to handle your clothes,then let another person take care of the cooking or you can consult all those local eatries to cook some good soup for you. That way,no one is living with you @ home and no temptation is there too.

It is good to be principled. I have stop sending or buying recharge cards for whoever, if u want to stop chatting with me because of that, no problem.
Most girls are liars. Sone uses jazz. I dont even do runs girls, so they go and jam rock.
If you spend, you are a mugu, you don't spend, you are stingy. It pays to stingy that spend for an ingrate.

I cant fall for op drama either. 3months then I will be paying , for where naa, highest we will be chatting till we either agree or go our our ways.Not after spending so much, story and disappointed will follow.

Op are u sure u did your home work well because I think some names are not there.



Money missed road real time. N250m to buy a car. That is more than enough bar to settle many people for life.

Deefuray:
300 thousand for a whole human being?
What kind of desperation for money is that?

A lot of people will do it for less. The wickedness and poverty in the land is too much.Especially in Lagos and northern parts of the country. Imagine all those Agberos,bus conductors,labourers that earn like 2k daily or less after much hard work. They will do it for much less amount.

God will continue to save his children.

Are u for real?

The guy use jazz on them?

I don't see anything fake about this story.

These things happen especially if you marry in a strict church,they will tell you that the marriage bed should be holy until after wedding,which is right,then the couples are on their own,the woman too may have grown too fat,dirty,being too relax. The two of them have roles to play to make their sex life active and enjoyable.

Most of these Pastors did worst things before they got born again and even gave their life to christ.But when it comes to counselling people for marriage they will be talking as if they are saints.

Even Pastor Adeboye of RCCG confessed during the Ogun state Christmas lesson and carol night last december that he was a 'rotten' guy(that was exactly his words) before he met christ. I heard him live on channels tv that night,I didn't read it on a book or internet.
He said he had many girl friends and he did virtually everything with them and sometimes like 3 or 4 of them can meet themselves in his house @ the same time and he will be looking for a lie to tell to discharge some or not to let them know that they were rivals.

The point here is that the guy and the wife are not sexually compartible and it hurts a lot because one of them maybe compelled to seek the sexual satisfaction elsewhere.Our marriage counsellors need to be careful on their counselling when it comes to sex as a topic.

The same twitter handle that Victor Ikpeba denied?

Why are some people too gullible?

Let's go on with the young President.

Old man without certificate that can hardly address crowd with a good intonation. Not in 2015... We had that in 1983 not now again.

He is coming back and all his interviews so far,you could hardly understand his spoken English. Forward ever.

Just yesterday,one yeye boy that presented himself as an opposition youth spoke man cannot even answer simple questions on Channels tv.
When they asked him of what happened in 1983,he said he was a small boy of about 5yrs then,so he is not supposed to put mouth in matters he did not know anything about then.We weren't born in 1960 but we know many things that happened then. The opposition is not perfect. They are not the messiah.
Why did he join Politics then,if he cannot do research and prepare himself to answer questions on a widely viewed ist class national tv like channels. #fallinghandtins. Nonsense!

Just yesterday,Our President addressed crowd in Lagos,the opposition number 1 stronghold in the whole country. He spoke @ length,very vibrant ,standing well,audibly and a lot of people saw the reason why he should continue.

The opposition candidate is hardly audible,his intonation is something else. He can't even address the crowd for long,when a man's certificate is missing,how will he be composed?

The opposition are shouting the government is corrupt,isn't it corrupt government that have been imposing candidate on the electorate in Lagos? It was the same corruption that brought all their candidate to power too. They are not saints. Their leader in Lagos has many businesses and hotels across the state,his wife is a senator,himself a corrupt man,their candidates are all corrupt too.Their leader build roads inside Oregun street then because of his girl friends living in the area.A lot of places like Ayobo,Abule egba,Ikorodu,Agege,Ishaga,iju,Idimu, Ojodu,etc all have bad roads. They are selective in their developmental plans. Where is all the money Lagos state is generating going into? That is an opposition state oo. The kind of money Lagos is making from tax,even some African countries cannot make such money from tax. Nobody is asking questions. And they will fight corruption,when they are corrupt themselves.

It is after plane crashed in Iju Ishaga that part of the state saw partial good road,if not for the plane crash,has BRF commissioned any road there or his godfather while in govt? These are ghettos inside the mega city.

I urge you all to google this video ' 'welcome to Lagos' and watch it and see how some Lagosians are suffering in the name of survival in the state.

Forward ever
Backward never

Old age na backward oooo


Na error ooo.

They did more than this in 2011 with Pastor Tunde Bakare..

No be today.

A much better speech than what we saw in PH,calabar and Warri.

I cannot even understand the English of the old man paraded by the opposition.

I wish they allow BRF as their presidential candidate,then we can even take them serious.

Let the old man produce his missing certificate .

You better vote for the young man. An old man is a no no for me.

Keep blaming Yobo for non qualification of afcon. Yobo resigned before the team failed to qualify for Afcon.You will soon blame Yobo when you are hungry. Nonsense.

The so called opposition is something else.

One small boy was on channels few minutes ago as an opposition person,he can't even answer simple questions.

Too bad.

Easier said than done.

Past govts promised more than that.They did not even achieve one tenth of their promises. Unfortunately, this is a man of God.

Chaii

Empty promises 2015, past govts promised more. None ever achieved one tenth of such promises.

No be today oooo

Op just return d money to them and forget the matter.

Someone was like,ahh it is just 10K return it,but I am telling you even if it is 1m,still return it. Let them go with their money. God have better blessings for you.

Some bankers are always debiting customer's account. Playing with people hard earned money. They are playing with fire.

If you are regular reader of dailymail uk news,the guy is always on headlines there.
There are many talented Nigerians in different walks of life across the globe.

Op,stick to your budget. The babe in question is jobless,your brother is earning 60k monthly,so you helping means they should stick to a very minimal,prudent and small budget.




If you allow them to toss you around,then that is the beginning of endless spending journey.if they babe's family are not satisfied,they make up the balance. Simple.infact,let the babe's family bring out 1M to sponsor the whole thing if it is that easy. Why can't some people be realistic. Always want to show off.
What nonsense.

Serious prayer is needed to cut off whatever is binding u and the mad man spiritually. Life is full of miseries.



Don't play with it.

Unrealistic promises.