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 Romance › Re: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by ayobase(m): 9:40pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
bennyraz:Dont brag now....wait till then! |
| Romance › Re: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by ayobase(m): 9:39pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
candygosh: Or beta still; go to that change color box and click blue. You should see sometin like thisThanks for the concern, finally gerrit...thanks...na phone I dey use! |
| Romance › Re: How To Cheat Succesful With Your Partner. (copyright) by ayobase(m): 9:36pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
^ I don laugh die for here. The man wan run, but caught red-handed! . Im still laughing walahi! |
| Romance › Re: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by ayobase(m): 9:13pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
dont8: Waiting...I have dropped the bomb o! . I feel u jare my guy.....u r soooo representing! . Dubem3...I dey see u o! |
| Romance › Re: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by ayobase(m): 9:07pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
Pls, cldnt change to colour BLUE....Im still trying though! |
| Romance › Re: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by ayobase(m): 9:04pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
(Amidst Laughter) Believe me, I was tempted to copy and paste from MrBrown's and don8's....good points they have there.....Kudos! That would be copyright though, and not allowed. . (Looking sternly) Before coming on here tonight, I asked three (3) of my girlfriends this same question. Their response? You can guess. . Read what my Mother said also. ''Son, as far as I am concerned, a woman that wouldn't submit to her Lord, husband is not godly. She is not born again. Or rather still a kid to know what marriage entails, and........''. Thats my mother response. I did call her over some issues, and decided to chip in the question after our main discussion. My Mother? I love her for one thing. She will never compromise. What is not is not. Don't even try to explain it. A believer to the core she has been, and I pray that God will see through to the end. ''Do you think you children would have enjoyed a peaceful home if I didn't decide to be submissive to your father''. That wasn't a question as it sounded, but emphasizing. My mother's history before she met my Dad is a chapter for another day. Thats just by the way. . Well before I go on and on, I will like you to know this guy rapping, rather than calling him Mummy's Boy (Laughs). I remain my humble self, Comrade Ayobase. And without forgetting to acknowledge and honour the presence of the (amidst smiling) Moderator, Panel Of Judges, Co-debaters, Nairalanders, Guests, also Sexkillz for turning things around here, and Seun for the creation of this platform to convey our constructive views to the global village. . Im here to support the notion to be justly dealt with tonight, ''A Man Is Right to Assert His Superiority/Authority in a Relationship''. . Pls I will like us to get one thing clear based on the definition from dictionary. We are all familiar with those words making up the topic. But not to bore you, I will pick the suitable ones from the multiple definitions of each word. . -Man: A husband or a lover -Right: Morally right and acceptable. -Assert: State a fact or belief confidently. -Superiority: higher status or taking oneself better than others. -Authority: The power or right to give orders and enforce obedience. -Relationshsip: Marriage . From this definition, I can synonymously say ''A Husband is Morally Right and Acceptable to Confidently state his Facts and Beliefs because he is of Higher Status in the Marriage and/because he should give orders and enforce Obedience in the Marriage.'' . Im very sure I have been able to convince you with that. But resting my fingers here might leave some confused. . The way the Husband handles his wife (putting the house in order or chaos), will surely tell on the Child(ren)'s upbringing. Remember an adage that says ''Good child is for the father, and the bad one for the mother''. And you all can attest to it that what the child meets on arrival is what he/she is gonna build on. Just like what you and I built on on our arrival. What do you want your children to meet on their arrival? Orderliness or Chaos? The ball is in your court. . Lest I forgot to add, Man came first, while the woman follows, although there is freedom of speech for everyone in EVERY relationship, but the man has more authority and right to assert it (what makes me a man then if not that). And a WISE woman shouldnt allow familiarity to bring about RUDENESS to her man. Out of defensive sentiments displayed in relationship by the women, a WEAK man would tend to compromise his ego to allow peace to prevail, but eventually making dormant WHAT MAKES UP A MAN, and which will