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FamilyRe: OMG! Proud Mum-to-be Shows Off Her Pregnancy Stretch Marks by BABE3: 6:19pm On Dec 13, 2014
cococandy:
well I had a very skinny as in skinny friend get pregnant and she had awful stretchmarks(not like the sha) on her tummy. Her belly was really stretched and pointy hence her marks.
yes, I know very skinny people with stretch marks too. Stretch marks are due to rapid addition (and subtraction) of extra pounds. So its no surprise that your friend got marks. Her body went from 0 to 100 real quick.

You're assuming being skinny means being fit. cheesy

Though, Some fit people will still get it regardless (due to genetics). But, it can be managed. The fitter you are, the better.
FamilyRe: OMG! Proud Mum-to-be Shows Off Her Pregnancy Stretch Marks by BABE3: 5:54pm On Dec 13, 2014
cococandy:
that can keep a pregnant woman skinny but can't keep the stretchmarks away.
it can..
she's eating right nd she's exercising, even if she wants to get marks, it won't be anything over the top or scary, coz she's putting on the pregnancy weight slowly.

Overeating amd overlounging increase the chance of getting marks. The skin will definitely stretch to give way for the food (eating for two) and lack of exercise.

And, she's not skinny, she's fit! wink
FamilyRe: OMG! Proud Mum-to-be Shows Off Her Pregnancy Stretch Marks by BABE3: 3:31pm On Dec 13, 2014
moca:
Nay.
I responded to posts I saw here.

Pregnacy deals with women in diverse ways. Whenever we see any, let's be a little humane. That's my theme.
No one is being inhumane. That picture is disgusting; lets drop the sentiments.

We get it, she's having a baby. But are those marks anything to be proud of ? No! Her stomach should be covered at all time. All... grin

coogar:
impressive!
pregnant women should use this as motivation/inspiration. if a mother of a newborn can be this fit, then no excuses abeg. she's black too.
Isn't "Love" a beautiful blackmail? cheesy No one should be forced to put up with excuses, all in the name of love.
FamilyRe: OMG! Proud Mum-to-be Shows Off Her Pregnancy Stretch Marks by BABE3: 3:20pm On Dec 13, 2014
coogar:
you want to nack chillisauce belle? cheesy grin



i haven't...
any picture or gif, please?
While her mates were having isi-ewu, bokoto and 4 bottles of stout for supper ....grin

FamilyRe: OMG! Proud Mum-to-be Shows Off Her Pregnancy Stretch Marks by BABE3: 3:06pm On Dec 13, 2014
coogar:
why not? other women with kids & no stretch marks nko? did they drop from another planet?
Bruhh, have you seen Ciara's body post-baby? cheesy. She put in the work before and during her pregnancy and it showed.

A healthy lifestyle (fitness and a good diet), solves most of these "problems", all things being equal.
FamilyRe: OMG! Proud Mum-to-be Shows Off Her Pregnancy Stretch Marks by BABE3: 3:01pm On Dec 13, 2014
moca:
Why I no go vex my sis?
Most of them erupt in seconds leaving a frustrated woman and they r here opening their mouth.
Some can't even get it up yet ur woman is there for u but a woman's body changed [b]because of what u put in there [/b]and u r here saying disgusting, may double thunder fire them.
Idiats.

And yes,men hv stretch marks. Have u seen a bleaching dude with stretch marks b4?
Why are you acting like the husband punished his wife by impregnating her ?

Don't they both want the baby (arguably she wants the baby more)? grin
FamilyRe: OMG! Proud Mum-to-be Shows Off Her Pregnancy Stretch Marks by BABE3: 2:26pm On Dec 13, 2014
MARKone:
I know u and Babe3 are aware that missionary style is not recommended for pregnant women, for obvious reasons like crushing the innocent child grin, causing injury to the woman, and of course for people like you, staring face down at a "grotesque" stretch mark . So for a mutual satisfaction, you can enter from behind while she lies by her side, this will ultimately reduce staring at a "grotesque" stretch mark. But! You can take her to la la land by slowly running your fingers across the stretch mark while you gently pump from behind...ecstacy for both of you. I mean she is pregnant, petty requests like she wants to be boinked should be met by you, her husband, and you don't need to do it at nights grin
You know the marks don't disappear after she's given birth right ?

