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No, you're not being selfish.

I posted on a topic similar to your's yesterday. Here;


I seriously wonder why some men (boyfriends) feel that it's their responsiblity to cater for their Girlfriend's need(s). Some men are just undisputed MUGUs! Chei! Ogini kwa? Are you her father? Or where in the constitution(of any country), does it say, "Boyfriends, your Girlfriends are your financial responsibilties". Nonsense.

They will now go around shouting "what do girls contribute to the relationship?" "Why are girls gold-diggers?"

If a girl is beginning to make you her money factory, LEAVE HER A$$. Wait until you're married before you start catering for your wife/family. There are independent girls out their, looking for a man. But then again, some of you are scared of a woman that has her own car-- **Smh** Sad innit?!

I always get the "Oh you're from Africa?! That's so cool" replies. I like those kind of replies, however the questions that follow those are becoming my pet peeve(s)!

Below is a typical example of those questions;



Ignorant Fish: Do y'all really have Lions roaming the streets in Nigeria? Do y'all really live in trees?

Me: **I give the person the 'are you seriously asking me these questions look'**** Then I finally say:  Yes we do. 

Ignorant Fish: Oh, That's so neat. That's so cool.

Me: Yh, really cool. 

My inner thoughts: Is this dude for real? Do I live in a tree? **smh** Some of these so called Americans are the most primitive he-goats you'll ever meet. STOP WATCHING NATIONAL GEOGRAPHIC channel---you fish!---- 

                                                             *******

Ignorant Fish: Do y'all have planes in Nigeria?

Me: Duh!

My inner thoughts: How the hell did I get here if we don't have planes? Do you really think I paddled a canoe to get here? **smh**

                                                             *******

Ignorant Fish: Do you speak African?

Me:  No.

My inner thoughts: AFRICA IS NOT A COUNTRY YOU FOOL. Even if it is---your question doesn't even make sense.

[quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=742763.msg8991351#msg8991351 date=1314130393]It's just a rumour
http://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/smith-jada-pinkett-smith-separating-trey-smith/story?id=14362982[/quote]LOL-- No mind them. Their son even twitted the fact that it's a rumor.

It's like Nigerians like hearing "not so pleasant" news. See their mouths like " I knew it" "I knew they weren't gonna last" "I knew the marraige was fake" "When is Kris and Kim k having their's?"  

Split ko, scatter ni.

@ Topic: Celebrity marraiges are not necessarily at a higher risk of seperation. Divorce rate is practically the same everywhere ( in the western contries). The only difference between normal marraiges and their's,  is that we hear about their divorce stories more often, because they are celebrities.

Misbee:
Ladies contribute their brain to giv advice,prayers,watch u nt 2 go astray.

Worrisdis? Worra hell? 


I seriously wonder why some men (boyfriends) feel that it's their responsiblity to cater for their Girlfriend's need(s). Some men are just undisputed MUGUs! Chei! Ogini kwa? Are you her father? Or where in the constitution(of any country), does it say, "Boyfriends, your Girlfriends are your financial responsibilties".  Nonsense.

They will now go around shouting "what do girls contribute to the relationship?" "Why are girls gold-diggers?" 

If a girl is beginning to make you her money factory, LEAVE HER A$$. Wait until you're married before you start catering for your wife/family. There are independent girls out their, looking for a man. But then again, some of you are scared of a woman that has her own car-- **Smh** Sad innit?!

^^ Touche. My bad.

OP---you're beginning to sound like a broken record. If you can't tell her upfront, Suck it up! If you can't suck it up, then Endure the pain in silence!


[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=741081.msg8987761#msg8987761 date=1314101579]@BABE! how much ransome will you pay if I kidnap your pillow[/quote]Pillow? Ransome? Pillow don finish for market? How I go con pay you money for kidnapping my pillow?-----

Kidnap it na. While you're at it, kidnap my mini-pillows and duvet too.

^^ Aboniki balm is very powerful. It has cured AIDs in some parts of the world sef. 

I have a solution to your problem: before you go to bed at night, rub ROBB (the hot balm), all over your body. If you no get robb, try hOT pepper.

When the substances start affecting her eyes everynight, no one will tell her to stop sleeping on you.  The problem with this solution is that, you'll be punishing yourself as well.


Why can't you tell her about it sef? Abi you won catch arthritis? Nawa.

^^ Nicely done. The colors sound great. I'll be waiting for the pics.

^^ lol--- Nawa. I believe you.

^^ Sorry, I made you repeat yourself. I only scanned through the comments (till I found my culprit) before making my first post.

Yh, there're obvious reasons behind the abrupt or gradual change in treatment. I'm too lazy to type them out though.

^^ Nothing do you! Go-on soun!