GoodzGustavo:
How do you like your plantain?

Me: Boiled and Roasted.

Boiled plantain and egg.
My friend influenced my love for boli and groundnut.

My secondary school experience is one of the best experience I have had. The friends I had then were simply the best. There was nothing like financial class difference. If anyone was lagging behind in any subject, the person good in that subject always provide assistance.
Girls were girls and boys were boys.....Those that were in relationships simply enjoyed the relationship. There was no pressure for anyone to be a provider or a home maker.
One of the best male platonic friendship I had was in secondary school. I had to end the friendship out of respect for my then boyfriend.
You can be very lucky to have great friends in university. My best friend was my roommate in my undergrad days.

Thonia69:
All this relationship wahala, lol. Break up and join the singles club

Lolzzzz....I dey tell you my sister.
Any small thing I wan to break up with my boyfriend, I want to break up with my girlfriend....Make dem break up make everybody rest abeg.

Except you are getting married to a very materialistic woman that has chosen not to work, or a woman that is not content, I see no reason why she shouldn't know how much you earn. You people keep hiding things from your wives when things goes south, you will say she cannot support or doesn't understand you.

Why is almost everyone worked up about the things he said to her? Do you all know if that's how they enjoy expressing love to each other?
Not everyone enjoys being told lies.
Make una leave dem make dem paddle their love canoe abeg.

SteadyGrinding:
I'm in the most confused state of my life.

Please I need advice from mature fellows.

I've been in a relationship with this girl for 6month now.
We planned things together. And I swear to God. She's very supportive. When every family ran away from me. She stood by me.

Even supported me when I had some spiritual issues.

We've got plans together. We plan everything together. Life and all.

I will not lie. She is very supportive. She's just my kind. This girl have to break her savings to make sure I achieve some plans. Go broke to see me smile in my difficult times.

I've moved to a new apartment when my landlady was bewitching me. All my business dried up. She stood by me. Supported me in looking for another apartment. Financially she was there. Now I'm just one week in the new apartment. We had our first sex and I contacted gonorrhoea from her.

Now I'm not a simp I know this infection is a sexually transmitted one. She has been swearing with her life that she didn't cheat. Swearing with this. Swearing with that. I know it's all lies. Abi have anyone experience this. Because she was saying maybe it hid in her body system that she didn't sleep with another man.

Now this is the case. I don't want to dump this girl like that. I feel guilt in my mind. After all she has done for me. Please someone talk to me I'm going crazy. This is a girl that has fought spiritual battles for me. I know what I'm talking about.

If you are not certain your partner is 100% clean use condoms....Why is it so difficult for sexually active individuals to use condoms?
Now you will spend money treating unnecessary infection....If you will still be involved with her sexually, you should make sure she's treated also.

If you can't track her cycle with her, use condoms. Otherwise you will be singing duduke in the nearest future. This is a baby season..... almost everyone is getting pregnant by mistake. Be careful.

DonHummer:
Don't negotiate with a black mailer.
Just block them,
If he says hi using another contact, block am, don't even read any message from them , just block am. If they call with another number, block it the moment you realise he is the one.
Temporary unfriend and deactivate your face book for a while.
Black mailers key into your fears, don't give them the opportunity to have a conversation with you.

OP advise her to do what this poster said and she should never video call anyone while being naked, even if the person is her lover.

I am so sorry but this your post is very funny. .
Sorry for the stress OP

Dainty09:


Hmm it's a long sad story but will cut
it short, am from a polygamous family,my mum is the first wife, I have a step mother and siblings.

My mum went through hell all she worked for went down the drain with my dad, the house my late dad owned they both built it at least I know of her contributions towards it. My mum was chased out of the house , myself abd bro left the house as well because it wasn't safe for us. We went through a lot but thank God for His unfailing love and mercy that kept us and still keeping us.
My step mum chase everyone away including my dad's siblings, she only want everything to herself, the two children she had for him and her other children she had outside.

My dad also suffered in her hands until his death, It's really a long story, everyone is trying to tread carefully and praying God fight this battel and give us victory.
That's why we're trying to look for ways to go about it.