What happens after that? cheesy
FamilyRe: OMG! Proud Mum-to-be Shows Off Her Pregnancy Stretch Marks by BABE3: 1:29pm On Dec 13, 2014
coogar:
you would need a thick blindfold to schtup this woman with her tiger-striped belly. that tummy is grotesque. aren't there creams women can use to reduce such stretchmarks?
And a corset, in case the blindfold falls off. grin
I doubt creams will reduce such marks.
FamilyRe: OMG! Proud Mum-to-be Shows Off Her Pregnancy Stretch Marks by BABE3: 8:18am On Dec 13, 2014
Nonso23:
I'm sure he will get one from his wife.
But from family section, Nairaland?
Very lofty dreams grin
grin grin

Chillisauce:
Get pregnant first lets see how you will look like?
Thats if you will have the boldness to share.
You might be a hipopo typing behind the screen and come here to shout seeing stretchmarks.
We'd never know, would we? cheesy
FamilyRe: OMG! Proud Mum-to-be Shows Off Her Pregnancy Stretch Marks by BABE3: 8:05am On Dec 13, 2014
Nonso23:
It didn't induce any irritation in me at all. At first it looked strange until I started making out shapes out of the markings grin Then i read her post and got the message.

I doubt any man who loves his wife will let the markings prevent him from climbing mount Kilimanjaro o! grin
But well, things happen.
I guess....the man deserves an award then.


Chillisauce:
All your own is erect1on? There is more than life than thinking of pen1s and cheating all day.
A wandering d1ck will always be a wandering d1ck, corset or not.
Do it because you want to and not because of thinking of your boyfriend or husbands erect1on.
She is carrying a life there for goodness sake.
According to whose definition of life? cheesy

And who are to tell me what to do or not to do?

Really? She's pregnant? shocked
FamilyRe: OMG! Proud Mum-to-be Shows Off Her Pregnancy Stretch Marks by BABE3: 7:38am On Dec 13, 2014
Nonso23:
Try to see beyond the surface once in a while. Life isn't all about aesthetics.
There is a life safely shielded by that bump. That was what she wanted you to think about because she is proud of her(baby) and not the stretch marks that most often than not disappear after delivery.

Think of it this way:
The best gifts in life aren't wrapped in the prettiest and shiniest of packages.
It's all about the right perspective.
this is what I don't like about all you deep and philosophical people. grin Tyring to sugar sugarcoat everything. No one is taking away from the fact that she's pregnant, but those marks? extremely disgusting and puke inducing. Pregnant women do get marks, but this is one of the extreme cases.

If I were her, I'd permanently wear a corset after child birth. cheesy

Would you seriously cop an erectìon seeing that?
FamilyRe: OMG! Proud Mum-to-be Shows Off Her Pregnancy Stretch Marks by BABE3: 11:04pm On Dec 12, 2014
MARKone:
What is "Evil" about this, the baby she is carrying or the effect of the baby she is carrying. It may appear disgusting, but I do not see anything evil in this. Abi did you see any place the wrote 666 or "Help me" there
it's beyond evil. Those marks are potential home wreckers. Which husband/man will see such horrific sight and get an erèction? grin
if her husband wasn't cheating on her before, he'll start now.
FamilyRe: View Point: Feminism Threatens Marriage And Family Values. by BABE3: 8:08pm On Dec 12, 2014
ihedinobi2:
Thanks for trying. Actually, numbers are adjectives, much like colors. They describe the things we see in reality. As such, they themselves are not things and do not qualify as illustrations of the idea that things can be equal and different.
That is debatable. I don't want to go deep into philosophy, so I'll leave it.
FamilyRe: View Point: Feminism Threatens Marriage And Family Values. by BABE3:
bukatyne:
What makes 0.333 inferior? I can't remember the last time I wrote in fraction

Down to groups, what if the determining factor is child birthing abilities?

