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Bintabisiriyu2:
Bro if you put yourself first before any other thing in life then it will be very easy for you to move on after a break up, but if you put your partner first then you will languish in pains after it's over while she pops champagne.

Time to man up.
Thanks bro

chatinent:
What if the problem is actually you?

I wasn't perfect but the problem is most definitely not me.

She had a flaw she blatantly said is her right.

A couple of times we had issues about it, she still insists I should be provisional to her like I am her father.

Well, I have had my fair share of providing for her not until I asked myself some serious futuristic questions.

Providing for her wasn't a problem as I am quite comfortable but I asked myself some reality check questions that made me call a quit to our relationship.

It doesn't mean I have totally moved on. I want to asap tho.

Sonnobax15:

Na guys wey dey apply this redpill ideology into your real lives I blame...

Well op, you've learned your lesson,and so did I,and many others.....But the truth is that,I think it's high time you moved on with your life completely...And stop expecting your next banny to have similar attributes and qualities that your ex had..... Anyhow she take come, just accept her like that so long say she dey give you love and most importantly peace of mind ✌️.....

Redpill only works for players. If you genuinely want to love or have seen someone you can actually marry, all redpills nonsense doesn't work. Guys loving is very real.

I won't even lie, coming here to write this is to get myself distracted. Relationship is so ugly when it is no more!

James4358:
Move on. U think of her because the break up is stil fresh. There are over a billion women in this world! Finding one that suits ur bliv shouldnt be a problem. Time will certainly heal u.
get busy for now. And delete evry trace of her around u. U can hit the Gym or play soccer at ur spare time.
Shalom!

I will try and do more sports. And it goes as far as changing my present city if possible. Everything reminds me of her despite having deleted everything about her in 2 days after our breakup. Even burnt the stuffs she got for me a few weeks back.

Zee0007:
You will be fine. Burn all bridges. Go out more and make new friends. The spark will return. If you don't free her from your mind you will suffer it.

If I can pay to totally forget she exists, I will do so. Is causing me lots of emotional issues.

It's been 3 months already since I ended my relationship of almost 4 years.

Prior to the break up, I was planning to marry her this December or latest next year.

Somehow, I couldn't take her over entitlement issues anymore, had always tolerated this but suddenly my guns were out and I ended my good relationship with a girl I loved so much.

Now this is the problem I am facing now, been looking to get into another relationship because I can't stop thinking about my Ex.

She called a couple of times but finally moved on with another guy. Obviously a very lucky guy I must be honest.

My problem is that, I keep looking to see if a potential girl have the same characteristics as my ex. I loved my ex so so much.

This looking and looking has really affected my decisions of proposing to one.

I am even thinking of doing fasting and prayer before choosing my next, because my next will probably be proposed to for marriage. I also don't have time for an extended relationship again.

My advice to guys, no matter what the plan is, remain just friends with a girl you love and don't do an extended years relationship. Whether you are redpill, you will so much miss her like I am missing mine when it is over.

I am even on therapy now to forget this girl. Is like a juju on me.

Tallesty1:
Why are they not affecting other nations, currency? Why naira?

Help me ask these senseless people o!

helinues:
Like I have been saying, Gov Uzodinma is street rugged.

Both Uzo and Ihedioha had some deals in the last election

Even if Ihedioha won't be joining Apc, he should have the blessings of Uzodinma in the next Imo election.

Rub my back I rub yours

I wish I could block seeing your posts on this platform. You're so lucky this is a faceless forum.

idahme:
Men rarely do it unlike women who mainly base their minds because of how much money they can get from the relationship. With such women it's easier to call a quit since it's all about milking the man of his hard earned money.

My ex comes to mind.

4.39B/KM? 😂
This government eh. Tinubu and his gang are really doing the most!

Felabrity:
One thing I don't understand is why the Abia former governor is the face behind it?

Actually Ikpeazu is not the worst Abia governor Aba has experienced.

He did his little part, tho not in any way enough.

Alex Otti has shown in 10 months that in 4 years whatever Ikpeazu achieved in his 8 years term will be a total joke.

Auxtan:
Geometric wan wound us with 24/7 light for this Aba. Omooo!

I had to even go turn off my general control switch make my appliances breathe small. The light has been on for 3 days and counting. Omoooo!

Geometric wan wound us with 24/7 light for this Aba. Omooo!

helinues:
Same Reno Omokri knocked President Tinubu in the past, but the story is different now.

He must have made his findings to see which of his old beliefs is true.

Obi eventually came out as fake while president Tinubu came out as real

Such an nuisance this nigga

This is how it should be!

When a relative is hustling abroad and sending money home that probably means all you do is take care of home and do his assignments, you have to treat it with your best inputs like you will do for your office boss and he will be glad to promote you further.

I love this kind of brothers.

