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CHoccolaTE:
Why are men so scared of gender equality?
What are you scared

let's assume men are scared of equality like.you said.

Men being scared is irrelevant in the grande scheme. Men being scared of equality hasn't stopped the movement of feminism; in fact, feminism has never been more popular than it is now. Also, men support the movement too.

Now, the problem is when women start asking for "real men". What the fůck is a real man in the world of equality? If anatomy is the only difference between a man and a woman, who then is a "true man"? A man that has a dīck? A man that's physically strong?

BananaBender:
You have to Google it, "Oga at the top" banned the word

Remove the asterix symbol in www.yarn*me.com.ng

Bruh, that place is like mini NL; all the usernames their are familiar.

And the love triangle story even continued over there.

I've bookmarked the page. Juicy af.

BananaBender:
Guys!!

So I mistakenly clicked on one of seun's advert, and it directed to me to a site called yarn*me. I didn't cancel initially because I noticed it was a forum. As I was surveying the forum, I clicked on the romance tab and what did I find?

Sexkillz, and dygeezy were the moderators of the section. Omo, I didn't know being an online moderator is a career oh. KAI!

Lmao. My day has been made. Link us, please.

@ momdisweets

recording people or taking pictures of people in public isn't an offense. You don't need anyone's permission to do that. And as you've admitted, a public transport is public.

That's why paparazzi are always in celebrity's faces and the celebrities can't do shìt about it; they can't sue. But the moment the celebrities enter a private building, the paparazzi back off.

freecocoa:


Yet she had the nerves to say his jacket was from the 90's, she was feeling like one superstar cos she had stup1d friends egging her on, she didn't want to disappoint them, Chai! I wonder what captain-save-a-hoe's face look like by now, that girl fit no see clearly for weeks .

I heard shequina friend-zoned him prior to that fight. He thought defending her would take him out of the zone; instead, he lost the fight like a huge sissy. Back to square one for him.

kandiikane:
law
Stop copying your friends notes and actually read by yourself.
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Jesus Christ.

freshdude2:
1. Lol. We can start by re-orientating our sons about what it entails to be a man instead of telling them the only difference between them and their sisters is their Instruments. We need the truth. When we have given them the tools, we can then objectively separate wheat from chaff. Today, it's almost unfortunate to be born a man.

2. Gender equality is a myth. The earlier we realise that as a nation, the better.

freshdude2:
Men and women are equal to the degree of having equal rights not privileges. Whether we want to agree or not, men do the majority of the work of building and protecting society as such they have the privilege of leadership. Removing quota system of involving women in leadership positions in politics or business or industry, how many women are in leadership on merit and not just because a quota for women is to be filled?

It is not beans to be a man my sister. Gba f'Olohun.

it's not beans o. If I was man in this day and age I'll be confused too.

What do we want from men exactly? I don't get it.

Men are taking back seats little by little to allow women take the front seat; it's a problem; men aren't strong enough.

When the men decide to take the front seats; men are bad; men hate women.

The same women that want equality or whatever scream "be a man", "you're not man enough".

I tire.

coogar:
some women even call themselves "bïtch" these days. the word has been reclaimed & it could used as a compliment.

I know right. "She's a bad bìtch" is a compliment. shoot, I was going to post that picture.

freshdude2:
Nigerian men need to look inwards but it's not to improve themselves to meet good women, which are in short supply, it's to take control of the society. What I mean is, this present generation is confused. We don't know what a functional society is and how to make one so. We need the men to run the society as they once did.

which men again? Aren't men and women equal? Why can't women run the society too? The men are finally letting women take some control (what women have always wanted), and it's still a problem?

"Bìtch" is now considered verbal abuse and could be used against you in court?

coogar:
he won't get into any inch of trouble. the law is clear on what to do in such cases in america.

In the United States, stand-your-ground law states that an individual has no duty to retreat from any place they have lawful right to be and may use any level of force, including lethal, if they reasonably believe they face an imminent and immediate threat of serious bodily harm or death.


the dude simply exercised his rights. getting whacked with skating shoes to the head could lead to concussion - serious bodily harm. the dude then used the appropriate level of force to stop his attacker.

the dude should be given a medal!

Case closed!

freecocoa:
See analyzing, you should get an accolade .
You go fear captain-save-a-hoe na .

We have so many of them around. I'm glad he got served.

naijababe:
Forgiveness nor be by mouth o

Maybe in Peckham or Brixton where it equates to more benefit money and a council flat, even that is not true anymore, thanks to George Osborne. In my neck of woods, it remains something to be really ashamed of.

We clap for single mothers nowadays. That's the blatant true.
Let some people catch you saying saying baby mamaism is thing of shame.


No need for long story though. The society always finds a way to balance itself, no matter the level of chaos. Strong men; weak women. Weak men; strong women. Balance.

Mondisweets:
this would be a bad idea because the way he retaliated caused more damage than necessary. All they just have to do is pray and hope that they both won't be charged with a criminal offence, if the video gets in the hands of the authorities best believe me they will have a party with both of them.

