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lots of women these days ride the cock carousel and later want men to raise her kids.

if her mum remarried, and she has remarried twice, it could be a generational spirit that needs to be broken.

go to mfm both of u for deliverance sessions before starting the marriage.

i presume she is a 'fine' girl. physical beauty is meaningless. dont follow a girl just because she is 'fine'

Darven:
Merry christmas to the only woman I have ever truly loved. I wish you all the best and may you enter into a prosperous new year happy and beautiful as always.

I know you are still going to ignore this and act like I don't exist but I just want you to know that no matter how you hate me, it won't stop me from loving you.

I love you, sweet heart.

havent u ever seen a pretty face before?

does anyone have this? the contact us section of their website is not working.

1. never trust a woman.
2. all relationships are ephemeral.
3. Trust God for a partner, if one messes up, pick another. its a mans world.
4. Never fall in love.

beauty dont equate character. she could b a witch for all u currently know!

sashaa:
Not 'our' but your fathers were paedophiles.
And yes, anyone that is attracted to a minor is a paedophile. Male or female

you are just jealous. my own mum gave birth to my first brother at 18.

is it better for a girl of 16 years of age to defile herself with multiple boyfriends until 24-25 and have numerous transfer of spirits in that time that she will bring to wreck her husbands home or is it better for her to marry straight up at 21 with the man she met at 16?

You see most people dont think...

I am going to speak the truth. I know many people are neither bold nor do they have capacity for authentic thinking. I am sorry if my post offends.

Women were supposed to go from fathers house straight to husbands house. women need to be guided. the age of consent in many western countries is actually 16. Many of you are trying to make whoever sound dirty/ pedo. Check the law in your country, if the law is 16 or 18 obey the law.

Women when not under control stray themselves. before parents helped choose wives for their daughters now the girls are choosing bad boys. before women would marry young around 17 and still go to university (good choice), today they make the foolish mistake of putting self, career, etc above their homes; they ride the cock carousel and later discover in their late 20s/ 30s interest is not as high. the OP is expected to grow the girls character and guide her.

Want to call me a pedo? then go f**k urself. Men are attracted to young women - the Bible says rejoice in the wife of your youth not the wife of your old age. the OP is being straight - it is better to pick what you into as long as its legal than to go pick what you not into then cheat. Secondly its not as if he is forcing the babe. It is good the man goes for her while legal and save her the wildness that university is. women are supposed to be controlled (in a good way).

So OP ride on legally and let the haters go f**k themselves. in our parents generation, 18 yr old was normal, whats the difference between then and now??

well the main issue he cites with sitting abroad and waiting for a job is time passes quickly.... you fit de wash plate/ do security man/ call center and all you can do is pay rent and living expenses with no savings. he thinks even as he is struggling in naija maybe start up a business and is waiting, if something works out abroad, all well and good. but to sidon house de wait job, he is tired and he doesnt want to do security man/ call center since they lead to no where.

he is coming to nigeria to look for a job right now because Canada is basically dried up - economy in not so good shape; basically he has not been fortunate enough to land something great so wants to explore opportunities in Nigeria. I know there are few jobs in Nigeria, I have told him that. But he says if he can get a job of 250k/ month, he will move. He is into IT Consulting targeting Accenture, KPMG, etc - but yawa go gas if dem no gree take am. its better to relocate with an offer in hand than land and start looking?

Hello,

My cousin was thinking of coming back to Nigeria from America and wanted to ask the following questions:

1. What is the best way to find a low cost private driver - what is the best way to select to avoid dangerous people. He will need one for 3 months before he finally gets used to driving again in Nigeria.

2. He is looking for a flat or mini flat to rent - which reliable vendors should he approach? Ikeja Maryland, Ikeja tollgate, mushin and surulere areas.

3. For those who have shipped a car from USA to Nigeria before, how much are we looking at?

4. Is it advisable to find a job before arriving? Is visiting offices to apply better than online applications? What works?

the question should be asked this way. Why do females enjoy incessant attention and gnucking only to want to get married when close to expiry.

they made themselves available to men to be used.

the power of a woman to use sexual power to entice men wanes when and if:

i. men will be men and realize they were ordained to control women.
ii. men obtains varied options of pretty faces.
iii. fears God
iv. The woman passes the age of 28.

and evangelical outreaches like Benson Idahosa and Uma Ukpai did.

Tequilah:
I beg leave dat side. There are many men whose wives are at their beck & call, ready to make love with them, but it still doesn't stop such men from looking outside. Many of those women have schooled on how to take care of a man, especially when it comes to the aspect of the marital bed. Ask Calabar babes. You wan try? Yet, a number of such men are still unsatisfied with these fine chics at home.