Jennyclay:
I can’t date or marry a teacher, farmer, mechanic bricklayer, plumber, oga Keke rider or bike rider and other dirty jobs. God forbid!!

Biko, it’s not me they will come and put in abject poverty. These set of men can murder or raise their filthy hands on a lady over any petty things one could think of

They don’t have money but they want true love. Shior!!

Nonsense men!!

You're simply empty upstairs.

No point letting us know. But trust me, is not because of his supporters you ain't supporting him. You have only 1 vote anyway.

At this rate, this is peak shamelessness from this old man.

Na Nigerians born your pikin? Why has his death become a burden on the Nigerian people?

Every week, Mohbad this, Mohbad that.

Instead of you to be mourning your son, you're hellbent on cashing out however you could from some very gullible and mumucentric Nigerians, using your son's death as a leverage.

Richtaiwo:
Northerners are very good in politics. Decoy is one of their most treasured fortresses. Politics is not as basic as the usual buying and selling of okirika clothes and spare parts. It goes far beyond that. It is also not about mounting 500 litre GP tanks in some places.

When a fuu speaks

FreeStuffsNG:
Smh. This is not a healthy way for you to learn and acquire knowledge.

Here's a report on Yoruba weddings in Lagos as far back as over a century ago: Lagos High Society Weddings Of The 1920s

https://www.nairaland.com/7791204/lagos-high-society-weddings-1920s

This was a time some people in present day South East, according to authoritative books written by foreigners and some of our Nationalists of Igbo extraction, were still walking unclad and not exposed to having societal parties where Yoruba spray money.

You can get a copy of this book and read. We appreciate our history when we learn about how our forebears lived.

Reno is right, spraying of money at social and private events is part of Yorubaland culture till date. Others learnt it from the Yoruba and it's not a bad thing in my opinion because it is a way to appreciate the celebrant but it's now to be done in a manner that you don't mishandle the naira. Even the EFCC lawyer who prosecuted Bobrisky, a Yoruba, and the Judge who convicted him are Yoruba!

How did you make this against Igbos abeg? You dey ment?

SkengRay:
No mind them . I no know say Mercury Retrograde fit dey affect these Redpillers

Did I tell you I be redpiller?

VinnyBaba:
You are forced to smell/inhale your Partner's Farts most times. 😟😌

You are forced to see their Dirty Armpits.😌😌

I swear, na girl be this 🤣

advanceDNA:
4 years .??
Baba u don suffer ooo....
U don audit ur finances...?? How much u lose in 4 years

Naa "window pain" dey do u....and because u never jam better woman.....

I pray to jam that better woman o

Sapasenator:
Billing is a no no. It's a big sign that you are going to settle for a big liability. You may never be successful in life with such kind of person.

Also, people can pretend to be truthful for a while and people do change as well.
You are only sure of yourself.

Thanks boss.

advanceDNA:
Lol ...u dey contradict urself .....


U know how u sound...?? Like person wey dey call yahoo boys brilliant and skillfull with bright future.

Boss you nogo understand sha lol.

As much as I left her for a critical thing I don't like, it doesn't mean she does not have qualities I like, that was why we lasted for close to 4 years in the first place.

advanceDNA:
Woman dey exploit you for her financial gain

But u dey say she get qualities u want.....
Abeg....which qualities....??

Pikin no sabi book...u say e get handwriting
Abeg Wetin make u use handwriting do??

She has skills, she is brilliant, she is truthful. Obviously her future is so bright, just a matter of time. Just that this her present day billings go make you doubt her love for you.

So I doubted her love for me.

Sapasenator:
Just take am easy. I married at 24, big mistake looking back. Focus on building and establishing yourself career wise, investment and assets while you continue to date and study the ladies.

Don't set targets for yourself and also when you do marry, go for a lady who has a career or business already. After marriage, 1 kid is enough and you go trully enjoy your life and marriage.

Words on a marble.

Sapasenator:
Marriage is like everyday life and honestly you will have to create happiness for yourself. Love is an emotional feeling which wears off over time.

It involves a lot of hard work and it's not easy to be a man, husband and father.

The Lord is your strength boss. Was planning to marry this year but na ex I get now.

Jeon:
Another joke.
😊

Lmao.. this one bitterness go kpai you

Sapasenator:
On a good side, I believe it's a good thing as a man to have lots of ex'es before finally setting down.

It's a learning curve of experience which prepares you for understanding and relating with the wife in marriage.

I never had an ex, I married my first girlfriend and seriously wished I had many ex'es before marriage.

How are you coping in marriage boss?

Jeon:
Thank God it was past tense.. And which love, Men that claimed to be tough, unemotional and have no feelings are capable of loving someone?


Too much jokes in this century.

I know na feminism or same sex dey worry you. My dear, I love ooo.. I love the opposite sex.