You believe males are superior, what edge do they have overwomen?
What makes 0.333 inferior ? cheesy You're not really asking me that are you?

If you divide 1 by 3, there are infinitely many 3s after the decimal.

0.33333333333333333333333333333333333333333333333333333333...

It never ends; meaning 0.333... isn't a perfect representation of 1/3.

Fractions are superior. Enough of the maths.


Are you saying females are superior because they get pregnant ? Remember they can't get pregnant without sperms that come from males. So that argument doesn't make sense.

What edge do men have over women? You tell me. Why did you go from taking your dad's last name (and not your mum's), to taking your husband's last name? grin
FamilyRe: View Point: Feminism Threatens Marriage And Family Values. by BABE3: 7:03pm On Dec 12, 2014
bukatyne:
12 * 1 = 6 * 2 = 3 * 4

Well well
Prove that 6*2 and 3*4 have different roles. grin
FamilyRe: View Point: Feminism Threatens Marriage And Family Values. by BABE3: 6:58pm On Dec 12, 2014
bukatyne:
Going by this, everyone has an edge over everyone else. Practically, no two people are the same; science tells us that even identical twins did not have the same DNA.

What will be determining factor of the edge?
I'm not going down to individuals. I'm talking about groups. In this case, men versus women. Fractions versus decimals.

Sometimes fractions are exactly equal to decimals. 2.5 and 2,1/2 for example.

However, 0.333 and 1/3 will never be equal. 1/3 is superior.

So, generally, fractions are superior.
FamilyRe: View Point: Feminism Threatens Marriage And Family Values. by BABE3: 6:26pm On Dec 12, 2014
ihedinobi2:
So the only examples in nature that you can give for things that are equal but different in function are man and woman. Because obviously, I didn't ask for examples of sexism, just for an illustration of the idea that two things can be equal and different in function at the same time.

I think that that is very telling, don't you? That "equal but different in roles/functions" only comes into existence when people start talking about men and women. What are the chances then that the idea that two things can be equal and have different roles? Judging by your response, extremely slim to none, is what they would seem to be.

It's a false argument, in conclusion.
Lemme help her out, 2.5 and 2,1/2 are equal.

However, fractions are more precise and they give a more accurate representation than decimals.
That means fractions are superior, even though decimals are useful. cheesy

I'm not sure it's possible for two things to be equal and different at the same time. Even if it's by a little itty bit, one of them has to have an edge, realistically.
FamilyRe: View Point: Feminism Threatens Marriage And Family Values. by BABE3: 6:09pm On Dec 12, 2014
freecocoa:
Similar you said.
and, what are the roles of a man and a woman? Who made the roles? What are they based on? cheesy
FamilyRe: View Point: Feminism Threatens Marriage And Family Values. by BABE3: 6:07pm On Dec 12, 2014
naijababe:
To the best of my understanding, marriage demeans women according to feminists! Why would they be a part of an instituition that they claim add more chains to their already shackled selves ? undecided
Most of the married ones are not feminists. They are only feminists in theory. But in practice? Nah. They are feminists when it's convenient. grin
FamilyRe: View Point: Feminism Threatens Marriage And Family Values. by BABE3: 5:56pm On Dec 12, 2014
freecocoa:
I don't know what you are talking about but you do know what "roles" mean, right?
aren't roles similar to sexism and gender stereotyping?

since roles are what you're supposed to do; your duties as a man or a woman.
FamilyRe: (Pic) Mother And Son Bathing Together; Motherly Love Or Child Abuse? by BABE3: 6:38pm On Dec 11, 2014
This photo of a pastor and his grandchild was posted here some.months back. Almost everyone was quick to call the man a pedòphile; no one seemed to care that it was the mother of the child that took and posted the picture.

