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Sanboy25:
I understand what you're trying to say,
but the men also want a woman like those that they see in the same American movies.
Same there, the economic situation pushes women to think of their material needs first
and they don't have time for 'real love' like what the American movies shows thus as what Nigerian men want.
Both men and women are at fault in this case....
Sad...

No they dont. Nigerian men want a traditional woman. How many modern Nigerian women would want to be traditional housewives? I can count the number on 1 hand

The only thing we want from the West are women who believe in free se.x and arent frigid with the se.x for goodies philosophy. Se.x is not a currency or a barter method and western women dont believe in stuff like that.

Stegomiah: Well said

So... have you been in a difficult relationship?

Onyegecha: I can't help wondering why the issue of gay marriage is treated like a political or diplomatic issue. Why on earth should foreign powers pressurize countries that need aid to legalize gay marriage as a condition for any kind of assistance? Please can someone throw more light on this?

Human rights? They dont pressurize monogamy. So it is all about basic human rights.

peggycious: Hiiiiiii,just want to share a part of what i'm going thru.i'm a lady born in nigeria but grew up outside the shores.Met this guy and we clicked,we do things togeda,i share my time and resources with him.He is also a nigerian.We both passd our ACCA and finishd our masters.The problem now started when i got a lucrative job but hav to relocate in naija.He insisted i must not go and that i shld continue wiv ma debenham job till i get a bettr offr.He wrks with citibnk.i refused and came to naija.
since den,he dosnt pick ma calls and he wnt even call.if i call him wiv anoda number and he picks up,he ll bang d phn on mi.am really confused rite now, shld i go bk because of him and liv ma job?or shld i still giv him a chance to see if he ll be sober,or unlock ma hrt 4 anoda man,
Thanks to u all.waitn 4 ur respnce.

Its over, move on love

He knows it and he made you aware that if you go it will be over. You didnt pick the signs. How will you work in Nig while he works in the UK? How will it work? How often will you see yourselves? You will end up cheating on him and then dumping him for a more local squeeze. I like him. He is a true man. I wish I had his balls

I am too soppy and soft with women

pc guru: Marriage out of love, now that's rare.

I did it

It is great. It makes the cold, hard nights worth it. It makes challenges more manageable. Marriage without loves becomes difficult when the challenges start to arrive.

Super1759: caught 50, killed 25, many hideouts discovered, yet no pictures,no videos
Am yet to believe this minister of defense. Spare us your stories and bring this rubbish to a halt that's all. Mchteewwwww

It is essential that they do not show pics, vids or anything else. This might give away sensitive info and might also start getting passion and support for boko outside of the country.

Videos doing the rounds on the net might encourage foreign jihadists to start migrating to Nigeria like they did in Iraq and Afghanistan.

thundey95: A Christian pastor is fighting for his life after he was beaten into coma when condoms fell out of his Bible during a preaching session in a bus. According to a local news source, the Daily Post, the pastor whose name was not released, was nearly killed Saturday morning at Toyota Bus Stop by the popular Ladipo Spare Parts Market in Mushin, Lagos, Lagos State, Nigeria.

The pastor boarded a bus in Apapa and started preaching to the passengers, uttering statements such as, “If you wear trouser you’ll go to hell! The devil invented make-up! Weave-on is from marine kingdom! If you have pre-marital sex you will burn in hell and your skin will peel!” Some of those on the bus were so moved, they started falling under the ‘anointing’.


John Mbakogu, a witness on his way to his shop at Ladipo, told Daily Post: “People were just falling as he was laying hands. One man almost fell out of the bus under the influence of the Spirit. It was amazing until he raised his hands to cast the demons out of one girl, and two Durex condoms fell out. The angry men in the bus who had been having pangs of guilt due to the pastor’s preaching about sex suddenly got really angry and pounced on him, who all of a sudden started shouting, I also preach safe sex! Safe sex is good!”


The paper reports police had to be called to the scene to save the pastor’s life. Two arrests were said to be made, and the condoms were retained as evidence.

Sickening

So what if he had condoms? Does that entitle him to be mercilessly beaten? What if he was to use it on his wife

Omavik: ofcos it is silly.,#200 u knw wetin d grl dey do 4 am?

What is she doing for him?

Let your hubby know about her so he will be on his guard. Also make effort to change your appearance. Dye your hair etc. The less you look like her the less likely there will be problems.

She slept with lecturers on your behalf... hmmmm... seems like you too were working together and now you want out?

victorD3: Well I have gotten 2 proposals from women before. I know some women would say they desperate but trust these were beautiful young and intelligent people.

And you said no

Poor ladies

Oohrhii: Everybody knows its Men.

Its easier for a lady to set her mind on marrying anyone so long she would be convenient..

