Amarathripple0:

If all that you’ve said is true then you have been more than kind to this guy. So you need to give him one month to find a new place and he needs to pay you for that one month’s rent. And no more freebies including the free meals. If he says no, then whatever his eyes see, he should take it like that.

I gained nothing by lying on him. He is on Nairaland and if by chance he reads what I posted, he should point out what is not true. I'm sincerely not happy at all that I did all of these for someone who is not grateful. In fact, the day I had issue with my wife he was at home. Wify came to rake for me in the bathroom and I know he heard our convo but he just behaved as if he heard nothing.

dupyshoo:
Based on what you have written, the guy is very selfish. You need to tell him to go. You have sacrificed enough.

I know but will I give him ultimatum or what? How will I explain to him again since he felt offended when I insisted he should go and check one on Wednesday only for him to return and say he doesn't like it.

Advise needed please.
Now I am begining to understand why most Nigerians here don't want to accomodate newcomers who are Nigerians. I accommodated a guy who is becoming difficult for me to handle just because I don't like wahala. We lived in the same house in Nigeria and during those period we were never friends. We only exchanged greetings sometimes as he was very rude and proud. So when he got to know that I left Naija with my family, he became a 'friend', called me one day and asked for what he needed to do to come to the UK. I explained all I did without any reservations and advised him on what he needed to do. He applied to a University and a week to his resumption, he had not gotten his CAS. He was worried as he had sent so many emails and made calls to the Uni without a single reply, so I went to the Uni to ask for the reason for the delay as there was also no update on his application portal. The lady I spoke to was not going to converse with me but after some pressure, she spoke and from our conversation, it didn't appear he was going to get the CAS. I remembered a friend who is an Agent of the Uni and spoke to him, sent his details and the following day he got his CAS. No penny was collected. I guided him on how to apply for his visa which he got. Prior to him getting his visa, he was asked from the Home Office to forward additional documents like payslip etc and he was afraid of what to do. I connected him to a friend who had the same experience and that one guided him on additional docs he could send and eventually he got his visa. He spoke to me about accomodation and I told him he could put up with my family and when he is settled, he can start looking for one. While he was coming we asked him to help us bring food stuff which we were going to ask someone to buy and give to him and he told me point blank that he like doesn't travel with luggages. I was taken aback. So i needed to beg him and explained to him that he would not carry any load till he get to Newcastle his final destination and I promised to come and pick him at the airport. He agreed however he didn't come with any of the foodstuff except for my wife's laptop that someone took to meet him at the airport in Nigeria. His reason was that the payment system of the airline he used was not working and so there was no way to pay for additional luggage. My wife begged him to at least picked some dry fish but he insisted that he had his luggages to carry. So we cargoed our foodstuff. Because of that, my wife and her family insisted that I must not go and pick him at the airport which I agreed initially but later went to pick him. When I looked at the hours of layover he had at Doha and Heathrow and considering the fact that he would arrive Newcastle at 10:30pm, I went to pick him without my wife's consent though I explained to her sister when I took the kid to her house. Wify was on a night shift luckily that day. On my way to the airport, I called to let him know I was on my way when he had not even left Heathrow but when I got there my phone dropped and the screen shattered when I went to use the toilet. I can't receive any calls or make any. As a village boy I am, I stood at the international wing of the airport instad of the domestic wing. He arrived, was calling but I couldn't pick. Eventually we met after hours and the first thing he did was to attack me. 'I have been calling and waiting in the cold since, all those we came together have gone and I am the only one left. If I knew where I was going, I would have left since', he raged. I was going to retort but smiled and explained everything to him. Helped him with his luggages to where I parked and paid £25 for parking.

