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for you to have taken time to type up your garbage you certainly regard the white species as being superiority to you.

Stupedinluv:
Sigh.

Good but nothing mind blowing. Was expecting to see something out of the box.

I have no inferiority complex. Am writing to those that have.

Well done!

they are all mind blowing and can all be commercialized as well. to the laundry industry its mind blowing. when next u see a white person ask them wat they have invented.

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Stupedinluv:
What are they?

Things nobody has developed before?

What are their usefulness here in Africa first?

Who knows about your inventions and patents?

1. A design of an industry specific IT system (i have to be vague to protect my privacy).

2. A patented system for washing a particular part of clothes in washing machines - again i have to be vague to protect the invention. NOBODY HAS DEVELOPED THIS ONE BEFORE.

3. A price motion model for publicly traded stocks.

My dear, u r just suffering from inferiority complex. white man and black man both descended from Adam. I used to think like you before.

Stupedinluv:
It takes courage to admit the truth.

This piece is to provoke all black men to think, not just think but think by and for themselves.

you did not write anything factual. i have three inventions and patents all the oyibo ppl i know dont.

it all depends on the individual.

sagieramos:
I love this OP/woman. always formulating reasonable write-up. all u've written above is factually the truth.

it is not factual truth you brainwashed African. They have succeeded in brainwashing you.

Stupedinluv:
You have colonised north america?

there is an rccg or mfm parish in every US State, an African American president, Afrivan professionals working in many companies and bringing our culture to America and Canada.

Thats colonization.

Stupedinluv:
This is not another derogatory message to black men but hard and real facts they need to digest before anything.

Its high time they looked at themselves hard and cry and work for change i e if they would ever have the resources to cause change.

Look around you and admit that black men all over the world worship white men. Whether in business, politics, invention, culture, development,etc. They see them as gods and reverence and submit to them.

Why gods? because all worshippers seek to pattern their lives after a deity. They try to emulate beings that are far supreme. In the same line, all black men want to grow and develop the same way white men have!

Have you ever wondered why they must copy the white man?

1. White men are smart: Yes there are dumb white men but the ratio of dumbness between white men and black men can be about 1 :1000.

You doubt?
Then ask yourself how few ordinary men can storm a whole continent of able-bodied men and render all of them powerless. Turned them into subjects, colonised and still recolonising them and bought many as slaves in exchange for cheap goods like mirrors. They are smart! They dont just plan they strategise properly and are future oriented. Till today, we are yet to recover and you think we have the smartest men in Africa? Big joke.

Black men play cool. Cool. Cool helps nobody! They were playing cool when they smarties took everything they had. Everything. Their pride and their shame!!!

2. White men are brave and nature friendly: They are fearless generally. They are not afraid to try. They love, appreciate nature better. They can go to the last place in the universe just to behold the beauty of nature. They are explorers. White men are unstoppable. To stop a white man you must be ahead of him in all ramifications. This attribute has endered them respect and admiration. This is why nobody takes any research /invention seriously until it has been approved by them.

Can black men do a quarter of this without heavy support from the alpha males? Can they have a breakthrough at all? Your guess is as good as everybody's

3. White men are deep thinkers They are not after impressing anybody with long talks or grammar jargons, they are after knowledge and more knowledge. They know thats the only way to rule the world. They dont entertain washy-hushy shallow thoughts but go into details, thorough study and real life experiences. White men are deep!

4. They love themselves more For every one white traitor we have a million black traitors. Black men are their worst enemies. Dont blame this on colonisation/slavery because without your black traitors white men would have failed in their quest. Who knows! They may disagree amongst themselves but they would stand in for themselves anywhere.

They see beauty in their race and sell the best. They understand lifelong programming and it has worked for them.

They are not quick to pull themselves down.

5. White men sell the worst of black people to the world Its a game and they are smart! Black men are not that bad but white men have made the whole world see them as loosers and unfortunate people.

Everywhere they go, they are respected less. From CNN to Aljazerra to BBC it seems no good thing can come out from black men. What are black men on about this situation? They cry! Black men cry and shut up afterwards cos they know who runs the world!

And they cycle continues.

I cant believe 2 people actually liked this.

1. Africans are at least as smart as the white man. You are just regurgitating what has been programmed into your head. Black man and white man descended both ftom Adam.

2. Has no basis. Africans are even braver. We have colonised North America with variously MFM and RCCG parishes and professionals.

all the stuff you have said makes no sense except no 5. Why cant Nigerian come up with Aljazeera? Theres something about laziness prevalent in Nigeria as a country but not as an individual person; each person is different.

the attention wont last forever, it's only for a short season.

emusmith:
She is even defending herself. There is nothing wrong with thinking that you can jump down from a flying aeroplane and still be alive. So many movies that has filled your head with unequal fantacies that you can cheat karma. You open your legs for any guy in your youth and still expect to marry a decent man. Wake up! You reap what you sow, consciously.

dont mind them. men these days just marry risk and liabilities, independent feminists not wives.

some ask whats wrong with ladies 25+

the answer is looks have faded a bit which is wat drew the boys. at 25+ its hard for a woman to b in marriage without da husband being tempted by younger thingz which is why ladies were adviced to marry early otherwise be prepared for d husband to cheat on u with the house maid.

i wont go for a lady 25+ because there r too many nice young thangz to look at in my local area that will entice me especially in this day and age of skimpy clothing and im a faithful man to da wife.

What is in marriage for a guy assuming the guy does not want children and that he can get sex from a girlfriend who he will date for 3yrs before marrying her.

