@ oreoluwa
i dont quite ur posts?

I love foot wears sandals, slippers, wedges, sneakers, court shoes, just name it,

@whitelexi
where did u get that ladies luv men with hairy chest?

Ya sure

@ fullofluv
i have been keeping track of this thread, i think u know what to do but you are permitting fear, if you dont get a grip on your emotions i can asssure not just this man but other men are gonna crash on your weakness and make a mess of things for you. Be strong and face your life head long brace up for challenges tough as they may seem are meant to make you stronger.
And pls dont bear your private life too much, we all have issues but not every1 will be straight as u have already noticed,
n pple pls dont be down right insulting.!!

Fight for a man's love? What love?
i can not if he has made obvious what he wants
and i still will not fight for "his love" if he is undecieded on what he wants!

the one thing every woman wants is a relative question? womens' want in regards to what, ?
@steroid101 pls narrow it down.

ya i would after HE tells me first

young man have you never heard that ATTENTION BREEDS AFFECTION? my advise is, dont tell her now or ever, cut the attention and paste else where on another girl, simple!!

well in case the man didnt notice am an african woman, FLOWERS wateva the color is dont mean much, besides the weather in 9ja wont let the plant survive on its own let alone in vase in my apartment!!!

nairaland chicks, ur guy dont eat ur food or avoids ur cookin? well that goes to show u cant cook, lets not pretend we are Africans for crying out loud, our culture says a woman should know how to cook, decent meals, u dont hv to be a chef,
9ja women who live american lives with their 9ja men will experience a downside in their relationships especially if that black man finds he can get that elsewhere,
so learn how to cook, not just for a man but for urself, it will boost ur confidence as a complete woman, a complete black woman,

in luv with a married man?
i see alot of pple hv alot on this thread.
Bascially this is complicated, i dont blame those wearing those shoes n of course luv doesnt just happen to you, you work consciously or unconsciously towards it, bottomline wat do you want outa ur life?
n pple pls be fair in ur assessment just becos u didnt hv to toll that path dont mean gals who do r terrible peersons.
n guys out there better marry for the rite reasons, n stay married, dont go complicating womens emotions out there, cos the men actually lay presets n we follow, its not womanly to chase a man, only few black women do that , my advise know wat u are gettin urself into and be prepared which ever way it turns out.
Married women dont assume, love ur husband, n be prayerful,
single ladies get a life dont let ur emotions revovle around a man, define urself,
pple understand wat marriage is all about b4 you plunge into it.

SOULMATE? wats that?, we just creative everday, i dont believe in it cos my soul was independently created, it has no partner.
soulmate better translated is u who do u connect with emotionally?, and we can do that with either male or female, but its balanced with the opposite sex.
goodluck to those who are lookin 4 soulmates, read my lines, u wont find, ur soul is u n u were created distinct no mate.!

Dude, that chick has been wanting to dump you a long time now, she was waitin 4 an excuse to do it now, more like u r leaving town, u will get another gal while she has whirl time of her own wit u outa the picture!
dont bother about her, get on wit ur life,

hmm, my first love i used to think about but i have so come a long way afta him that i prefer my present state of emotions, i dont hate him, in fact his my friend i tell him alot of personal stuffs, we so cant get together cos we r different pple now, experiences has taken its toll n we both prefer where we are, it was beautiful while it lasted n nasty wen we ended it, maturedly, licked my wounds indoors , my gal friends alomost crucified him, well anyway our lives is book n everyday is an opportunity to write sumtin in it, 4 ur future to read, and move on.!!!

@ mytreasure
i dont think u need the opinion of the house on this just yet.
ask yourself what does true love mean to you?, if you can answer that, then you have the answer to the question you have thrown to nairalanders.
if your male judge with your logical ability if your female use your emotions n experience to arrive to give a balanced conculsive judgement. if you are not sure of what and who you are , go to a bible believing church.!

Please get married when u know u hv a full understanding n quite ready for that kind of level commitment.
Alot of us get hooked then later wish we werent, many parents out there got married early yes but how many do not regret their unions, most stayed just for the children sake, get information about how this marriage tin works n 4get about age, its notin but a number, mind u as u tink so u become.!!

Am not quite sure y we ladies do alot of tins we do, i want to tink its becos of our genetic wiring we are so diferent from men, there are exceptions though wen it comes to playin hard to get, i neva did that, i know a man i culd date if he asks fine, if he is askin n he is so not put it in clear words "not in this life".
Bascially gals who post men need to grow up, nobody needs all that hassles. Ladies dont get me wrong am on ur side , but we need to get our acts rite, then we earn respect, know ur onions.

lol, Nairalanders which way?, u guys r sumtin else.
All these posts really show how creative u are, fire down!

the test wasnt bad but only 40mins was given, i wrote in benin, and i was worth the experience, i learnt that what u know is wat u know and wat u dont know is wat u dont know so we all hv to study on a daily basis not to wait til an invitation comes b4 u start going tru the gmat book, another thing is not all apptitude test a gmat , so be on the look out for information that will enrich u store of knowledge, goodluck every1

What a topic, am having cramps from readin all ya replies, damn,

I am interested in bridal makeover. I need training on brush technique and all that the art entails. Can anyone be of help?. I learned house of Tara is cutthroat expensive. I also don't reside in Lagos but in Jos. Pls help me?, jenny-fine@hotmail.com is my contact email.
Thanks alot.

hi people
am think about taking a postgraduate program at the University of Jos, can anyone tell how long the program actually takes, 3 semesters or what dont intend growing white hair while studyin 4 just masters, spent 6 yrs 4 my bachelors, thank you for responding

tell me about a court ruling dat cant even identify an excon when he appears ibn court wit nigerians denying their own names, Dariye is no where to b found, am currently a corper in Plateau n no1 seems to knw his hid out, d man wont come out of hidding d fear of EFCC has become d begining of wisdom,