Now, here we are, case is reversed, and we see feminists mincing words.
" this should be discouraged" cheesy
"This is not nice" grin

#genderequality.

FamilyRe: (Pic) Mother And Son Bathing Together; Motherly Love Or Child Abuse? by BABE3: 6:33pm On Dec 11, 2014
fr3do:
taaa! you have a rotten mind!

But on a serious note, who will know? boys do not get pregnant, neither do they have hymens, and society never paints boys as victims.
not only that, mothers can hide under the umbrella of "I'm your mother; I gave birth to you; I can never hurt you; all I do is out of love".

With that, they can easily manipulate kids and get away with child abuse that men get persecuted for.

Women don't believe they are as sick as men yet we want gender equality. grin
FamilyRe: Help! I Don't Know How To Tell My Wife That I Have Impregnated A Girl by BABE3: 8:01pm On Dec 09, 2014
carefreewannabe:
She does not have to share her husband with the other woman if she stays, does she?
Unless the man doesn't want to have anything to do with the child or the babymama doesn't want anything to do with the husband, the woman will have to share her husband, sadly.

The babymama and the husband now have an unbreakable bond; a baby. They'd both want to be parents to their child; they'd both want to be at their child's first dance recital, first birthday and so on. In one these meetings, one thing can lead to another and they have sèx again (okafor's law). sad

The main woman is more or less in a polygamy setting now.
FamilyRe: Marriage Is BORING! Fact! Soul mate or JUST MATES? by BABE3: 3:36am On Dec 08, 2014
Did you know this before getting married or after ?
FamilyRe: Curcumcision Of Female Children by BABE3: 12:20am On Dec 07, 2014
cococandy:
If that study from John Hopkins is not worthy of consideration,permit me to disregard any other.
Clearly every research is dismissible.

The US doesn't enforce male child circumcision.
Yes, US doesn't enforce it; they know they can't. So what better way to make people like you think it's a must to circumcise your male child than to start promoting the myth that uncircumcision causes STDs/STIs ? grin

Though more parents are starting to realize it's büllshït.
FamilyRe: Curcumcision Of Female Children by BABE3: 12:05am On Dec 07, 2014
cococandy:
In the new guidelines, the CDC says there is now strong evidence that male circumcision can:
Cut a man's risk of getting HIV from an infected female partner by 50 to 60 per cent.
Reduce their risk of genital herpes and certain strains of human papillomavirus by 30 per cent or more.
Lower the odds of urinary tract infections during infancy, and cancer of the penis in adulthood.


Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2860727/Benefits-circumcision-outweigh-risks-Procedure-cuts-risk-HIV-STDs-penile-cancer-official-report-declares.html#ixzz3L9xLCksv

This was from a research carried out at John Hopkins.

As for why the rate of male circumcision is dropping,it is because of protest movement from people who think like coogar. You know how Americans like to be liberal minded,so it is not surprising that there are parents who want to give their boys the chance to make that choice for themselves.
I totally respect that decision
And I can also pull out 10s of researches that says that study up there is crap. Correlation isn't causation. The issue of circumcision and lower risk of STDs is still very much an ongoing debate.
But like many things, the more we repeat the claim, the more we believe it, even if it false.

GUD (genital ulcerative disease) is a disease associated with an Uncircum.P; Urethritis is a associated with circum.P.

