₦airaland Forum

Monogamy:
No excuse in settling for less. I can't even date a lady that's not working...

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Not just working ... working and contributing to the family no matter how lil .

Monogamy:
The problem with some of our ladies is they are not an independent minded people. Hardly they can make personal decisions themselves without the influence of others.

Also, I have issue with the way they have turned themselves to slaves all in the name of marriage. So many of them have abandoned their career for ordinary marriage.

Na thier business .. when I feel I'm ready I'll be very selective and I know how to cope

And I won't settle for less .. I nor fit keep myself and stay chaste only to come and marry a prostitute in the end . Even if na charm e nor go work . I rather be single

Monogamy:
It all depends on your circle. Wetin broke guy dey find for relationship?

Even if you are rich as a guy, why should you date jobless lady?

Now I'm not talking about finance .

Relationship isnt a job . Most women keep hallucinating about marrying a rich man that will elev
elevate Their family from poverty

Monogamy:
I am not referring to materials girls but the decent amongst them.

Relationship is not a job opportunity, a responsible lady should be able to take care of her bills

How many of them are decent these days
How many can pay their Bills ?
Bro make we leave this matter jare. Make person no dey expect too much from women simple and short ..

Since all of them don "woke" .

Monogamy:
The truth is the ladies are not that hard to get. Ladies need a guy who is attentive, ready to listen.

We are not talking about getting ladies... ladies are the cheapest commodity these days.
Ready to listen to what exactly?? What color of nails will fit or what type of wig they'll buy next??

SyrusdeHansome:
It's all good but not that easy

The key to all this is NEVER GETTING EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED TO HER . Once you take that , you have conquered .
Play your husband role well tho

lymelyte:
yes very lonely but heartbreaks,pretense,unnecessary disappointment and expectations will be reduced...You are not attached to anyone trying to manipulate you for thier own gains.. Truth be told,Only a handful of friends can be really loyal..
The key is to take as a learning phase to understand you as a person. The more you understand You,the easier it becomes to dodge psychological and emotional bullet..
For example,I am a details and intuitive person.I can sense energy,decode body-language.

On point sir
I can detect people too ... from their words and behaviors. I have no problems with cutting off people once I detect that negativity

1: I know how to cook and I know how to do my laundry , i sabi clean up the house small sef ( so it's not a problem )

I won't get fully emotionally attached to her

The day she cheats is the day we end it ( even the bible supports this )

I'll have another apartment where I'll go to relax alone for a week or 2 occasionally since I'm very introverted

I'll ignore her nags and rants or better still use my airpods /buds ...

Na my own system of coping with marriage ( If I ever ever get married sha ) ...

Have a system of coping bro and forget those fears

ExudeLoveToAll:
Until you become a victim.........

Just completed your sentence.

Fraud at all levels should be frown against.

Victim ??
Lmao and it's not like I condone fraud sha .. check siggy
Just mind your biz they'll meet their repercussions someday

Oga focus on yourself... nothing dey there
Take it from someone like you

Goodmarlian:
what do you expect from them when a man like you is ready to pay 100k for sex ,i mean 100k for just a smelly hole that gushes dirty blood every month ,he will even pay for the girls tfare and food,you are thinking like this because you are even redpilled they other ones oti loorr.

What a joyless comrade

I gat nothing to say because I no dey do relationship

frankson1:
ETH gambles with his team selection. Fred had no business sitting on the bench. Make changes immediately into the 2nd half if the team performed poorly in the first half but the rookie of a coach had to wait until 82nd minutes.

So he's a rookie now abi

AbdulMagaji:
She can study online

Almost the same thing .. he pays for her schooling ba ??
Lol oga die that idea abeg

scanner1000:
Good afternoon and happy Sunday..

Please I have something bothering me for a long time now. It's about my girlfriend not accepting to have intimacy with me, saying we should marry first.. I'm a young man trying to stand firm before thinking about marriage.. But she do pressure me on marriage since I'm always disturbing her for sex. Although she is a virgin which I have confirm. . She is a hardworking gal and independent. She hardly ask me for money and even whn I get money I hardly give her base on sex issues.. I have been celibate for about two years now and I'm not d type dat Bleep around.. She visited me dis January we only romance and I almost force myself inside her.. So I'm planning to visit her but she said no romance or sex and we are on a distance relationship. I base in Edo state while she base in Ondo state . So I feel transportation to visit her is a waste because no fun.. Just talking talking with high transportation too..

Pls I need advice and don't mind my grammatical errors.

Say no to fornication... marry her first
How did you confirm sir

Learn
To
Mind
Your
Business

AbdulMagaji:
You think everyone has the opportunity you got?

Brush her up and wife her

Meaning He should send her to school and wife her ??

Give what you can afford to lose ... see her as a friend too
Dont get emotionally engaged
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And Say no to fornication

Politics and Christians shouldn't have any business
Any pastor that engaged in politics is not a pastor to me

Bone straight will be perfect ... have you ever given your mother or sister money to make their hair ??

dmgr:
Guys weh no get girlfriend, get rest of mind.

I agree with this guy

You're strong and you like your wife which is good ... but what if you were in her situation and she was in yours ?

This is not a meme
And I know what idea you're trying to pass on

Stop bring so pained by Christianity and Christians and face your witch thing ... just know that light ALWAYS overshadow darkness

Assemblies of God
111 Clegg , surulere

Rokiat:
But men want see..x is that reckon science? Even in marriage the must important to a man sitting at number 2 right after respect is se…x don’t argue with me argue with your keypad.

Unfortunately most MEN dont fall for seduction anymore.
Once I see you're coming on too strong ... I'll run away

Simple and short 🎯

Rokiat:
The difference is me walking into a bar and walking to a nigga that don’t even have my time and offering to buy him a drink in the hope that he will like me CHASING.

Vs

Me walking into a bar confidently, looking good, smelling edible, passing by this man smiling pleasantly at him but not even saying a damn word and this nigga walking over to me well because he can’t help his damn self and offering to buy me a drink starting a conversation AKA SEDUCING.

Dont come here to cry and rant that " men are useless... they only want s3x "

Say no to gambling
No matter how much you cry and rant...they'll receive their wages every week

In sabinus voice " independent girl don thief 2 polo o "

If you haven't met this woman in person ... then there us a huge chance that you gave been scammed by a "Yahoo boy " from here in Nigeria.

Only people with zero ambitions and low morals chase women about .

IyaebeTheGreat:
Women don't do yahoo, is it everything una go dy involve women? Hian

Women do Yahoo...
They learn from their boyfriends and make friends