My wife wasn't happy with his stay and she showed it. It was like a pay-back moment for all the guy's behaviours to her in Naija but I would not have any of that. I ensured that they guy sit with us, eat with us, go to church with us, gave him numbers to call for jobs etc. When I felt my wife was taking things to far as she reported me to my mum that I hosted a stranger in this UK economy where things are expensive and my mum also started mounting pressure, I reported her to her sister too. I told her sister that I was not going to ask the guy to leave until he gets a job and I won't join my wife in not relating well to the guy. This became an issue between us which we later settled. I convinced her to forget the past as this should even be a lesson to us that we should always treat people well as you don't know where you will meet them again or when you will need their help. The guy started working and everybody was happy. One day wife raised a point that the guy was suppossed to buy even if it's ordinary bottle of milk and I quickly trashed that conversation. One day I wanted to get the rug cleaner in his room and I saw cans of drinks, cartons of McDonalds under his bed with groceries. He had gone to work / or class that day. To be candid, I felt somehow and spoke to my wife about what I found. At that point, I began to remeber all the guy's attitudes and they started getting to me. I remembered a day we wanted to go out without the kids and I asked if the kids could stay at home with him, he said no that he was going to have online lecture. Since then we always take them to a friend's place or wify sister's if we feel they shouldn't follow us even if he is at home. I remebered how he never for once asked if I had fixed my phone's screen or not, I remebered how he never asked if we have received the foodstuff he was to bring but we needed to cargo. I remebered how we, 4 of us are sleeping in one room, wife and the kids just for him to have his privacy. I remebered how our bills, water, electricity and gas had increased since he came and to God who made me, I never bothered about any of these for once. I felt someone is using me and I concluded to tell him to look for accommodation but I won't change my attitude to him. So I asked him about his search for accomodation and he said he was thinking about raising his school fees balance and that would take a while since he can only work for 20hrs in a week. I told him that he should look for the ones that are cheaper and since holidays are here, he can work full time to raise his balance. Besides, we are 4 sleeping in a room and it is not convenient for us. His body language confirmed he was not ready to leave so I started helping him to look for a shared apartment. I got one via a church member and he went there for inspection though he didn't want to go initially. His reason was that he was having an online lecture at the time they asked him to come which he must received at home. I spoke to the person and they said he could come at any time since they would be at home throughout the day. When I told the guy, he said he can't still go because of some group discussion he would have after the lecture bla bla bla. At that point, I told him that he needed to go because we are 4 in the room and it is not convenient for us. He went only for him to come back and tell me that he doesn't like this house. He said the house is close to his Uni but he just doesn't like it and that I shouldn't worry, he would leave by this weekend. 'No wahala', I said and since then he has been giving me attitude. He came back from work on Thursday morning, I opened the door, greeted him and he didn't answer. All along, he stays in his room and when food is ready, I would be the one to go and call him and he comes out immediately. But since Wednesday, when I go to call him for food, he won't come out until after 20 - 25 minutes. So this afternoon before I went to pick one of the kids from school, I called him to come and eat but he didn't answer. When I returned, I still met the food untouched. I wanted to call him again but I decided to face my project that is frustrating my life and then he came out to eat. He started saying a lot of things about him getting accommoation that I was not listening to. But the last thing he said made me to decide to put this here. I heard him said, 'I will leave when I get a good accommodation'. I just said okay, he ate his food and left for his room.

Please I need advise to handle this maturedly. Since he came none of his people called to say 'thank you' not even his girlfriend that we know. But I don't care at all as all I want is for him to leave as I don't want to continue to sacrifice the comfort of my family to someone who is unappreciative.

To those working in NHS, please how did you prepare for your interview? Were there general questions apart from the ones that were role-specific? Kindly help with information that will help in nailing the interview.

joyandfaith:


According to the Supreme Court, the ban violated the rights of the Muslim students to freedom of thought, conscience, religion, the dignity of human persons and freedom from discrimination guaranteed by the 1999 Constitution.

I remember a lawyer started wearing traditional attires to courts in the SE after judgement. That judgement can be applied in any setting. Constitution recognizes religious beliefs and conscience. Fundamental human rights are delicate issues.

Where your right ends is where another person's begins. Yours is not absolute likewise mine, there must be a common ground reason for compromises. Where such can't be achieved, we isolate and stick to our principles as long as it doesn't affect others.

joyandfaith:

Read the court judgment again.

It only affects public schools. You need to read again.

https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/more-news/538615-hijab-muslim-students-give-lagos-govt-ultimatum-to-implement-judgment.html

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I hate this shiloh nonsense with passion. I'd rather listen to Gurumaraji than that arrogant man in Otta.

You are an impostor.

justwise:


Did you get the impession that i was encouring people to settle for less?

Rest baba.

ElSudani:
Pastor Enenche for example.

So where will you place Gumi and that loquacious Muric man?

Scandinavian:
Hello everyone, I am currently in Newcastle and I need accommodation for my family and I.

Does anyone know a sure agent in this area? We are looking for a 2 bed, preferably furnished but if not, that's fine too

If you don't mind Sunderland.

I need a python developer who can write a keylogger with the following features:
Applications and keystrokes Logging
Screenshot Logging
Microphone logging
webcam logging
printer logging and
disabling anti-keylogger and unwanted software
blocking unwanted urls
Send Log by e-Mail

It's urgent please.

