Business › Re: NYIF Loan Discussion Thread by Ayobami0411: 8:34am On Mar 22, 2021 |
Philadelphia: Nigerian be wise!
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Come and see this guy o Oga dat silexsecure@gmail.com is real... |
Politics › Re: Hijab Crisis: CAN Hasn’t Learnt From History, Says MURIC by Ayobami0411: 1:10pm On Mar 18, 2021 |
Sterope: Hijab is also a uniform for the Muslim girls. But not school uniform... |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: NCDMB 2020 Oil and Gas EH & GT Jobs by Ayobami0411: 5:51pm On Mar 11, 2021 |
Attahir180: I am not trying to discourage anyone but to be sincere if you have a 2.2 without masters then you will be disqualified. Forget that thing bro. It will shock u because dis is Nigeria |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: NCDMB 2020 Oil and Gas EH & GT Jobs by Ayobami0411: 7:49pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
Abkay95: Sir, HND and BSC are non-equivalent. it was clearly stated on the requirements for this job that those with HND(Distinction or Upper) must have a masters degree..........case closed Oga ITK ... In as much there is no option to fill HND, fill Distinction for First Class, Fill Second class upper for Upper Credit and wait for the recruitment team to judge and not one analyst from one corner |
Business › Re: NYIF Loan Discussion Thread by Ayobami0411: 4:38pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
Linzo: Guys I'm stock here here, what do I write on the purpose of loan I have type what I feel is the purpose but the keep telling me use the "match format" What is the match format? Just keep it short like "For start up" or "for business expansion" |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: NCDMB 2020 Oil and Gas EH & GT Jobs by Ayobami0411: 2:02pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
All these from credible or is incredible source, percentile percentage people, 10am 12 midnight pple... I think we can rest now... Some just saying things dat favour dere score... |
Business › Re: NYIF Loan Discussion Thread by Ayobami0411: 12:11am On Feb 22, 2021 |
For those having difficulty in the registration. Try puffin browser especially at midnight. If u face any hurdle, clear the history data cache and relaunch back. It worked for me. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I Just Got This Message From NYIF by Ayobami0411: 12:10am On Feb 22, 2021 |
For those having difficulty in the registration. Try puffin browser especially at midnight. If u face any hurdle, clear the history data cache and relaunch back. It worked for me. |
Education › Re: David Oyedepo And His Brutality In Covenant University by Ayobami0411: 11:39am On Dec 15, 2020 |
Discipline is not enjoyable when been served but it pays at the end.... YOU WANT TO BE FREE GO TO PUBLIC UNIVERSITY.... THIS IS A CHRISTIAN UNIVERSITY, WITH NOT JUST INSTRUCTIONS BUT GODLY INSTRUCTIONS.... Is only your parent that knows why they send you there not necessarily because of strike in public university but because they want to instill discipline and fear of God in you... YOU CAN AS WELL LEAVE, IS NOT BY FORCE.... |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: OilandGasJobs Recruitment 2020 by Ayobami0411: 11:44am On Nov 16, 2020 |
lunacol: 98% This is possible for GT.... Is nearly impossible for EH, even if you av seen all the questions, the answers are not readily available except u got the questions with the marking scheme answer together. I score 58% n dey sent 59% to my mail as EH. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: OilandGasJobs Recruitment 2020 by Ayobami0411: 1:16am On Nov 15, 2020 |
fashrola: Yes 2 people..... I'm sure they wont upload it here ..... Who e no go sweet if plenty people no pass?  Oga dis tin hard... kindly help ur guy... I dm u |
Sports › Re: Obafemi Martins' Cars And Speed Boat (Photos) by Ayobami0411: 12:20am On Nov 03, 2020 |
Instead of him to come and invest in Nigeria youth through grants or any form of empowerment. Atleast some of the youth will make good use of it and the community will benefit a lot from it and you'll be forever be remembered for good gesture, but instead they keep living the life of I don't care for their country since have make it. |
Celebrities › Re: Regina Daniels Gives Birth To A Baby Boy (Photos) by Ayobami0411: 4:57pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
Congratulations and God bless the child... Not all those local champions Nigeria ladies dat will b posting there belle up and down on social media on top belle wey dem get for one irresponsible fvckin man... |
Politics › Re: Florence Ajimobi: Seyi Makinde Played Politics With My Husband’s Death by Ayobami0411: 2:14pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
Dis woman get issue sha... just airing nonsense to d press... u failed to inform d state government all thru d crisis but u were able to let d likes of Osinbajo n Obasanjo know dat dere is one GRA land that u intend to bury ur husband so as to later claim the land dat dere was litigation with dis ur selfish interest now putting blame game... Tell d whole world ur TRUE PAIN is over d land... Beta go n do factory reset of ur family. |