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VickyRotex:
If this is your view of what a woman has to offer a man, then you need to change your circle and way of reasoning. #NoApologies

in the olden days women offered more than sex. these days im not sure. list three benefits of marriage to a man in this day and age.

It really isnt because men are polygamous in nature.

1. Spirit of Polygamy/ Marine Spirit - this causes them to be going from one partner to the other. Deliverance is required.

2. Indecent Dressing - after you don see enough hot thighs, tight leggings/ shorts, you become dissatisfied with what you have at home.

3. Women Not Giving their prime years to their husbands - and giving it to boyfriends instead. Expect the man to sleep outside.

4. Greed and foolishness - most men are guilty of this.

Discuss.

profkingso:
When I first met my girlfriend I thought she was pretty. I've become emotionally attached to her but recently do not find her physically attractive a lot of the time. I've considered breaking up with her but when I think about doing this I get really sad and feel like I may regret it and wouldn't be happy to see her with someone else. So I decide to keep dating but notice myself not physically attracted a lot of the time and it upsets me. Sometimes I really don't look forward to kissing and things like that. I don't feel happy together sometimes but at the same time I feel very unhappy about the thought of breaking up and know I would miss her a lot. Whenever I've thought about breaking up I just can't bring myself to do it. What should I do?

she did not give you enough of her prime thats the issue.

Men and women of this thread have all spoken well.

Theres definitely a problem with greedy and bad men. Only the Creator will judge them.

A man exchanges youthful sex appeal for a lifetime of dedication and love. Give me some youthful sex appeal, and good behavior in return for a lifetime of taking care of you. This is why girls should marry early. Give ur visual prime to ur husband not boyfriend and ur husband wont forsake you. And this is the problem with indecent dressing. if ur husband marries you after a certain age after him see all da hot young sexy thighs him go begin think twice/ sleep outside.

All these girls in University should be getting married not waiting till they finish University or till they are rich. Or get married shortly after uni. your husband should be the main benefactor of ur body for the 10-15 years of prime youth i e. 18-35 You cannot cheat nature regardless of ur 'other good qualities'. Men are sexually attracted to nice leg and butt not to the "good quality" of singing hymns.

Men will always desire youth and visual appeal.

mercenary:
Don't judge ur liife based on the opinion of other people especially nairalanders... I've bn here 4 more the 6yrs so I know what am talking abt.


At 26 u're still good and ders no cause 4 alarm... This female marriage age is just a Nigerian stereotype.
Just focus more on building a great personality, and may I remind u, intelligence is sexy. You will attract the right people 2 urself.

Don't be desperate... Don't listen to the society, enjoy being single and when the right person comes u'll sure enjoy marriage.

wrong advice. Nigerians are hypocrites.

Youth is good. yes at 29 you can meet someone sure but he is going to cheat on you.

is flyover not highway ramp?

chinology:
Anything your Imo state do not have is never ideal. Is your useless and worthless Imo state better planned than states with flyovers? You are only bitter because your state is yet to have a single flyover in 2016. I know it's really frustrating, old man..


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flyover is a highway (called express in Nigeria) ramp. You drive on the flyover at 30km/hr then merge onto the express at 100 or 110km/hr.

it is better to avoid flyover construction. drivers already on the express wont allow others to merge eyc causing collissions.

Thou foul and perverse spirit from the sea, come out of him now!

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Fadekebisola:
am a woman ooo but i think this gender stuff is rather taken too far...imagine my dad who was already penciled down for a post he merited was dropped and the post given to a woman just bc they wanted to include women all in the name of gender equality..
dont misunderstand me as am a woman too....all am saying is that depriving people what they merit all bc of gender brouhaha is an injustice to the person who merits such esp in my father's case

was this in Nigeria or abroad?

Women are the properties of men that can be disposed at anytime. Those who recognise this and act as such succeed with women. those who 'love' women fail.

They do better than their naija counterparts in covering themselves & in loyalty to their men thru strict religious upbringing.

they are pretty too.

they can be easily converted to christianity.

Whats the best way to date these babes?

swiftycool:
That's good
Meaning women can become breadwinners while the men will stay home with the kids, send the house girl on errands and later watch telemondo and gossip with the boys while waiting for madam to come back from work. Aint that some bliss?

and even sleep with the hotter househelp while waiting for madam to arrive.

this is why gender equality will fail. women dont like men who treat them as equals. feminism will fail ppl.

OP you should treat your next woman as your property that you love not one you are trying to please.

They forget say na man dey marry them not the other way round whether or not they have money or not.

women should pay 50% of wedding costs so that they can maintain their independence in the marriage union.

aminatawa:
Out of everything you have just said what I like the most is the part where you said her husband's partnership can help her achieve her goals. But, there one thing I want to know, are you speaking on behalf of all men (husbands)?

I speak on behalf of all professing Christian men (husbands) who are good men. Good men do not kill their wives ambitions. Its a case of wife help husband with his goals husband help wife with her own goals. sort of help me i help you nobody go vex :-)

KashyBaby:
This is the thing, any lady who is successful in her career , have a house,car, everything & a feminist can barely find a man that will approach her coz of her strong personality...a lot of men will be intimidated to ask her out coz they feel that they're not the right man for her

No my dear you are very misinformed. Men are not attractes to wealth nd degrees. We are attracted to your good character, fear of God, youth and standing breasts.

By the time these women achieve their 'success' their sexual market value has gone down.

the mistake is ppl believe marriage is a hindrance to their progress. The greatest women were all married raised their kids if they wanted kids before conquering the world. Even if the woman doesnt want kids, her husbands partnership can actually help her achieve her own goals faster. people dont think i swear.