As for a man ..Everything he has been , his reputation, and all he has worked for ever in his life is at stake.. therefore he needs to make sure he does not make the wrong decision.

Which ever way you want to look at it.. without being sentimental..its harder for men.

And how bad can it be for a man? If it goes wrong he can move on. Imagine a woman with 2 kids and some weight gain in her 40s having to move on? It is women by a country mile.

Tadon200: the dad na.

Lol... he has all the ladies runnig after him

armyofone: Yes, forgive.

The good book said: He who hath no sin should first cast the stone and the pharises left one by one.

What if she is not apologetic and has no desire to change her cheating ways?

Tadon200: am sure of dat,he looks gayish.

He doesnt look gay!!! How do gay people look?

rokiatu: I seriously pity married men that are unemployed. I don't support cheating but then again I don't support the woman acting like the man of the home either.

Did he cheat? I thought they were uncertain.

nyere84: Hahahahahahahahaha.

Wat will eva make me to tink of commiting suicide??

This life that is so sweet, am surrounded by pple that cares for me, eg; my mummy, my sisters, my colleques, my friends, Etc. All this pple brings so much joy & happiness into my life.

So why will i want to hurt them, by killing myself?? Tufiakwa.!!! Chukwu nna ekwe kwa ra ife ojo mme...!!

It can happen. It is all a state of mind. Some people go through tragic circumstances that lead to such. Imagine the loss of a loved one etc.

angel TI: ^ u scored a point der.

It is sad that they did not allow him in. To just assume he will be promiscous is very wrong.

angel TI: i hope omar is not gay? a pretty boi should not b pls

I doubt he is gay. he would have been risking his life going to Saudi Arabia if he was.

Mynd_44: I am just saying that as a joke na. Nothing serious

I get it

alutacontinua: Are you the op?
Is that ur other handle?

Busted

Young po413: This was why I said ,I had a crush on you @alutacontinuation,you are great,everything about you are perfect,erm....... Are you married?




@op,I was once in your shoes,mine was the worst,she was unable speak good English talkless of writing,but she fine die,chei those big asssss,I no go forget and if I tried to correct her,she will be very angry,she was arrogant and hates corrections.....
I dumped her sharp sharp.
Yours is okay atleast she can speak,then teach how to write correctly....that is if she willing to learn.

That is no reason to dump a lady. You just have to keep trying. She was like that when you met her.

Monicasque: Pot bellies a no no. A guy must show that he works out

Noted. What about height? Tall? short? Also what about physique? Do you like stocky and broad shouldered or skinny dudes?

donted: Loose in what context?

Who is promiscous and experiences a phase of "freelove"?

Monicasque: hahahahah it depends how and where they are because at the end of the day you do not want to be with someone who looks like he has been fighting a lot but also remember that other people get scars because of car accidents, fire etc and its easy to differentiate between a good scar and a bad obtained scar. Well rough skin is still cool, i will buy him bio oil to soften it up

Aaah. So you dont like rough skin. Maybe you prefer a moderately macho man. I agree with the scars because anyone can get scars but I am referring to the agbero style scars from a hard life fighting etc

What about physique? Pot bellies, fit 6 packs or soft but not ripped bellies?

alutacontinua: Dt is what i'm guessing, however, the op is the only one who can definitely know what's wrong.

By the way where is the OP?

alutacontinua: Exactly...she doesn't av a problem writing her 'd' and 'p', infact, she's typing not writing dis tym around, i think her problem is how to put 'she went' instead of 'she go'. Dt would have more to do with her academic and educational upbringing rather than neuronal deficits, i guess.

Ok. So some english comprehension classes are in order.

Monicasque: Ath a man must look like a man, I do not like pretty boys.

So what about scars and rough skin?

pawn89: Lemme guess you are an introvert!
And if am correct, i only wish you do not have melancholic features as a dominating temperament cos the both of em together is a recipe for disaster. Trust me, i can Imagine your fantasies.

I bet they are freaky

Monicasque: yep but he is still not all that

To each their own. So what if he had that face and a macho body with broad shoulders etc. Would that still fall into your good books or do you prefer slightly more manly faces?

alutacontinua: I don't think the problem here is picking a pen to write down. The problem is majorly in her tenses and all of that. I think you're taking this too far, before all dis english would now scare the op.

You'd be surprised. I have met dyslexic people. You would never know they were dyslexic. One particular person sstruggled to write certain words and constantly got her e's written backwards.

Monicasque: he is too much. Not attractive at all ( well to me that is) a man must look like a man not like this person

Effeminate it is then.

He looks girly... then again he isnt the only one

Monicasque: this person is not all that.

Why not? Too effeminate?

Tadon200: omo na fine boi!!!,lol!!!!

Which one