Guess which of those diseases is more prevalent in America? Urethritis! Added to the fact that there are more Uncircumcised men roaming about.


cococandy:
As for why the rate of male circumcision is dropping,it is because of protest movement from people who think like coogar. You know how Americans like to be liberal minded,so it is not surprising that there are parents who want to give their boys the chance to make that choice for themselves.
I totally respect that decision
Presently, America is the only advanced western country with a relatively high rate of circumcision.
And what country is more liberal than USA? None. So you wonder why they're still hanging on to male circumcision.
It's simply because it's profitable for their health system. Male circumcision is unnecessary.
FamilyRe: Curcumcision Of Female Children by BABE3: 11:18pm On Dec 06, 2014
cococandy:
I never said boys can endure the pain because they are boys.
I said the advantage outweighs the pain .
Did you even read the post you're trying to respond to?
Nor do I know how any of that nonsense you typed there is the same thing as I what I said in any of my posts .
I remember specifically saying I don't buy into the school of thought that circumcision reduces sexualL enjoyment (in both girls and boys) because it is not proven.
I only recognize the fact that the people who still have that culture do it out of the PROBABLY ignorant belief that it is true.

Woman take your WATERY understanding elsewhere undecided
Please tell us the advantages and the disadvantages and lets see how they outweigh each other. grin Tell us how these advantages make circumcised males sèxually healthier than the uncircumcised ones.

Also, tell us why Male circumcision has dropped from 81% in the United States(in the 80s) to a low 40% that it is now (in this day and age of advance medical knowledge).
FamilyRe: Curcumcision Of Female Children by BABE3: 10:38pm On Dec 06, 2014
cococandy:
feel free to not circumcise your sons.

But I will do mine.
Circumsizing boys has a bigger advantage than leaving them uncircumsized
circumsizing girl has less advantage than leaving them uncircumsized.

I can't believe this is even up for debate.
This isn't about me or what I would or would not do. This is about you and your watery reason for supporting male circumcision and going against female circumcision.

Boys can endure the pain coz they're boys. But girls ? Nah, they're too fragile, not fair. Tearing off the foreskin will keep the boys séxually in check. But for the girls? No need, they're girls.

Gender equality.

FamilyRe: Curcumcision Of Female Children by BABE3: 10:12pm On Dec 06, 2014
cococandy:
boys do not die from circumcision in Nigeria.
Stop pulling facts outta your desk.

Feminists didn't turn the reasons for FGM into what you hear. That is what it has always been about.

FamilyRe: My Husband Is Flirting.... by BABE3: 8:55pm On Dec 06, 2014
coogar:
cheats are not born post-marital - just because you didn't notice doesn't mean he wasn't doing it in his bachelorhood.
You sure? Remember that story about the man that got married to his beautiful high school sweetheart. They found out they were sèxually incompatible after marriage. She wanted sèx once a year; he had a normal libido.

He tried being a good man for 10 years or so. He later gave up on the wife and became a serial cheat.

How about that?
FamilyRe: My Husband Is Flirting.... by BABE3: 8:47pm On Dec 06, 2014
alutacontinua:
LOBATAN!
A man just goes from being a virgin to 3+x sexual partners? shocked shocked
I give up on marriage, I swear!
You just can never win lipsrsealed
Bia, op, how you sabi say him be virgin? undecided
Olodo. She's the virgin.
FamilyRe: My Husband Is Flirting.... by BABE3: 8:45pm On Dec 06, 2014
lifenocks:


@babe i married him as a virgin if u must know n got pregnant 5 month after wedding. N he was not a cheat then.
Your husband is the villain and you're the saint; I accept.

On a serious and realistic note;
Humans are always going to be humans; forget the crap about 2 becoming 1 in a marriage; we are all selfish. You are the only one that can love yourself the way you want to be loved. You have to protect yourself at all times (even from the ones that love you most or the ones you love); coz when they hurt you, it hurts the most. So, moving forward, stop expecting total loyalty from people.

Now at this junction, you have two options;

1) accept that you have a cheating husband, and look the other way (don't look too far though coz you wouldn't want STDs). Manage and live through the marriage, like most people do in their marriages.

2) get a divorce.

Except there's something fundamentally wrong from your end, discard the "fasting ,praying, changing and hoping" advices you're getting. Anything other than options 1 & 2 will drive you crazy, literally. Remember you have a kid/s.


I advised you based on the fact that he's the villain and you're the angel.

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