First you said he'll get in trouble for the way he retaliated; the slap was too hard.

now you're saying it was a public space.

Anything to sha get the man in trouble because he's a man? I tire for you feminists o.

So if 4 people are jumping me in a public space, I shouldn't defend myself because it's public? How is it my fault that they jumped me in public?


If it was a girl that was getting jumped by 4 people, and she defended herself, the last thing you'll think about is "public space".


Btw, no one in the public space was hurt.

naijababe:
Quite playing girl

Now you are just winding me up, I don't any where the above is considered normal

And what do you mean by Nigerian women are strong? Do you mean strong asin hustlers/laborers?

Go getters, opinionated, works hard, will do anything to keep the family together..........you get the idea

Baby mama-ism is not normal ke? That's the new trend. It's not as stigmatized as before.
I now agree that you must be old or you're just in denial.  

Mondisweets:
if I slap you and you slap me back, you can get away with self-defence but when it turns out into a mini WWE smackdown it becomes public violence. I believe there are other innocent passengers who were hurt and affected during the fight, don't only look at those that were part of the fight. That's why I said its not a wise idea to sue anyone, we will be sinking his own ship if he does that. Not only was there contributory fault of his part, his actions also constitute a criminal offence

The public violence wasn't the man's fault.

He got hit with shoes by Shequina.
He retaliated with a slap and rightly so. He then paused. He didn't go beyond that.

That was when captain-save-a-hóe( Shequina's friend in black jacket) jumped in to "defend" shequina. Not only that, Shequina's females friends also jumped in to defend her. At this point, the man had to defend himself, so he decided to handle his match (captain-save-a-hóe).

So, how is any of this the man's fault and why should he get in any trouble with the law? You should probably watch the video again. The man got jumped by 4 people!

naijababe:
The good old days, that expression is loaded with rose tinted glasses. In my books, the only things that are is changing is the use of 'our' knowledge. Humans remain inherently the same.

I'm talking about what we accept as the new normal (be it good or bad).

Being black wasn't normal decades ago in America, so was being Gay. Now, they are.

Kids being loud and rude wasn't normal years ago, now it's no bigge for a kid to talk back to adults.

Baby mama-ism.used to be a thing of shame, not anymore.

we keep pushing the boundries. As the boundries are being pushed, we should expect consequences, good or bad.


And what do you mean by Nigerian women are strong? Do you mean strong asin hustlers/laborers?

naijababe:
Damn!!! I must be getting old.

Food for thought; compare kids in the 60s/70s/80s to the kids now in terms of how respectful and polite they were. Now, compare the women in the 60s/70s/80s to the women now.

Times have changed.

naijababe:
@ BABE3, you need to tell me the meaning of this new strong! It is a worrying trend I swear.

The woman in your post is not a strong woman by my definition. She is crass and everything a respectable woman should not be

by your definition, yes. However, her strong friends will disagree with you.

Sango's wives were strong, yes, but as soon as sango says 'ha', they freeze. Men are humans as well; you can't keep trampling in their egos and person with "I'm strong and I can do whatever" and still expect them to be "the real man" you want. So don't be surprised if men want to settle for a 'yes' woman.

What is the new strong? Being strong, rude and crass.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Czb4rImsph0

Yes, the world has changed. Every one has started growing wings. Oba, oya and Osun were strong and respectful to their husband Sango; so were the other women you mentioned. Strong in today's world has a new meaning entirely.

Any normal man will be satisfied with a strong and respectful woman. But what do we have nowadays? Obnoxious ídiots growing wings and using feminism as a mask to cover their crassness. That's why it seems like men want a "yes" woman. Men can't even be men again. You want men to be men? then give them a chance to be men.

"I'm strong and independent. .I am a grown woman I can do whatever". yeye people.

Using the video i posted as an example; this is what we now considered as strong. Don't be surprised if the girl doesn't get charged with assault and the guy does.

CzarChris:
Thanks for your contribution, but life is not always as black and white as we wish it were.

when you say she's from a not so strong financial background, do you mean her family is poor and majorly educated or they're poor with little or no education ?

The sweet sound of justice.

I give him a 6/10. 6 for the impact of the slap. I took away points because it should have been 5 slaps. 5 slaps would have definitely paralyzed her mouth forever.

The captain-save-a-rachet-hőe got his ãss whooped too.

Justice was served, can't complain.

50calibre:
True though!! However, the difference is the public get to watch these women get fuc*ked, that's something that's always going to be there. Society is more accepting of prosti*tution than it is of por*n, and then you consider how hard it can be raising kids in such environment.

Some guys are cool with it, some are not! Many want to fuc*k por*nstars but don't want it being public knowledge to preserve their image. Remember when it was revealed that tiger woods was fuc*king one por*n chic, Joselyn James...

Looool I don't think por*nstars get fu*cked like regular girls.. C'mon have you seen what some of these girls do? many of them indulge in the nastiest stuff you can imagine, triple penetration, double vag, double ana*l, how many regular slu*ts do this?.... I remember seeing a scene where a dude was spitting into Vanessa Blue's mouth, while fuc*king her & she was gulping it down.. Yuck!!!