Politics › Re: Obaseki Nominates Shaibu As Running Mate by Ayobami0411: 1:23am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Nice one... d man has a proven loyalty faa |
Politics › Re: Edo 2020: Igbineweka Emerges APM, Governorship Candidate (Photos) by Ayobami0411: 1:10am On Jun 29, 2020 |
All these where two or three gather political parties sha... At last, is just to collect money n tell dere member to vote n support another candidate from those strong political parties... Arrant nonsense |
Politics › Re: Florence Ajimobi And Rauf Olaniyan In Exchange Of Words (video) by Ayobami0411: 12:57am On Jun 29, 2020*. Modified: 2:17pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
Ur husband doesn't know how to talk wen he was d governor and u still pick up his idea as if the state government was officially informed.... call u ko, call u ni.... who u b.... dat d deputy governor was around to commiserate wit d family sef has really speaks a volume of d govt good intention not dis arrogant display as d deseased wife... Go vex for dem at Agodi... radarada |
Politics › Re: Nicknames Associated With Ajimobi by Ayobami0411: 12:09am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Zoie: The problem I have with Righteousness89 is not his preaching. No. It is the fact that he doesn't demonstrate emotional intelligence. How can you read that someone died and next thing "if he didn't believe in Jesus, by now he's roasting in hell"? It reeks of apathy. And that's just one among many things he says. Nairaland is a secular forum, there's religion section, to write your posts but no. Every post you find him threatening fire and brimstone on non believers.
THIS MUST STOP. If Righteousness89 doesn't desist from his ways, I call for a motion to report him till he's banned. No to religious terrorism. And how has this been a problem to you... Someone can't boost of his belief again.... Keep the good work bro righteousness |
Politics › Re: MURIC Warns Amotekun: Leave Fulani Alone, Stop Endangering Lives Of Yorubas by Ayobami0411: 1:53pm On Jun 26, 2020 |
This man should just com to North n b claiming Yoruba Muslim, dey will surely show him way to his early grave... Dis one dat he is just itting at the comfort of his bedroom writing rubbish... He shud com n pass some highway here in North... Nonsense and ingredients |
Romance › Re: Is She Using Me To Satisfy Her Sexual Needs?? by Ayobami0411: 10:23pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
@OP shebi dey are advising to stop n save ur head... u dey form champion and strong head f**cking guy... Don't worry, it will surely end in tears, verily verily I say unto u... wot u ar sowing, u will definitely reap. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Have An Inquiry? by Ayobami0411: 9:55am On Jun 06, 2020*. Modified: 11:52am On Dec 15, 2020 |
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Family › Re: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by Ayobami0411: 11:55am On May 25, 2020 |
Divine89: Hello everybody. I am Nigerian based in France. My English it is not 100% perfect but I will try to make it possible for you to understand me with the help of google french to English translator and my story is also long sorry for that.
When I was 9 years old I joined my uncle, my mum's younger brother in France. He declared me as his daughter. During that time he only had one child, 2 years old. He and the wife were so loving to me. I never lacked anything in their house.
But when I turned 12, I went to secondary school. I met some bad friends there. This is where the problem started.I became a very difficult child. I will go to school come home late. My uncle will beat and beat me but I never listened. I smoked my first cigarette at 12 and had my first sex at 13 and I started running away from home to stay with boyfriends. Sometimes I can go for a week and when uncle reporta me missing, the police will be looking for me, then they will bring me back home.
Then at 14 I went to school and lied to my teacher that my uncle was abusing me. I told them he was beating me with belts, electric wire, they don’t give me foods and I really said a lot of bad things about them doing to me to make my teacher believe my story so they could take me away from them because I wanted freedom and my teacher believed me and reported to the police and child protection, they are people who take away abused children from their parents. They took custody of me and my uncle three children, the youngest was 6 months old to their care and they gave us to this white lady to care for us and my uncle and wife were arrested for child abuse and the police were doing some investigation.
After spending 1yr 9 months in care of the white lady I dropped out school. They found out that I was a difficult child that I lied to get freedom so they have decided to give my uncle his children back to him while I stayed in care of white people but my uncle had sworn because I made him lost his children for 1yr 9 months that I will never found happiness in my life and I will never enjoy the fruit of my labour which it is true as I am typing this.
