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I feel this soulmate thing is just fake.

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...

I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.

I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her husband wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with it.

To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

There's nothing wrong with a man asking for a separate room. Maybe he needs time to think. I really love the idea of staying in a separate when I get married. One shouldn't loose his/her individuality cos of marriage.

Realbuike:
2017 I was working as an assistant manager in a very big and popular filling station.

First 6 months was really good but after sometimes, money started missing, I told my boss, he blamed me until a very reasonable amount was missing.

I was detained and accused but until Today I didn't understand or know how the money got missing . I decided not to do such work again.

I suspected my boss of using charm sha.....

Have you had such experience before?

A family friend once experienced this stuff. After she was detained for about 3 days, my parents and her parents convinced her to leave the place. Some people are actually very cruel. You should leave that place if you can.

Lmao...... Bros why you dey fear? Don't you want her to protect herself?

The only way to tell her you have a daughter is to tell her you have a daughter. If she can cope, she will stay ( her parents and other family members will advise her to leave you), if she can't please let her be.

You people enjoy bringing your tribal and religious bias into everything in this life.

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I listen to sad music because most times, I can relate to the lyrics of the song. And I love slow songs( most times, sad songs are slow)

Kwinesther:
Just 2days old baby and you have concluded that he/she is fair in complexion? Oga, 95% of newly born babies are usually fair until they are 7months to some years old then you will start seeing their true complexion. It's so utterly unwise to have that kinda thought.

No leave him alone let him go ahead and conclude that the 48hrs old child is his just because the child is light skinned.

I even rated him when I first saw his opening post, on finding out that he changed the date after someone called him out that the child couldn't be his with the date he put in the opening post, I just knew he's pained the lady left him for someone better. He sounds like a narcissist.

He keeps calling her a hoe but still wants to claim a hoe's child...... I just can't believe he's 30+ and still stupid.

dayo229:
You keep talking about impotent, have you thought that you might be the impotent one I mean you have been banging her raw for a while now.

Maybe you couldn't get her pregnant for her to trap you down so she moved on to the next guy who by the way is richer than you.

Another angle.....

9isguy:
Hope you are not one of the few that sees every young guys that is richer than you as a yahoo boy ?

He sure seems like one from the way he talks.......He sounds so bitter.

adecz:
E be like say fight just dey
hungry you..☹️☹️☹️☹️


If, during the time you people were
bannging she had told you she
had taken in, considering how
you met. you for 'gree ❓

This here, is the main question..... If during that time she told him she's pregnant, he would have denied the child or would have recommended abortion. You're just jealous she left you.
Just see the way you even address her, with no respect at all and you'll expect her to handover her child to you? You must be a joker. Guy just your L and move on

Elxandre:
Why you no wan marry am ma?

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Cut your coat according to your material not your size.
Don't let anyone pressure you into debt, cos, they won't be there to offset the debt when the time comes.
Tell both parents that anyone that is bringing crowd to the wedding, should be ready to cater for those crowd.
BTW, it is not a must you wed in the church.

Wayne4uall:
I am back ... It went on well and i will meet with her again next Sunday but at her house... She offered me so many tins, i eat d ones i can and leave the rest.. She even shared a roasted corn with me Come and see the type of gifts she gave me . So many chocolates and provisions ... Next 2 months I still dey chop dem dey go ... I gave her an Ankara tho ( expensive one)... It seems i hv a good mother in law already

Congratulations! May your relationship never turn sour.

merieam16:
Envelope money and give her when leaving

Whatever you do, don't try this. She may find it insulting as you're not yet in the family. Instead use the money to buy hampers.

Have you by chance asked her where and how she will want her partner to propose marriage to her?
These are the basics things you should have asked her jokingly when you were sure that she's meant to be your spouse.

Aaronsrod:
What is this one saying? The Bible tells us a husband must rule over his wife.

Ephesians 5:24. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

The Bible also said that a man should love his wife as Christ loved the church...... Ephesians 5:25,26.

Special32:
Am a 24 years medical student in my fourth year of the university I meet her when we where in our second year I never knew she was even in our class until our second year at first we where only saying hello to each other than some school stuff brought us together in our third year ever since we became close as friends and now I am realizing that I really like her and I want more than just being normal friends with her.

I feel it wouldn't be right because we are in the same department same level in school I keep on trying to let the feeling go but everyday I keep on seeing her and my feelings for her keep on increasing.

I really need advice on what to do I don't know what to do about the emotions I feel towards her.

I am pretty sure that once you sleep with her, all the love and like you're professing now, will vanish away.

Bros just face the book wey your Papa say make you come school come face.

It will definitely be only snoring.... At least once I am at asleep, I may not be conscious of things or noise around me.
No one can manage body odor and halitosis.

Bayyajidda:
If you read his post properly you would have understood he doesn't. He only has his 4k for weekly feeding.

Since it seems you're the only that understands his post, go and make a list for him.
Udo.

ufotty2001:
please I want to propose to you.. please DM me...

On top shopping list?
Bros no be so dem dey do things na......Lmao

Bayyajidda:
Don't you think you should be the one learning to read and understand properly... Someone already made you understand he can only afford to spend just N4000 weekly. What's there again are we to understand?

If you read my post properly, you would see where I stated that if he had the basic food ingredients such as rice, beans and garri the 4k would be enough. But no, you couldn't digest that part of post, you quickly delved into the part I made a shopping list.
Abeg abeg I nor get strength for all this shenanigans.

Knows:
person wan manage 4K per week n you talk bout freezer? You just deh whine him. I’m very sure e no get freezer.

If he no get freezer, make he dey warm the soup and stew morning and night make the food for no spoil, only be say the food go loose taste.

joshuaidibia:
Meat 700 for the week? Unless OP is staying in Gombe, Sokoto, Bauchi.etc

There's meat worth 700 naira in any state in Nigeria. When last you reach market sef?

Ficeo:
Nice arrangement. You tried ooo! What of kerosene, firewood or charcoal for the cooking?

Why don't you make your own list for the OP? At least the post is open to everyone.

Kokaine:
you're a wife material. Let's get married next week Saturday. In a police station so we sign and seal the wedding.

Lol....

teacherbim:
Where you want get palm oil 150 nara, the smallest bottle is now 250

Oga where I reside in Lagos, the smallest olive oil sized bottle is 100 naira.

domejike:
You'll be licking only the soup abi and stew abi? No garri nor semo, no rice nor beans. Well-done o

Did you even read what I posted properly?

donephi:
Biko this budget is for which state cos this can hardly work in the city of excellence

Except you live in high brow places like the island, this budget would work perfectly in the center of excellence.

Bayyajidda:
And lick the soup and stew, ba?

You should learn to read and understand a post properly before commenting.