Can you write a keylogger in Python with the following features:
Applications and keystrokes Logging
Screenshot Logging
Microphone logging
webcam logging
printer logging and
disabling anti-keylogger and unwanted software
blocking unwanted urls
Send Log by e-Mail?

crixlight2:

What of dependant that will be working , can that save enough money within four years to start a big business or build house in Nigeria , why I am asking you is that , I have already build a house so a friend is advising me to sell the house and move to UK with my family and within 4 years I will build the house back . I don’t want to jump into conclusion

Don't even try it.

HarlequinLekex:
I didn't blame UK for any reason.I said that in a joking tone you don dey write epistle

Unfortunately the epistle has no consent.

hustla:


I'm still wondering how you hope to secure and start the job with a student visa

It's possible. I think I'm working with a student visa in a Uni where I'm not even studying.

mimilyrics:
Ensure that your supporting information covers the person specification and that you're able to sell yourself effectively. Also, previous experience with the NHS (as a volunteer or bank worker) helps - this is not always the case though. In some cases, if you can show that you have transferable skills helps to get you an interview spot. Also, contacting the number/email address on the job advert to ask questions and learn more about the job helps to learn more about how you fit into the role.
Not getting shortlisted doesn't always mean that your application is wack, there just might be other applicants with previous NHS experience that they would rather go with.

NHS shortlisting is blind; your name and demographic details are not shown to the people shortlisting. The only things visible at the shortlisting stage are your supporting information, education/training history, skills, job history
Keep applying and don't give up, you'll eventually get your foot in the door.
I can help look over your supporting information and you can always tweak it to fit different roles since most of the JDs are usually similar/generic.

Thank you for this, I'll send you a dm shortly.

Can those working in NHS kindly give us hints on what to do differently to be invited for interview at least? With experience and qualification, na so so we don move on mail pesin dey get and it's really tiring.

JAMO84:
Get well soon

After you guys are healed of your hypocrisy.

akway22:
Who abused the title of professorship by awarding this man.he always mis-yearn

He must be a professor of Islamic bla bla bla or something related.

JAMO84:
Iran is Muslim Country, what is your problem with Muslim affairs? Dem take busy body swear for you?

Sebi Nigeria is a muslim country also ? Yeye dey smell

JAMO84:
Why can't your Schools admit only Christian Students?

You want their money, but you hate their religion.

Illogical reasoning, a logical customer spends their money where they would be treated like a king. Why would you spend your money where they hate your religion? Is that not stupidity or dem tie rope drag you comot for your house ni? Nonsense and mumuric & co.

GoodIsGod:


Shut the fccvk up!

His father can afford it or not is not the discussion here if you are not a foool like your stupid professor.

The question is What is a Muslim doing in a Christian university when he or she is not ready to follow the rules?

Does your "holy book" scape your brains off the moment you nod your head on the ground?

You lot can't think straight. Including your stupid professor.

Radarada!

I love this vawulence you're taking to them.

Realists:


Instead of you to talk about the Human rights abuse at hand, you choose to deflect it to the Western propaganda.

Please enlighten me on this Human right abuse? Who is abusing who?

.

Tamilore11:
So shall men lust after your very young daughters. May men harvest their fruits at a very young age. May men see ur daughters as sex objects in their tender age. May their puddles satisfy the sexual desires of all your neighbors. Different sizes of dicks will visit their holes while Dey bring shame to u. I decree all dis for ur life n generation

Why this on innocent girls?

Put cream or vaseline

Pearlyfaze:


We are still discussing, they have clearly stated that she has no obligation financially with them if she chooses to leave them.

They conditions is that If she says she is not going on the transfer with them, they company will pay her 3 months salary in advance and terminate her visa immediately.

My new worries is getting a sponsorship job, COS and Visa in 60 days.
We are currently job searching and believing it will happen before the middle of December.

Thank you everyone here for encouraging us with information.

You may try this, https://beta.jobs.nhs.uk/candidate/jobadvert/C9155-CRNM-1122-32

Ahappygirl:
Get her to contact her school and make enquiries. Most likely the reason would be that all her results would need to be out and her degree awarded before she gets a go ahead to apply for PSW.

However, it's nothing to worry about, if your visa expires 23rd of Jan, you can still apply for PSW 22nd of Jan and remain in the country till its out. The university most likely knows this and would give her a go ahead before the visa expires but advice her to contact them.

But will they be able to work?

Googledotcom:
Boring is an understatement. I spent most time fast forwarding the movie every single minute.

I really anticipated its release. I slept of after 15 mins of watching. No Yoruba film is yet to beat King of Boys in my own opinion. Others are just trying

So boring a film

And how does this translate to good governance?

olasaad:
Beautiful husband material but my problem with you guys is that after marriage most of you guys become lazy in doing house chores.

I can't boil water again