I have given birth to 6 children by 6 men and none of the children is living with me. The first one was taken away from me at 2 months old because I beat her up and fractured her hands and I also tested positive for heroinn (drugs), so that did not stop me from giving birth second child was removed from my care 4 hours after birth she also tested positive for heroin the same way my other children were removed at birth too so I carry on with my lifestyles. I did not care about my children at that time all I care about was sex, alcohol and drugs this is what I wanted and I have been to prison several times for selling drugs and fraudsters. The longest I have spent in prison was 2 years then after i left prison, I met with this sister who introduced me to this church she attended so I went along with her, the pastor told me to confess my sin to him and promised it will be a secret between I, him and God which I did repented and accepted Jesus as my saviour. To be honest, my life did changed a lot, I fell the peace in my heart , enjoyed going to church every Sunday but this pastor went tell his wife my life story and the wife told everyone in church my life story and started using it against me so it made me so angry that I left the church in November 2017 without looking back. I have decided not to attend any church again. I have stopped alcohol, taking drugs and sleeping with men I no longer do it. I prayed at home, read my bible and behaving good and it's almost 2 years I havnt slept with a man and i went to look for my uncle asking him for forgiveness but he has refused and I send him many text messages begging him to forgive and I still no heard anything from him or the wife even their children I have tried to ask them forgiveness they have blocked me and they all want nothing to do with me even my own parents and siblings in Africa they have rejected me, none of them want to talk to me, my parents said i am dead to them, it is so painful I cry everyday in my prayers, as for my children 4 of them are adopted with new family. I can't see them again maybe until they are 18 years old If they want to know me if they don't want I will have no choice to accept it and my 2 youngest children i am only allowed to see them once a year in a children play centre with someone supervise because they don't let me to be alone with them and soon I will stop visiting them because they are planning to adopt them to a new family too that will mean I will have nobody on this earth.
I regret my mistake so bad I wish I could change it but it will no be impossible. I can't have more children because they will be removed from me like the others and I am only 31years old. I don't know if my repentance was genius because my family has refused to forgive me and my question goes like this if they never forgive me will I ever found happiness again or I will just have to accept it until I died?
Please, advise me in a Christian way maybe if there's more I can do and also prayed for me so my family will be able to forgive me and also pray for my two children that nobody will adopt them so I can get custody of them and i promised to be a good mother to them, please I am begging you in the name of God. God has forgiven u... D rest too may have forgiven u... Now my honest advice is that u shud try sowing a good seed, this will bring unto u good harvest.... Now that u av changed, trust God to make ur children secure wherever they are and be up and doing seeing others people children to be fyn. Involve in bringing out the best in others people children, involve in children right and training, sow into their lifes, bless them with ur God given capacity and resources like d way u would av done to your children. Be children voice and advocate... Impact children lifes, take others people children growth, development and welfare as yours.... THAT IS THE SEED, IT WILL SURELY GROW AND YOU WILL HAVE A BOUNTIFUL HARVEST... JESUS CHRIST OUR HOPE |
Romance › Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Ayobami0411: 1:45am On May 22, 2020 |
Acmepreneur: This my guy is not serious at all.
I used to tell myself change is the only permanent thing in life bla bla bla. And I really believe that once you take the right steps, you can be anything you want to be. This made me to be very soft with people.
When I started dating my Boyfriend, I really was not choosy or judgy. I accepted him without a second thought. I'm not the type of lady that actually do all those lady stuff, I'm a very serious person and I don't play games at all. My BF is very cool, like not bad looking, normal behaviour etc and I like him a lot.
I'm a very ambitious person, with an extremely big dreams, my boyfriend is also hard working, but I'm not seeing any future at all with his career/prospects/life. When I say I'm with big dreams, it's means I'm working on discovering (new innovations), planning big business that would compete with top brands etc. I'm that big in dreams.
My children is also very important to me, I don't plan for their sufferings at all. I'm an introvert, I find solace in my aspirations, dreams. I have books I work out those formulas (I mean how I would execute my business plans), I research a lot, think a lot etc
Our fight now
Since day 1, I do tell him to do this and that. I really hate company works, so I would tell him to have savings, and be building something sideways where he works. Also, I wanted him to do Masters, since he said he would love to travel out, he's always saying he hates Nigeria bla bla bla. His dad also wanted him to do Masters, but he's in the crew of Masters is a waste of time, and he can't do Masters in Nigeria bla bla bla
Baby try this business, he would say he doesn't have money, he needs 2 million to start a business etc.
Meanwhile, he doesn't have money to travel out of the country to do Masters, nor 2m to start any business. So I would tell him to manage what he has first, and that would propelled him later, but he likes to talk like illiterates that Masters is meaningless.
Meanwhile, while that is true, those things are just like investment, you don't know when you will see an opportunity to use your Masters certificate, and since he studied computer science, I told him that it can even help him get a job outside Nigeria when he leaves, that it can be useful there. I understand the situation of the country, but not having masters doesn't mean you will get a job as well, so why don't you just have it.
My bf would shut me off, and also his dad, the dad even asked him to take job at the federal university where he works, but my bf said he can't work in that place, this is a federal government job o, he would say the salary is too small and people there already knows him, because his dad is in a big office in the university.
