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People rarely talk about how much thinkering men go through in finding/choosing a life partner.

I'm at that point in my life and is really not an easy thing or decision.

Westerhoffe:
Just calculate your money from yesterday.
It might have dropped from you without you realizing it.
It might even be that someone lost it.

And if it was left there on purpose, well, just pray against any evil repercussions, because there is evil under the sun which are being made and done with anything.

I'm really not good at praying

Kobojunkie:
Nothing! But you seem to want to think something of it instead so good luck.

I'm just curious, nothing else.
Nothing will happen to me.

Kobojunkie:
Someone told you that and you immediately allowed it to change your previous policy regarding such things. Well, I guess it means you truly desire for whatever the person said to befall you. Well, Goodluck!

God forbid!
But please, what do you think about this?

zeuss:
If the money was infrontv of Ur shop, na u get am....nothing can ever happened

The money was not totally in front of my shop door. I'm so scared now.

I came to my shop this morning and saw 500 naira by the side of my shop inner corridor, unlike my usual, I picked it and used it to buy 150 naira edible almost immediately.

I used to be totally against picking anything on the floor, but today my thoughts is that my money might have dropped on the floor before I left yesterday.

But someone is telling me now that I might have picked up problems.

That this usually means ones money starts getting spiritually hijacked every now and then.

And right now, I am curious to know what this could really mean and if there's any urgent solution to salvage the situation right now.

Thanks

I came to my shop this morning and saw 500 naira by the side of my shop inner corridor, unlike my usual, I picked it and used it to buy 150 naira edible almost immediately.

I used to be totally against picking anything on the floor, but today my thoughts is that my money might have dropped on the floor before I left yesterday.

But someone is telling me now that I might have picked up problems.

That this usually means ones money starts getting spiritually hijacked every now and then.

And right now, I am curious to know what this could really mean and if there's any urgent solution to salvage the situation right now.

Thanks

BenedictAbajue:
Same lie you told your ex-girlfriend

Is amazing how you're busy thinking about another person's life

LeeSmart:
Dear op but u say u no be religious person, so why u come follow daht moniker u just quoted the use the phrase "ijn"?

Using the language they understand.

stephanie94l:
Maybe watch porn togetherMaybe watch porn together...

Thanks for this

Vikinatty:
my dear, is normal but make sure she is very wet before penetration but if she cant bear it let her get (dripping pills)

Thanks for the info.

I think we will only try that after we are married. For now, we are just partners that don't do it everyday or even every month. We do it a few times as we still have our natural boundaries for not being married yet.

But I really appreciate this your advice as it will help us improve things in the long run.

Kingray10:
Yes ky-gell is better, n it's safe. It's a lubricant

Will look for it. Thanks

Blitzking:
Can happen to any guy...took me a month to disvirgin my wife cos of pain..that I often lost erection cos of the complaint of pain she also wasn't as flexible as my other ladies I disvirgened where I could flex their thighs on their abdomen making penetration easier.

Happy to learn is normal, especially when one is the first person a girl is exploring sex with. Thanks for the info

DenreleDave:
Or you can sit down, let her sit on you..

While ur dk is erect and standing, let her come and sit on ur dk via her V

I don't enjoy this one at all

Kingray10:
Op start with enough roman,let her very wet before you try penetration.
Besides buy ky-gell. So it won't be stressful to penetrate.

I do all of those except I don't use ky-gell rather durex lube. Please is ky-gel better than durex lube and is it hygienic? I don't want to penetrate my girl with something that will react harshly on her. She's my wife to be.

imagrg:
Your preek is becoming weak and a weak preek cannot penetrate a partially open toto.

Lol, if only he knows what I am carrying. If this my preek no do am, no preek in this world would.

Psady:
After reading most comments here ,I can deduce that no one got a solution or experience in such matter, I will advice you seek a sex therapist .

Do you know any online therapist?

DenreleDave:
OP, bend her for doggy

This one has been a nightmare. The v doesn't even open at all in this position. We only do on bed or on chair missionary for now. But I believe we will improve as soon as we find our solutions.

ukaface:
But I didn’t

Your problem

ukaface:
Mtcheeeew

Radarada

You could have just skip the post.

DystopianMuse:
E PAIn am!! Rapist

Like I said before, stop being an idiøt ijn.
I'm adding, GROW UP now.

codedgalaxy:
Op your partners are tensed which results in dryness and difficulty in penetration. Maybe because you doing a sloopy job, and they can tell you're an amatuer at it.
Trust me if a woman feels your vibe wella everything will be running out of her hole. From creaming to squirting to orgasm and lots more.
Which can somtimes be embarassing cause, you be bringing out your bed to sundry after the act damn!
I would have ascribed it to health issues but it doesnt look like its one since same thing occured with two diffrent girls.
My advise try to up your game.
There is more to sex than the act.
Sex is more of mental game than you think.
For there is a way you ooz profond charisma, a woman will be so drenched in her wetness just cause of a single glance from you damn.
Let me not cap much.
You can always come for extramoral lessons lol.

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Codedgalaxy

Are you sure you read my post well?
I said, my first girlfriend I had s*x with, I never experienced penetration difficulties, while my girlfriend now and the girl I will spend the rest of my life with, I struggle to penetrate her during s*x.

matify83:
She is frigid resulting in vaginismus

Hmm, make I browse about the meaning of this one lol

Nezero:
Plenty of pre-intimacy.

Communicate.

Take plenty of time.

Explore her body.

And if e no still happen as you like, laugh over it and try again tomorrow

Thanks for this.
That's exactly what we've been doing o. We laugh over it and I make her understand that we still have many years ahead for it to get better
But I really need solutions. Is frustrating.

fyzaila:
As if you don't know it's not good.

Why is it not good?
For your information, my life is not guided by some religious laws.

DystopianMuse:
Stop taking advantage of the naive girl ijn.

Stop being an idiøt ijn

fyzaila:
Stop fornication, abstain till marriage.

Why?

illicit:
Maybe watch porn together

Really appreciate this and will give it a try.

But is actually a weird one lol

illicit:
Either she's stiffening or not wet

🥵

Advice me please.

How can I get her to stop stiffening or become very wet?

Because I actually do lots of romance and foreplays before attempting penetration.

budaatum:
Age has nothing to do with maturity. And this is not about being "mature enough to have sex", but about having mature knowledge about sex.

It is obvious that the op, despite his age, is not sexually mature, probably due to him focussing on becoming mature in other more important things.

Okay, I agree I am totally not sexually matured.

That is why I'm curious and want to know if this is normal for some girls, especially ones with limited sexual experience. Also, I want to know how we can improve this.

Thanks

budaatum:
It is nature's way of protecting girls from men till both parties are mature enough to understand the consequences of what they intend doing.

It is a relic today, as humans have found a way to lubricate and enter and mitigate the circumstances.

So a 27 yo male and a 22 yo female are not matured enough to have s*x?

And between, at 22 when I first had sex, penetration wasn't a problem at all.

Itooweak4una:
Do you know something called "lubricant"?

You can get it at any supermarket or pharmacy close to you.
But if you're too shy, use olive oil or vaseline to massage your penis before penetrating.

Thanks for your suggestions.

Actually I noticed it could be a lubrication problem, which made me get Durex lube at some point but still there was no much difference. Tho it became quite better.