One of my friends told me the other day: "how can a man be eating 'amala' at home, every day? Once in a while, he would long for the taste of fufu..." I just replied him, "Don't worry, I will let your wife know that you called her 'amala', and that you have gone to seek for 'fufu' outside your home."

true sha.

not justifying adultery or fornication but if his own wife was giving im sure he wont go outside

they wont talk so as not to cause offense or feel like perves.

i just need someone tall and slim with average looks. will take her over some pretty faced lady anyday.

craziebone:
misogyny! Misogyny!! Misogyny!!! That's all i see in your post, hypocrite!

E dey pain you say de girls no give you when you asked them in their most youthful age abi? My dear pls give it up! You are no good enough for them to spnd their most beautiful days with you. You are only good for remnant, accept it already!

The girls are suppose to keep it calm while the guys are suppose to go all out doing whatever they feel like. You seem not to be very critical of men's sexual adventure but you went straight out at the women. #Misogyny

you are asking that our ladies get married in their 17s- 21s like our parents did? Why don't you tell me how educated our parents are compared to our current generation? Or are you going to tell me you don't know how important education is for the present day lady to even be the kind of wife YOU would like marry? Are you going to deny that it takes really long for her to achieve that level of education that will make her attractive to you so that she could be of the best help to you when yo marry her?

I am so saddened by behaviour on this thread!

u have too much time on ur hands and for the record i have my pick of very very young women.

all im saying is instead of having five boyfriends leading up to marriage the husband being the sixth for example, young women of today should formalize things a bit with their men.

many r the 31 year old desperate women. just advicing them to settle while younger thats all.

marriage today seems not a wise choice. girls in their most attractive years r enjoyed by their bfs. the mumu husband go come carry after. mschew.

young damsels no longer want to settle down. they want to be 'free'.

in our parents times girls got married much younger im talking 17-21 so it made sense to wait. today they get married 26+ while their bfs de hammer t hem. who can actually wait those years? whose the idiot?

f8fine:
it's very sickening to know that propagators of moral-degrading theories like this fellow are taking their evil concepts into bewildering dimensions. If one never had a chance of doing a "trial test" of the family to which one was born or the gender which one came with during birth, how thoughtless is it to advocate for sex "trial test" before marriage?

Abstain from premarital sex because its consequences are too grievous to bear!

im coming back to address you fully.

jascon1:
I can't believe I ended reading a trashy piece of sheet like this. Sex guarantees nothing in a relationship. If your mind isn't there, no amount of sex will keep you. We fake things that aren't real. In a few years to come, you will confirm that holding on saves a lot of headaches.
That's why blacks keep feeling marginalised, coz they spend precious time looking for and giving sex, partying and following trends.

why are Nigerians such hypocrites and liars? u know its important you still claim it isnt.

fyi whites always show display of affection including in public places. the religious ones among them leaving sex till marriage still hold hands and such.

all these girls pursuing career first....

KashyBaby:
Yeaaah it's always a great feeling when both of have the same feelings, in love to each other..but if ur still young like if ur in ur early 20s , girl enjoy ur life first
I always believe, marriage is not for everyone...

bad advice. u want her to join the 30+ women rushing to mfm every weekend seeking husband.

it is men that have that luxury of postponing marriage.

Nelrulez:
The OP to me is not that attractive, I keep wondering why she's getting sexual advances from men. Young woman check sense of dressing . Maybe you dress seductively because I don't see you to be that attractive to a state that every guy you work under would want to get in-between your laps. #Just saying. On to the main issue, I won't suggest you not going to see the director. The best bet is for you to unseat the bastard. You can as well tell the man that you've lost interest working with his coy but you not going to confront the reggae blue guy is cowardice. Trust me dude ain't gat nothing to do to you.

if guys r chasing her like that she need deliverance because shes not that hot.

Nelrulez:
The OP to me is not that attractive, I keep wondering why she's getting sexual advances from men. Young woman check sense of dressing . Maybe you dress seductively because I don't see you to be that attractive to a state that every guy you work under would want to get in-between your laps. #Just saying. On to the main issue, I won't suggest you not going to see the director. The best bet is for you to unseat the bastard. You can as well tell the man that you've lost interest working with his coy but you not going to confront the reggae blue guy is cowardice. Trust me dude ain't gat nothing to do to you.

exactly.... the babe aint that hot to warrant such attention.

sacking the manager is 50% of the issue solved. the new manager could lust after her.

OP is average looking. forget about my PM to u OP. Go to Youtube search: dr stella familiar spirit. listen to the message then note the prayer points.

it could also be OP is very young i.e. under 23 and just has da power of a pretty young lady...

OP do u were trousers? tight clothes? start wearing gowns and niqqab and pretend to b muslim.

u need to pray familiar spirit prayers im gonna send u and no im not trying to get into ur pants with religion i already have enough pretty women. just sent u a msg.

u could be worried by familiar spirits of lust that cause men to uncontrollably lust after u to that extent.

If you are a lady born again, nice and industrious, charming, tall and slim, 18-20 add me on bbm: 59bf7d(4-1)(4+1).