These chics literally get torn to shreds, at times I feel sympathy for them, imagine the punishment someone like Jada has been subjected to for years, surely it's got to take its toll one way or the other.

Spit is even better. What of pee (asin conc. urine)?

I saw a documentary (titles 'aroùsed') and one the industry's big producer admitted that most of the girls need to get high before the scenes start. Most can't take take those huge cöcks, DPs and co in a sober state of mind.

Lisa ann, April O'Neil (love her), lexi belle, alexis texas and co all adimitted they've had at least one STI/STD since they started pòrn. If they use condoms, their popularity could take a dive.

Most of them have/had daddy issues too. The married ones confessed that their husbands use the "pòrn angle" as an excuse to cheat on them.

so, they're not happy girls (in general).

....and smart companies have started milking the equality situation.

Which man will put up with a 40 yr old woman with frozen eggs when there are fresh and naturally fertile 18 yr olds littered everywhere........

abeautifulchick:
@ babe3,so you were insulting me because you dint have an idea what i looked like right? Anyway,i just uploaded my pic.will take it down soon though.Its not every profile without picture that have an ugly handler.

awwww. Now I feel like a jerk.

but wait, how can you be that cute and reduce your level to the likes of the attention seekers on this thread.

With the way you were talking, one would have thought you looked like a 12 yr old boy with a shiny weave.

pretty girls like you don't crave attention. Guys give it to them free of charge.

audreybrian:
I like the way this lady in question just chose to ignore you.Thats really classy and it proves she is really mature.Try to be mature pls.

I won't respond accordingly coz you're pretty. Go and sin no more.

abeautifulchick:
SMH for you.your are a waste of megabite.IGNORANCE IS THE KEYWORD HERE SO I WILL TOTALLY IGNORE YOU.Cheers dear.

Is this one okay? Are you sure you work for a multi-national company ? I doubt it.

Let's go back in time.

Sometime last year, you posted. ...
"My fiancé cheats on me secretly and I hate it"...

So, he cheats on you, doesn't treat you like a princess but you still said "yes"....but it's not about the money?

Useless girl

abeautifulchick:
You are kidding right? Am sure you have nothing upstairs thats why you are typing blindly.I have carefully read all your posts here and i dont seem to get your point or pick anything useful from them unlike floodgater,freshdude and so on. That my dear is the meaning of a non intelligent write up. You on the other hand were able to read and assimilate my posts.So i guess by now, your question on who can have an intelligent conversation should have been answered.Cheers

seems I'm getting to you the most...... ha! you must be a die hard fan of telemundo and super story.

I don't expect a 2 year old mind like yours to grasp my posts; it'll definitely fly over your head.

bukatyne:
Do you get turned on degrading and downplaying women?

I honestly do not seem to get it

are your feelings hurt?

get out of here, before I tear your underskirt...

theLORDreigns:
^^^So what happens to the really smart & talented ones whose boyfriends/husbands still chase after the money. By your theory, that shouldn't be, right?

Its not about the ladies...

who ever said it was a theory? Sometimes its about the ladies, other times its not. I was giving one of the reasons why a guy would prefer his friends' company.

coogar:
and this is a very good point!

some women cannot adapt to the taste of their partners & they never seem to get quality time with him. if her partner loves football, he should start following football too - adopt a rival club & let the banter start.....

but na lie o....
the typical naija babe wants to watch yoruba magic when a champions league game is on. they monopolise the remote control so they can see the latest episode of the kardashians. why would any guy want to sit at home & watch such?

but but coogar, why do I have to be the one to bend to your taste?

Why can't you watch telemundo with me? Equality, remember?

abeautifulchick:
You are really sounding immature now.This is my boyfriend,my best friend,my confidant,we share everything together,he knows my needs even before i ask and he always fix it and i offer my best support when he is in need also.most men especially rich ones feel insecure when their working class girlfriends dont ask for anything,he even bought me a car when i dint ask for it and its only natural that i acknowledge it and appreciate him.IF YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND THAT TRULLY LOVES AND APPRECIATE YOU,YOU WILL UNDERSTAND.I only came online because i needed advice and not to insult or be insulted by anybody.PLS BE GUILDED.If you check my handle ,you will see that i have always been an inactive nairalander.Thanks.

why did you feel to include the fact that he helps you financially, if you're really 'miss independent'? Why is that a plus? why was the money aspect so important to you?

So you do have a boyfriend that truly loves and appreciate you, so what else do you want, disney princess?

pickabeau1:
For those typecasting guys based on comments on this thread
I wish y'all the best in your search for attention and emotional security

Come back in 5 years time

2 years is all they need. After the honeymoon phase; when attention becomes useless.

Buncha Disney girls.

I don't even fault some guys for not giving the attention. A good number of girls have nothing upstairs apart from brazillian hair and telemundo. Why won't they prefer to spend time with their friends, when their gfs can't even hold intelligent conversations?