cause HAVOC later in the home (Indiscipline and Disobedience in the home from the wife down to the Children) A woman who wants her man to perform his responsibilities BETTER in the M-A-R-R-I-A-G-E should allow him to assert his authority while she remains S-U-B-M-I-S-S-I-V-E. A WISE wife wouldn't counter or overrule her husband's pieces of advice, or rather rules, and neither will the man, but by pleading, teasing, undertstanding, and of course being ROMANTIC......pls note, this is not a case of Master to Slave relationship. It (i.e. Marriage) is for the mature in mind! A ''Young, wild and free'' lady is no fit for a submissive wife. Even ''Old, wild and free''! . Man - Ego = Woman! . To crown it all, our Heavenly Father used Apostle Paul to tell the Women to be submissive to their husbands. And not forgetting that we, the husbands also have more important roles to play in their lives since we became their Fathers, Lovers, Friends, Teachers, and Husbands! . Without even asking you, and plus the rapt attention you gave reading this, coupled with no grumbling or murmuring, Im so sure that I have been able to persuade you that ''A Husband is Morally Right and Acceptable to Confidently state his Facts and Beliefs because he is of Higher Status in the Marriage and/because he should give orders and enforce Obedience in the Marriage.'' Thank you. . . . God Bless Us All.....We meet in the second round! . , . . Ohh, boy see as I dey sweat for here....true true, ''No be small thing o'' 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by ayobase(m): 7:06pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
Pls, be patient with me. Was typing mine right on here, but cant explain what happened. E dey pain me o! . Im using my phone, pls bear with me. |
| Romance › Re: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by ayobase(m): 6:31pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
Omo, see debate o...so na so e go dey? Me even dey anticipate for the second round method! Make I go compute mine o! Haaa...people dey para here o! |
| Romance › Re: Weekend Debate: A Man Is Right To Assert His. . . . by ayobase(m): 12:27pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
sexkillz: [color=#000030]So far on the supporting team we have:Just give me acidosis! |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Hezbollah Claim Drone shot-down By Israel by ayobase(m): 12:19pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
[quote author=Malcolm-X]This drone incident proves that Israel can't win against Iran. The drone hovered around Israel for 30 mins before it was shot down - despite the Iron Dome! Iran must have got a perfect view of Israel's military formation and its nuclear reactor, for future attack. It's getting interesting![/quote]How are u sure that Isreal's are not in those Countries, and still fully carrying out their primary assignments! . Watch it....dont kid with that small country! |
| Romance › Re: How To Cheat Succesful With Your Partner. (copyright) by ayobase(m): 12:08pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
The WALATA.....ose! Walahi, o ogbadun rara! |
| Business › Re: 'Rich Dad, Poor Dad' Author Files For Bankruptcy by ayobase(m): 11:53am On Oct 12, 2012 |
[quote author=awesome_t]All the best to him. Never really believed all those motivational "get rich quick" mumbo jumbo books.[/quote]You are correct if its ''get rich QUICK''.I dont believe in them either, but u can still take ur time to read this book....its way too loaded...note:no QUICK! |
| Politics › Re: Timetable For The Current Youwin Programme by ayobase(m): 11:41am On Oct 12, 2012 |
Billyonaire: People hardly commend good news. If it was deads, terror and disaster, this thread would have been 10 pages now.Its not about the pages, posts, comments or whatever, but how many viewers. . Some threads didnt need replies or people's views, but to read and digest! . Information! |
| Politics › Re: Ban-Ki-Moon Commends Nigeria, Cameroon For Bakassi by ayobase(m): 11:07am On Oct 12, 2012 |
solomon111: STFU all of you!!.Dont mind those fools up there and the up-coming fools that are gonna be spewing saliva all over the place in posts below! 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Weekend Debate: A Man Is Right To Assert His. . . . by ayobase(m): 10:23pm On Oct 11, 2012 |
dont8: Good, you know I've got lot of experience with the ladies over the years, especially with IJEBABE. |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Hezbollah Claim Drone shot-down By Israel by ayobase(m): 10:13pm On Oct 11, 2012 |
The drone might have gone on pilgrimage! . And of course, it accomplished its purpose! 2 Likes |
| Politics › Re: It Is Time For Awoists To Stop Living In Denial : : Francis Adewale by ayobase(m): 9:16pm On Oct 11, 2012 |
^^ Why e dey pain u.....u wan cry? So an articulate intelligent fool can also fool u too.....it shows how intellifoolish u are! |