So it won't seem like I'm disturbing him, I went quiet, but might chip it in in discussions, but I don't fight him on those things. He works in a small company, and he rose to the position of a Manager, he spent all his time in office, the little time to waste with his friends. It's a good thing but I'm not comfortable with that, the pay is about 90k, which is not enough for his expenses, also he's the first born.
Fast forward to last year, his dad died, it looks like a film trick to him, he now have to take care of his siblings and mum (mum is nurse, but retired long time ago, her pay is little because it wasn't normal retirement). Everything I was telling him finally came to pass.
He rented an apartment with His friends, he later hated it, and said he wants his own, he went to rent an apartment of 600k (he gathered it from different places and he borrowed), which I really hate and we fought on that as well. Because he could have used the money to secure his life in a better way, since his complain when I told him to start a business is that he doesn't have money bla bla bla
He will not apply for better jobs as well He's practically doing nothing to grow, and would say he hates Nigeria and he would like to leave, but he can't even apply for scholarships or even google schools.
So this 2020, Jan 1, I started fighting him, that I'm not going to continue with him like that, that he should go apply for MSC, start a business or just do something. He now started saying that he has responsibilities which are his siblings, I told him this is the nonsense, he would do till the year ends, we will fight and later resolve it.
He won't even talk about it, or get reminded, he makes me feel Hus boss is using him. I have told him several times how he would be used and dumped, in fact, he makes me say negatives sometimes, and that's because I have seen people that get dumped while working with companies and they fall back to grass, my mum won't even accept him because he works in a company, small company, not cocacola or big companies. My mum hates company works like shits because we've heard and seen people falling to zero due to company jobs.
The problem 1. He says I'm disturbing his life, and not allowing him to rest
2. I'm not happy with him living that way, with no future, no investment, hes not building himself while working, hes not doing courses, not learning any skills, and I think its too risky. His current salary is not enough for him, not to talk of me collecting part of it. But he gives me money though, has not been more than 1k, 2k and data subscription which I really appreciate.
3. I can't introduce him to my family because I want him respected. Truth is I don't know what he would say to impress my parents because I'm not even impressed with him. And I want him to be superloved and respected. I believe in first impression would last very long. He has introduced me to his family and all friends
4. He never ask me about my own life, aspirations, advice me etc, I'm always the one to do that. Yesterday he had the gut to tell me I'm not caring because of just two days of not showing care
5. Corona has turned his company outside down and he's highly affected. Just like all what I was telling him finally happened, and he has nothing to fall back at. He has a car,
6. I can't marry him or anyone this way, and I'm getting old, though and I want marriage next year. He said he wants too, but I can't marry him like this. And I don't want to get to late twenties, and he breaks up and I start looking for husband, people would be thinking maybe I have a problem that is why I'm yet to marry, they won't know that its him that caused my delay. Plus I have a very high esteem, so I would hate to be desperate for marriage with a man or be the one to be wanting marriage so much in a relationship
7. Right now, we have temporarily break up, so I'm asking if I should break up or make up? Because he was saying rubbish last night
Note: I'm not a fan of dating and rubbish, I love him very much and I don't want to leave him at all. I don't think there's any man I can date as I do not like dishonesty at all and 95% of men are dishonest. My BF is very honest and good I'm every other aspect OP am only seeing you trying to polish a man to suit your own ambition maybe as a result of what you av experienced in life while growing up but to be honest with you, it doesn't walk that way with a man... U can only influence a man if you are competent enough as a lady, u can't force him and to me, this guy is doing well, is not lazy, he may even not have passion for business or any entrepreneur you are thinking, he is honest wit u, very open wit u, atleast u know where his interest lies.... Haba.... u just work on ur entrepreneur skills if he allows it, den u continue with the relationship In short, stop being a burden to him if u can't respect him for his decision as a man... Stop trying to control a man, u can only influence him |
Politics › Re: Osinbajo On Self-Isolation. Holds Video-Conference Call With Staff - The Sun by Ayobami0411: 9:48am On Mar 25, 2020 |
Osinbajo tests negative for coronavirus. Source vanguard |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by Ayobami0411: 12:34pm On Apr 04, 2019 |
bujebudanu1: Oga. I wasn't the one that said they had 26million.
The quy I quoted said 26 million , made reference to punch and I replied with less than 300k applications.go through the thread and read again.
I won't answer anybody over this issue again.just know that I have first hand info.i won't bring my source here cos of security reasons
My own is to write exam and pass Other pushings can follow later
Peace I like this your moniker ooo.... bujebudanu1.... baba ooo |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Recruitment For INEC Adhoc Staff For 2019 Election Thread by Ayobami0411: 5:51pm On Jan 28, 2019*. Modified: 1:00pm On Apr 04, 2019 |
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