₦airaland Forum

FriedPlantain:
From the way you write, I can easily judge that you have a very low IQ.

whirlout: Same exact scenario as mine. Someone said perhaps I should talk to her parents which I did, her dad has pretty much pushed her to the side due to her behavior and her inability to listen to anyone. Her mother on the other hand who by the way is no longer married to her dad seems to be backing her on every action she takes. She's never came to visit her or my child and at this point, I already put my foot down that her mother is not welcomed in my house. I can't allow such devil in my household. Her siblings do come and one of her aunts as well but that's about it.

By the way, are u in Nigeria or outside 'cos you know u do have options regrading your kids. I 'll tell you this, NEVER, EVER abandon your kids and don't use the excuse that she took your kids is why you are not seeing them. So much as you know where your kids are, go for them, try to spend time with them and go through the system if you need to to get access to them. You don't ever want your kids to resent you for what seems like their abandonment. Two long months and not seeing your kids is just that.

Sarah a: Try to get intouch with her people,may be they could assist you regarding how to get back your kids.

opetu: My wife has been a torn on my flesh, giving me headaches daily. It happens dat I met her in my final year in school (fellowship), we got close just as friends nd within 7 mnths of knowing her one thing led to the other nd she got pregnant for me, well i accepted my responsibilty. telling my parents also, It was actually a thing of mixed feelingz, bein dat i am the only child of my parentz, at least thats like having a second child for dem. Long story short i decided to marry her cos of the baby..wit the notion dat we woud build our early relationship in marriage ..

Now issue is dat My wife doesnt like d idea when my parent come see me in my home, alwayz grummble, she doesn have a close relationship wit my mom, mom is alwayz sad about this..I ve been married for 5years now, ma kids ve only visited my parents for a week, anytime i bring up d idea of dem goin to see them..we always quarell!! just last week sunday ma parents left their home so dey come take d kids for d nu year break, i ddnt tell ma wife, but she found out, it was a fight that happened ....wit her tearing my clothes.. my old man nd momma both cried seein dis, dey had to travel back dat evening seein dat my so called wife ddnt welcome dem in my home, Dis is just d little i can narrate !!

I have two kids now, i kinda hate having a second child wit her, now am thinking divorce, which i dnt want to, tried to b patient, but its like shez getting evil advice from sumplaces everyday, how many years more does my parents ve on earth dat i wont make dem happy at least to be wit their grandkids!! at first i thought dis was normal, or is it a normal thing for mothers to cling to their child dat way?? maybe am too soft on her!! sigh i wish i never married her d first place, i only wanted to rewrite my mistake by marryin her.

Christianos: If this is not the right section to post this article, please forgive me.

We have suffered power outage in my area in the last 5 months; I mean it has not even blinked. During this period, we have continued to receive PHCN bills for "light" not used. Businesses have been crippled and robbers now operate freely under the blanket of darkness caused by the power outage.

Considering the reach and influence of this great forum, I am persuaded that someone in good position will read this article and take action.

Mods, please put this on FP, if it's not too much trouble. If the situation improves anytime soon, I'll surely be back here to thank you all.

mekaboy: Your wifes ex boyfriend who has been out of the country for long, came into your city and decided to visit. You where at work and came back, heard your wife gisting and laughing in the palour with drinks.

You came in, and your wife says, honey, guess who came into town to see us. You remember chucks my ex I told you about. He came into the country and stopped by to see us, he said he will be traveling another state today and decided to stop by.I told him you will soon be back from work so he decided to wait and see u.


Will like to know your reaction.

U really av to be shittng me...now seriously..which kind friendship goat dey do with yam....i seee blood ever where...abeg no dey reason dat kina thing.

hydrocarbon: Yea d best meat ever is dog meat....no dog meat..!no palm wine...heheheh

Slizbeat: Mehn, i woke this morning, yawning and coming out from my room, open the door to the outer part of my house,(living at a 5 storey-building, last floor) On getting to the corridor, i couldnt see the network mast in front of my house, also the buildings. At first, I thought my house was flying, not until i could see a trace of light from the building of my church. This was around 06:28a.m, even right now, cars moving on the roads still have their headlights on, so as not to hit any other vehicle. I cant even see MMIA, not even UBA, NITEL buildings e.t.c. Am not sure any aircraft would move or enter lagos today. Am at oke-afa Isolo, what is the condition of your area?

pekelepekele: N11m out of our money . It is we Nigerians that paid the kidnappers out of our tax money not Okonjo Iweala if not she would have wait on the police to rescue her mother after all a woman who gave birth to a woman of 50years old plus is good to die.

puskin: check dat your *559# very well.