| Politics › Re: It Is Time For Awoists To Stop Living In Denial : : Francis Adewale by ayobase(m): 8:48pm On Oct 11, 2012 |
dayokanu: And when would Igbos apologize for truncating our first republic, killing other regional leaders while sparing theirs, Imposing Unitary govt on us, Invading Midwest and Southwest among other things |
| Politics › Re: It Is Time For Awoists To Stop Living In Denial : : Francis Adewale by ayobase(m): 8:47pm On Oct 11, 2012 |
gerald28: @ Alj hareem, Do you think it is easy to forgive Evil act of such magnitudeLook at this one. Dont tell me u were crying typing that! . Did u celebrate Ojukwu or not.....blame that guy for what befell the Igbos, and stop being a coward for once! |
| Politics › Re: It Is Time For Awoists To Stop Living In Denial : : Francis Adewale by ayobase(m): 8:44pm On Oct 11, 2012 |
chosen04: Ewu awusaAnd when are we gonna thank God for a sensible Igbo man to talk? |
| Politics › Re: It Is Time For Awoists To Stop Living In Denial : : Francis Adewale by ayobase(m): 8:41pm On Oct 11, 2012 |
chosen04: http://usafricaonline.com/2012/10/10/awolowos-starvation-policy-against-biafrans-and-the-igbo-requires-apology-not-attacks-on-achebe-by-francis-adewale/The man is a bastard.....dont even bother opening the link. . What happens to the Ojukwists......should they continue living in the denial that Ojukwu brought havoc on them. . Im sure Awolowo wont be nowhere to be blamed after Ojukwu is being unbiassedly dissected! |
| Politics › Re: Achebe On Awolowo: Has He Gone Too Far? by ayobase(m): 8:21pm On Oct 11, 2012 |
dayokanu: .......When the war was making my people die in huge numbers, i would have surrendered and I would definitely not flee warfront and leave my people to dieI like that guy though.....Sincerely! Toma Dah Klint D Drunk! . Pls, when is this debate gonna end? Ojukwu messed up....EOD! Leave Awo out of it! . There cant be belching without being ''provenderly'' loaded! |
| Romance › Re: Weekend Debate: A Man Is Right To Assert His. . . . by ayobase(m): 4:31pm On Oct 11, 2012 |
Im in then! Supporting! |
| Romance › Re: Weekend Debate: A Man Is Right To Assert His. . . . by ayobase(m): 4:28pm On Oct 11, 2012 |
dont8: No deal of whatsoever!Me trust u na! |
| Romance › Re: Weekend Debate: A Man Is Right To Assert His. . . . by ayobase(m): 4:27pm On Oct 11, 2012 |
ijebabe: Eh? Na me you want use market ur music business?Ijebebe......anything wey dey involve DISCUSSION with an Igbo man no be free again na! . Nna me! |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Who Created God Or How Did God Come Into Existence? by ayobase(m): 8:18am On Oct 11, 2012 |
Kay 17: The uncaused God is a contradiction to the principle of causality. Except if God exists initially as a super complex being and breaks down to constitute the Universe, other than simplicity flows to complexity. We will always seek causes for complexities. To arbitrarily assume God is an obvious absurdityToo much grammars water down a message! |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Who Created God Or How Did God Come Into Existence? by ayobase(m): 8:17am On Oct 11, 2012 |
ijawkid: Which one and only??A case of a deluded OP derailing his thread. Why not open another thread for that purpose! |
| Nairaland General › Re: Your Rated Post/comment Of The Day On NL (pls, Paste The Thread's Title) by ayobase(op): 8:13am On Oct 11, 2012 |
OLAADEGBU: Since you cannot describe the aroma of coffee should we then conclude that coffee doesn't exist?From the thread ''Who created God, and how did God come into existence?'' |
| Romance › Re: At 34, Am I A Hard Sell? by ayobase(m): 8:08am On Oct 11, 2012 |
[quote author=Stella_Bella]I will start subtracting from my age. I have to get laid Because old age Surely will get me caged. *just rhyming*[/quote]A rhyme from the heart! |
do you know that there is no family in the whole igbo land that did not lose their loved ones in that war. It is not about verbal apology, but putting things in place to make sure igbos are fully incooperated into the society. The federal government has to start fixing the federal roads in all South eastern states and make sure there is Federal presence in all the region, they should map out like say 20 billion naira for total construction of the whole south-east, that is how it is done in a sane country. That igbos statered to have some sense of belonging in this hell hole called Nigeria is because Jonathan is in charge.... had it been a Yoruba man or Hausa man, things will still be the same as it used to be, what did Obasanjo the evil man did for the igbos, what did Yarua Dua did, though he was a nice person, but his kins men wouldn't let him be. igbos needs to be rehabilitation, that is the only way Ndigbo will forget all that happened, they shouldn't be sidelined in the scheme of things, else peace,harmony, progress,love,unity will continue to elude Nigeria. Thank you my brother.1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 206 207 208 209 210 211 212 213 214 (of 379 pages)