No one is after the property,but we just want to ensure we're take the right step and block it

If you don't want your step mom to continue receiving your dad's pension, the best thing is for you to report your dad's death. So that NITEL will stop paying your late dad pension.

Lol! OP you no want make she marry?

triple996:
It's allowed

Bt on a serious note.....will there be election in the east come 2023?

Why are you so disturbed about what is going on in the east? If there's no election in east, it will favor whoever you're supporting, as there will be no vote coming from there. So, stop getting yourself worked up about the election in the east.

You should end the contract you have with her and take her back to her sister.... Make sure you follow her down to Lagos and hand her over to her family. If she's still interested in the job, let her travel down to PH herself. She's mostly likely dating the stranger who will leave her after he is done with her. They always think the grass is greener on the other side, until their eyes are opened

Journal to Jordan.

pocohantas:
Lol. I read somewhere that a girl refused to breakup with her abusive bf because he has washing machine and Midea AC.

Omo, e get as sapa go knack you, you go begin reason the devil you know.

I don’t even know if it would get better. I only hope we are all fine out there.

This is very bad.

oldienavie:
The number of Nigerian girls that you see that has committed abortion is unbelievable.
I didnt know how bad it was till I started asking my babes.. Omoooo
How can someone sleep well at night knowing they murdered an unborn child.

That is why I decided to marry from either mfm or deeperlife, they are not perfect but the chance of abortion with them are still lower than other denominations.

Goodluck...

Will you find it bad/evil if a married woman commits abortion?

Ọmọ x 1,000,000........ Why would she do this kind of thing to the person she claims to love? This is wickedness abeg. If we should things, people would begin to rain insults on the man.

Mazi4066:
Guys Am currently in this kind of situation now. We are already engaged I really love her and can do anything to keep my baby.
Advice please

I think you should create your own thread.

TheSociopath:


Nice...


Are you in Lagos?

Where are you going to with all these questions?

TheSociopath:


Just wanna know

This year will be my 25th year on this planet.

He shouldn't be your best friend if he always see your accomplishments as competition. I feel you are the one in competition with him. He may actually not see things that way.
How sure are you that your sister in-law will pick interest in him also?
Just let him be.

echomanji:
My best friend is showing interest on my wife's younger sister. Should i be Worried? Cos i have a bad feeling about it. Dude likes to best me in everything i do as if am in a competition with him.

He shouldn't be your best friend if he always see your accomplishments as competition. I feel you are the one in competition with him. He may actually not see things that way.
How sure are you that your sister in-law will pick interest in him also?
Just let him be.

EmeraldJD:
Under the sun and in the rain..... Rest in peace.

With dedication and selflessness.

TheSociopath:


That's why he needs to go out of there. So what has he been doing since the border closure? Some of us left our states to come and hustle in Lagos and we're doing well, to the glory of God. Nothing can be achieved in your comfort zone

Ok Pastor..... Thank you Pastor for your words of encouragement.

TheSociopath:


How old are you?

How does my age correlates with this particular discussion?

bukatyne:


Three Eke market days

I saw what you did... Thanks for the correction.

Soft bread and avocado

Ten06:
You are 27 and a graduate, please don't go back. Look for a way to kick start your life anyhow.
One of the problems you have in that house is your step mom. She is secretly manipulating your dad against you and couple with the fact that you have graduated and still living with your dad he is seeing you like a lazy son.

Look for a way to settle down somewhere, after some time of not seeing you he will begin to value you by then those curses he laid on you can be revised

How did you know his step mom is manipulating his dad? You did not see his dad to blame you quickly jumped to accusing the woman.

TheSociopath:


Why are you living with your dad at 27? Go and hustle.

From your English, you seem educated. Have you done a thorough job search?

He stated it in his opening post that he had an export business but things went south due to the border closure. If he had it easy, he wouldn't be in his dad's house.
No young adult enjoys living with their parents..... You are a guy at least you should understand him better.

But she's actually single now as you're yet to make her your wife..... Lmao

It seems some persons enjoy recycling this story every 3 Eke market day. Una no dey ever tire?

If you are sure your dad listens to your step Mom and you really trust her, then you should go back home.